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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there, we're a married cpl very much in love, how enjoy all aspects of swinging for a few years now.

We are a full swap same room cpl normally, however have done seprate room a few times, which we both enjoyed.

We are now thinking of meeting alone too, as hubby's work commitments are making it hard to meet of late.

Any other married cpls meet alone too? What are your thoughts and ideas?

Thanks, mrs saints. X

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By *lay_N_cum2Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere in Scotland

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By *lay_N_cum2Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere in Scotland

hi guys

like yous we play alone now and then mostly mr play but we like to meet the cpl socialy firstly before we play and if we all get on then it can be fun and we always tell each othere when we are going to meet someone have fun guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the way to do it initially is to find a couple that you both like and get on with (maybe a previous meet), and play seperatly with them....Your guy goes off to hers, the other guy comes to yours.

If your comfortable with them as a couple then you will at least be able to talk anything over with them.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting topic, going to be reading as we have been thinking about playing alone for a while now but haven't actually taken the leap, good to hear what others think about it. Mrs F xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes for the pure practical reasons it can work just fine.

A couple you know well both want to go to a party they been invited to, hubbys working late, the wife is still kean to go,hubby will try to get there later, a trusted friend takes her to the party, that party they were saying "ohh we would of luvved to of gone to but cant sorry", suddenly its no prob, marvelous.

Wont work all the time granted, if its a strict limited numbers style thing i guess that would become a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we play alone on occasion, for us its the fact we like different people or we like the other couple but we arent all available at the same time.

to be honest it was a big leap from going to swinging together to going alone, trust is a big thing in it and you have to both be happy with the person your partner is playing with alone.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

From the other side of the coin, I don't meet the male half of couples... I find it just complicates stuff. It shouldn't but it can. There are enough single men around so that I don't need to choose from the ones who are attached.

Weirdly though I don't have such a rule when it comes to meeting females. I think it's probably because that's less complicated. Men don't have the same insecurities that women have. I'm not sure if that's cause men mostly think about the horny stuff and women just think too much!

Good luck with whatever you do, just make sure you communicate both with each other and with the people you play with.

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By *carletRomanceCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We're actually preferring it at the moment - partly due to work and whatnot - but it can be a hellva turn on too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner and I discussed this at length before deciding to play alone. We still play as a couple and have a couples profile but we also play on our own. We have a couple page and each have our own singles page.

The way we look at it is that so long as your open and honest with one another about where and when your meeting then it's all ok. It's if you start seeing people and don't tell your partner, thats when it's not good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as i am single and live in dundee i think its a great idea lol you follow your own mind xx grant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this in the last few weeks Minnie had a male over. I was in the next room for the first time since then she played alone while I ve been working away. Not been able to find a female for myself then again Minnie seems to jump them first lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have both played alone and loved it!as some might find it hard to beleive its hard cpls finding cpls?4 peeps to all want to meet,4 peeps all available at the same time ect.so sometimes we find a single or someone we have played as a cpl and meet alone.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure if we could do it, mainly because i could have much more fun than andy as most are looking for ladies to play with and there to many single guys already never mind trying to get a meet while in a couple, people tend to not care that the woman is part of a couple, but a guy in a couple seems to be a problem for some if you catch our meaning. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have both played alone and loved it!as some might find it hard to beleive its hard cpls finding cpls?4 peeps to all want to meet,4 peeps all available at the same time ect.so sometimes we find a single or someone we have played as a cpl and meet alone.x "

Ttly agree auds its really hard to find a cpl where there's an attraction between all 4....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure if we could do it, mainly because i could have much more fun than andy as most are looking for ladies to play with and there to many single guys already never mind trying to get a meet while in a couple, people tend to not care that the woman is part of a couple, but a guy in a couple seems to be a problem for some if you catch our meaning. xx"

totally agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip.i agree also.think alot of peeps think if a guys playing alone and also part of a cpl hes a chancer lol. Jas has my full permission as i have his.

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

Wolf and I will occasionally play alone though we do generally prefer to play together. And it's mostly been when we're in different parts of the country and can't be together.

We don't have single profiles - everything is arranged through joint one so we both know what is being arranged - for our own safety and peace of mind as much as anything else.

It works for us.

Vixen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well me (zoe) and my husband have yet to meet anyone as a couple. I though have had 1 solo meet, which we have both been fine with. It seems to be hard for men to get a meet, as I am very comfortable with Pete meeting another woman solo.

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By *ifemrequiredCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

we only played together as a couple with one female and we met her on two occassions but moira took another job which ment she could no longer play at moment .but i have full approval to play alone .although im not sure if screen name puts people off or just the fact im older and uglier than most .. sigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great to see this topic on the forum as we were dicussing it last night. Always good to see what other couples think about playing seperately. Go (him)

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

we dont play alone but think thats coz we are looking for mmf so never been an issue. we both work same hours and lots of single guys so never needed to even discuss it being honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full permission, "my blessing",, "mutual agreement", its all great, swingingly open stuff, but if theres the slightest doubt, the smallest "but what if" between either, go for "Dont", untill that "what if" thing is eliminated from the equasion.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

we started playing alone due to work ,sitters ect a good while ago and have never looked back we do play together also but just find it soo much easier at times the only rule we have is we know where each other is all the time

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By *ifemrequiredCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

good luck to all who have been lucky to play solo ..we met same woman as before for the third time.and was good but .circumstances change and to play as a couple is not an option as profile now reads ,,but thank you ,,to the woman who was genuine enough to spend time with us ,,,,,,as a couple ...maybe oneday i will het a chance to play with another genuine fem who can tell ...cheers to all .(mr) of this s/n

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am single so dont have this problem but still very interesting the plus with being single you dont need be consider your partner down side is you can be in surplus (plenty guys) couple get more invites to parties etc so if you play togehter and alone you get best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play alone and totally love it, talking about it later is a real buzz.

Also as others have mentioned, its hard for all 4 to have an attraction.

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