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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you get yours?

Having a major dip in confidence, feeling very unattractive and I'm not sure how to get it back.

I've treated myself to some nice new lingerie/clothes/heel and still feel like a fat frump.

So what are your tips for boosting your confidence? How do you make yourself feel better?

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By *irtydave34Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Well you sent me a picture on Friday and I think you look stunning and beautiful every one has different taste in what they look for in a woman and I think you tick a lot of boxes Miss xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mon round and see me hunni il boost your confidence xx

I think us girls all go through wee stages hunni I've been there to just remember your gorgeous don't get to down get your self a wee massage and have some me time that's what I do xx hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the glad rags on ...make up..good undies and have a girls night out

Laughter is the best medicine

Friends are everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you get yours?

Having a major dip in confidence, feeling very unattractive and I'm not sure how to get it back.

I've treated myself to some nice new lingerie/clothes/heel and still feel like a fat frump.

So what are your tips for boosting your confidence? How do you make yourself feel better?"

I personally think you look rather attractive....Ive also chatted to ya and it confirms it too.

Im very thankful to have someone like you on my friends list.

Being around positive people will help increase your confidence.

Negative people will run it down.

I love your Fat Frump curves x

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Feeling the same tbh

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm not sure others can help except to try and make you smile again.

When you find your smile, quite often the confidence comes back too.

But for what it's worth ladies, I've spoken to a lot of you enough to know you will find your smiles again.....just be patient and let someone help you look for it

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Get the glad rags on ...make up..good undies and have a girls night out

Laughter is the best medicine

Friends are everything "

Exactly this we have all been there x

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By *lba2022Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Busty you you look fab.

You are a stunning sensual lady.

If you ever need company I would only be too glad to help.

Respectfully yours

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I sometimes feel like that... so I kick myself in the butt and go for a run!

But also, as I've grown older I have learnt to accept that my mojo is allowed to go for a wee wander.

I let it be and it always comes back.

Fighting it can make it worse sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get pissed, always look better after a few ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you ladies who need a confidence boost. Up your age limit to include me and i will treat you like a proper ladie. Give you loads of compliments and wine and dine you. .

Well its worth a try.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"All you ladies who need a confidence boost. Up your age limit to include me and i will treat you like a proper ladie. Give you loads of compliments and wine and dine you. .

Well its worth a try.

"

Any excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All you ladies who need a confidence boost. Up your age limit to include me and i will treat you like a proper ladie. Give you loads of compliments and wine and dine you. .

Well its worth a try.

Any excuse "

Hey furry. You got to give me a bit of credit for trying mate. Lol. Am parked in a shitty layby near Harrogate. And am bored silly. Early bed me thinks.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"All you ladies who need a confidence boost. Up your age limit to include me and i will treat you like a proper ladie. Give you loads of compliments and wine and dine you. .

Well its worth a try.

Any excuse

Hey furry. You got to give me a bit of credit for trying mate. Lol. Am parked in a shitty layby near Harrogate. And am bored silly. Early bed me thinks. "

Oh come on ladies - boost Zacs....errr...'confidence'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All you ladies who need a confidence boost. Up your age limit to include me and i will treat you like a proper ladie. Give you loads of compliments and wine and dine you. .

Well its worth a try.

Any excuse

Hey furry. You got to give me a bit of credit for trying mate. Lol. Am parked in a shitty layby near Harrogate. And am bored silly. Early bed me thinks.

Oh come on ladies - boost Zacs....errr...'confidence' "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. I didn't start the post to get compliments but I do appreciate kind words from such delicious people...now why are you all so far away!!

I love the suggestion of getting dolled up and going out, haven't done that for ages and it reminded me it did always make me feel great! Put on my party shoes and dance like no ones watching sounds like a plan!

What a lovely bunch you all are!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting dressed up in your best dress put on a pair of killer heels and when you walk down the street just have a look back at the person that just passed you I'm sure they will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just go for about a 3 to 5 mile run and always feel way better and ready fro the next day

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Go on a date?

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By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Hit an all time low when my ex left me and lost all confidence but some good pals slowly brought me back and some great socials on here

Grump

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go on a date?"

Haha chance would be a fine thing!

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By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Go on a date?

Haha chance would be a fine thing!"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop selling yourself short girl...the power of positivity !! Your a gorgeous girl...just get out there and flaunt it....

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Mine has been going up and down recently.

Having a bit of a lull at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you get yours?

Having a major dip in confidence, feeling very unattractive and I'm not sure how to get it back.

I've treated myself to some nice new lingerie/clothes/heel and still feel like a fat frump.

So what are your tips for boosting your confidence? How do you make yourself feel better?"

Genrrally go to the gum and work out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look sexy enough to distract the local men from their "sheep worrying".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sing myself this song#oh Lord it's hard to be humble ,when your perfect in every way,I can't wait to look in the mirror caused get better looking each dey# bonus point if you can name yet tune in 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sing myself this song#oh Lord it's hard to be humble ,when your perfect in every way,I can't wait to look in the mirror caused get better looking each dey# bonus point if you can name yet tune in 1 "

Lol my Dad used to sing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sing myself this song#oh Lord it's hard to be humble ,when your perfect in every way,I can't wait to look in the mirror caused get better looking each dey# bonus point if you can name yet tune in 1

Lol my Dad used to sing that "

Now I feel old

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By *istress Pillow PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

awwww going out for a walk or run or generally doing anything active always boosts my levels of feel good endorphines and makes me feel more upbeat and confident x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you get yours?

Having a major dip in confidence, feeling very unattractive and I'm not sure how to get it back.

I've treated myself to some nice new lingerie/clothes/heel and still feel like a fat frump.

So what are your tips for boosting your confidence? How do you make yourself feel better?

Genrrally go to the gum and work out"

That should be the gym

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go on a date?

Haha chance would be a fine thing!

Why?"

I haven't had a proper date in 14 years

To be fair I'm not putting myself out there for dating but I haven't been asked yet

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By *HornyScotsUKCouple
over a year ago

dundee

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By *HornyScotsUKCouple
over a year ago

dundee

I felt like that too last year, always felt sexy till I looked in the mirror x Turned 40 n decided to change my life x Started walking and doing different exercise classes, now I can run a 5k and changed my eating to a healthy shake and nutrition n a year on I have lost weight and feel healthier than I did in my 20's x Now feeling confident and determined to stay fit and happy with myself xx

Only takes 30 days to change a habit but u have choose 1 thing to change then do that daily till u have mentally added it to ur routine x Hope this helps xx ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busty, ur stunning and a lovely personality to go along with it. U been putting others before urself lately(social organising) so bout time you thought of yourself. As others said, some you yime required! If u wanted a date im positive ud have no problems getting offers, heres the first if not had already?

Chin up and you soon b back to yourself xx

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By *odkaredbull23Man
over a year ago

some where central


"I felt like that too last year, always felt sexy till I looked in the mirror x Turned 40 n decided to change my life x Started walking and doing different exercise classes, now I can run a 5k and changed my eating to a healthy shake and nutrition n a year on I have lost weight and feel healthier than I did in my 20's x Now feeling confident and determined to stay fit and happy with myself xx

Only takes 30 days to change a habit but u have choose 1 thing to change then do that daily till u have mentally added it to ur routine x Hope this helps xx ?? "

Congratulations and well done....

I have managed to lose just under 2 and a half stone in the last 3 months. It took a big change in diet along with 3 gum sessions a week... went from a 36 inch waist to a 32.... made me feel great... then I went and bought some new clothes all slim fit haha and Calvin Klein underwear and although no one could see the underwear it made me feel alot better about myself... now that I've lost the weight I have just started gum sessions based on toning up... I will have a six pack haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been feeling the same tbh not just a woman thing. Recently just tried to shake myself start the gym talk to new ppl and be more positive. Oh and u have lovely pics no need to feel down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view is if anyone puts you down or gives u a negative comment it's their fault not yours and they are just fuckwits

I don't have a chiselled body I don't look like Tom Hardy I don't have a 9 inch cock I look like Roy Chubby Browns secret love child but you know what / I love my body cause it's very cuddly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know what you mean

Fed up dragging myself out of the hole just now

Lost weight and getting fitter and still have nothing confidence. Us ladies are our own worst enemies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok personally looks size etc mean nothing, over the years I've met girls through friends, on first glance not found them attractive at all, but after a few weeks of getting to know them and finding out they were a beautiful person, started thinking wow you're quite hot, and on the same vane, first glance thought fuck you'd get it, then thought nah you're a shallow nasty selfish piece of work and found them quite ugly. Moral of the story, be happy in your own skin and fuck what anyone else thinks.

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

I'm feeling the same at the moment it sucks, but news clothes and I just look frumpy, stick makeup on And it doesn't help, x

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

To be honest, I can't think of anything right now that boosts my confidence, but when younger and single I had a HUGE one courtesy of a girl I fancied when I was younger.

I always had a crush on her, but was too quiet and shy to say anything.

Fast forward 10 years and we were working at the same place. I was fixing her PC and she remembered who I was, and when she though she was out of earshot, I heard her telling a colleague that she had fancied me at school.

Was a HUGE Woo-Hoo and confidence boost for me.

Mandy

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Lasagna and antidepressants for me

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