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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

So just wondering. There used to be quite alot of people hosting parties. Now seems to be more socials etc. Does any one else miss the party's??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just wondering. There used to be quite alot of people hosting parties. Now seems to be more socials etc. Does any one else miss the party's?? "

I think because of the press intrusion into fab folks are a lot more wary of advertising parties except to those they know through socials or old fab hands ,it the sign of the times that socials ,veris are the way because one bad invite to a party could blow a person's personal life wide open ,discretion is the best part of valour seems to be a forgotten thing since fab became famous,, that's just my opinion though

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"So just wondering. There used to be quite alot of people hosting parties. Now seems to be more socials etc. Does any one else miss the party's??

I think because of the press intrusion into fab folks are a lot more wary of advertising parties except to those they know through socials or old fab hands ,it the sign of the times that socials ,veris are the way because one bad invite to a party could blow a person's personal life wide open ,discretion is the best part of valour seems to be a forgotten thing since fab became famous,, that's just my opinion though"

I agree. Fab has changed so much

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"So just wondering. There used to be quite alot of people hosting parties. Now seems to be more socials etc. Does any one else miss the party's?? "
wouldnt say its changed....... maybe more that your not the fresh cpl so you dont get invited as much.

as for the press intrusion it comes and goes so that only affects short term ive seen the waves it creates for many yrs

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"So just wondering. There used to be quite alot of people hosting parties. Now seems to be more socials etc. Does any one else miss the party's?? wouldnt say its changed....... maybe more that your not the fresh cpl so you dont get invited as much.

as for the press intrusion it comes and goes so that only affects short term ive seen the waves it creates for many yrs"

Wow rude much. I never once said we haven't been invite I said there isn't many people having party's any more complete difference.

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By *onniemMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire


" wouldnt say its changed....... maybe more that your not the fresh cpl so you dont get invited as much.

as for the press intrusion it comes and goes so that only affects short term ive seen the waves it creates for many yrs"

More than just a tad harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we hosted we rented a place for the night as we wernt comfortable having the party in our homes.

Maybe that's the reason. I think maybe people just don't advertise them as much on fab as let's face it you would be swamped with mail.

Just a thought

S

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"When we hosted we rented a place for the night as we wernt comfortable having the party in our homes.

Maybe that's the reason. I think maybe people just don't advertise them as much on fab as let's face it you would be swamped with mail.

Just a thought

S"

We have hosted party's and been to many but not really a done thing anymore. I think alot of people are moving away from it.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"So just wondering. There used to be quite alot of people hosting parties. Now seems to be more socials etc. Does any one else miss the party's?? wouldnt say its changed....... maybe more that your not the fresh cpl so you dont get invited as much.

as for the press intrusion it comes and goes so that only affects short term ive seen the waves it creates for many yrs

Wow rude much. I never once said we haven't been invite I said there isn't many people having party's any more complete difference."
where exactly am I rude my statement isnt a slander on you if your viewing it that way thats your problem not mine.

how do you know if folk are or are not having partys (my guess was with invites). As most dont put it out there for all to see.

My statement wasnt about yourselves alone it was about everyone myself inc when I first joined I was contacted daily about hosting partys I found out with time that there are folk who creep all over new members in the hope of getting things was more what I was getting at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we hosted we rented a place for the night as we wernt comfortable having the party in our homes.

Maybe that's the reason. I think maybe people just don't advertise them as much on fab as let's face it you would be swamped with mail.

Just a thought

S

We have hosted party's and been to many but not really a done thing anymore. I think alot of people are moving away from it. "

I hope not, we prefer parties or club nights the thought of a couple on couple meet terrifies us, unless it was a couple we already knew or had previously met.

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"When we hosted we rented a place for the night as we wernt comfortable having the party in our homes.

Maybe that's the reason. I think maybe people just don't advertise them as much on fab as let's face it you would be swamped with mail.

Just a thought

S

We have hosted party's and been to many but not really a done thing anymore. I think alot of people are moving away from it.

I hope not, we prefer parties or club nights the thought of a couple on couple meet terrifies us, unless it was a couple we already knew or had previously met."

We were gutted we couldn't make your one but had family commitments that night and couldn't get out of them lol. When is the next one hint hint

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"So just wondering. There used to be quite alot of people hosting parties. Now seems to be more socials etc. Does any one else miss the party's?? wouldnt say its changed....... maybe more that your not the fresh cpl so you dont get invited as much.

as for the press intrusion it comes and goes so that only affects short term ive seen the waves it creates for many yrs

Wow rude much. I never once said we haven't been invite I said there isn't many people having party's any more complete difference.where exactly am I rude my statement isnt a slander on you if your viewing it that way thats your problem not mine.

how do you know if folk are or are not having partys (my guess was with invites). As most dont put it out there for all to see.

My statement wasnt about yourselves alone it was about everyone myself inc when I first joined I was contacted daily about hosting partys I found out with time that there are folk who creep all over new members in the hope of getting things was more what I was getting at"

Are you actually kidding!!

I asked about an opinion about the change in people not having party's as much a d you says that's cause your not fresh is that's not rude I don't know what is. I never once said not been invited have been invited and went to many but this is something that has been seen by other as a change in the scene as not many people holding party either in a apartment or their homes. That's it. If you had asked an opinion would have said to you oh you don't get invited cause your a single guy and have no verification. No cause not once did I say anything about me not being invited

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Nope no jesting

you accept others reasoning as to why they believe its changed but my reasoning is rude and opinionated........or you dont like my reasoning.

I dont believe the party scene has changed maybe the manner of who is invited has changed but not the frequency of parties (my opinion you can say poppycock or hold firm to your own).

Enjoy wont reply further

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Nope no jesting

you accept others reasoning as to why they believe its changed but my reasoning is rude and opinionated........or you dont like my reasoning.

I dont believe the party scene has changed maybe the manner of who is invited has changed but not the frequency of parties (my opinion you can say poppycock or hold firm to your own).

Enjoy wont reply further"

There is a way to word things and a way not to.

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By *appyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

The lack of parties does seem to have changed over the years but to be fair so has fab,most people want to just socialise .Maybe they don't know how to let their hair down .Mr had lost his maybe we partied to much back then .

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By *ngelkDevil OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"The lack of parties does seem to have changed over the years but to be fair so has fab,most people want to just socialise .Maybe they don't know how to let their hair down .Mr had lost his maybe we partied to much back then ."

You can never party too much

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

As far as I know, we are the only big party hosts in and around Dundee. There may be people hosting parties that don't advertise on here and just keep it to their friends, I don't know.

We have to hire somewhere and it takes months of planning which is why we only hold a couple a year, and I spend a lot of time socialising with potential attendees to make sure everyone will get on. But it's worth it in the end.

Would be nice to be a guest at someone else's though and just relax!

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