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"I believe it to be impossible " Not impossible... but sometimes very tricky due to various factors... personally I think being a Swingle is best ![]() | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. " like you said a friend you can hook up with from time to time both socially and sexually ![]() | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. " This IS what it SHOULD mean ![]() | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. This IS what it SHOULD mean ![]() Should?? | |||
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"I believe it to be impossible How so? " Feelings brother | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. like you said a friend you can hook up with from time to time both socially and sexually ![]() All of this | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. This IS what it SHOULD mean ![]() Yes lol SHOULD ![]() | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. " All of this is how it should be... as others have said feelings creep in n before you know it you're married ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. All of this is how it should be... as others have said feelings creep in n before you know it you're married ![]() ![]() That shoulda been K ![]() | |||
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"Nope I dont agree Married folk on here can have friends with benefits Isn't that what swinging is all about?" Agreed goodie but that too CAN get complicated but when you do get things right it's amazing ![]() | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. " ![]() | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. " That says exactly what I think . | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. " This 100% oh and not attached either | |||
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" Life has no definitions. Simply shifting guidelines that change with person, mood, fashion and circumstance and are no more reliable than the Scottish weather. A FWB, NSA and Fuck Buddy. Mean different things to everyone. It's important however that both (or all 3, 4, etc. Hehe) involved have roughly the same idea. Mars-Venus broad brush theory : Women offer sex to find love. Men offer love to get sex. Really? You decide. In my experience women certainly find it more difficult to separate emotions, good sex and socialising. They are very social and emotional (and delicious) creatures it's in their DNA. Men: We just want sex. Lot's of sex. More sex. NSA fucking and sex. Did I mention the sex. We are not as social - we are designed to be independent. We are as emotional as James Bond. We're made for fighting, sports(hunting) and fucking. It's in our DNA. My current definition and play partner, cover all 3 categories stated above. She is my fuck buddy when both of us want great sex. Short notice or planned. We have regular fantastic NSA sex which gets better all the time as we explore. Now here is the important bit : She is the kind of person who would be my friend 'in real life'. We laugh, there is great banter, we are on the same level. We are comfortable in silence. We go off for weekends together, out to dinner, comedy shows, gigs,etc. BUT - this isn't real life ... we're FWB/Fuck buddies! There are no strings attached. We both see other people. Occasionally share people. Sometimes we are single - sometimes not. We don't share Facebook or real friends - we both have a separate life of our own. It's a separate sexual friendship. So, that's my current definition, with a strong hint of sarcasm. Enjoy. Jack x " What an extremely articulate piece of writing! | |||
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"Nope I dont agree Married folk on here can have friends with benefits Isn't that what swinging is all about?" ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Life has no definitions. Simply shifting guidelines that change with person, mood, fashion and circumstance and are no more reliable than the Scottish weather. A FWB, NSA and Fuck Buddy. Mean different things to everyone. It's important however that both (or all 3, 4, etc. Hehe) involved have roughly the same idea. Mars-Venus broad brush theory : Women offer sex to find love. Men offer love to get sex. Really? You decide. In my experience women certainly find it more difficult to separate emotions, good sex and socialising. They are very social and emotional (and delicious) creatures it's in their DNA. Men: We just want sex. Lot's of sex. More sex. NSA fucking and sex. Did I mention the sex. We are not as social - we are designed to be independent. We are as emotional as James Bond. We're made for fighting, sports(hunting) and fucking. It's in our DNA. My current definition and play partner, cover all 3 categories stated above. She is my fuck buddy when both of us want great sex. Short notice or planned. We have regular fantastic NSA sex which gets better all the time as we explore. Now here is the important bit : She is the kind of person who would be my friend 'in real life'. We laugh, there is great banter, we are on the same level. We are comfortable in silence. We go off for weekends together, out to dinner, comedy shows, gigs,etc. BUT - this isn't real life ... we're FWB/Fuck buddies! There are no strings attached. We both see other people. Occasionally share people. Sometimes we are single - sometimes not. We don't share Facebook or real friends - we both have a separate life of our own. It's a separate sexual friendship. So, that's my current definition, with a strong hint of sarcasm. Enjoy. Jack x What an extremely articulate piece of writing!" Couldn't agree more ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Life has no definitions. Simply shifting guidelines that change with person, mood, fashion and circumstance and are no more reliable than the Scottish weather. A FWB, NSA and Fuck Buddy. Mean different things to everyone. It's important however that both (or all 3, 4, etc. Hehe) involved have roughly the same idea. Mars-Venus broad brush theory : Women offer sex to find love. Men offer love to get sex. Really? You decide. In my experience women certainly find it more difficult to separate emotions, good sex and socialising. They are very social and emotional (and delicious) creatures it's in their DNA. Men: We just want sex. Lot's of sex. More sex. NSA fucking and sex. Did I mention the sex. We are not as social - we are designed to be independent. We are as emotional as James Bond. We're made for fighting, sports(hunting) and fucking. It's in our DNA. My current definition and play partner, cover all 3 categories stated above. She is my fuck buddy when both of us want great sex. Short notice or planned. We have regular fantastic NSA sex which gets better all the time as we explore. Now here is the important bit : She is the kind of person who would be my friend 'in real life'. We laugh, there is great banter, we are on the same level. We are comfortable in silence. We go off for weekends together, out to dinner, comedy shows, gigs,etc. BUT - this isn't real life ... we're FWB/Fuck buddies! There are no strings attached. We both see other people. Occasionally share people. Sometimes we are single - sometimes not. We don't share Facebook or real friends - we both have a separate life of our own. It's a separate sexual friendship. So, that's my current definition, with a strong hint of sarcasm. Enjoy. Jack x " Spot on about DNA and the Mars v Venus theory. NSA sex with a fuck buddy, FWB would be amazing in an ideal world but I guess it depends on characters of both the individuals involved and how close you get to one another. How can u not get close to one another and have no feelings?? How can one not get a tad jealous of the other when you have that connection with one another. I would say it's easier for people who just meet once every few months then u don't get that closeness or chance to get feelings that's felicitys theory ![]() | |||
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" Life has no definitions. Simply shifting guidelines that change with person, mood, fashion and circumstance and are no more reliable than the Scottish weather. A FWB, NSA and Fuck Buddy. Mean different things to everyone. It's important however that both (or all 3, 4, etc. Hehe) involved have roughly the same idea. Mars-Venus broad brush theory : Women offer sex to find love. Men offer love to get sex. Really? You decide. In my experience women certainly find it more difficult to separate emotions, good sex and socialising. They are very social and emotional (and delicious) creatures it's in their DNA. Men: We just want sex. Lot's of sex. More sex. NSA fucking and sex. Did I mention the sex. We are not as social - we are designed to be independent. We are as emotional as James Bond. We're made for fighting, sports(hunting) and fucking. It's in our DNA. My current definition and play partner, cover all 3 categories stated above. She is my fuck buddy when both of us want great sex. Short notice or planned. We have regular fantastic NSA sex which gets better all the time as we explore. Now here is the important bit : She is the kind of person who would be my friend 'in real life'. We laugh, there is great banter, we are on the same level. We are comfortable in silence. We go off for weekends together, out to dinner, comedy shows, gigs,etc. BUT - this isn't real life ... we're FWB/Fuck buddies! There are no strings attached. We both see other people. Occasionally share people. Sometimes we are single - sometimes not. We don't share Facebook or real friends - we both have a separate life of our own. It's a separate sexual friendship. So, that's my current definition, with a strong hint of sarcasm. Enjoy. Jack x Spot on about DNA and the Mars v Venus theory. NSA sex with a fuck buddy, FWB would be amazing in an ideal world but I guess it depends on characters of both the individuals involved and how close you get to one another. How can u not get close to one another and have no feelings?? How can one not get a tad jealous of the other when you have that connection with one another. I would say it's easier for people who just meet once every few months then u don't get that closeness or chance to get feelings that's felicitys theory ![]() I had a five year lovely fwb (he is on my earlier Verifications) but the jealousy crept in on his part as his feelings changed so I thought it best we ended it... Reluctantly | |||
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" Life has no definitions. Simply shifting guidelines that change with person, mood, fashion and circumstance and are no more reliable than the Scottish weather. A FWB, NSA and Fuck Buddy. Mean different things to everyone. It's important however that both (or all 3, 4, etc. Hehe) involved have roughly the same idea. Mars-Venus broad brush theory : Women offer sex to find love. Men offer love to get sex. Really? You decide. In my experience women certainly find it more difficult to separate emotions, good sex and socialising. They are very social and emotional (and delicious) creatures it's in their DNA. Men: We just want sex. Lot's of sex. More sex. NSA fucking and sex. Did I mention the sex. We are not as social - we are designed to be independent. We are as emotional as James Bond. We're made for fighting, sports(hunting) and fucking. It's in our DNA. My current definition and play partner, cover all 3 categories stated above. She is my fuck buddy when both of us want great sex. Short notice or planned. We have regular fantastic NSA sex which gets better all the time as we explore. Now here is the important bit : She is the kind of person who would be my friend 'in real life'. We laugh, there is great banter, we are on the same level. We are comfortable in silence. We go off for weekends together, out to dinner, comedy shows, gigs,etc. BUT - this isn't real life ... we're FWB/Fuck buddies! There are no strings attached. We both see other people. Occasionally share people. Sometimes we are single - sometimes not. We don't share Facebook or real friends - we both have a separate life of our own. It's a separate sexual friendship. So, that's my current definition, with a strong hint of sarcasm. Enjoy. Jack x " spot on with the Mars v Venus theory ![]() | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. " If you where dating someone,what would be the difference ? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. If you where dating someone,what would be the difference ? ![]() ![]() No feels. | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. If you where dating someone,what would be the difference ? ![]() ![]() this is the reason I dont believe in the concept of fwb or fb you have feelings for and about anyone you interact with (I think my posties a turd) | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. " Think that about sums it up perfectly OP, ahh, to live is to dream x | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. " Isn't that a boyfriend? Just asking | |||
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"Good company. Plenty of chat and laughs then cherry fun fun. Forget the walks and holding hands good old fashioned fucks for me ![]() My kinda woman ![]() | |||
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"So what's your definition? For me, it'd be someone to socialise with, movies, dinner, walks etc with the added benefit of no strings sex. " That's what me and grump started off as. X | |||
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" Life has no definitions. Simply shifting guidelines that change with person, mood, fashion and circumstance and are no more reliable than the Scottish weather. A FWB, NSA and Fuck Buddy. Mean different things to everyone. It's important however that both (or all 3, 4, etc. Hehe) involved have roughly the same idea. Mars-Venus broad brush theory : Women offer sex to find love. Men offer love to get sex. Really? You decide. In my experience women certainly find it more difficult to separate emotions, good sex and socialising. They are very social and emotional (and delicious) creatures it's in their DNA. Men: We just want sex. Lot's of sex. More sex. NSA fucking and sex. Did I mention the sex. We are not as social - we are designed to be independent. We are as emotional as James Bond. We're made for fighting, sports(hunting) and fucking. It's in our DNA. My current definition and play partner, cover all 3 categories stated above. She is my fuck buddy when both of us want great sex. Short notice or planned. We have regular fantastic NSA sex which gets better all the time as we explore. Now here is the important bit : She is the kind of person who would be my friend 'in real life'. We laugh, there is great banter, we are on the same level. We are comfortable in silence. We go off for weekends together, out to dinner, comedy shows, gigs,etc. BUT - this isn't real life ... we're FWB/Fuck buddies! There are no strings attached. We both see other people. Occasionally share people. Sometimes we are single - sometimes not. We don't share Facebook or real friends - we both have a separate life of our own. It's a separate sexual friendship. So, that's my current definition, with a strong hint of sarcasm. Enjoy. Jack x " Accurate!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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