FabSwingers.com forum: How to take the plunge...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I like men! But I want too have fun with my bi curious side, I'm just a bit nervous! How do you take the plunge but not look/feel like a wee virgin again! I need someone to show me the ropes in this lol

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

My first bi experience was at a club, through my couple profile.

We'd spoken to a couple on here and met for a drink before going into the club, got on like a house on fire and had fun in the Jacuzzi and in a room. Took curious off the profile as soon as we left the club

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We are in exactly the same boat, really curious to try it but terrified lol

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Your either wanting to do it or not. You'll know when your ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont you need to build up a friendship first with a lady and see if there is a spark first?...That is, meeting socially on a few.occasions first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I like men and women only advice I have is have a few drinks to settle ur nerves then fire in lol

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

My only bi experiences seem to be in swingers clubs x

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"So I like men! But I want too have fun with my bi curious side, I'm just a bit nervous! How do you take the plunge but not look/feel like a wee virgin again! I need someone to show me the ropes in this lol"

You are a 'virgin' in a sense and nothing wrong with that! We were all at one point.

Approaching a woman, for me, is no different to approaching a man, there has to be attraction and chemistry etc...

You meet someone socially and you know you want more than chatting, you want to kiss them, touch them etc...

If it is not the case, that person is not for me!

Everyone is different so no ropes! Same as with a man. Get to know the person, what they like.

Get to know yourself and what you would like from meeting a woman.

Hope this makes sense.

Have fun OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you will have more luck, and probably find it easier to approach women than most of us men on here! Go for it, and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u shd definitely try life has so much to offer. mrs fun x

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By *eeunicornWoman
over a year ago

dundee

I think just trying to relax and going with it will make it all ok. You as a woman know what you like and dislike. If you meet a woman who you have spoken even a bit with, then it's ok during it all to ask if it's ok, what they like etc.

I found that having experience with men made a difference anyway as you respond to what you're doing to that person and react and adapt.

I'd be honest from the start too, "I've never been with a woman, I'm excited to try and let me know what's good"

Hope that helps a little

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm 100% sure certain females on here organise ladies only play nights that seem to go down a treat

maybe drop them a message to see when's the next night, some of the nights aren't publicised as they've already got a full guestlist but still work messaging

John

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