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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

couples email other couples making small talk and end the email with, so whos on pamela or gordie...(for example)

then when they are told its the male half they delete message, no reply no nothing, However, when they are told its the female half they get all so chatty?

bang out of order, doesnt take a genius to guess what they are after

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow

and then they wonder why they cant get a meet an and as usual the forum huggers stick up for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"couples email other couples making small talk and end the email with, so whos on pamela or gordie...(for example)

then when they are told its the male half they delete message, no reply no nothing, However, when they are told its the female half they get all so chatty?

bang out of order, doesnt take a genius to guess what they are after "

sounds a bit similar to mails I get.... and when I ask who is chatting nine times out of ten it's the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get mail like that all the time to

we think if you see a couple that you like and want to get to no them better it shouldn't matter if its male or female on other end coz after all you all need to get along for anything to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its always the guys, that are there, and the wife/partner is out shoppin,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im with you saucy

if its a cpl we are looking for dosnt matter if its the fem or male but if it happens on more than a cpl of occasions and we havent spoken to the fem then alarm bells start ringing which im afraid to say happens all the time

dont know what guys get outa it?? stringing folk along is not nice

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and then they wonder why they cant get a meet an and as usual the forum huggers stick up for them"

looks like you may be wrong there

don't think anyone likes being mucked about.

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow

view the day my hubby shows any interest in a computer pigs will fly ive been accused of being male on many many occasions because i ask the guys questions they dont want to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think we are agreeing with the rest of the forum posts.

single guys posing as couples

male partner of couples playing away..

male partner of couple wanting a quick wank while mrs is at tesco's/ work

it goes on.... if it doubt , report..

trouble : you verified by another couple so if anyone accuses you, it's petty as you not instantly jumping into bed with them... ignore em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol we get that alot! i just presumed my patter was mince and ashleys was better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to say that 9 times out of 10 it would be me (peds) at the computer, wifey works the days and work the early mornings and lates, if we are going to have a meet then the couple have to comfortable chatting with me or its just not going anywhere, I will usually build up a hotlist and wifey will have a look through it while im working then we decide who we think would suit us and move on from there.

Does that scenario ring alarm bells too, would we be considered to be timewasters?

keep on smiling

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol we get that alot! i just presumed my patter was mince and ashleys was better lol"

oooh so true hun lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol, Gordie was on last night and got right pissed off with a message he got.

He's kept it in the inbox (hes sleeping lazy cunt, was on night shift) and to be fair i agree with him.

big long email, then ended with by the way, is it pamela or gordie, he replied with a nice detailed email as thiers was then 'its gordie'

email was deleted and no reply. My thoughts are it was either the male half of the couple wanting to try and talk dirty with me, poss ask to cam or it was he couple looking to try and get me to join them for a ffm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dam pamela u wernt meant to tell any one!!! lol nah in all seriousnesssss (or however you spell it lol) i think you hit the nail on the head. iv found when some guys relise they are talkin to female half of the couple they do try and talk dirty but if you say its male half it normally ends there lol

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By *oonboyMan
over a year ago

livingston

had to put my tuppence in here ......bizarrely we find its exactly the opposite of what you guys report....as most of u (who know us) will know anyone wanting to meet us both has to come through me first, as invariably its guys we meet most....once the leopards show thier spots properly we can then move to the next stage...as has been said, we all need to get on for fun to happen ....so if folk dont like me ...tough shit...theres a large enuf queue out there for us to be choosy.... but to agree with most of you there seems to be a large amount of cyber wankers on here at the moment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the many mad/annoying things that just happens on swinger sites.In the end it doesn't make one bit of difference, so you just shrug your shoulders and forget about it,lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mostly when we are on its nearly always the male that chats my better half is not keen on chatting on the computer.

She will though go on cam to prove we are a couple.

I chat to couples see if they are interested and we take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mostly it`s mrs H on this especially in chat as i`m usually too busy these days to get on,but generally before replying to message recieved we consult each other so it makes no odds which one of us replies as it would be a joint reply

mr H

xxxx

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By *izneilCouple
over a year ago

Hull

99% of the time its me (neil) who is online as liz carnt be arsed with computers but can text for britain...lol

Have the same problem tho, but just put it down to the variety of different things people try to get out of this site... not always obvious to the regular swinger..

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

this may sound a bit cynical,but we are beginning to think some people on here are not all they say they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feck pamela i hope i replied to my email lol has got me thinking now :-/

I get this too - hell even posted cos i was that pissed with it last weekend! But there are brilliant genuine peeps out there - like myself lmao - who are what they say on the tin!

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By *ifferentClassMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"this may sound a bit cynical,but we are beginning to think some people on here are not all they say they are "

Blimey _aucy3 next you'll be telling us that Michael Jackson has passed away. kidding guys, but I think that's what's called stating the bleedin obvious - not cynicism. But the good guys will win in the end, fear not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this may sound a bit cynical,but we are beginning to think some people on here are not all they say they are "

agreed !!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

of course micheal jackson isnt dead that would have been in the news. hes doing all those concerts at 02 arena

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"couples email other couples making small talk and end the email with, so whos on pamela or gordie...(for example)

then when they are told its the male half they delete message, no reply no nothing, However, when they are told its the female half they get all so chatty?

bang out of order, doesnt take a genius to guess what they are after "

welcome to the world of a single guy lmao

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

if single guys on this site do not understand why people are suspicious they have been living in cuckoo land we have met some brilliant guys on this site, but at socials.when it comes to sex guys brag girls dont.

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By *lirtyCouple69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

William is on through the day as he's retired (not bad at 46, lucky B!!!!) and I'm on at night usually (except weekends.) We're sticking to the people who don't mind chatting with both of us and understand our personal circumstances.

Due to the bad experiences we've all had, we're very careful about who we talk to and unless they are willing to speak to both of us then they're scrubbed!!! As William sees it my personal safety is at stake here and he won't let me meet anyone who can't be bothered getting to know him.

However, there comes a point where you have to trust who you're talking to and go for it. For us that's a joint decision.

Ann xxx

p.s. to all the lovely people we've met on this site, thanks for making us feel so welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adding to the "why do,," why do soooooooooooo many look up profile but never message or just say hi hows it gawn?

I notice an invrease in "looked at me" when either had a meet or added new pics,all indeed there to up the interest but all folks do is "look"

T xx

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

I tend to check folks' profiles when they've written something on the forum which particularly interests or annoys me.

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By *implepleasure00Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm the main user for this account. Tiggs does look at some profile and emails before I make contact / reply.

If we are progressing towards a meet then both Tiggs and my IM details may be available but we prefer to chat on the phone before meeting.

If we are meeting a couple, then arranging a F to F phone conversation can dispel a bunch of concerns.

Regards

Sp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to check folks' profiles when they've written something on the forum which particularly interests or annoys me."

oooohhhhh well jim, i am more than likely pleased to say that list would include me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to check folks' profiles when they've written something on the forum which particularly interests or annoys me."

I kinda switch off to those that annoy me, ones that interest me i might take time to loo up, but annoyances, kinda wasted energy,just my slant on it.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if single guys on this site do not understand why people are suspicious they have been living in cuckoo land we have met some brilliant guys on this site, but at socials.when it comes to sex guys brag girls dont. "

can ask anyone iv never bragged about anythig like that lol to me the more you talk about it the less you are getting anyway big cocks dont always equal good sex , i like the experience of it all and to me its private and personal my business nothing to do with anyone else doesnt matter if its good or bad , to me its about broadening my horizons and trying new things i might not have tried before , so going into the local and announcing iv shagged x amount of "birds" as they say doesnt really apppeal to me its like my wee secret and to do this shows a serious lack of respect of other people and is a bit childish to me .

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"I tend to check folks' profiles when they've written something on the forum which particularly interests or annoys me.

oooohhhhh well jim, i am more than likely pleased to say that list would include me then "

It does indeed and, as I recall, it was an 'interesting' post you made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joys of swinging?

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