FabSwingers.com forum: How old if too old ...lol or as the case may be

By *ustme55 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Never posted in this forum before , but here goes

Any advice and critisism welcomed ( within reason lol )

Been on FAB for about two years and beginning to think it may me my Maturity ( hate the term age lol ) is the reason I have not yet prevailed and I emphasise yet !! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say this all the time...

If someone fancies you...they will meet you regardless of your age

Good luck

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By *ustme55 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Thank you for your reply

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I agree with oldie!

And... I find on here that guys over 50... focus too much on their age and think that's the only reason they struggle here!

I will say the same as I say to any guys struggling for meets.

Put photos, work on your profile text, go to socials if you want to meet like minded people, review your approach if the current one is not working.

And I don't think that reaching a certain age makes you more experienced!

Am sure you have a better selling point than that lol

Anyway, my honest opinion here.

Good luck OP

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Some people don't meet under 25s others only meet under 25s.

Some don't meet married men/women others only meet married men/women.

Some don't meet over a size 14, others only meet over a size 14.

.... the point I'm trying to make is there is something/someone for everyone.

Enjoy fab x

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By *ustme55 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Once again , thank you for your reply and your critique ( good word that lol) wish I knew what it meant lol )

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Once again , thank you for your reply and your critique ( good word that lol) wish I knew what it meant lol )"

Was meant to be a critique constructive lol

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By *ustme55 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I know , and still thank you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people don't meet under 25s others only meet under 25s.

Some don't meet married men/women others only meet married men/women.

Some don't meet over a size 14, others only meet over a size 14.

.... the point I'm trying to make is there is something/someone for everyone.

Enjoy fab x"

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said... Fab has something for everyone regardless of preferences...

I think in regard to the subject of age then just like most things there is a mainstream which has a high volume of people in it, lets just say thats 30-50 and that's where most of the "activity" takes place.

Outside those ranges it maybe does get less due to others preferences for instance a lot of folk are uncomfortable with wide age differences. For example a lot of people dislike meeting someone in their children's age range.

However it most certainly does not mean you won't meet.

I hope that makes some kind of sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hay mate. I am 64 this year. And as said by previous ladies. Put yourself out there. Go to socials. Get in the forums and chat to people. I dont get inundated with offers. But i do meet a few and have fun at socials and partys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with oldie!

And... I find on here that guys over 50... focus too much on their age and think that's the only reason they struggle here!

I will say the same as I say to any guys struggling for meets.

Put photos, work on your profile text, go to socials if you want to meet like minded people, review your approach if the current one is not working.

And I don't think that reaching a certain age makes you more experienced!

Am sure you have a better selling point than that lol

Anyway, my honest opinion here.

Good luck OP

"
words of a wise woman

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I am certainly knocking on a bit too op. There is someone for everyone tho

Wish u luck x

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I am certainly knocking on a bit too op. There is someone for everyone tho

Wish u luck x"

46 isn't "knocking on a bit", lol. A mere youngster

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By *edzyWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It may be the fact you cannot accommodate op - I would assume you are married lol

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

your only looking for couples, that narrows the field

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK, haven't hit the magic 60 yet but trust me there's fun to be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK, haven't hit the magic 60 yet but trust me there's fun to be had

I'll be enjoying my bus pass, that'll be my fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK, haven't hit the magic 60 yet but trust me there's fun to be had

I'll be enjoying my bus pass, that'll be my fun!

Freebird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're getting on a bit but still getting meets every now and then.

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By *ustme55 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

The forum mentioned that I cannot accommodate so therefore I must be married

Been there twice before and not going back there there again !!!!! ..lol

The reason I can't accommodate is because I live with my disabled Sister and help look after her

Happy Fabbing

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"The forum mentioned that I cannot accommodate so therefore I must be married

Been there twice before and not going back there there again !!!!! ..lol

The reason I can't accommodate is because I live with my disabled Sister and help look after her

Happy Fabbing "

You don't need to justify yourself to anyone ignore remarks like that never understood it myself. We don't accommodate what category would someone like to put us into??

Enjoy x

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

"The forum mentioned that I cannot accommodate so therefore I must be married

Been there twice before and not going back there there again !!!!! ..lol

The reason I can't accommodate is because I live with my disabled Sister and help look after her

Happy Fabbing "

This usually applies to males

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"The forum mentioned that I cannot accommodate so therefore I must be married

Been there twice before and not going back there there again !!!!! ..lol

The reason I can't accommodate is because I live with my disabled Sister and help look after her

Happy Fabbing

This usually applies to males"

I have to agree... because when it is a female it is assumed in the first instance that she has kids and the second, that she doesn't want the risk to invite a wolf in the hens barn!

OP, you don't need to justify yourself.

Personally, people can assume what they want from reading my profile and post! I won't lose sleep over it lol

Enjoy OP

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Never posted in this forum before , but here goes

Any advice and critisism welcomed ( within reason lol )

Been on FAB for about two years and beginning to think it may me my Maturity ( hate the term age lol ) is the reason I have not yet prevailed and I emphasise yet !! lol

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Op there are many older guys on this site do okay from meets .

Not sure how you approach people but maybe give that a wee think and if its not working for you then change it.

Also sometimes meets dont happen because both sides are scared for one reason or another to ask each other if they would like to meet.

Your an attractive older man so keep trying

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By *ustme55 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I would like to say thank you to all your comments , and once again Happy Fabbing everyone .....I wish you all luck in your " endeviours "..lol

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