FabSwingers.com forum: Live and let live

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

My time and energy goes into doing what makes me happy and not what makes others happy.

I dont particularly care what others on here do as long as they are making themselves happy.

Do you pay much attention to what others on here do or are you like me say live and let live as long as they are happy doing as they wish ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a bit of gossip as much as the next person..

But nope reply couldn't care less

If it dosnt involve me

Its not my worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pay no attention to what others do on here ,I pay attention to what others do in life day to day if that makes sense

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Like a bit of gossip as much as the next person..

But nope reply couldn't care less

If it dosnt involve me

Its not my worry

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I pay no attention to what others do on here ,I pay attention to what others do in life day to day if that makes sense "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope everyone is here for thier own reasons each to thier own, I do my thing and have fun I'm not here to please others but I have made some good friends and enjoy having chats and giggles with them ,personally I think if you have time to worry about what others do your not having enough fun of your own, do your own thing and have fun life is to short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as no one gets personal, I'm fine. I don't like others putting people down, though.

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Like a bit of gossip as much as the next person..

But nope reply couldn't care less

If it dosnt involve me

Its not my worry

It's human nature to be intrigued by gossip, for the same reason we all slow down to look at a car crash... morbid curiosity

If you start thinking about what other people are doing and saying you eventually lose the time to make yourself happy, so you just got to let any negativity just wash over you

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Nope everyone is here for thier own reasons each to thier own, I do my thing and have fun I'm not here to please others but I have made some good friends and enjoy having chats and giggles with them ,personally I think if you have time to worry about what others do your not having enough fun of your own, do your own thing and have fun life is to short

xx"
Spot on hunni

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"As long as no one gets personal, I'm fine. I don't like others putting people down, though."

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Like a bit of gossip as much as the next person..

But nope reply couldn't care less

If it dosnt involve me

Its not my worry

It's human nature to be intrigued by gossip, for the same reason we all slow down to look at a car crash... morbid curiosity

If you start thinking about what other people are doing and saying you eventually lose the time to make yourself happy, so you just got to let any negativity just wash over you

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm here for me, therefore I focus only on me. I try to be respectful and nice to everyone, however ultimately the majority on here are just strangers on the internet. Their opinions of me do not matter and nor should mine of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as on here goes, I couldn't care less about your reasons or needs/wants etc, each to their own.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I'm here for me, therefore I focus only on me. I try to be respectful and nice to everyone, however ultimately the majority on here are just strangers on the internet. Their opinions of me do not matter and nor should mine of them. "
Agreed

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"As far as on here goes, I couldn't care less about your reasons or needs/wants etc, each to their own. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the time you've taken the time to worry about the ones that really matter in your life family, loved ones and good friends I just would not have the time interest or inclination to care what others get upto.

As long as their doing their thing then a'l just be happy doing mine

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"By the time you've taken the time to worry about the ones that really matter in your life family, loved ones and good friends I just would not have the time interest or inclination to care what others get upto.

As long as their doing their thing then a'l just be happy doing mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do gossip and malicious chat. We are all on fab for our own reasons and not on here to be mean to one another and put them down.

I enjoy exchanging views on the forums and meeting people but never am I unkind or judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My time and energy goes into doing what makes me happy and not what makes others happy.

I dont particularly care what others on here do as long as they are making themselves happy.

Do you pay much attention to what others on here do or are you like me say live and let live as long as they are happy doing as they wish ?"

Your tits are belters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what thou wilt ane hurt none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with this 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with OP,tho manners cost nothing and nastiness is cheap.having said that i do have a wee streak to wind up someone who has a go just for the sheer fun of it,the other posts are like for like.more friends on here than encounters .but that is my choice.

You can wake up now i have finished ??

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I'm too busy trying to work out what I want to worry about what anyone else is doing.

If my friends judge me, then they aren't friends!

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Totally agree!

Am on here for me, I do what I do the way I wanna do it, with whom I wanna do it with... etc

People, don't like it? Don't like me? It is their prerogative, same as it is my prerogative to roll my eyes every now and then.

Life would be so boring if we were all the same and all fitted into the same box.

We have a saying in France that kinda says the following... i don't care what you say or think because at the end of the day, you don't put a roof over my head and you don't put food on my table.

People, do what makes you happy, life is hard enough as it is at times not to grab moments of happiness and naughtyness.

My opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all the other comments don't think what are everyone else saying or doing.i am here for my reasons I know people judge that is modern society for you sadly.

I would never judge anyone else and certainly will not get into arguments or debates about it.we are all here to have fun one way or another so I say if you don't like the look or sound of someone either politely decline or after all you don't need to chat with them so don't.

As what Is the point of being nasty to someone I can't see what that achieves,because I find it quite sad if it makes someone feel good just to have a go at someone.as the op says live and let live I prefer to make friends than enemies.lets I will be honest if I make some friends ahead of a meet that's fine.some people just need to realise not everyone is suited to everyone's tast we are all different.looks are skin deep manners politeness go further and treat people with a bit of human decency and respect if you want a chance of meeting them.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like all the other comments don't think what are everyone else saying or doing.i am here for my reasons I know people judge that is modern society for you sadly.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I like all the other comments don't think what are everyone else saying or doing.i am here for my reasons I know people judge that is modern society for you sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I would go further to say we should keep any personal opinions of others to ourselves..As my late gran used to say, "if you can't say anything good about anyone, say nothing". I also don't think anyone should ever.make assumptions about anyone on the basis of forum/text chat. It's easy to get things lost in translation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly that as I am not by any means saying no one is entitled to have an opinion,as we all have our own minds but it doesn't mean anyone has to be nasty with it.so I reiterate if you don't agree with someone being here or don't like what they say just move on and leave them to it.

After all some people are just after a reaction why give them it that's going to their level.i have experienced a few negative comments myself but hey ho I just let it go as there seems to be plenty decent people on here to chat with and maybe more all going well.

So as the op says live your own life these people don't need to be a part of it.as let's face it if they are so opinionated why are they here if they are so perfect in their world.

So happy fabbing to the good ones out there and have a great day.x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Exactly that as I am not by any means saying no one is entitled to have an opinion,as we all have our own minds but it doesn't mean anyone has to be nasty with it.so I reiterate if you don't agree with someone being here or don't like what they say just move on and leave them to it.

So as the op says live your own life these people don't need to be a part of it.as let's face it if they are so opinionated why are they here if they are so perfect in their world.

So happy fabbing to the good ones out there and have a great day.x"
spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people on here say one thing and do another with out regard to any commitment they might have made previously. A lot of people also agree to a meet and then change there mind because the think something better has come along. Then of course it is someone else's fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit of a shock to the system when some people are just plain ignorant in the same was as it is offline, at least for me it is. In fact, I was about to have a little rant about it but decided to have a white Magnum instead.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I couldn't care less what people think of me.

I am me.

Don't like me? That's cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My time and energy goes into doing what makes me happy and not what makes others happy.

I dont particularly care what others on here do as long as they are making themselves happy.

Do you pay much attention to what others on here do or are you like me say live and let live as long as they are happy doing as they wish ?"

Couldn't care but try to keep an eye on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less what people think of me.

I am me.

Don't like me? That's cool.

Agree. People take me as they find me. I think my Verifications say a lot about me

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

in answer to the original question, i couldn't give a flying fook about what others do on here, actually i couldn't give a fook about anybody on here at all

lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I couldn't care less what people think of me.

I am me.

Don't like me? That's cool.

Agree. People take me as they find me. I think my Verifications say a lot about me"

My god! Don't read mine......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less what people think of me.

I am me.

Don't like me? That's cool.

Agree. People take me as they find me. I think my Verifications say a lot about me

My god! Don't read mine......

Yours point to a rather charming, laid back individual who doesn't take life too seriously!

Correct?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe that is part of the problem some people say take me as me but then tell you to go by the verifications.lets face it everyone has different takes on different people so maybe best to just chat with someone meet socially then they will take you as you and not as how someone else did.as after all we are all different and I know people say they don't care about what others think of them but it's human nature to want to be accepted but some people just don't deal very well with rejection.as people we need to realise not everyone will meet but there is no need to react badly or childishly just move on.life is too short and there are plenty people out there but remember you will be better off with a good first impression.so yes that means us guys are better with some nice words other than boo here's a pic of my cock.as if you see what a lot of women say you wouldn't walk up in a bar pull it out and just expect a women to go ok bed now.women I think prefer you to show them a bit more respect and politeness after all we are people let's act like it and maybe we can get on better.but hey that is just my take on it if you don't agree that's fine that is my way you will have yours.lets all be a bit nicer to each other night folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People hide behind their screens, saying and doing things they wouldn't offline because they'll never have to justify their behaviour. Add to that the imbalance of couples and singles (particularly male) on Fab and it's a perfect storm.

But it's all wind and pish. #firstworldproblems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a bit of a shock to the system when some people are just plain ignorant in the same was as it is offline, at least for me it is. In fact, I was about to have a little rant about it but decided to have a white Magnum instead."

I think we should all adopt the "have a white magnum instead" philosophy to a lot of things in (Fab) life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But it's all wind and pish. "

I like this!

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

"But it's all wind and pish.

I like this!"

There's a lot of wind and pish blowing about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. Feel free ti use "wind and pish" wherever appropriate. It's particularly useful after tedious work meetings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to care about what others thought , why ? I'm really not sure . I guess perhaps because I prefer people to judge me(if they feel they need to) once they've actually gotten to know me . If they don't like me then by all means I'm alright with that . It's life we can't all like everyone but it's the ones who listen to other people and base their opinions and decisions about people based on others. I used to find it quite sad now I laugh at it . We've learned so much from being on here and it's very true . This is a site for fun and enjoying your own pleasures , the friendships made from that is definitely an added bonus. But if all your life is about is focusing on gossip drama and other people's lives then they clearly have something lacking in their own lives .

We definitely go with live and let live and say each to their own .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"We used to care about what others thought , why ? I'm really not sure . I guess perhaps because I prefer people to judge me(if they feel they need to) once they've actually gotten to know me . If they don't like me then by all means I'm alright with that . It's life we can't all like everyone but it's the ones who listen to other people and base their opinions and decisions about people based on others. I used to find it quite sad now I laugh at it . We've learned so much from being on here and it's very true . This is a site for fun and enjoying your own pleasures , the friendships made from that is definitely an added bonus. But if all your life is about is focusing on gossip drama and other people's lives then they clearly have something lacking in their own lives .

We definitely go with live and let live and say each to their own . "
Agree 100%

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I had a conversation with someone about this earlier. Never in my whole life have I seen the level of bitchiness and judgemental people that seems to be the norm on fab, this is the kind of place you would expect people to embrace others not go out of their way to be nasty.

I can honestly say I've never given a toss what people on here think of me, I get not everyone is going to like each other n that's ok with me. I try to focus on the fantastic people I've met and the fun I'm having. If I don't like someone I wouldn't go out my way to be rude or nasty I would just ignore them and hope they would do the same.

We're all here for our own reasons and if people concentrated on themselves instead of the latest fab gossip it would be a much nicer place

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a conversation with someone about this earlier. Never in my whole life have I seen the level of bitchiness and judgemental people that seems to be the norm on fab, this is the kind of place you would expect people to embrace others not go out of their way to be nasty.

We're all here for our own reasons and if people concentrated on themselves instead of the latest fab gossip it would be a much nicer place

K x"

This

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

We're all here for our own reasons and if people concentrated on themselves instead of the latest fab gossip it would be a much nicer place

K x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all here for our own reasons and if people concentrated on themselves instead of the latest fab gossip it would be a much nicer place

K x

Spot on here. Let's all just enjoy the site for what it's meant to be - for me, fun and friendship and a wee bit of escapism!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im ready to be judged for this but hey ho ...

I was paying attention to what one person was doing ... more so because i wanted to be careful not to be doing the same people after and the number of people on that list was growing by the second

Unfortunately they just got a new profile... and all the veris left with the old one ... so thats a layer of my vetting process gubbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sweep my own stairs & let others do the same

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