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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on this site for a long time and always come and go because I've not had any luck, is it seriously just how I look? Or am I starting the conversation bad, I need help or advice

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't think it is how you look but your age!

Many people are not keen in meeting people that are as old as or near in age as their own kids.

Maybe try attending socials and take it from there.

Good luck OP

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By *itness_FornicatorsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think CJ's is a good place to meet people but it would be harder as a single guy. Maybe going to a social first will help you to meet people and possibly find a girl who would go to CJ's with you or another single guy.

Some people prefer younger guys.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Can't go wrong with a nirvana tshirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not your pics but probably your age I would say. But I am pretty sure you would easily find plenty ladies without the need to go on fab! Especially if you're a student - thinking about my own son's experiences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get blind d*unk and goto a swingers club

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Maybe just update your profile text a bit and add a bit more info. You're a good looking guy, you shouldn't struggle too much

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Maybe just update your profile text a bit and add a bit more info. You're a good looking guy, you shouldn't struggle too much

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

For me it is also to do with your age rather than your looks.

Good luck.

R

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Not really a lot on your profile to pique a lady's interest.

You can try posting on the forum a wee bit, it gives folk an idea of your social skills and can help get you noticed.

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I also need help.

Has anyone seen nurse ratshit ? Or have I missed medication time again

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You can try posting on the forum a wee bit, it gives folk an idea of your social skills and..........can help get you noticed. "

And it can be... In a good way or a bad one!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"You can try posting on the forum a wee bit, it gives folk an idea of your social skills and..........can help get you noticed.

And it can be... In a good way or a bad one! "

I wondered why my in box was emptier than usual

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe just update your profile text a bit and add a bit more info. You're a good looking guy, you shouldn't struggle too much "

Updated it the best I think I can improvement?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Maybe just update your profile text a bit and add a bit more info. You're a good looking guy, you shouldn't struggle too much

Updated it the best I think I can improvement?"

Very energetic!! At 22, I should hope so

Jus' teasin'

Reads lots better OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe just update your profile text a bit and add a bit more info. You're a good looking guy, you shouldn't struggle too much

Updated it the best I think I can improvement?

Very energetic!! At 22, I should hope so

Jus' teasin'

Reads lots better OP "

Ahaha very funny! Added one more little touch think I've got it how I want it now! Thanks a lot for the advice!

Happy swinging !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't go wrong with a nirvana tshirt "

Haha agreed!

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Maybe just update your profile text a bit and add a bit more info. You're a good looking guy, you shouldn't struggle too much

Updated it the best I think I can improvement?

Very energetic!! At 22, I should hope so

Jus' teasin'

Reads lots better OP

Ahaha very funny! Added one more little touch think I've got it how I want it now! Thanks a lot for the advice!

Happy swinging !"

Aarrrggghhh Daniellll!!

Ya had to ruin it by adding the last paragraphhh! I know... it's a guy thing, got to talk size

Happy swinging to you too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe just update your profile text a bit and add a bit more info. You're a good looking guy, you shouldn't struggle too much

Updated it the best I think I can improvement?

Very energetic!! At 22, I should hope so

Jus' teasin'

Reads lots better OP

Ahaha very funny! Added one more little touch think I've got it how I want it now! Thanks a lot for the advice!

Happy swinging !

Aarrrggghhh Daniellll!!

Ya had to ruin it by adding the last paragraphhh! I know... it's a guy thing, got to talk size

Happy swinging to you too "

Whatcha talking bout? Nothing there

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Maybe just update your profile text a bit and add a bit more info. You're a good looking guy, you shouldn't struggle too much

Updated it the best I think I can improvement?

Very energetic!! At 22, I should hope so

Jus' teasin'

Reads lots better OP

Ahaha very funny! Added one more little touch think I've got it how I want it now! Thanks a lot for the advice!

Happy swinging !

Aarrrggghhh Daniellll!!

Ya had to ruin it by adding the last paragraphhh! I know... it's a guy thing, got to talk size

Happy swinging to you too

Whatcha talking bout? Nothing there "

Haha! Smooth operator!

And respect for taking the advice given on board, many just ignore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe just update your profile text a bit and add a bit more info. You're a good looking guy, you shouldn't struggle too much

Updated it the best I think I can improvement?

Very energetic!! At 22, I should hope so

Jus' teasin'

Reads lots better OP

Ahaha very funny! Added one more little touch think I've got it how I want it now! Thanks a lot for the advice!

Happy swinging !

Aarrrggghhh Daniellll!!

Ya had to ruin it by adding the last paragraphhh! I know... it's a guy thing, got to talk size

Happy swinging to you too

Whatcha talking bout? Nothing there

Haha! Smooth operator!

And respect for taking the advice given on board, many just ignore "

It was just a lapse in mental control male instincts came out

Ah of course I'm gonna listen to advice this is what this threads all about

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You've had good advice on here...

I agree your age rather than your pics may be an issue, you seem like a good guy.

Smallbugbear for me would be two spelling errors- scene and deceived

Happy Fabbing and maybe see you at a social/club

Rx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've had good advice on here...

I agree your age rather than your pics may be an issue, you seem like a good guy.

Smallbugbear for me would be two spelling errors- scene and deceived

Happy Fabbing and maybe see you at a social/club

Rx"

Yeah agreed, 100% grateful, already getting messages

This confused me "Smallbugbear for me would be two spelling errors- scene and deceived"

Yeah hopefully!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've had good advice on here...

I agree your age rather than your pics may be an issue, you seem like a good guy.

Smallbugbear for me would be two spelling errors- scene and deceived

Happy Fabbing and maybe see you at a social/club

Rx"

Ah I gotcha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed as well that you look considerably younger in the pics from 2014 - you look old enough that I'd consider meeting in the newer ones but have a proper baby face in the old ones!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've noticed as well that you look considerably younger in the pics from 2014 - you look old enough that I'd consider meeting in the newer ones but have a proper baby face in the old ones! "

Maybe delete them then? Or..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed as well that you look considerably younger in the pics from 2014 - you look old enough that I'd consider meeting in the newer ones but have a proper baby face in the old ones!

Maybe delete them then? Or..? "

Totally up to you of course, but those browsing at a glance may not realise that they are older pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've noticed as well that you look considerably younger in the pics from 2014 - you look old enough that I'd consider meeting in the newer ones but have a proper baby face in the old ones!

Maybe delete them then? Or..?

Totally up to you of course, but those browsing at a glance may not realise that they are older pics. "

I'll get rid may add a few new ones to replace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and find a partner off this site . Your a good looking guy young there has to be someone who fancies you. This is a mostly couple site. Single guys are 10 a penny and its hard to find couples or single girls who want to meet. People have remarked about your age and how you look and the age of people are a slight older on here. As previous people have said they dont want to meet someone who is younger than their kids. Good luck though .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go and find a partner off this site . Your a good looking guy young there has to be someone who fancies you. This is a mostly couple site. Single guys are 10 a penny and its hard to find couples or single girls who want to meet. People have remarked about your age and how you look and the age of people are a slight older on here. As previous people have said they dont want to meet someone who is younger than their kids. Good luck though . "

Thank you! I'm just here as another way to get experiences

Yeah I understand that! Thanks a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on this site for a long time and always come and go because I've not had any luck, is it seriously just how I look? Or am I starting the conversation bad, I need help or advice"

could be worse, ive been on here about a year and met one couple, who promptly moved down south*

*hopefully not because of me

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"Go and find a partner off this site . Your a good looking guy young there has to be someone who fancies you. This is a mostly couple site. Single guys are 10 a penny and its hard to find couples or single girls who want to meet. People have remarked about your age and how you look and the age of people are a slight older on here. As previous people have said they dont want to meet someone who is younger than their kids. Good luck though .

Thank you! I'm just here as another way to get experiences

Yeah I understand that! Thanks a lot! "

Maybe try and get a wee social meet organised too so you can get verified as well. That always helps!

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