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Making the 1st move...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See a lot of women complaining about getting swamped with messages and single guys being dicks. Do any make the 1st move or just enjoy being chased?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasions that they do, I view them with great suspicion. Why are they messaging THIS crunbling ruin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need "chased"

But no I do not make the 1st move either

If it happens it happens

If it dosnt Iv got other things to be doing

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By *inUpGirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I quite often make the first move. Im a modern kimda girl if i like someone i make it known x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the rare occasions that they do, I view them with great suspicion. Why are they messaging THIS crunbling ruin? "

This is brilliant, you do run over the page, is it photo verified, meet verified, are the photos from xhamster....then realise that yes, the profile is actually that guy who's been emailing constantly for weeks wanting to suck you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If some1 takes your fancy you might as well make the first move! I think it has alot to do with how you make the move as to whether you get the response you were looking for though!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

don't ever make the first contact, might fab a pic but that would be all!

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't like to be "chased" actually makes me uncomfortable, I rarely make the first move either I'm a kinda go with the flow girl

K x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Im more than happy to mail a profile I like the look of .

Usually start with a compliment then get quite flirty once I know they are interested

I do feel for guys sometimes because women are always giving guys a hard time when all they need to do is block guys and do their own search but I guess for some they get off on the attention they get from some of the guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooft naw !! Am way too sexy for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer making the first move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't chase, it just aint me.

Just have a good laugh and time in anyone's company and if I'm interesting them in any way then I hope they let me know.

Anyways, I'm a bot slow that way, can never tell who is into me or not loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought you'd have been galloping after the ladies!

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Probably the only time is on FPF..cheeky hellos and gorgeous facepics in my inbox

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I would actually prefer to make the first move.

T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope i have never messaged anyone first apart from if its been wink from someone and im intrigued i message to thank them and sometimes can lead to a chat ..

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife


"Nope i have never messaged anyone first apart from if its been wink from someone and im intrigued i message to thank them and sometimes can lead to a chat .. "

Are you sure ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope i have never messaged anyone first apart from if its been wink from someone and im intrigued i message to thank them and sometimes can lead to a chat ..

Are you sure ?? "

Yes im positive lol

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife


"Nope i have never messaged anyone first apart from if its been wink from someone and im intrigued i message to thank them and sometimes can lead to a chat ..

Are you sure ??

Yes im positive lol

"

You sure

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

I would count a wink or a fab as a first move and respond with a thank you message and see where that leads.

Obviously this is hypothetical, seeing as Winks and fabs are not exactly cluttering up my inbox!

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

I messaged himself first on here, he had an interesting profile and then we got talking and we had loads in common and here we are now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made the first move on himself, although we knew each other through our circle of friends. We had been to socials all of us together, and I needed an arm candy, to make sure I got poured into the last bus home/taxi/train safely after a drinks night and to make sure no one spiked my drink again, so I asked him if he could be this, he said yeah, and here we are many years later.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Wonder what would happen if guys couldn't message first? Would at least stop the moaning about dick pics from some ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is hidden now but there's only been twice I can remember making the first move. When I saw profiles that I just kept going back to, thinking we could be great together. My intuition must have been on point as I've been seeing them both for months now

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Wonder what would happen if guys couldn't message first? Would at least stop the moaning about dick pics from some ladies."
Absoloutley!!!

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

I'm waiting on a message lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm waiting on a message lol "
looks like you already got one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been waiting for a message for 8 weeks.

I think the post is on strike.

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife


"I'm waiting on a message lol looks like you already got one lol "

I got the hint,no messages

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm waiting on a message lol looks like you already got one lol

I got the hint,no messages "
aaaawwww really ?

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife


"I'm waiting on a message lol looks like you already got one lol

I got the hint,no messages aaaawwww really ? "

No,your quite wrong,your violin should be broke by now,you play it a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im more than happy to mail a profile I like the look of .

Usually start with a compliment then get quite flirty once I know they are interested

I do feel for guys sometimes because women are always giving guys a hard time when all they need to do is block guys and do their own search but I guess for some they get off on the attention they get from some of the guys ."

Guess that's me out then

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm waiting on a message lol looks like you already got one lol

I got the hint,no messages aaaawwww really ?

No,your quite wrong,your violin should be broke by now,you play it a lot "
I do what does that say? Lol

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife


"I'm waiting on a message lol looks like you already got one lol

I got the hint,no messages aaaawwww really ?

No,your quite wrong,your violin should be broke by now,you play it a lot I do what does that say? Lol"

Your a keen fiddler

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm waiting on a message lol looks like you already got one lol

I got the hint,no messages aaaawwww really ?

No,your quite wrong,your violin should be broke by now,you play it a lot I do what does that say? Lol

Your a keen fiddler "
what is it they say about many and old tune played on an old fiddle lol

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife


"I'm waiting on a message lol looks like you already got one lol

I got the hint,no messages aaaawwww really ?

No,your quite wrong,your violin should be broke by now,you play it a lot I do what does that say? Lol

Your a keen fiddler what is it they say about many and old tune played on an old fiddle lol "

It takes a lot longer to hit the right notes,and needs better finger work to get started

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm waiting on a message lol looks like you already got one lol

I got the hint,no messages aaaawwww really ?

No,your quite wrong,your violin should be broke by now,you play it a lot I do what does that say? Lol

Your a keen fiddler what is it they say about many and old tune played on an old fiddle lol

It takes a lot longer to hit the right notes,and needs better finger work to get started "
agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife


"I'm waiting on a message lol looks like you already got one lol

I got the hint,no messages aaaawwww really ?

No,your quite wrong,your violin should be broke by now,you play it a lot I do what does that say? Lol

Your a keen fiddler what is it they say about many and old tune played on an old fiddle lol

It takes a lot longer to hit the right notes,and needs better finger work to get started agreed "

That's why I invested in an older fiddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See a lot of women complaining about getting swamped with messages and single guys being dicks. Do any make the 1st move or just enjoy being chased?"

Neither! Most women are here for couples or pussy it's to easy. Just gotta be patient I guess fingers crossed and ride it out you get called upon until the next fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See a lot of women complaining about getting swamped with messages and single guys being dicks. Do any make the 1st move or just enjoy being chased?

Neither! Most women are here for couples or pussy it's to easy. Just gotta be patient I guess fingers crossed and ride it out you get called upon until the next fantasy."

I'm damned sure I'm not having a sex change just to get a meet!

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

That "C" has made an appearance a few times today,whatever does he mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice of a woman makes the first move ....in saying that I usually miss it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can testify it does happen ,led to one of the best social and play meets ,I wasn't even looking for a single lady,she just random messaged one night ,4 weeks met got on like a house on fire (whatever that means) then bit more time play date ,so guys it can happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe this as much as I do the duck war!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe this as much as I do the duck war! "

Hahaha I can't prove the duck war ,it like the sas you know it exists but unless you in it, your never told about it's secrets

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By *unboytoyMan
over a year ago

scotland

Stopped even trying , 90% get deleted without being read so no much point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh I get right in there if I see a hot girl I like no stopping this little cherub xx xx

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By *appyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ohh I get right in there if I see a hot girl I like no stopping this little cherub xx xx "
and she is literally right in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohh I get right in there if I see a hot girl I like no stopping this little cherub xx xx and she is literally right in there "

Ohh yes I am well I was with you haha

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