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By *ye rolls matter!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Hi folks.

Haven't really posted here, and as anyone will see from my profile, have zero verifications, due to zero meets,

Anyway, how many of you, particularly guys, receive random messages from guys looking to 'drain your cock dry' because it's no different to being with a woman.

And yes, my profile says Bi, this should probably be rephrased to... Bi in the right situation. Ie... with a couple or in a group scenario where everyone is happy and comfortable, without any real pressure.

Thanks for reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any minute now, someone else will tell you to go to a social or a club.

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By *ye rolls matter!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"Any minute now, someone else will tell you to go to a social or a club."

And you know, that would be awesome.

Probably more than anything I'm looking for people who I can get along with, and not be afraid of who i am around them.

Obviously i need to do more to try and get to meets or clubs, which is fine. But I'm not gonna meet with someone just because there is a better than good chance that i can get rid of some sexual frustration. I'd much rather have social interaction with people too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where in Ayrshire are you?

Mostly cos I'm a nosy bitch, but not adverse to social meets x

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By *ye rolls matter!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Now see that's honesty i can deal with. And at the end of the day, thats the most attractive thing in any person alive.

From deepest darkest Irvine/ moving soon hopefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now see that's honesty i can deal with. And at the end of the day, thats the most attractive thing in any person alive.

From deepest darkest Irvine/ moving soon hopefully."

No point lying, you always get found out in the end.

Irvine's not so bad, is it? X

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By *ye rolls matter!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Definitely not the worst place in the world.

All the same... it's not exactly the best, but i have many good memories of the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just messaged you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any minute now, someone else will tell you to go to a social or a club.

And you know, that would be awesome.

Probably more than anything I'm looking for people who I can get along with, and not be afraid of who i am around them.

Obviously i need to do more to try and get to meets or clubs, which is fine. But I'm not gonna meet with someone just because there is a better than good chance that i can get rid of some sexual frustration. I'd much rather have social interaction with people too."

Youve just increased your chances in having mutual pleasure with like-minded people without going to socials or clubs with that comment youve just written.

Good Luck

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By *ye rolls matter!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Honestly thank you for your comment.

Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true.

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"Honestly thank you for your comment.

Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true."

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Wish all men had that attitude

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"Wish all men had that attitude "

Some of us do. Get to know a person. Not just something for instant gratification. Feel comfortable= more pleasurable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly thank you for your comment.

Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true."

Hallelujah someone who gets it, you'll be fine op im sure of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly thank you for your comment.

Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true."

Well said that man & there are 1 or 2 who have the same outlook thankfully

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Honestly thank you for your comment.

Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true."
Thankfully there are many other guys just like you who never lower their standards no matter how tempting it is

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Wish all men had that attitude "

Well if our fathers, grandfathers did, then a lot of us may not be here.

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By *ye rolls matter!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Thanks again for the comments/input folks.

Obviously some folk are different with their approaches, and I'm only going on what messages I've recieved, so I'd be curious to.sre how weird or even borderline abusive people can be, have seen plenty updates/profiles where abusive messages are mentioned specifically

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Thanks again for the comments/input folks.

Obviously some folk are different with their approaches, and I'm only going on what messages I've recieved, so I'd be curious to.sre how weird or even borderline abusive people can be, have seen plenty updates/profiles where abusive messages are mentioned specifically

"
yeah and some women give out abuse too

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By *ye rolls matter!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Probably do. I certainly wouldn't get offended, or chuck the toys out of the pram if someone who i had never met or chatted with deleted a message i had sent though. But hey, we're all different and thats what makes us unique, right?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Probably do. I certainly wouldn't get offended, or chuck the toys out of the pram if someone who i had never met or chatted with deleted a message i had sent though. But hey, we're all different and thats what makes us unique, right?"
correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly thank you for your comment.

Realistically though, anyone can go have sex with someone and detach themselves from the situation. I just can't. I'd much rather have people who i can laugh with, speak with, drink with, than someone who i just use to satisfy my own human urge for orgasm. Sounds pish, but it's true."

You're welcome..

I use the same logic

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By *ye rolls matter!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Common bloody decency surely.

Plus the same one who started this original rant sending random friend requests, and i suspect just trying to see my pic.

It's a pic of my face... nowt exciting, but hidden because i work in an extremely public environment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even thow it's a swinger's site ,everyone I have had previous meets ,I always have and will treat a woman with respect,don't see her as a peice of meet,if it happens or if not .

It's no the end of the world,at least you make a good friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard as a single guy for meets

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By *ye rolls matter!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Yeah it's a swingers site, so people will automatically come here looking for sex...

But then again, do you always go shopping and come home with exactly what you went for?

Social interaction is the biggest part of sex in my eyes. If i have 20 social meets with women/couples on here and none of those result in sex, then there's a better than good chance that I've made that many friendships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree with you my friend.

Well said

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By *ye rolls matter!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Cheers bud. Maybe one day I'll stop ranting and meet someone

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