FabSwingers.com forum: To stay or go?

By *att231 OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

Should I leave the site? Or stay? Gets a bit soul destroying messaging peeps and get zero reply

or should I persist un till I get that horny meet?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

The second you feel the need for a feel sorry for me gies a shag post you should go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how you feel mate don't know if is the way I doing the message but get no were for me either

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By *att231 OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

"I know how you feel mate don't know if is the way I doing the message but get no were for me either "

I know women in this get like700 messages a day But u would think u would get a reply at some stage lol esp if being nice n no a arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So simple, go to a social,

people will get to know you and if they like then they will want to meet you.

I don't have any problem with messages or having meets and id say im just an average guy, older but average all the same

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By *att231 OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

Yeah sounds like a plan

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I know how you feel mate don't know if is the way I doing the message but get no were for me either

I know women in this get like700 messages a day But u would think u would get a reply at some stage lol esp if being nice n no a arse"

I don't get 700 messages! What am I doing wrong?

Yeah agreed, time for you to go!

You have been on here over a year and the warning on your profile is longer than your profile text! If you feel the need to rant on the forum, it's getting to you so yeah time for something new.

Good luck OP. !Adios!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about perspective and expectations. I thought I was doing something wrong until the nice folks on this forum set me straight.

If you cant handle the fact people don't like your profile or you are not their type or you cant take rejection then I'm afraid this site isn't for you.

You have to have the right mentality and a certain level of maturity to enjoy this site.....hope this helps

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

"Should I leave the site? Or stay? Gets a bit soul destroying messaging peeps and get zero reply

or should I persist un till I get that horny meet?

Socials for you mate. Not gonna sugar coat it for ya. Your profile does not sell you at all. Lots of extremely hot guys on Fab as She Devil will testify lol, i know i aint one of them but still i do ok ish due to meeting in person in clubs. Your probably a nice guy but on Fab you have lots of hotter competition. unfortunately.

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By *att231 OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

Yeah I know am not a hung 10inch buff bod male model lol and women have the pic o fit lads on here. Just after suggestion for a nice guy ie me to get a break lol cheers for the social suggestion

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Yeah I know am not a hung 10inch buff bod male model lol and women have the pic o fit lads on here. Just after suggestion for a nice guy ie me to get a break lol cheers for the social suggestion

Aaarrrghhh stop moaning and go will ya lol

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Yeah I know am not a hung 10inch buff bod male model lol and women have the pic o fit lads on here. Just after suggestion for a nice guy ie me to get a break lol cheers for the social suggestion

you can also go and help wee Ayrshirelad7 on this thread 'Hi'

maybe do a MM profile who knows!

Or both of you could leave, reduces the odds for the rest, though I guess from what you say the risk is low

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Yeah I know am not a hung 10inch buff bod male model lol and women have the pic o fit lads on here. Just after suggestion for a nice guy ie me to get a break lol cheers for the social suggestion

you can also go and help wee Ayrshirelad7 on his thread 'Hi'

maybe do a MM profile who knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we've been here about a year and had 2 meets that weren't just social.

It's not limited to single guys, despite what you all may think.

I'm in no real rush, yes more sex would be good, but it's a whole experience and I'm happy just taking my time.

If I just wanted a quick fuck, I dare say I could get one from some random I pick up in a pub on a Saturday night.

MrsB x

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Should I leave the site? Or stay? Gets a bit soul destroying messaging peeps and get zero reply

or should I persist un till I get that horny meet?

yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have to ask its time to go.

Or did you hope for a sympathy shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have to ask its time to go.

Or did you hope for a sympathy shag lol"

This

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By *att231 OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

Defo not a sympathy shag lol just folk that can communicate and know what a conversation is wld be good start.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Defo not a sympathy shag lol just folk that can communicate and know what a conversation is wld be good start.

Sounds like your fishing for messages. Everyone on here can communicate and have a conversation however getting them to have one with yourself is the key. Like has been said many times before you are the common denominator so try changing your profile, outlook and approach to see if you can get better results.

Or just leave the site.

The choice is YOURS..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're looking for communication use the forums or chat rooms

If you're looking for meets put some effort In!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Some pics to look at would be useful. If you can't sell yourself to the best of your ability, then you won't get anywhere. It's really that simple.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Your 2 veris from other guys will be a turn off for a lot of females.

And if you don't know that, you've obviously not been following the forum very closely!!

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's the same on other sites too. I am on POF and Badoo and the lack of replies matches Fab.

Seems females hold themselves in such high regards that they feel it is beneath them to have the common courtesy to reply to a message that someone has spent time on as I never put in a one liner.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"It's the same on other sites too. I am on POF and Badoo and the lack of replies matches Fab.

Seems females hold themselves in such high regards that they feel it is beneath them to have the common courtesy to reply to a message that someone has spent time on as I never put in a one liner. "

I don't feel it's beneath me but would you honestly send 65 replies saying no thanks? what often happens with that is people then message back to say why not or thanks for reply which fills the inbox even more, fab tells you that no reply means no thank you, it's not rude at all.

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By *att231 OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

Some new pics added and text updated

for better or worse hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same on other sites too. I am on POF and Badoo and the lack of replies matches Fab.

Seems females hold themselves in such high regards that they feel it is beneath them to have the common courtesy to reply to a message that someone has spent time on as I never put in a one liner.

Or indeed the ever welcome abusive message because you had the audacity to refuse to meet.

No matter how well crafted message is if someone is outwith my age/location preferences or clearly hasn't read my profile I never reply.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"It's the same on other sites too. I am on POF and Badoo and the lack of replies matches Fab.

Seems females hold themselves in such high regards that they feel it is beneath them to have the common courtesy to reply to a message that someone has spent time on as I never put in a one liner.

Or indeed the ever welcome abusive message because you had the audacity to refuse to meet.

No matter how well crafted message is if someone is outwith my age/location preferences or clearly hasn't read my profile I never reply."

Same. Can't be bothered to read my profile? Then I can't be bothered to reply.

And more people need to read the site FAQs.

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By *att231 OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

If someone is out with ma age range or me theirs etc I wont message and never abusive in messages just nae need in that likes. 90% o fabbers are lovely tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same on other sites too. I am on POF and Badoo and the lack of replies matches Fab.

Seems females hold themselves in such high regards that they feel it is beneath them to have the common courtesy to reply to a message that someone has spent time on as I never put in a one liner.

Or indeed the ever welcome abusive message because you had the audacity to refuse to meet.

No matter how well crafted message is if someone is outwith my age/location preferences or clearly hasn't read my profile I never reply.

Same. Can't be bothered to read my profile? Then I can't be bothered to reply.

And more people need to read the site FAQs."

Well said b&b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same on other sites too. I am on POF and Badoo and the lack of replies matches Fab.

Seems females hold themselves in such high regards that they feel it is beneath them to have the common courtesy to reply to a message that someone has spent time on as I never put in a one liner. "

It's not a god given right to expect a reply no matter how well crafted the message ,I'm Shakespeare in disguise when it comes to messages and if no reply I leave well alone (Yes I have messaged twice on occasion my bad) but general rule of thumb ,,,,,,no reply no interested and to say what you said is exactly why most females don't reply

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"It's the same on other sites too. I am on POF and Badoo and the lack of replies matches Fab.

Seems females hold themselves in such high regards that they feel it is beneath them to have the common courtesy to reply to a message that someone has spent time on as I never put in a one liner.

It's not a god given right to expect a reply no matter how well crafted the message ,I'm Shoogly stick in disguise when it comes to messages and if no reply I leave well alone (Yes I have messaged twice on occasion my bad) but general rule of thumb ,,,,,,no reply no interested and to say what you said is exactly why most females don't reply

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