FabSwingers.com forum: Crossing the line

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So hypothetically speaking you have a friend who occasionally you sleep with but they your friend 1st and foremost and you can talk about anything and everything ,Then one side of the friendship reveals they have feelings for the other and it causes problems because it one way traffic,Can the friendship which is more important than the sex survive the bombshell one half as dropped on the other, thoughts appreciated please

By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

It's a delicate situation as the non feeling person will have to be careful not to make the feeling one feel rejected by the lack of mutual intensity.

It also depends on whether this situation has been discussed before in the terms of the boundaries of the friendship and the sex.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a delicate situation as the non feeling person will have to be careful not to make the feeling one feel rejected by the lack of mutual intensity.

It also depends on whether this situation has been discussed before in the terms of the boundaries of the friendship and the sex.

Yes everything had been discussed they was each other's safe option in terms of feelings was impossible out with friendship and sex ,but because of the never lie to each other promise one had to not hide the feelings they got and it blew the friendship wide open ,

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have sex with a select few of our friends, not going to lie the first time was a little daunting but when everyone understands the dynamic it's amazing.

Appreciate it's probably quite different from a couples point of view.