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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know women will basically get 100 messages a day etc and can afford to be a bit picky and have certain requests and demands but when it comes to women saying they won't meet anyone unless they've been verified...you canny win here haha . People think you're a fake profile the lot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the name of the game on this site mate. Getting yourself to social events is a good way of getting yourself verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has the right to be picky just some aren't and for the has to be verified, its not more "oh he's fake" it's more the "oh he could be a masked murderer and do I want to be the first to meet him"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has the right to be picky just some aren't and for the has to be verified, its not more "oh he's fake" it's more the "oh he could be a masked murderer and do I want to be the first to meet him" "

My concerns are more about wasting time with hair make up and lingerie for an unverified user

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has the right to be picky just some aren't and for the has to be verified, its not more "oh he's fake" it's more the "oh he could be a masked murderer and do I want to be the first to meet him" "
exactly...my issue with not meeting unverified guys is purely safety

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow


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My concerns are more about wasting time with hair make up and lingerie for an unverified user "

Same with me

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"I know women will basically get 100 messages a day etc and can afford to be a bit picky and have certain requests and demands but when it comes to women saying they won't meet anyone unless they've been verified...you canny win here haha . People think you're a fake profile the lot lol "

Just go to a social or CJs and someone will verify you. Simple!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has the right to be picky just some aren't and for the has to be verified, its not more "oh he's fake" it's more the "oh he could be a masked murderer and do I want to be the first to meet him" "

Fair enough there lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has the right to be picky just some aren't and for the has to be verified, its not more "oh he's fake" it's more the "oh he could be a masked murderer and do I want to be the first to meet him" exactly...my issue with not meeting unverified guys is purely safety "

That's helpful, thanks.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Or having successful meets and still not getting verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody will meet you because your not verified, but you cant get verified because nobody will meet you... a vicious circle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me a wee while to get Verified if any consolation. Mind you my pictures were crap

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Took me a wee while to get Verified if any consolation. Mind you my pictures were crap"
thats no excuse

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

It will happen. As people have said, socials and clubs increase the chances

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"Nobody will meet you because your not verified, but you cant get verified because nobody will meet you... a vicious circle."

No its not! That's what socials are for! Go along and say hi and some nice person will verify you as genuine!

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By *onniemMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire

Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me a wee while to get Verified if any consolation. Mind you my pictures were crapthats no excuse "

Ok...My rhetoric was crap too...As exciting as burnt toast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over "

This is true. Many people like to display their sexual prowess and like their Verifications to be graphic. But I don't necessarily think it's.boasting sorry. Verifications are essential for me and I expect to be able to read a fair few before I would meet. I don't.mind if they are explicit. All my explicit ones are not.displayed however.

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By *onniemMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire


"Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over

This is true. Many people like to display their sexual prowess and like their Verifications to be graphic. But I don't necessarily think it's.boasting sorry. Verifications are essential for me and I expect to be able to read a fair few before I would meet. I don't.mind if they are explicit. All my explicit ones are not.displayed however."

True of the more discerning/responsible , however there are way more who use it as an ego trip sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over

This is true. Many people like to display their sexual prowess and like their Verifications to be graphic. But I don't necessarily think it's.boasting sorry. Verifications are essential for me and I expect to be able to read a fair few before I would meet. I don't.mind if they are explicit. All my explicit ones are not.displayed however.

True of the more discerning/responsible , however there are way more who use it as an ego trip sadly "

Possibly.true. I certainly.dont.

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By *onniemMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire


" Possibly.true. I certainly.dont. "

Like I said , not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verified or not verified it don't get you any closer to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over "
as I said I will not meet anyone that's unverified..some do tho and yes socials are a great way to get verified

Myself...I do not show my veris as it's really no one's buisness who Iv met...if Iv met and the guy verifys me I leave it up for a day as to show I'm greateful for that veri but then I hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally think the verification thing is now used for personal gratification . It's a "look how good I am " thing to many and then there's the verification collectors akin to facebook "friend" collectors . Started as a good idea but not being used properly imho rant over as I said I will not meet anyone that's unverified..some do tho and yes socials are a great way to get verified

Myself...I do not show my veris as it's really no one's buisness who Iv met...if Iv met and the guy verifys me I leave it up for a day as to show I'm greateful for that veri but then I hide it

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