FabSwingers.com forum: Am I wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So got a message of couple heading to the fringe in a couple of weeks.

They asked for a face pick more or less straight away.

I said we only send them when we have spoken for a while and are comfortable.

As it says in the profile.

So now I'm calling them fake apparently.

And accused us of being said fake profil.

So at what stage do you send a face pic?

Might add they didn't send one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you're ready and not a second before. If they don't like that, let them trot on by. it's your profile, your rules and do things when you're comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you're ready and not a second before. If they don't like that, let them trot on by. it's your profile, your rules and do things when you're comfortable."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you're ready and not a second before. If they don't like that, let them trot on by. it's your profile, your rules and do things when you're comfortable."

My thoughts exactly. They seem to think that because the had more varies than a most and I only have 2 in a year that were fake.

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By *att231Man
over a year ago

dundee

Send face pic when am happy, if I get a demanding ask for face pic when they have none I won't reply back and usually the block button is handy for this lol

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Only when you want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ever you like thats the joys of veries proves your genuine anyways x

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Im the same.... i'll send it when i feel like it and not before.

I know my profile states I wont meet without one, but i dont demand it right away... i just make it clear at some point in the dialogue I expect one or a meet will never happen

Ive had a couple message demanding to see my genitals seemingly so they "could decide if it was going in her".... i pointed out they messaged Me and i at no point indicated i wanted to meet and they hadnt even had the courtesy to send face pics before demanding to see my naughty bits, meant that their "request" could be filed under fuck off....

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

The only time to send face pics is when you are comfortable to do so

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We tend to do it fairly early. Would hate to have a long chat with someone and get on like a house on fire and then find out down the line that there's no attraction when pics are swapped.

Would never accuse anyone of being fake though if they didn't send them right away. I'd assume people who have fake profiles also have fake pics they send out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally ask for a face pic after I feel comfortable with them but it's those that sends a friend request without chatting just gets deleted and possibly blocked

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

We don't demand face pics just to chat. After a while chatting we might ask to see who we are talking to but in the message asking we always include our face pics. I think that's only fair. If you are asking for a face pic yours should be included in the message asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you're ready and not a second before. If they don't like that, let them trot on by. it's your profile, your rules and do things when you're comfortable."

Yip, so true only when your ready.

I usually send a face pic anyways as I have nothing to hide. \but know others wait until they are ready or unless they are fake.

BUT after initial chatting and you all feel more comfortable you should get a pic as Nowadays, its easy to send a pic and anyone can send a pic right there and now form a phone so if you got a pic form someone and wasn't sure you could ask for a pic taken right now. I know I have done it to a few to prove I'm real but that w sonly after chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send a face pic straight away, always wait till I either feel comfortable or if I thought it was going to progress on to a meet.

It no where on my profile mentions I want a facepic at first message it's about when you feel comfortable I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt send out any face pic until ive earned your trust.

Some may think your fake due to your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldnt send out any face pic until ive earned your trust.

Some may think your fake due to your profile.

Why's that bud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldnt send out any face pic until ive earned your trust.

Some may think your fake due to your profile.

Why's that bud."

Some may think your a single guy on a couples profile ....

On the basis of people who dont read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldnt send out any face pic until ive earned your trust.

Some may think your fake due to your profile.

Why's that bud.

Some may think your a single guy on a couples profile ....

On the basis of people who dont read profiles.

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