FabSwingers.com forum: Some guys messages

By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Make me laugh.

Black guy messages if I'd like a big black cock. I respond politely ' No thanks'

He then says I'm too fat anyway and blocks me.

Think I'll start blocking and give up being polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people on this site just cant handle rejection .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some people on this site just cant handle rejection .

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this is true in all genders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up replying to them. If they cant be bothered approaching me in a considerate way I cant be bothered replying!

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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I know. I usually block once I've said no as it stops the insults or the why am I not your type.

Now I'll block with no response. Hope there's no limit to the block list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about an average white one?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I know. I usually block once I've said no as it stops the insults or the why am I not your type.

Now I'll block with no response. Hope there's no limit to the block list!

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there cant be as ive more on my block list than friends list lol

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Aye as my mum said There,s nowt as queer as folk lass

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Make me laugh.

Black guy messages if I'd like a big black cock. I respond politely ' No thanks'

He then says I'm too fat anyway and blocks me.

Think I'll start blocking and give up being polite. "

Wonder if it was the same one that messaged me. He was equally polite

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

I live by the rule "no reply means a polite no thanks" and just delete straight away.

I find it's a waste of time answering with a "no thanks" as 9 times out of 10 they respond if you do.

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If asked...il send a polite no thanks

If just general chit chat with someone I'm not keen on its 1 word answers until they take the hint I'm afraid lol

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By *h41Woman
over a year ago

Bellshill

Similar experience last night ... a polite no thanks ...and the response I got was duck you then ...I tried to respond with a quack quack only to discover I had been blocked

lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"If asked...il send a polite no thanks

If just general chit chat with someone I'm not keen on its 1 word answers until they take the hint I'm afraid lol "
I do that all the time lol...engaging convo if Im interested one word replies if im not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did get a message of a cpl asking if i was a black guy once. that made me laugh

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

If just general chit chat with someone I'm not keen on its 1 word answers until they take the hint I'm afraid lol "

I do this. And they say 'you're not very chatty, are you?' Or 'are you shy?'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few from guys asking to suck my cock I delete. Not sure why I get asked as it's on my profile as straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few from guys asking to suck my cock I delete. Not sure why I get asked as it's on my profile as straight "

Most guys have straight but then verifications that say different lol. Not that it bothers me if your gay straight or bi. Just meaning mostly with guys its not as said in stone lol. X (edited as half sleeping)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people on this site just cant handle rejection .

Im rejected more times than a bankrupt s credit card but im polite about it..take falcon asked her if she wanted to hunt the duck

Polite gfy off her was sufficient

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By *haostimeMan
over a year ago

north Glasgow

I don't mind getting a reply back saying "no Thanks", the end of the day, everyone has a preferred type, so what's for one ,may not be for another.

if I get a decent respectful message then I feel myself its only fair to reply to it. Though I do understand why some people don't reply, as its the idiots that have pissed them off. Though I'm learning more n more who the decent ones and who the idiots are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have my single profile to chat to friends iv made over the years and i show scott what we get on a single female profile he was flabber gasted. Yes you get hounded but 90% if them are not worth reading or abuse or dekude. Iv been called a hippo/fat/ugly/ head up my arse/just wanted to spunk up ye! cause i said no thanks to a want a fuck message.lol. id rather get no messages. A guy sent me a ' why the fuck you here fat cow if you not meetin' yes that was a first message lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just shake my head sometime.

We are all here for the same thing (well most are) but it seems respect and sometimes common decency go out the window on here.

I just don't reply or delete or revert to my fav tool on here........the block button

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

These kinda threads make me laugh folk complain about idiots then on other threads these same idiots are told how to write their profile to appeal to people. For me its simple act like a d**k get treated like one

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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"I still have my single profile to chat to friends iv made over the years and i show scott what we get on a single female profile he was flabber gasted. Yes you get hounded but 90% if them are not worth reading or abuse or dekude. Iv been called a hippo/fat/ugly/ head up my arse/just wanted to spunk up ye! cause i said no thanks to a want a fuck message.lol. id rather get no messages. A guy sent me a ' why the fuck you here fat cow if you not meetin' yes that was a first message lol x

It's awful the abuse we get. You're gorgeous looking and have a great personality. You make everyone welcome that you meet. No one deserves to be insulted.

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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"These kinda threads make me laugh folk complain about idiots then on other threads these same idiots are told how to write their profile to appeal to people. For me its simple act like a d**k get treated like one "

Some people don't take on board the advice they are given. Some people just don't change.

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

We block if we're unlikely to want to meet. It's nothing other than a filter for us. No offence is ever intended, not taken when were blocked. It just means we see people online who are more likely to match our preference.

It cuts out all the nonsense one liners, and the need to reply to those were unlikely to meet. Simple.

We rarely or never get stupid initial messages

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I take no reply as no thanks, but if someone does reply saying no thanks.I do reply saying thanks for taking time to effort then make a note on their profile to not message them again.

Really don't understand people who reply with insults when you say no thanks, or those who question your decision.

But that's people nobody ever said they had to make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't mind a no thanks as although we are mostly all here for nsa fun,some people seem to want to go out of there way to spoil the experience for others which does make people wary.

I have had plenty no thanks I respect there decision and usually reply with a polite no problem and wish them well.

I think it's more odd when someone accepts you as a friend then never replies if you message them strange.

But I always believe in being polite and never expect a meet out of it as let's face it everyone is entitled to take there time and I also find it shows they have some self respect for themselves and want to chat at least first good on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who delete and then block are quite rude.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"The ones who delete and then block are quite rude. "

Blunt, but not rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ones who delete and then block are quite rude.

Blunt, but not rude"

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ones who delete and then block are quite rude. "

Why are they rude ?

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By *lasgownewbies6266Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Theye are rude because they're gods gift and have never been rejected before and can't handle it poor little things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people always think that blocking someone is being rude ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every now and again a guy will ask to ....suck me till I'm dry ...don't even know what it mean.

Anyway ... No thanks mate all the best...bye

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

"We block if we're unlikely to want to meet. It's nothing other than a filter for us. No offence is ever intended, not taken when were blocked. It just means we see people online who are more likely to match our preference.

It cuts out all the nonsense one liners, and the need to reply to those were unlikely to meet. Simple.

We rarely or never get stupid initial messages

Likewise here. Always reply with polite no thanks message , then we block so as not to repeat the excersise every 2 weeks or less. If we attempt to look at a profile and it says we cant we know we have already had some sort of interaction in the past and it wasnt for us. Its a simple filter no need to take offence if blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filter buttons cut out majority of shite.

I set my filters to what I'm looking for, and whether or not I match what others are looking for and block the rest.

Has worked for me

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"Why do people always think that blocking someone is being rude ?

If someone speaks to you in the street, do you just put your hand up to their face and tell them to f×%ck off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ladies i am always polite and i handle rejection very well. Its about respect for yourself as well as others.

Grant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know. I usually block once I've said no as it stops the insults or the why am I not your type.

Now I'll block with no response. Hope there's no limit to the block list!

there cant be as ive more on my block list than friends list lol"
hahahaha think most on here are in the same boat. I block I get block .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ones who delete and then block are quite rude. "

The ones who delete without reply get blocked by me.

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Its that guy UNLOS that keeps messaging me. Clearly has me blocked as i cant politely reply to stop messaging me

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Its that guy UNLOS that keeps messaging me. Clearly has me blocked as i cant politely reply to stop messaging me

??? Just you block him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people on this site just cant handle rejection .

this is true in all genders"

Well said, I spoke to a couple politely and found myself blocked, when I couldn't make a meet, after they had cancelled twice!

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By *athanM9787Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm quite new to the site and slowly but surely are learning the protocol. lol

I much prefer it when i get a polite no thank you. (not as much as a hello how are you of course). At least then i know they have at least read my message.

have started blocking these people to, not out of rudeness but as a way of filtering them so i don't dother them again.

No need to be rude at the end of the day we are all adults!! Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite new to the site and slowly but surely are learning the protocol. lol

I much prefer it when i get a polite no thank you. (not as much as a hello how are you of course). At least then i know they have at least read my message.

have started blocking these people to, not out of rudeness but as a way of filtering them so i don't dother them again.

No need to be rude at the end of the day we are all adults!! Just my opinion. "

Well done, you'll go far young man lol ... not everyone realises that's one use for the block button. I've had the same cut and paste message from a few folk on a regular basis before finally saying to them "it's appreciated but I'm going to block as doing this repeatedly is a waste of both our time"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people always think that blocking someone is being rude ?

If someone speaks to you in the street, do you just put your hand up to their face and tell them to f×%ck off?"

No ..i would consider that rude.

A block maybe should be considered as a "No Thanks"

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