FabSwingers.com forum: Secret Crush?

By *andy_Fraser OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Is there anyone on here that you have a fancy for?

I'm not looking for anyone to share names, although you can if you want to, but I'm meaning is there anyone that grabs your interest, without it being infatuation.

Given that I've posted this, I'll go first;

I'm normally quite open and honest when it comes to who I fancy, but there is one woman on here I have a bit of a soft-spot for. I have met and chatted to her, but that's it. I don't think I'm her type, but I do admire who she is and what she does.

Mandy

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yes. We've met socially more than once.

However, I guess I'm too chicken to take it further than a hug or a snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anyone on here that you have a fancy for?

I'm not looking for anyone to share names, although you can if you want to, but I'm meaning is there anyone that grabs your interest, without it being infatuation.

Given that I've posted this, I'll go first;

Mandy"

You think you will ever tell her how you feel?

Someone I have chatted to on here I really like,sadly doesn't seem like she is interested that way in me.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Yes but he's miles away and too hot for me. Its nice to window shop though.

Anyone else I've liked I've usually met.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Unrequited lust

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By *andy_Fraser OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"You think you will ever tell her how you feel?

Someone I have chatted to on here I really like,sadly doesn't seem like she is interested that way in me."

I don't think I ever will. It might be said when I've had a fair few drinks, but that's becoming a rarity in my life now.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think you will ever tell her how you feel?

Someone I have chatted to on here I really like,sadly doesn't seem like she is interested that way in me.

I don't think I ever will. It might be said when I've had a fair few drinks, but that's becoming a rarity in my life now.

Mandy"

You have nothing to lose ,are you worried you alter your friendship by letting them know how you feel? Can understand that .

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

There's a guy on here I've spoken to a few times, his pics are so hot! He's not meeting and I've never seen his face and might be disappointed if I do, but for now I dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, but for many reasons we'll never meet. Happy to keep it that way and admire him from afar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a guy on here I've spoken to a few times, his pics are so hot! He's not meeting and I've never seen his face and might be disappointed if I do, but for now I dream

Are you worried if you see his face you might be disappointed if he is not your type or what you imagine ? Ruin the fantasy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He knows who he is

Lust....defo lust...

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"There's a guy on here I've spoken to a few times, his pics are so hot! He's not meeting and I've never seen his face and might be disappointed if I do, but for now I dream

Are you worried if you see his face you might be disappointed if he is not your type or what you imagine ? Ruin the fantasy ? "

Yeah pretty much. Seen guys on here with great bodies, but when swapping face pics they're not my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is a lady on here who like myself has been here a long time.

Have never met but have spoken on phone and chatted privately on here.

We have swapped pics but have never got round to actually meet up.

A lot of that is down to my depression and that I drift in and out of the site and don't really keep in touch with people I have befriended in here.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

There's another guy on here I fancy but I think he just likes me as a pal, been some mixed signals so no idea if he wants me or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a guy on here I've spoken to a few times, his pics are so hot! He's not meeting and I've never seen his face and might be disappointed if I do, but for now I dream

Are you worried if you see his face you might be disappointed if he is not your type or what you imagine ? Ruin the fantasy ?

Yeah pretty much. Seen guys on here with great bodies, but when swapping face pics they're not my type

Know what you mean,sometimes the mystery of what they are like is better than reality,we all have our types ,I understand if I'm not someone's cup of tea .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one lady in particular, but I know for sure I'm not her type, and our circumstances would make things pretty difficult to meet, even if I was here type. Such is life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's another guy on here I fancy but I think he just likes me as a pal, been some mixed signals so no idea if he wants me or not "
well ask him...he can only say 2 things?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's another guy on here I fancy but I think he just likes me as a pal, been some mixed signals so no idea if he wants me or not "

Have you flirted with him and gauged his reaction? I did that with lass I liked and she kind of brushed it off so guessing she just wants to be friends

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"There's a guy on here I've spoken to a few times, his pics are so hot! He's not meeting and I've never seen his face and might be disappointed if I do, but for now I dream

Are you worried if you see his face you might be disappointed if he is not your type or what you imagine ? Ruin the fantasy ?

Yeah pretty much. Seen guys on here with great bodies, but when swapping face pics they're not my type

Know what you mean,sometimes the mystery of what they are like is better than reality,we all have our types ,I understand if I'm not someone's cup of tea ."

True, and I'm sure I'm not many people's either. Nice to dream though

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"There's another guy on here I fancy but I think he just likes me as a pal, been some mixed signals so no idea if he wants me or not

Have you flirted with him and gauged his reaction? I did that with lass I liked and she kind of brushed it off so guessing she just wants to be friends "

We've kissed so yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, but I stalk this person, and have not blocked me as yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely think on here you just have to bite the bullet. Anyone who has ever seen me flirt will know I am useless at it haha

I met and chatted with a lovely lady on here for a good while so much so we became really good pals.

I convinced myself that was probably all it was although I fancied the pants off her.

Then on another social things seemed different far more relaxed with each other and following a great kiss that's when I knew that friendship was overrated lol

Honestly Very lucky that she's a good pal and even luckier that she feels the same.

Go for it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Some things should be kept a fantasy and some should be acted upon.

Whats the worst that could happen?

Never live life wondering what if .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's another guy on here I fancy but I think he just likes me as a pal, been some mixed signals so no idea if he wants me or not

Have you flirted with him and gauged his reaction? I did that with lass I liked and she kind of brushed it off so guessing she just wants to be friends

We've kissed so yes lol "

Well he likes you then ,maybe he feels you just want to be friends?

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

There's one I've got quite a bit of unrequited lust for, but as of my last birthday I'm outwith her preferred age range

Thinks I'm funny though, so I suspect I'm well and truly friend-zoned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some things should be kept a fantasy and some should be acted upon.

Whats the worst that could happen?

Never live life wondering what if ."

There should be a "kiss, slap, have them arrested" thread on the back of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always fancied carol vorderman x

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"There's another guy on here I fancy but I think he just likes me as a pal, been some mixed signals so no idea if he wants me or not

Have you flirted with him and gauged his reaction? I did that with lass I liked and she kind of brushed it off so guessing she just wants to be friends

We've kissed so yes lol

Well he likes you then ,maybe he feels you just want to be friends? "

Lol no, he knows I'm very interested. Maybe the moment has passed

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I did admit my crush on a non fab guy recently, fancied him for a year. He's moving away soon so it was pretty much now or never, and I couldn't live with what if, so I arranged drinks and spent a few days flirting with him on WhatsApp. Although he didn't seem to get the hint until I sent him a suggestive pic, then it was all systems go!

It was just a moment and nothing will come of it, but I had the best date ever and had an amazing time that will always be special

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some things should be kept a fantasy and some should be acted upon.

Whats the worst that could happen?

Never live life wondering what if .

There should be a "kiss, slap, have them arrested" thread on the back of this.

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no idea what you mean

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

There is one or two women but pretty sure I'm not what their after and a couple but I know I'm not what they are looking for still nice to chat to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some things should be kept a fantasy and some should be acted upon.

Whats the worst that could happen?

Never live life wondering what if .

There should be a "kiss, slap, have them arrested" thread on the back of this.

no idea what you mean

"What's the worst that could happen?" You could get a kiss, a slap, or get arrested!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some things should be kept a fantasy and some should be acted upon.

Whats the worst that could happen?

Never live life wondering what if .

There should be a "kiss, slap, have them arrested" thread on the back of this.

no idea what you mean

"What's the worst that could happen?" You could get a kiss, a slap, or get arrested!"
lol true

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I did admit my crush on a non fab guy recently, fancied him for a year. He's moving away soon so it was pretty much now or never, and I couldn't live with what if, so I arranged drinks and spent a few days flirting with him on WhatsApp. Although he didn't seem to get the hint until I sent him a suggestive pic, then it was all systems go!

It was just a moment and nothing will come of it, but I had the best date ever and had an amazing time that will always be special

I love stories like that, a wee bit of 'Carpe Diem' instead of having 'what if' regrets for having not taking that leap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ...

Shes attractive ..

Shes on my friends list...

Shes part of a couple..

And she probably doesnt know that i feel well out of her league .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always so nervous about telling anyone how I feel in anyway, and yes I'm absolutely petrified of rejection, my heart is now a closed book I fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lad has his secrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, there is a guy on here I lust after! In the central belt of Scotland and fantastic pics and body. Have never messaged him of course but he ticks all my boxes.

However I accept he is way out of my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye like a right wee honey off here that I'd love to meet up wae but she's not meeting, sound to chat to all the same.

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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago

West Lothian

Nothing exciting happens when your in your comfort zone ... its good every now and again to take a step outside that safe zone and push some boundaries... I have in the past and will continue to do so. Each time is character building #takeachance #beyourself #youonlyliveonce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing exciting happens when your in your comfort zone ... its good every now and again to take a step outside that safe zone and push some boundaries... I have in the past and will continue to do so. Each time is character building #takeachance #beyourself #youonlyliveonce "

I like my comfort zone.tried lenor just doesn't smell right

All seriousness yep 2 on here one no secret the other afraid is untouchable due to reasons beyond my control

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By *jolMan
over a year ago

Angus

There's definitely one or two for sure, but there's never been any interest shown so far. Still a good laugh though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my comfort zone.tried lenor just doesn't smell right

All seriousness yep 2 on here one no secret the other afraid is untouchable due to reasons beyond my control

I know gas, I'm sorry I told you I want to stay single, but hey, that's life

I just sooooo couldn't resist mucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my comfort zone.tried lenor just doesn't smell right

All seriousness yep 2 on here one no secret the other afraid is untouchable due to reasons beyond my control

I know gas, I'm sorry I told you I want to stay single, but hey, that's life

I just sooooo couldn't resist mucker"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think secret crushes are for when youre about 14..have the confidence to tell someone you like them..nothing ventured and all that jazz.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Yep. There's a guy on here I speak to every day, lots and lots, and we've cammed a bit too. He's tall, beardy, great banter, really turns me on. Full on lust

Similar feelings from him, from what he says anyway. We are meeting soon for the first time, and I'm really looking forward to it. However due to both our circumstances nothing much more will happen.

Probably for the best really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some things should be kept a fantasy and some should be acted upon.

Whats the worst that could happen?

Never live life wondering what if ."

Think I need to act

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

A secret crush? Is that when you see a message from them and you have a tingling in ur thighs???

Definitely yes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There may be a few who I have a little crush on and would absolutely love to meet

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some things should be kept a fantasy and some should be acted upon.

Whats the worst that could happen?

Never live life wondering what if .

Think I need to act

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He knows who he is

Lust....defo lust...

Haha I wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of those people who are sensitive about knockbacks hence the reason I never message anyone on fab first. And I know the guy in question won't message me so this will always remain a lovely fantasy! I have met many other guys on fab so not something I am really concerned with anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know he won't message? Maybe he thinks you will reject him?

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

How do you know he won't message? Maybe he thinks you will reject him? "

You are probably right. Most guys would think they stand no chance with the ladies of Fab.

Bite the bullet Tracey, send him a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know he won't message? Maybe he thinks you will reject him?

You are probably right. Most guys would think they stand no chance with the ladies of Fab.

Bite the bullet Tracey, send him a wink

I think, on reflection, I may take your advice but it will only be a wink. Don't hold out much hope though. All his Verifications have been stunning ladies!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

How do you know he won't message? Maybe he thinks you will reject him?

You are probably right. Most guys would think they stand no chance with the ladies of Fab.

Bite the bullet Tracey, send him a wink

I think, on reflection, I may take your advice but it will only be a wink. Don't hold out much hope though. All his Verifications have been stunning ladies!"

Go on, just ask me, I'll be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youre sensative to knockbacks ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People alyways think if people are buff fit pretty etc that their way out of their league im no friggin adonis but ive never been lacking in self confidence so have had my fair share of cracking looking women over the years because believe me unless their vain and self indulgent said people way out of your league may just be waiting on someone asking! So for goodness sake people pluck up some cajones and ask them all they can do is say no then at least u know-u know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's just me... I've seen the "I'm out their league" comments many times... also other comments... wistful and endearing... oh I'm not good enough etc... now that may well be genuine... but also... a fish hook... just a thought... maybe I'm just an auld cynic... maybe I just have a good bullshit radar... personally I think it's Fab... what do you have to lose... you have everything to gain... speak... you might just find something amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have any crushes, but definately a few people on here I have on a short list to have naughty fun with.

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Huge crush on bunny hop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not telling

but yea def have my eye on some lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like him pulling horsey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines has got to be felicity101. She is simply gorgeous in every way. Her stunning eyes, smile and warm heart and personality are second to none. She ticks all my boxes. I have met her in after 8 before but I am not her type so I guess I will just have to perve her hot pics and she will remain my fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a difference between someone being out of ones' league, and not being their type. In the case of my crush, I think she's gorgeous, funny, sexy, but her "interests" are different from mine.

If you start thinking people are out of your league, your just perpetuate the over inflated egos some have on here, and god knows, there are some here who thrive on that.

I'm not better than anyone else here, and I'm not worse either. I'm just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

No such thing as leagues

When I hear folk saying...oh he/she is out of my league...I switch off..poor me blah blah

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I agree

No such thing as leagues

When I hear folk saying...oh he/she is out of my league...I switch off..poor me blah blah

Agree with this... don't think anyone is out of my league or that I'm better than anyone. Different strokes n all that.

One or two crushes but just never happened for no particular reason

K x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I agree about people thinking others are out of their league or ones who say ive saw whos verified them and they are gorgeous so know they are out of my league.

I dont think Im better than anyone on here but then again I dint think anyones out of my league either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't call it stalking Ruby.... I enjoy it

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Too many to list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree

No such thing as leagues

When I hear folk saying...oh he/she is out of my league...I switch off..poor me blah blah

Now.now. I presume you are referring to me..Let's not get personal please. We are all on here for fun to give our opinion at the end of the day! I'm staying my view and it certainly isn't me suffering from "poor me" syndrome! I have never been so arrogant as to think I could pull any guy on fab. Never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree

No such thing as leagues

When I hear folk saying...oh he/she is out of my league...I switch off..poor me blah blah

Iv saw the poor me act on way to many post in all forums in all topics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree

No such thing as leagues

When I hear folk saying...oh he/she is out of my league...I switch off..poor me blah blah

Iv saw the poor me act on way to many post in all forums in all topics

Thank you. I am not myself a fan of drama queens or playing the victim either tbh

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By *haostimeMan
over a year ago

north Glasgow

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

There's 2 ladies on here I'd love to 'meet'

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

How do you know he won't message? Maybe he thinks you will reject him?

You are probably right. Most guys would think they stand no chance with the ladies of Fab.

Bite the bullet Tracey, send him a wink

I think, on reflection, I may take your advice but it will only be a wink. Don't hold out much hope though. All his Verifications have been stunning ladies!"

Well? Did you get a wink back?

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

"I agree

No such thing as leagues

When I hear folk saying...oh he/she is out of my league...I switch off..poor me blah blah

Agree with this... don't think anyone is out of my league or that I'm better than anyone. Different strokes n all that.

One or two crushes but just never happened for no particular reason

K x"

You know Mr is immediately asking if you're referring to him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know he won't message? Maybe he thinks you will reject him?

You are probably right. Most guys would think they stand no chance with the ladies of Fab.

Bite the bullet Tracey, send him a wink

I think, on reflection, I may take your advice but it will only be a wink. Don't hold out much hope though. All his Verifications have been stunning ladies!

Well? Did you get a wink back?

Haven't done it so far but I have looked at his profile several times. He hasn't winked at me however.

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Do I have a crush?

Yes.

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By *odkaredbull23Man
over a year ago

some where central

God yes... there are some sensational women on fab....ive tried to message a few...but no reply...

God loves a trier tho eh

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Yeah, there are definitely some crushworthy guys and ladies on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh for sure more than one lady if I'm honest with myself, but I know they are WAY out of my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the phrase has come up quite a lot on this thread, I'd like to say that any ladies who want to bite my bullet are most welcome, as long as no teeth marks are left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They MIGHT cum without... they MIGHT cum within.. but they NEVER cum for the MIGHTY QUIM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh for sure more than one lady if I'm honest with myself, but I know they are WAY out of my league

West rubbish, no one is out of any ones league. Go For it !!!! Christine xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh for sure more than one lady if I'm honest with myself, but I know they are WAY out of my league

West rubbish, no one is out of any ones league. Go For it !!!! Christine xxx "

Are you talking about life in general or on fab?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

In a word Yes

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By *andy_Fraser OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sorry for not replying to those that asked me questions or commented on my other post.

I'm happy not to tell the person I have a secret fancy for them. It's not going to change anything whether I tell them or not, as I know they're fairly relaxed.

In terms of "Out my league" as others have said it's often not a case of that really with people, and is said instead of shyness.

I myself are shy, but have told women in the past that I know I have no chance with, that I've fancied them. I feel it's better to get it out than to bottle it up.

However with this latest one, the idea of a secret crush is actually pretty appealing, and knowing I have it feels better than telling the person.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a word Yes

In life there will always be people out of our league. There are many celebrities (I hate that word) I lust after but would not stand a hope in hell of going to bed with. But the same on fab...Some gorgeous guys who are simply not interested in a middle aged lady. And I'm cool with that. There are many many more guys on fab who are not out of my league however.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"In a word Yes

Go on a winkathon

Nothing ventured, nothing gained

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"In a word Yes

Go on a winkathon

Nothing ventured, nothing gained

Do people actually look at their winks?

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Do people actually look at their winks?"

I live in hope!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I don't think I ever have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some gorgeous guys who are simply not interested in a middle aged lady. "

There are also many gorgeous ladies, of all ages, who are simply not interested in a middle aged guy.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"In a word Yes

Go on a winkathon

Nothing ventured, nothing gained

Do people actually look at their winks?"

I do

if i get 1

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"In a word Yes

Go on a winkathon

Nothing ventured, nothing gained

Do people actually look at their winks?"

Yep, and sometimes I wink back

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

"In a word Yes

Go on a winkathon

Nothing ventured, nothing gained

Do people actually look at their winks?"

Me! And I usually respond!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am too upfront that I don't have secret crushes. They know who they are and know what I want from them hehe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am too upfront that I don't have secret crushes. They know who they are and know what I want from them hehe xx"

Damn... I can't be on your list then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree

No such thing as leagues

When I hear folk saying...oh he/she is out of my league...I switch off..poor me blah blah

Iv saw the poor me act on way to many post in all forums in all topics

We all have our own opinions and they should never be discouraged but if someone genuinely thinks someone else is way out of their league then that's they way they feel and I'm sure if the person out of their league takes an interest in them then I'm sure that would make the persons day, prob week.

Some people maybe the 'poor me act', some may be genuine, I don't know, the ones who think I'm out of their league never contact me, so I don't know

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

All this encouragement flying around and no one has me as their secret.. I'd be hurt if I wasn't so unsurprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All this encouragement flying around and no one has me as their secret.. I'd be hurt if I wasn't so unsurprised

pmsl, live with it! n let me tell you how to deal with it, I have too lolllllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All this encouragement flying around and no one has me as their secret.. I'd be hurt if I wasn't so unsurprised

Just peeked at your profile. You can be my secret crush.

Damn. Now you can't! Shold have kept quiet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple of ladies i secretly lust after but they are both way out of my league

Plus I am way too shy

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

There was someone I thought was way out my league,stick with it,message them,you never know it might just happen,it did with me,

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

I'm a fan of being up front. But if you haven't heard from us don't assume we are not interested. It's just a case of you saying hello.

If you have a crush, wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a fan of being up front. But if you haven't heard from us don't assume we are not interested. It's just a case of you saying hello.

If you have a crush, wink"

This

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I'm always so nervous about telling anyone how I feel in anyway, and yes I'm absolutely petrified of rejection, my heart is now a closed book I fear "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody else read through this hoping they got mentioned

There was a fireman from Ayrshire area who is really Nice but can't find him anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a fan of being up front. But if you haven't heard from us don't assume we are not interested. It's just a case of you saying hello.

If you have a crush, wink"

I've had a crush ever since the Edinburgh social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only had one he was french name was michael, but he went back to france, he was first guy i met on here so cute xxx penny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh for sure more than one lady if I'm honest with myself, but I know they are WAY out of my league

West rubbish, no one is out of any ones league. Go For it !!!! Christine xxx

Are you talking about life in general or on fab? "

Christine oh trust me, I know when someone is out of my league and these ladys are in another galaxy if you follow me

And Tracey, if I'm being honest, both. The term only a person his mother could like (cause she has to) was tailor made for me lol

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Oh for sure more than one lady if I'm honest with myself, but I know they are WAY out of my league

West rubbish, no one is out of any ones league. Go For it !!!! Christine xxx

Are you talking about life in general or on fab?

Christine oh trust me, I know when someone is out of my league and these ladys are in another galaxy if you follow me

And Tracey, if I'm being honest, both. The term only a person his mother could like (cause she has to) was tailor made for me lol"

Oh dear, chin up luv

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