FabSwingers.com forum: Strait or kidding themself?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can a guy be straight but enjoy anal play, i.e toys, beads, dildo etc up his ass?

Next part of that is can he still say hes straight if you trade dildo for a cock? Involves no kissing etc, just purely fucked

Discuss lol

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Can a guy be straight but enjoy anal play, i.e toys, beads, dildo etc up his ass?

Next part of that is can he still say hes straight if you trade dildo for a cock? Involves no kissing etc, just purely fucked

Discuss lol"

If a cock is involved he's not straight imo... anal play on the other hand I wouldn't say that was gay.

K x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Can a guy be straight but enjoy anal play, i.e toys, beads, dildo etc up his ass?

Next part of that is can he still say hes straight if you trade dildo for a cock? Involves no kissing etc, just purely fucked

Discuss lol"
if you play with your cock does that make you gay ?

No it doesnt !!

If a member of the same sex is pleasuring you then yes Id say you were or at least bicurious

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can a guy be straight but enjoy anal play, i.e toys, beads, dildo etc up his ass?

Next part of that is can he still say hes straight if you trade dildo for a cock? Involves no kissing etc, just purely fucked

Discuss lolif you play with your cock does that make you gay ?

No it doesnt !!

If a member of the same sex is pleasuring you then yes Id say you were or at least bicurious

Sorry trade dildo for another guys cock just to be clear

And it aint "me" btw haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who would imply that you can't enjoy toys and still be legitimately straight is a next level moron tbh

(Not suggesting OP is saying that)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone who would imply that you can't enjoy toys and still be legitimately straight is a next level moron tbh

(Not suggesting OP is saying that)"

The debate with the person that the topic came up was the shift from toy to a guy fucking u. Even if no kissing etc involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who would imply that you can't enjoy toys and still be legitimately straight is a next level moron tbh

(Not suggesting OP is saying that)

The debate with the person that the topic came up was the shift from toy to a guy fucking u. Even if no kissing etc involved"

That would of course be much more open to debate,I myself don't really have an answer primarily on account of not caring enough

People can label me whatever they want, all I care about is how hood things (including cock) feel in my ass

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Hetero-flexible?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone who would imply that you can't enjoy toys and still be legitimately straight is a next level moron tbh

(Not suggesting OP is saying that)

The debate with the person that the topic came up was the shift from toy to a guy fucking u. Even if no kissing etc involved

That would of course be much more open to debate,I myself don't really have an answer primarily on account of not caring enough

People can label me whatever they want, all I care about is how hood things (including cock) feel in my ass

Yes thats exactly how things "should" be haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*how good, obv, stupid auto correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's Fifty Shades of Straight... in other words, no-one is 100% straight despite what they think... there's always a situation where they would "dabble"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Can a guy be straight but enjoy anal play, i.e toys, beads, dildo etc up his ass?

Next part of that is can he still say hes straight if you trade dildo for a cock? Involves no kissing etc, just purely fucked

Discuss lolif you play with your cock does that make you gay ?

No it doesnt !!

If a member of the same sex is pleasuring you then yes Id say you were or at least bicurious

Sorry trade dildo for another guys cock just to be clear

And it aint "me" btw haha"
I know but my question was to you that if you play with your cock would that make you gay ? ...as I see no difference to playing with your ass lol

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

inanimate piece of silicone/plastic?... straight.

a cock?... at the very least Bi-curious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"inanimate piece of silicone/plastic?... straight.

a cock?... at the very least Bi-curious."

But why? If u were blindfolded would you really know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much going to say the same as everyone else

Anal play with a female or solo doesn't make you gay or bi

Introduce another guy into the mix then I'd say at the few least you're bi

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"Pretty much going to say the same as everyone else

Anal play with a female or solo doesn't make you gay or bi

Introduce another guy into the mix then I'd say at the few least you're bi

Could be a straight MFM.. there will be at least a bit of skin on skin somewhere

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"inanimate piece of silicone/plastic?... straight.

a cock?... at the very least Bi-curious."

Think once you introduce another guy up your ass, you're past bi-curious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"inanimate piece of silicone/plastic?... straight.

a cock?... at the very least Bi-curious.

Think once you introduce another guy up your ass, you're past bi-curious."

Again why though if its strictly cock in ass, no other foreplay, kissing etc. Surely it wudnt matter...the cock is just "the toy"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"inanimate piece of silicone/plastic?... straight.

a cock?... at the very least Bi-curious.

Think once you introduce another guy up your ass, you're past bi-curious.

Again why though if its strictly cock in ass, no other foreplay, kissing etc. Surely it wudnt matter...the cock is just "the toy"?"

For just that reason , if the guy feels that a toy is no longer enough and he wants a cock then he obviously wants to take it to the next stage ......if he has a mans cock inside him and it's sexually exciting him then he's kidding himself if he thinks he's straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toys have nothing to do with sexual orientation. Just cos you like toys up your butt doesn't mean you all of a sudden fancy men.

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By *att231Man
over a year ago

dundee

Defo bi if take another lads dick in ur Ass! Its horny all the same

straight gay Bi just enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they all said, if you specifically want cock you're not straight....and it's fucking awesome

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"inanimate piece of silicone/plastic?... straight.

a cock?... at the very least Bi-curious.

But why? If u were blindfolded would you really know?"

of course. im not in the habit of having sexual encounters when i dont know who's in the room

let me word it differently your in the room alone and you use a dildo, thats straight... only you and a woman in the room and she uses a styrapon, thats straight...

you and a guy in the room and he uses his cock, not straight.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"inanimate piece of silicone/plastic?... straight.

a cock?... at the very least Bi-curious.

Think once you introduce another guy up your ass, you're past bi-curious."

not the first time... you can be curious, try it and find its not for you and dont do it again thats bi-curious..... do it a second time then aye yer past curious

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

If I use a cucumber am I a vegetarian then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say he would be bisexual, or was this not a multiple choice question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy let's another guy play...suck...touch..his knob...he's at the very least bi curious

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a guy let's another guy play...suck...touch..his knob...he's at the very least bi curious

You aint got the point here. Guy 1 does not fancy guys. Guy 1 likes anal play. Guy 1 does not touch

Or play with another cock. Guy 1 receives anal sex is the only other cock contact lol

I.e he could lay there, be fucked and thats literally it. He aint wanking the other guy, kissing, tickling, eyeing up or anything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I get it...just because guy 1 dosnt do anything back..

He's still letting another guy have sex with him

He bi end of!!

Straight males would never entertain another guy going anywhere near their bum cock or mouth..end ogf!

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By *att231Man
over a year ago

dundee

"If a guy let's another guy play...suck...touch..his knob...he's at the very least bi curious

You aint got the point here. Guy 1 does not fancy guys. Guy 1 likes anal play. Guy 1 does not touch

Or play with another cock. Guy 1 receives anal sex is the only other cock contact lol

I.e he could lay there, be fucked and thats literally it. He aint wanking the other guy, kissing, tickling, eyeing up or anything lol"

Still another guys dick lol so Bi. He must want to feel a real dick or if staright would be happy with a toy or his Gf pegging him

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Playing with toys - straight. Playing with another guy - bi

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"If a guy let's another guy play...suck...touch..his knob...he's at the very least bi curious

You aint got the point here. Guy 1 does not fancy guys. Guy 1 likes anal play. Guy 1 does not touch

Or play with another cock. Guy 1 receives anal sex is the only other cock contact lol

I.e he could lay there, be fucked and thats literally it. He aint wanking the other guy, kissing, tickling, eyeing up or anything lol"
then hes either bi curious or gay

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Think the op is just fooling himself, nobody else.

If a guy wants a cock anywhere near him, get it, WANTS? Then he ain't straight.

It's not that hard to grasp.

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

struggle with this question... hubby cleans me after i have been fucked by young guys... it's a humilation thing but does that make him bi-curious or even bi because he now accepts it and looks forward to it... the humilation I mean although claening the cum is the reason...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has no interaction with the guy tho...

So I'd say no...it's a kink...dosnt make him bi or bi curious

Its if a guy has physical contact with another guy...

Ie...kissing or knob touching

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"He has no interaction with the guy tho...

So I'd say no...it's a kink...dosnt make him bi or bi curious

Its if a guy has physical contact with another guy...

Ie...kissing or knob touching

The day will come when a guy cums in his face as that will be the extreme humilation and yes there would still be no interaction but I know hubby questions his sexuality because of this kink x

Then we might end-up hubby cleaning the bull's cock

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

You're only gay if you push back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What they all said, if you specifically want cock you're not straight....and it's fucking awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Nessarosa writing)

Oh me oh my, we seek labels to feel a sense of belonging and acceptance.

We get labelled as a form of control, stigmatization or misunderstanding.

Labels are chains that bind you and prevent you from changing and growing. Have a look in the mirror and count the labels.

I try and keep as few as possible.

"Bisexual" on our profile, it was the closest option.

We are "people friendly".

"Live and let live"

Xxx

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

If someone blindfolded you and drive you to Belgium, would that mean you liked Belgium?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Nessarosa writing)

Oh me oh my, we seek labels to feel a sense of belonging and acceptance.

We get labelled as a form of control, stigmatization or misunderstanding.

Labels are chains that bind you and prevent you from changing and growing. Have a look in the mirror and count the labels.

I try and keep as few as possible.

"Bisexual" on our profile, it was the closest option.

We are "people friendly".

"Live and let live"

Xxx

And that dear Fabbers is the outlook one should have and I know many do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter.

People like what they like.

Why put a label on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it really matter.

People like what they like.

Why put a label on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Nessarosa writing)

Oh me oh my, we seek labels to feel a sense of belonging and acceptance.

We get labelled as a form of control, stigmatization or misunderstanding.

Labels are chains that bind you and prevent you from changing and growing. Have a look in the mirror and count the labels.

I try and keep as few as possible.

"Bisexual" on our profile, it was the closest option.

We are "people friendly".

"Live and let live"

Xxx

And that dear Fabbers is the outlook one should have and I know many do

@Redinthebed, thank you

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What they all said, if you specifically want cock you're not straight....and it's fucking awesome

agreed

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By *ahootCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Surely as swingers we all understand the variety of sexual pleasures to be had.

The issue of being gay because a man might dabble is idiotic .

Bi curious maybe.. exploring sexual horizons definatly .

A guy might enjoy all sorts of kink. It's sexual but to label as gay is ludicrous .

Does that make a lesbian straight because her partner used a dildo on her ... no.. it's the same thing .

Simply put if you don't fancy or other guys your straight bit if you like cock and bum play then your kinky straight. And good on you..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Surely as swingers we all understand the variety of sexual pleasures to be had.

The issue of being gay because a man might dabble is idiotic .

Bi curious maybe.. exploring sexual horizons definatly .

A guy might enjoy all sorts of kink. It's sexual but to label as gay is ludicrous .

Does that make a lesbian straight because her partner used a dildo on her ... no.. it's the same thing .

Simply put if you don't fancy or other guys your straight bit if you like cock and bum play then your kinky straight. And good on you..

Kinky straight, love that haha made my day x!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky straight. I need to change my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never found a guy that i've 'fancied' and as such would say im heterosexual, but i dont like labels and don't see the need for people to feel like they belong in a specific group or type. When I was younger I experimented with my sexuality but it wasn't for me playing with guys, some partners have had fantasies of mmf threesomes (and in fact ive had plenty with no mm interaction) and its something id maybe consider under certain circumstances (im not into anal sex with anyone lol and wouldn't kiss a guy), would I wank/play with a guy/vice versa if it was my partners ultimate fantasy to watch, well yes I guess so, but the gratification would come from pleasing my partner rather than being pleased by the other person, but in general terms should we not just fucking do away with stupid labels???

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I feel like people in this thread are getting confused between genitals and gender.

Gender - whether you're a man, woman or another kind of person altogether - is about how you see yourself fitting into society. So I have friends who are women with penises and friends who are men with vaginas, friends who shift between male and female aspects and others who use the term agender (with no tendency in either direction).

The upshot of this is that I'm queer not because I sometimes play with others' penises, but because some of the people I play with are men.

I hope that helps, OP, and please don't stress about it either way - just keep being respectful of all your partners, in whatever activities you do.

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By *lascumMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Really depends on whether you push back or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really depends on whether you push back or not

Lmao

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