FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Hidden

By *egs4u OP Woman
over a year ago

somewhere around

My profile is hidden at the moment for personal reasons and don't see why i should have too explain why it is!!!!!

Was in chat today and got abuse and called a 'cock tease' yet again, because they don't seem to think i should be here if i'm not meeting anyone new at the moment and swinging.

Yes it is a swinging site, but i've also made so many friends on here that i want too keep in touch with.

So no im NOT teasing anyone and have as much right as anyone else too be here!!!!! Rant over lol

What do other people think?

foxi

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure everyone has their reasons for hiding their profile, but surely it would be easier if you just changed your profile and wrote 'not currently meeting' at the top of the page? You could just hide your photos and verifications and that way your being very clear? x

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By *egs4u OP Woman
over a year ago

somewhere around

"I am sure everyone has their reasons for hiding their profile, but surely it would be easier if you just changed your profile and wrote 'not currently meeting' at the top of the page? You could just hide your photos and verifications and that way your being very clear? x"

I done that squidgy hun and i got more mail than before some of it quite abusive, so thats why i decided to hide my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry you are getting hassle foxi and hope it gets sorted soon xxx

you are a very nice lady.

ps you will prob get mail from guys now saying they are disgusted they are and saying how lovely they are........ & ps fancy a shag.... seems to be in vogue ... bit like ambulance chasing lawyers xxxxx

big hugs foxi xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sorry you are getting hassle foxi and hope it gets sorted soon xxx

you are a very nice lady.

big hugs foxi xxx"

oops slight mistake there.... saying how disgusted they are ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, the amount of people you see that have a line at the top of the profile saying "not meeting at mo" etc yet still get folk pestering them in chat is unreal.

Think you just have to use your thick skin and move on, some men cant seem to get into their thick heads that a no means a no and that by been pushy they are doing themselves no favours.

x Steve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one should have to put up with any abuse hun. A polite no should be all that's required but I guess some guys just cannot take no for an answer and that's when they become abusive.

Chin up....you have lots of friends on here.

Rabbit581 x

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Sw Scotland

There could be a thousand reasons (Many of them personal) why You OR I decide to hide our OWN profile at any given time. I'm sure you have legitimate reasons for hiding your profile and haven't just done it to agitate fellow members.

Unfortunately there are people here on the site who seem to think because you are in the room chatting, you must be looking for a meet at short notice.

The bit i don't get though ...Verbal abuse isn't likely to do you or anyone else any favours... so, why bother? Complete waste of energy!

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By *inesawineWoman
over a year ago

fife

Agree that no one should have to put up with abuse, of any kind.

As for putting something on your profile, its a waste of time too, cos those who dish out the abuse rarely read profiles anyway.

Mines xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The not meeting at the moment thing isnt always entirely true, i have on a few occasions seen profiles with not meeting or taking a break.....and its blatantly obvious from feedback they are still meeting, seen it with singles and couples. This gives a false impression so of course people dont always take it for real....theres 2 sides to it on this subject....the ones who are definitely on a break and those on a will meet certain folks kinkda break.

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By *r D and Mrs LCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

It is a free site and you are entitled to be on it like everyone else and to use all the facilities and functions which the site affords you. Hiding profiles was designed for people who chose to use it for whatever reason. The site designers and owners obviously understand that this is sometimes necessary and that is why they offerred it. W_eather you are meeting or not, curios and just exploring, it is no one's business why you are on the site and what for as long as you follow the site rules.

You should not take notice of those minority of ignorant people who do not take no for an answe and have no comprehension or reasoning to personal circumstances. The designers and owners obviously also anticipated the existenec of such ignorrance and therefore provided us with the luxury of the ignore button and choice on the profile menue.

You should not have to take any abuse from anyone and should report it. Nor you in deed have to explain yourself to any one, what you do is your business and if some people do not like it then tough, they can walk by.

p.s. w_eather you meet or just tease, the site needs sexy people like you to keep it hot and spicy,lol

DeesDesires

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww foxi sorry you are getting hassle. I had it last night someone calling me a fake and a timewaster. Like you we have made lots of pals that we like to chat to, its a free country so you carry on chatting and ignore the small minded folk.

bonny xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww foxi hen come hide in ma cleavage if you want, they wont find you in there

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi foxi,

dont let the twats upset you.and the people you have spoken to before will always be there when you come back and we will always chat we must be classed as teases as well as we have only met a couple of folk from here but who cares so take care and keep smiling.

Mr me.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it doesnt seem to matter what u do on here, u turn off ure profile ure a timewaster, u say "no thanks" to guys and ure a timewaster...u cant win...

i turn mines to private all the time if i cant meet and i feel that is better than keeping it on cause then i would feel like a timewaster...if u wanna turn it off then its ure business and no one else's and u dont have to explain ureself!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The not meeting at the moment thing isnt always entirely true, i have on a few occasions seen profiles with not meeting or taking a break.....and its blatantly obvious from feedback they are still meeting, seen it with singles and couples. This gives a false impression so of course people dont always take it for real....theres 2 sides to it on this subject....the ones who are definitely on a break and those on a will meet certain folks kinkda break."

yea i agree with u jands ive seen that maself if ppl got up not meeting or taken a break then u look at there got new verifaction..or that cancel a meet an u see uve been on another meet by verifaction..ppl should just be HONEST but on here some ppl cant even spell HONEST

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

foxi hun dont let daftys on here get u down xx

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi hunny ive had the abuse as well.I take tim e to get to know people before i meet.If they dont like it hard luck u keep smilin honey dont let the idiots get u down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup mags and thats what a lot of things boils down to, dishonesty !!! Then genuine peeps loose when they are genuinely are taking a break...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

foxi..bluntly...fuck them!!

its no one elses business what you do or why!

Do not explain yourself and if questioned in chat..say publically and loudly.........

NONE OF YOUR EFFING BUSINESS!!!

vol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on a break and carrying my balls around in a sling like thingie and they are dam dam heavy..

got them perched on ma shoulders tho, much easier on ma back......

altho, 2 folks in tesco's yelled.... the bells , the bells , where is esmerelda.....

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

FOXI BABES YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU LOL BUT DO AS I DO MAIL THEM BACK WITH A BIG FUCK OFF LOL.

YOU NEED TO TOUGHEN UP GIRL AND NOT LET THE SLUM DOGS GET YOU DOWN.

LET ME AND STUNNA INTO YOUR LIFE LOL WE WILL TEACH YOU GOOD PMSL XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

LOVE TO YOU ALWAYS HUNNIE

BRENNIE XXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People take a break for many reasons, ill health, kids being off school on hols, catching up with pre-arranged meets... many things, that doesn't mean you can't still use chat facilites to keep in touch with friends and pass what may be an otherwise empty hour or two. it is after all Scotland chatroom you use Foxi xxx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"foxi..bluntly...fuck them!!

its no one elses business what you do or why!

Do not explain yourself and if questioned in chat..say publically and loudly.........

NONE OF YOUR EFFING BUSINESS!!!

vol

xx"

Erm...the point is, she doesnt want to fuck them....!

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

foxi send the numpties to me or stunna hun we'll sort them out for ye !

in all fairness sometimes the verifications can be from a meet that happened a while back- not everyone does them straight away. but i am guilty as charged - i forgot to remove the not meeting for a while bitty for about a week.

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow

a lot of people really showing there character here if it was a guy replying the way some on this thread say they have replied the guy would have been booted

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By *_jkCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Id wager that it wasnt a female that was doing the abusing tho.

You should realise that for some a blunt home truth is the only way to get your point across that you dont want them.

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow

blunt home truth or not thats what the block buttons for one rule for some on here and another for the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are we still speaking about hiding profiles ??? whats that got to do with rules etc etc ??

or am I being thick lol

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

"blunt home truth or not thats what the block buttons for one rule for some on here and another for the rest"

yes but then they just go and make another profile up and send nasty bloody mail and delete the profile straight after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"blunt home truth or not thats what the block buttons for one rule for some on here and another for the rest

yes but then they just go and make another profile up and send nasty bloody mail and delete the profile straight after "

exactly Bren, had that happen myself, how do you block a shadow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awww are we all getting it ??

shouldnt need to explain ourselves when we take a break we dont run on duracell and do have lives away from fab ...

as per foxi guys thinking with there little head n no the big one lol

luv sub xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foxi babe you don't need to justify yourself to anyone on this site or off it for that matter.

If you want to hide your profile that's your choice and if people start abusing you block them and ignore them (after putting them straight).

It will be their loss.

Saints xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foxi doll, if people cannot respect your wishes with what you put on your profile, they can go get stuffed as they aint worth it. This site isnt the "real world" in the sense that it actually matters what these people think. They are just lifes floatsam that irritate and offend the good folks like yourself xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Right To Bear Arms suddenly seems like a good idea !!

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By *ashmira2008Woman
over a year ago

renfrew

Foxi I've had the same prob as u, I still wanna chat 2 all the nice folk I've met, but trying 2 get some guys 2 understand what "not meeting" means seems to be a losing battle lol. Luv Michelle xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *egs4u OP Woman
over a year ago

somewhere around

Thanks everyone for your comments and support i really appreciate it xxx

I was wondering if a guy puts 'not meeting just now' or 'taking a break' does he get the same abuse? or get called a time waster, fake etc

foxi

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

foxi feck them they no worth it hun xx

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By *oonboyMan
over a year ago

livingston

reading this post i will reiterate what i have said on many occassions.....

firstly what you put on your profile is up to you, whether you care to share your friends list, hide your profile or anything else IS YOUR CHOICE,

secondly it seems that many of the window licker brigade cannot stand rejection, therefore seem to revert to simple abuse (knock backs often offend),and to be fair to some of the guys, abuse often comes from females and cpls aswell, altho they are in the minority.

Thankfully both me and the mrs dont get any serious abuse as we would both eat em for breakfast, however people should always remember this site was created for fun and NO means NO.

dont let the ameoba's get you down !!

Shimple !!!!

hear endeth the sermon

Father jack x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

drink! fekk! women! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

foxylady, anyone who calls you names for doing what you want with Your Profile is a small minded twat,

no-one has any right to hit out at other users for setting thier profiles, pics or preferences the way that they want to.

shower of small minded eejits.

you have no need to explain yourself to no-one, your far better than that

Pamela and Gordie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont listen to all the arseholes,our profile is also hidden for personal reasons at present,dont have to eat,breath,live swinging 24/7 365,things can happen if life that take more priority than fun.you just need to take it on the chin,only being abusive bcoz they cant get what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"reading this post i will reiterate what i have said on many occassions.....

firstly what you put on your profile is up to you, whether you care to share your friends list, hide your profile or anything else IS YOUR CHOICE,

Thankfully both me and the mrs dont get any serious abuse as we would both eat em for breakfast, however people should always remember this site was created for fun and NO means NO.

dont let the ameoba's get you down !!

Shimple !!!!

hear endeth the sermon

You Are so right who in there right minds would give you abuse lol brave or what pmsl

Have to say we have never had ant abuse, been blocked a few times , for what i have no reasons , but hey each to y=there own , there loss i would say lol

Debbsxxxx

Father jack x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile is hidden at the moment for personal reasons and don't see why i should have too explain why it is!!!!!

Was in chat today and got abuse and called a 'cock tease' yet again, because they don't seem to think i should be here if i'm not meeting anyone new at the moment and swinging.

Yes it is a swinging site, but i've also made so many friends on here that i want too keep in touch with.

So no im NOT teasing anyone and have as much right as anyone else too be here!!!!! Rant over lol

What do other people think?

foxi

xxx

tell them to FUCK RIGHT OFF & report their profile the ignorant cheeky twats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IVE JUST HAD 2 NASTY EMAILS..AINT THEY

LUCKY THERE BAWS ARENT BUSTED

DAFT

FUKWITS XX

NO POINT REPORTING CAUSE WHEN U REPORT U

NEVER HEAR ANYTHING BCK FROM ADMIN

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

"IVE JUST HAD 2 NASTY EMAILS..AINT THEY

LUCKY THERE BAWS ARENT BUSTED

DAFT

FUKWITS XX

NO POINT REPORTING CAUSE WHEN U REPORT U

NEVER HEAR ANYTHING BCK FROM ADMIN

We don't have the resources to update people on each individual report we receive (we get hundreds each day and if we replied to each one then dealt with the follow up mails, we would never get through them or get anything else done). But an admin does read and deal with every single report and take the appropriate action.

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know wat ur saying admin but i think if we get abusive emails from guys then they should get a ban..they send nasty emails an gets away with it..there was no need 2 send me them i never asked 2 be spoken like that

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

"i know wat ur saying admin but i think if we get abusive emails from guys then they should get a ban..they send nasty emails an gets away with it..there was no need 2 send me them i never asked 2 be spoken like that

If you have a problem with a user, your best bet is to use the REPORT link on profiles / messages. We have had contacts from you via the contact form but not reports about users or emails via the report link.

HTH

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im no 1 to complain about anyone cause i deal with half wits myself but 2 get dafty sending abuse emails when ive never even spoken 2 them is not on..next time they be having ya baws for earings an be my normaly cheeky self

ive deleted there emails but ill email u admin there profile name 4 u 2 keep an eye on them xx

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