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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey just looking to see if it's going to be as busy as last weekend and if any the same couples will be going? Me and my friends looking to come back again this week as she had an amazing time well we both did haha.

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By *itness_FornicatorsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are a maybe so far, it depends on mother nature. How many people were there approximately last week? We didn't go as we thought it would be quiet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It wasn't too busy but lots of fun had, hopefully with being end of month more people will be there. Hopefully see you there x

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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We're still trying to decide what we're up to.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Possibly not decided yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hope to see more than last week or even the same couples again had an amazing time

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By *aggie44Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

See you's there.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're thinking about going along this Saturday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x"

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes sense to me?

Why should a guy pay more when he can go with a chick and pay less?

No brainer if you ask me

Plus they know each other obviously so it's not just arranged at the door..although.. wouldn't be anything wrong with that either

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Makes sense to me?

Why should a guy pay more when he can go with a chick and pay less?

No brainer if you ask me

Plus they know each other obviously so it's not just arranged at the door..although.. wouldn't be anything wrong with that either "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly we know each other and rules are there to be broken haha joking, I'm paying like every 1 else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying"

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Not me, probably won't be back until the end of July

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Excuse the deleted post, not worth the ban.

Jim

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying "

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying"

I dont get why someone would stop going because of how others get into a club...why penalise yourself for what others do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying

I dont get why someone would stop going because of how others get into a club...why penalise yourself for what others do? "
exactly !!!

Too many cpls slate single guys for just about anything these days

Jeeze oh...live n let live if it's not effecting you why be so bothered?

He's paid into a club just as you have...for the same reasons you have ...so why pay more?

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying

I dont get why someone would stop going because of how others get into a club...why penalise yourself for what others do? exactly !!!

Too many cpls slate single guys for just about anything these days

Jeeze oh...live n let live if it's not effecting you why be so bothered?

He's paid into a club just as you have...for the same reasons you have ...so why pay more?"

Aye and us scots are skin flints anything to save a penny ...

I am with ya on this live and let live

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying

I dont get why someone would stop going because of how others get into a club...why penalise yourself for what others do? "

Maybe because they prefer "couples" night. We go a lot and personally find the couples nights to be a lot more relaxed.

Single guys with fuck buds/ random, have a habit of wandering upstairs alone, harassing women and even entering couples room alone.

There are designated nights for a reason, same as there are filters and preferences on here. Some people are not interested, and their choices should be respected.

Circumventing the rules of entry because it's an easy/ cheap way in shouldn't be allowed. We attend nights when it's fun for all and couples nights.

Point is, it is a couples night and singles female night. If you want to break the rules, at least be discreet ffs.

Hopefully the staff/ owners pick up on this.

Jim

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying

I dont get why someone would stop going because of how others get into a club...why penalise yourself for what others do? exactly !!!

Too many cpls slate single guys for just about anything these days

Jeeze oh...live n let live if it's not effecting you why be so bothered?

He's paid into a club just as you have...for the same reasons you have ...so why pay more?"

Couples & single F nights are for couples looking to meet couples and single Fs. So in no way is this like minded people.

Jim

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We're not going this weekend, waiting for the Schools out weekend

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Having never been to CJs have no idea how it's run, do you not need a membership i.e. Couples membership etc or is it a case of you just pay entry fee for the night if you attend as a single or a couple? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I looked

1 fem + 1 guy = a cpl

Sorry but some cld say unless a cpl are married...they ain't a "real" cpl either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having never been to CJs have no idea how it's run, do you not need a membership i.e. Couples membership etc or is it a case of you just pay entry fee for the night if you attend as a single or a couple? X"

Cpl x amount

Single chick y amount

Single guy x and y amount

Lol

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Last time I looked

1 fem + 1 guy = a cpl

Sorry but some cld say unless a cpl are married...they ain't a "real" cpl either?"

When you openly state it's a fuck bud/ someone you have just met, it's not a couple.

Plenty of people are anti marriage btw, doesn't make them less committed to each other.

Jim

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

End of the day anyone misbehaving or causing offence CJ can remove ....as for verifying relationships that will be very difficult to uphold....but if people won't go to a club because of it says more about them than the fact someone going isn't a genuine couple.....I really think people need to stop being so hung up on others ....has definatkey got worse over the last few years people are a lot less tolerant .

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying

I dont get why someone would stop going because of how others get into a club...why penalise yourself for what others do?

Maybe because they prefer "couples" night. We go a lot and personally find the couples nights to be a lot more relaxed.

Single guys with fuck buds/ random, have a habit of wandering upstairs alone, harassing women and even entering couples room alone.

There are designated nights for a reason, same as there are filters and preferences on here. Some people are not interested, and their choices should be respected.

Circumventing the rules of entry because it's an easy/ cheap way in shouldn't be allowed. We attend nights when it's fun for all and couples nights.

Point is, it is a couples night and singles female night. If you want to break the rules, at least be discreet ffs.

Hopefully the staff/ owners pick up on this.

Jim "

Sounds like you have a really deep seated issue with anyone other than your definition of 'true' couples attending.

Your assertion that these guys tend to wander upstairs alone is pretty judgmental. I've been to couples nights at CJs with a female a couple of times, as a date, and never left her side the whole night. Had a wonderful time, and never came across anyone with your views thankfully. Basic etiquette on a night like that would be if you attend as a couple you behave like one.

If you and your friends feel that strongly about this form of circumvention that you've considered not going back, then put your money where your mouth is. All the more spaces for non judgemental fun loving types, real couples and dating singletons alike.

Just saying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither do fb either tho?

I'm sure there are plenty fb that regularly attend cjs and pay a cpl price?

Sorry but I just don't see why 2 people that are not in a relationship attending a sex club would bother you? If they or him bother in any of the rooms all you have to say is no thanks?

Many and I mean many who attend couldn't give a toss..more the merrier

What happens if part of a cpl was a TV...would that not be allowed as it's not a dedicated TV NIGHT??

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Oldie and Lifes journey are spot on, this increasing level of intolerance of others should have no place here.

Now..... IF I was as intolerant as Jim, I'd be having a rant about how weird it is to stick a chopstick up your japs eye and that anyone who does that shouldn't be allowed into CJs unless it's a specific 'Sticking chopsticks up your japs eye' lovers night

But I'm not... so crack on with the chopsticks there Jimbo

Just saying

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying

I dont get why someone would stop going because of how others get into a club...why penalise yourself for what others do?

Maybe because they prefer "couples" night. We go a lot and personally find the couples nights to be a lot more relaxed.

Single guys with fuck buds/ random, have a habit of wandering upstairs alone, harassing women and even entering couples room alone.

There are designated nights for a reason, same as there are filters and preferences on here. Some people are not interested, and their choices should be respected.

Circumventing the rules of entry because it's an easy/ cheap way in shouldn't be allowed. We attend nights when it's fun for all and couples nights.

Point is, it is a couples night and singles female night. If you want to break the rules, at least be discreet ffs.

Hopefully the staff/ owners pick up on this.

Jim

Sounds like you have a really deep seated issue with anyone other than your definition of 'true' couples attending.

Your assertion that these guys tend to wander upstairs alone is pretty judgmental. I've been to couples nights at CJs with a female a couple of times, as a date, and never left her side the whole night. Had a wonderful time, and never came across anyone with your views thankfully. Basic etiquette on a night like that would be if you attend as a couple you behave like one.

If you and your friends feel that strongly about this form of circumvention that you've considered not going back, then put your money where your mouth is. All the more spaces for non judgemental fun loving types, real couples and dating singletons alike.

Just saying..."

Just saying.... Comments finished with that addendum are from the Mrs, mine are signed with my name.

I have raised my concerns with the owner as have others. As stated before, WE attend fun for all nights too, have no probs with single males. Not interested in meeting them, no problem chatting socially when WE choose to.

Plenty of people will agree that your behaviour, while accompanying a woman "on a date" is not the standard all uphold on these nights.

Have fun, and feel free to say hi if you bump into us there.

Jim

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

My fb and I have been on the site for 5 years and we're best friends. We attend clubs as a couple and we play as a couple and separately. We have no issue with playing with other people in the same situation.

I have noticed that some guys do split off from their partner on couples nights and hover around upstairs alone, especially outside the couples and fems room, so there is an issue there. But I think that between the staff and the other attendees being on the ball, it's policed as much as it can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But is it ok if the fem breaks off and has a wander upstairs?

I smell a bit of double standards there

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Supose some will wander off as some couples play separately, some have open relationships, some may have singular voyerisyic tendencies....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever happens to keys in a bowl

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Oldie and Lifes journey are spot on, this increasing level of intolerance of others should have no place here.

Now..... IF I was as intolerant as Jim, I'd be having a rant about how weird it is to stick a chopstick up your japs eye and that anyone who does that shouldn't be allowed into CJs unless it's a specific 'Sticking chopsticks up your japs eye' lovers night

But I'm not... so crack on with the chopsticks there Jimbo

Just saying "

Neither of us are intolerant or small minded enough to mock people's preferences.

The rules are simple couples and single fems not single fems and whoever is hanging off your dick that night

Mrs

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"But is it ok if the fem breaks off and has a wander upstairs?

I smell a bit of double standards there "

Nope. Couples room is for couples.

Open doors, batter in. Folk chapping locked doors at private rooms should be chased too, regardless of what sex they are.

Not to stir the pot here, but what's stopping the single guys from attending with another single guy and pretending to be a bi male couple??

Jim

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Whatever happens to keys in a bowl "

I want to play this game .... now what does everyone drive so I can have a look before I pick

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I won't be a the club for a while Jim I'm laid up with a broken leg, but happy to say hi at CJs, if I'm not turned away with my fake partner of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't be a the club for a while Jim I'm laid up with a broken leg, but happy to say hi at CJs, if I'm not turned away with my fake partner of the night "
tell me when your going ...and we can hook up at the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me this...

Scenario...

Fb cpl go in ...fem out of that said cpl asks to play with a "real" cpl...

Is that "real" cpl gonna say..sorry luv...but your not part of a "real" cpl

So go name have to say no ta..

Yeah...righto

Sorry but this just smacks single guy bashing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gonna"

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Tell me this...

Scenario...

Fb cpl go in ...fem out of that said cpl asks to play with a "real" cpl...

Is that "real" cpl gonna say..sorry luv...but your not part of a "real" cpl

So go name have to say no ta..

Yeah...righto

Sorry but this just smacks single guy bashing "

You have such a way with words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Tell me this...

Scenario...

Fb cpl go in ...fem out of that said cpl asks to play with a "real" cpl...

Is that "real" cpl gonna say..sorry luv...but your not part of a "real" cpl

So go name have to say no ta..

Yeah...righto

Sorry but this just smacks single guy bashing "

Does it matter? It's couples and single female......

Are you just deliberately being contrary?

Either way, have fun, be safe and see you all soon.

Jim

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Tell me this...

Scenario...

Fb cpl go in ...fem out of that said cpl asks to play with a "real" cpl...

Is that "real" cpl gonna say..sorry luv...but your not part of a "real" cpl

So go name have to say no ta..

Yeah...righto

Sorry but this just smacks single guy bashing

You have such a way with words "

She's eloquent as well as sexy

I witnessed a real thing happen at a 'fun for all night at CJs. A couple came out of the couples only room (a real couple) and instead of heading downstairs, she said she fancied more fun. Her husband said 'fine, I'll go downstairs and have a drink, have fun'

She goes into the open room and grabs a single guy she was eyeing earlier (not me) and takes him by the hand back to the couples only room.

Guy stops them on the door and says them can't go in because he knows her and knows that guy isn't her husband.

Right or wrong?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"But is it ok if the fem breaks off and has a wander upstairs?

I smell a bit of double standards there "

I will go for a wander alone sometimes too, might watch people in the open rooms but don't really join in.

I guess it could be viewed as a double standard - maybe it's due to the fact that guys are perhaps viewed as more forward or pushy? Not always the case but could be the general view.

However, they aren't couples nights, they're couples and females nights, so perhaps that's why there doesn't seem to be an issue?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry if I have offended any 1 with this, I don't see any harm done, meeting some 1i know there and we are going as a couple wasn't trying to cause a stir, I'm paying same as any 1 else and no offence I wouldn't go as a single guy unless i new people there, I'm new to cjs just finding my feet with it all. Sorry to all this had annoyed

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Tell me this...

Scenario...

Fb cpl go in ...fem out of that said cpl asks to play with a "real" cpl...

Is that "real" cpl gonna say..sorry luv...but your not part of a "real" cpl

So go name have to say no ta..

Yeah...righto

Sorry but this just smacks single guy bashing

You have such a way with words

She's eloquent as well as sexy

I witnessed a real thing happen at a 'fun for all night at CJs. A couple came out of the couples only room (a real couple) and instead of heading downstairs, she said she fancied more fun. Her husband said 'fine, I'll go downstairs and have a drink, have fun'

She goes into the open room and grabs a single guy she was eyeing earlier (not me) and takes him by the hand back to the couples only room.

Guy stops them on the door and says them can't go in because he knows her and knows that guy isn't her husband.

Right or wrong?"

Again, it's not a couples only room, it's single females too (says so on the sign by the door).

But yes, she should have been stopped as the sign also says that you have to be the couple that arrived together to enter.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Tell me this...

Scenario...

Fb cpl go in ...fem out of that said cpl asks to play with a "real" cpl...

Is that "real" cpl gonna say..sorry luv...but your not part of a "real" cpl

So go name have to say no ta..

Yeah...righto

Sorry but this just smacks single guy bashing

You have such a way with words

She's eloquent as well as sexy

I witnessed a real thing happen at a 'fun for all night at CJs. A couple came out of the couples only room (a real couple) and instead of heading downstairs, she said she fancied more fun. Her husband said 'fine, I'll go downstairs and have a drink, have fun'

She goes into the open room and grabs a single guy she was eyeing earlier (not me) and takes him by the hand back to the couples only room.

Guy stops them on the door and says them can't go in because he knows her and knows that guy isn't her husband.

Right or wrong?"

Right

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying

I dont get why someone would stop going because of how others get into a club...why penalise yourself for what others do?

Maybe because they prefer "couples" night. We go a lot and personally find the couples nights to be a lot more relaxed.

Single guys with fuck buds/ random, have a habit of wandering upstairs alone, harassing women and even entering couples room alone.

There are designated nights for a reason, same as there are filters and preferences on here. Some people are not interested, and their choices should be respected.

Circumventing the rules of entry because it's an easy/ cheap way in shouldn't be allowed. We attend nights when it's fun for all and couples nights.

Point is, it is a couples night and singles female night. If you want to break the rules, at least be discreet ffs.

Hopefully the staff/ owners pick up on this.

Jim

Sounds like you have a really deep seated issue with anyone other than your definition of 'true' couples attending.

Your assertion that these guys tend to wander upstairs alone is pretty judgmental. I've been to couples nights at CJs with a female a couple of times, as a date, and never left her side the whole night. Had a wonderful time, and never came across anyone with your views thankfully. Basic etiquette on a night like that would be if you attend as a couple you behave like one.

If you and your friends feel that strongly about this form of circumvention that you've considered not going back, then put your money where your mouth is. All the more spaces for non judgemental fun loving types, real couples and dating singletons alike.

Just saying..."

Going by personal experience and knowing _ugs and junk here's my tuppence worth. First of all no one is bashing single guys or has a problem with fuck buddies, the problem is unfortunately one or two such guys who have regularly came to the club most weeks with a different female then female is left to her own devices while the guy is trying to gain access to the couples room claiming his partner is just coming. I personally had a not so nice experience of this which I'm not going to go into. No one is judging all they're saying is if it's ok to break one rule then sod the rules.

As for the pricing it's not something I agree with but for whatever reason all clubs I've had experience of single guys always pay a higher rate

K x

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Sorry if I have offended any 1 with this, I don't see any harm done, meeting some 1i know there and we are going as a couple wasn't trying to cause a stir, I'm paying same as any 1 else and no offence I wouldn't go as a single guy unless i new people there, I'm new to cjs just finding my feet with it all. Sorry to all this had annoyed "

I wouldn't worry about offending anyone...just di what your doing and stay happy and enjoy yourself ....everyone has different views....everyone sees things differently ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry if I have offended any 1 with this, I don't see any harm done, meeting some 1i know there and we are going as a couple wasn't trying to cause a stir, I'm paying same as any 1 else and no offence I wouldn't go as a single guy unless i new people there, I'm new to cjs just finding my feet with it all. Sorry to all this had annoyed

I wouldn't worry about offending anyone...just di what your doing and stay happy and enjoy yourself ....everyone has different views....everyone sees things differently ...."

Thanks xxx

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?"

See that's something that confuses me too - FF or MF couples. I've been to all the Scottish clubs and it hasn't been mentioned, but I have noticed that on the Infusion website it states that their view of a couple is MF.

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Sorry if I have offended any 1 with this, I don't see any harm done, meeting some 1i know there and we are going as a couple wasn't trying to cause a stir, I'm paying same as any 1 else and no offence I wouldn't go as a single guy unless i new people there, I'm new to cjs just finding my feet with it all. Sorry to all this had annoyed

I wouldn't worry about offending anyone...just di what your doing and stay happy and enjoy yourself ....everyone has different views....everyone sees things differently ....

Thanks xxx"

Not offended anyone, been a fun thread to contribute to.

Have fun on Saturday night, but don't you dare go wandering off on your own!!

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?

See that's something that confuses me too - FF or MF couples. I've been to all the Scottish clubs and it hasn't been mentioned, but I have noticed that on the Infusion website it states that their view of a couple is MF."

See I've wondered about that, could 2 guys not go n say their a couple?

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry if I have offended any 1 with this, I don't see any harm done, meeting some 1i know there and we are going as a couple wasn't trying to cause a stir, I'm paying same as any 1 else and no offence I wouldn't go as a single guy unless i new people there, I'm new to cjs just finding my feet with it all. Sorry to all this had annoyed "
exactly fella...your paying the same as everyone else...now you better go have a great time or we are all coming round to bash you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?

See that's something that confuses me too - FF or MF couples. I've been to all the Scottish clubs and it hasn't been mentioned, but I have noticed that on the Infusion website it states that their view of a couple is MF.

See I've wondered about that, could 2 guys not go n say their a couple?

K x"
surly they can? Oh hell...that's me as per...another can of worms

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?"

You must have missed my post about guys teaming up with guys as a "couple" and when I said pricing should be raised with management.

As far as I'm led to believe, it took a while and a lot of suggestions to have the nights alternated between fun for all and couples/fems.

Pricing is a separate issue. If I want to go to a couples night without Jugs, should I be allowed claim I am with you?!

Jim

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?

See that's something that confuses me too - FF or MF couples. I've been to all the Scottish clubs and it hasn't been mentioned, but I have noticed that on the Infusion website it states that their view of a couple is MF.

See I've wondered about that, could 2 guys not go n say their a couple?

K x"

It's seems discriminatory for them to be refused. Infusion is the only website I've seen it stated in black and white though

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"

Not to stir the pot here, but what's stopping the single guys from attending with another single guy and pretending to be a bi male couple??

Jim

"

Oooops guess you missed that

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Should have been FF and MM couples there, not MF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?

You must have missed my post about guys teaming up with guys as a "couple" and when I said pricing should be raised with management.

As far as I'm led to believe, it took a while and a lot of suggestions to have the nights alternated between fun for all and couples/fems.

Pricing is a separate issue. If I want to go to a couples night without Jugs, should I be allowed claim I am with you?!

Jim"
if we met and we teamed up to attend

..pay as a cpl...why not?

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in too ...no skodas tho

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?

You must have missed my post about guys teaming up with guys as a "couple" and when I said pricing should be raised with management.

As far as I'm led to believe, it took a while and a lot of suggestions to have the nights alternated between fun for all and couples/fems.

Pricing is a separate issue. If I want to go to a couples night without Jugs, should I be allowed claim I am with you?!

Jimif we met and we teamed up to attend

..pay as a cpl...why not?

"

Probably because most people there, especially the staff, would no for a fact that we are not a couple. And I would hope they would turn me away because they know that!

If a night has been put on to cater for a set of circumstances, surely the customers should get what they are paying for?

You're arguing for the sake of arguing.

Jim

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in "

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John "

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now .... "

I've got a works keyring on mine, I'm a discreet professional, so that's a no no

Jim

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now .... "

Am only playing if there's a key with a Stallion on it

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

I've got a works keyring on mine, I'm a discreet professional, so that's a no no

Jim"

Haha I've got a Mickey Mouse key ring on mine .... are we allowed to say that or is the game now ruined! Lol

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

Am only playing if there's a key with a Stallion on it "

I'll wear my belt for you on Saturday evening for the Edinburgh social

John

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

Am only playing if there's a key with a Stallion on it "

I will peek in first and let you know hahaha x

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

I've got a works keyring on mine, I'm a discreet professional, so that's a no no

Jim

Haha I've got a Mickey Mouse key ring on mine .... are we allowed to say that or is the game now ruined! Lol "

It Disney matter!!

Jim

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

Am only playing if there's a key with a Stallion on it

I'll wear my belt for you on Saturday evening for the Edinburgh social

John "

Wooty Woo

Mental note.. check oot J's belt

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

I've got a works keyring on mine, I'm a discreet professional, so that's a no no

Jim

Haha I've got a Mickey Mouse key ring on mine .... are we allowed to say that or is the game now ruined! Lol

It Disney matter!!

Jim"

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

Am only playing if there's a key with a Stallion on it

I will peek in first and let you know hahaha x"

I love team work x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv got a torch on my keyring...

...anyone?

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

Am only playing if there's a key with a Stallion on it

I will peek in first and let you know hahaha x

I love team work x "

Now I'm singing the theme tune to that kids show that was on years ago ... what's going to work ... Teamwork .... what's going to work .... Teamwork I think they might have been hamsters or maybe gerbils lollll someone remove my wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?

You must have missed my post about guys teaming up with guys as a "couple" and when I said pricing should be raised with management.

As far as I'm led to believe, it took a while and a lot of suggestions to have the nights alternated between fun for all and couples/fems.

Pricing is a separate issue. If I want to go to a couples night without Jugs, should I be allowed claim I am with you?!

Jimif we met and we teamed up to attend

..pay as a cpl...why not?

Probably because most people there, especially the staff, would no for a fact that we are not a couple. And I would hope they would turn me away because they know that!

If a night has been put on to cater for a set of circumstances, surely the customers should get what they are paying for?

You're arguing for the sake of arguing.

Jim"
Jim...believe me lol I'm not arguing

Life too short..especially on a sex site ..

But here's hoping you and you other half do go and have a blast with whoever you choose to do that with

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

Am only playing if there's a key with a Stallion on it

I will peek in first and let you know hahaha x

I love team work x "

I'm not sitting on his seat belt again, I've been fooled by this before

Jim

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

Am only playing if there's a key with a Stallion on it

I will peek in first and let you know hahaha x

I love team work x

Now I'm singing the theme tune to that kids show that was on years ago ... what's going to work ... Teamwork .... what's going to work .... Teamwork I think they might have been hamsters or maybe gerbils lollll someone remove my wine "

Omg hahahahaha think you need to put the glass away or step away for the keys !!!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

Am only playing if there's a key with a Stallion on it

I will peek in first and let you know hahaha x

I love team work x

Now I'm singing the theme tune to that kids show that was on years ago ... what's going to work ... Teamwork .... what's going to work .... Teamwork I think they might have been hamsters or maybe gerbils lollll someone remove my wine

Omg hahahahaha think you need to put the glass away or step away for the keys !!! "

But were they hamsters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tracey

..put your glass down

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Tracey

..put your glass down "

Hahaha I've only had two that's me until Monday lol x

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Let's get back to the keys in a bowl game I'm in

Keys in the bowl scare me, I've got better keys than others so not playing that game haha

John

Everyone has to play don't be a party pooper now ....

Am only playing if there's a key with a Stallion on it

I will peek in first and let you know hahaha x

I love team work x

Now I'm singing the theme tune to that kids show that was on years ago ... what's going to work ... Teamwork .... what's going to work .... Teamwork I think they might have been hamsters or maybe gerbils lollll someone remove my wine "

Dinnae ask me! The Frenchie has no clue what show you're talking about lol

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Tracey

..put your glass down

Hahaha I've only had two that's me until Monday lol x"

Finish the glass first... no wasting wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single parent , my easiest choice is to go to cjs with a fb . I'm not sure why so many couples have issues with this at all. I'm sure if it was a steadfast rule we would have to show marriage certificate or proof of long term relationship .I thought swinging meant fluid and free thinking . Yes club has rules regarding couples room ,which is fair enough. I just find this is taking the fun out of a fantastic club. We only have two clubs for swinging why spoil it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a lot of reading up there ...

My keys are in the bowl ....

Feck all interest in Cjs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi folks. We're hoping to be there. Will be nice to meet some new people. Been a couple of times and we had a blast. Drop us a message if you would like to chat.

Regarding the fb situation. It's not the fact that its about making it less expensive or the fact that they may break away from each other. It's the sneakiness of a single guy giving the impression he's part of an established couple.

To other couples thats important to know there playing with someone who fits in with what there comfortable with. If they wouldn't play with a single male outside of the club then they shouldn't be given the false impression that he's part of a couple.

I don't think we all would be impressed if we turned up for a arranged private meet with a couple and only the guy turned up with crap excuses as to why his Mrs wasn't there. Would we still all play? Doubt it!

SSL's x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oldie and Lifes journey are spot on, this increasing level of intolerance of others should have no place here.

Now..... IF I was as intolerant as Jim, I'd be having a rant about how weird it is to stick a chopstick up your japs eye and that anyone who does that shouldn't be allowed into CJs unless it's a specific 'Sticking chopsticks up your japs eye' lovers night

But I'm not... so crack on with the chopsticks there Jimbo

Just saying

Neither of us are intolerant or small minded enough to mock people's preferences.

The rules are simple couples and single fems not single fems and whoever is hanging off your dick that night

Mrs

"

And you always attended alone before you met Jim? Some people have short memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fb can't make this weekend hopefully going to meet up with some 1 I met last week there and go as a couple x

This type of 'coupling' is generally disliked by many as it's a means for a single guy to break the rules.

Just saying

We know each other and I'm paying same as every 1 else is, just saying

Know many people who have stopped going to the club for this very reason.

Again just saying

I dont get why someone would stop going because of how others get into a club...why penalise yourself for what others do?

Maybe because they prefer "couples" night. We go a lot and personally find the couples nights to be a lot more relaxed.

Single guys with fuck buds/ random, have a habit of wandering upstairs alone, harassing women and even entering couples room alone.

There are designated nights for a reason, same as there are filters and preferences on here. Some people are not interested, and their choices should be respected.

Circumventing the rules of entry because it's an easy/ cheap way in shouldn't be allowed. We attend nights when it's fun for all and couples nights.

Point is, it is a couples night and singles female night. If you want to break the rules, at least be discreet ffs.

Hopefully the staff/ owners pick up on this.

Jim

Sounds like you have a really deep seated issue with anyone other than your definition of 'true' couples attending.

Your assertion that these guys tend to wander upstairs alone is pretty judgmental. I've been to couples nights at CJs with a female a couple of times, as a date, and never left her side the whole night. Had a wonderful time, and never came across anyone with your views thankfully. Basic etiquette on a night like that would be if you attend as a couple you behave like one.

If you and your friends feel that strongly about this form of circumvention that you've considered not going back, then put your money where your mouth is. All the more spaces for non judgemental fun loving types, real couples and dating singletons alike.

Just saying...

Going by personal experience and knowing _ugs and junk here's my tuppence worth. First of all no one is bashing single guys or has a problem with fuck buddies, the problem is unfortunately one or two such guys who have regularly came to the club most weeks with a different female then female is left to her own devices while the guy is trying to gain access to the couples room claiming his partner is just coming. I personally had a not so nice experience of this which I'm not going to go into. No one is judging all they're saying is if it's ok to break one rule then sod the rules.

As for the pricing it's not something I agree with but for whatever reason all clubs I've had experience of single guys always pay a higher rate

K x"

Think the problem is K that all fb couples being bitched at for the actions of a few ... CJ only needs to ban the misbehavers ... no need for every other fb couple to get grief

Ive brought along a single guy a few times ( cant remember which kinds of night now) but if i arrive as a couple we play as a couple and leave as a couple and i make that clear in advance ... if i was letting them run around harrasing people willy nilly i would expect to be thrown out with him for bringing him along tbh

And how do people tell the difference between a long term fb who you know and trust and people who find a new boyfriend on fab every other week? Because for a while that was some on this forum but because they had the "facebook official" conversation that makes it ok despite being broken up 5 minutes later?

I think there is just alot of high horse chat going on about these couples nights which wont solve the actual problem of the club dealing with behaviour thats not to be tolerated rather than attendance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?

See that's something that confuses me too - FF or MF couples. I've been to all the Scottish clubs and it hasn't been mentioned, but I have noticed that on the Infusion website it states that their view of a couple is MF.

See I've wondered about that, could 2 guys not go n say their a couple?

K x"

Probably not because its all about the numbers ratio m v f that the number of males is limited and couples are not ... a mf couple brings one of each so doesnt affect the balance

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By *randMrs-XXXCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Bit off topic but getting back to the original post... we are going this weekend! looking forward to it xx

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Oldie and Lifes journey are spot on, this increasing level of intolerance of others should have no place here.

Now..... IF I was as intolerant as Jim, I'd be having a rant about how weird it is to stick a chopstick up your japs eye and that anyone who does that shouldn't be allowed into CJs unless it's a specific 'Sticking chopsticks up your japs eye' lovers night

But I'm not... so crack on with the chopsticks there Jimbo

Just saying

Neither of us are intolerant or small minded enough to mock people's preferences.

The rules are simple couples and single fems not single fems and whoever is hanging off your dick that night

Mrs

And you always attended alone before you met Jim? Some people have short memories "

Yeah actually I used to go with a female friend

Mrs

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Reading through this its a weird one ive seen some complaints about fb cpls while at the same time accepting others. Clubs have no way to enforce what constitutes a cpl.

Which leaves you with if you accept one fb cpl you gotta accept them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But all single men are being tarred by the same brush...wasn't it just the other week there was an issue with a single fem?

If 2 people walk in and and pay as a cpl...the venues got there money and no questioned should be asked..what happens if 2 gay fems go in as a cpl..do they get a knock back?

See that's something that confuses me too - FF or MF couples. I've been to all the Scottish clubs and it hasn't been mentioned, but I have noticed that on the Infusion website it states that their view of a couple is MF.

See I've wondered about that, could 2 guys not go n say their a couple?

K x

It's seems discriminatory for them to be refused. Infusion is the only website I've seen it stated in black and white though "

Wasn't there an issue with the Aberdeen club when 2 guys wanted to go as a couple and were refused? I seem to remember there being a furore on the forum about it.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I know there's quite a few couples who prefer not to play with fb couples, and I can definitely understand that especially where full swap is involved so it's not a surprise that this will be an issue for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there's quite a few couples who prefer not to play with fb couples, and I can definitely understand that especially where full swap is involved so it's not a surprise that this will be an issue for some."

I completely understand this ... its a different level of trust and intimacy sharing your partner compared with sharing someone you just fuck about with now and again ... but if you had a meet from here i would guess thats something you would be asking about when in contact with a couples profile ... dont see why it would be different at a club ... the club cant really be expected to vet someones relationship status for you i wouldnt think

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I know there's quite a few couples who prefer not to play with fb couples, and I can definitely understand that especially where full swap is involved so it's not a surprise that this will be an issue for some.

I completely understand this ... its a different level of trust and intimacy sharing your partner compared with sharing someone you just fuck about with now and again ... but if you had a meet from here i would guess thats something you would be asking about when in contact with a couples profile ... dont see why it would be different at a club ... the club cant really be expected to vet someones relationship status for you i wouldnt think "

We've never been to a club so don't really know the ettiquete as to how play starts and evolves etc. I suppose in general conversation you could work out someone's relationship status beforehand but I'd find it a bit awkward asking, especially if I had to then say 'sorry, not for us'. I'm not good at that kinda thing.

It's a lot easier online (for me anyway)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason no club can vet what is and isnt a couple is everyone has a different view of it ... when do you become an official couple?

After a week, a month, a year?

Once you are exlcusive? But what does that really mean for swingers who arent monogamous?

Once you have a drawer and a toothbrush at theirs, live together, have kids together, get married?

Its impossible to define for everyone and even harder to police ...

To me the idea of a couple & single fem night is for people who feel uncomfortable with unwanted attention from single males to have a night where that wont be an issue

Relationship status doesnt determine entry ... coming as a couple for the evening does

But that should mean come as a couple, behave as a couple, play as a couple and leave as a couple ... thats obviously not a hard and fast rule either as not all couples limit themself to same room swap ... but the spirit of it is dont be a creep hanging about doors acting like exactly the behaviour the night is meant to exclude ... any couples not keeping to that both should be asked to leave which would stop women bringing a guy unless they trusted them to behave appropriately

But therein lies the issue ... not with the fb couples but with the fact people are not held accountable for their behaviour and their guests by being asked to leave

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I've never seen any hard and fast rules about who should play with who on a particular night. I've gone with guys as a couple a few times on different nights. I've never had a problem with any of them.

Seems like we all have our own ideas of how it should work.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I know there's quite a few couples who prefer not to play with fb couples, and I can definitely understand that especially where full swap is involved so it's not a surprise that this will be an issue for some.

I completely understand this ... its a different level of trust and intimacy sharing your partner compared with sharing someone you just fuck about with now and again ... but if you had a meet from here i would guess thats something you would be asking about when in contact with a couples profile ... dont see why it would be different at a club ... the club cant really be expected to vet someones relationship status for you i wouldnt think "

Serious question - C and I are best friends, have been on the site as a couple for 5 years, know each other inside and out and share everything with each other. Does this make us less trustworthy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there's quite a few couples who prefer not to play with fb couples, and I can definitely understand that especially where full swap is involved so it's not a surprise that this will be an issue for some.

I completely understand this ... its a different level of trust and intimacy sharing your partner compared with sharing someone you just fuck about with now and again ... but if you had a meet from here i would guess thats something you would be asking about when in contact with a couples profile ... dont see why it would be different at a club ... the club cant really be expected to vet someones relationship status for you i wouldnt think

Serious question - C and I are best friends, have been on the site as a couple for 5 years, know each other inside and out and share everything with each other. Does this make us less trustworthy? "

Not for me ... i guess when people think of fuck buddies they probably think of shorter term more flippant things ... but that was kind of my point about what defines a relationship is different for everyone

What you have others might call a relationship or people in a relationship might have less of a bond

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over a year ago


"Hi folks. We're hoping to be there. Will be nice to meet some new people. Been a couple of times and we had a blast. Drop us a message if you would like to chat.

Regarding the fb situation. It's not the fact that its about making it less expensive or the fact that they may break away from each other. It's the sneakiness of a single guy giving the impression he's part of an established couple.

To other couples thats important to know there playing with someone who fits in with what there comfortable with. If they wouldn't play with a single male outside of the club then they shouldn't be given the false impression that he's part of a couple.

I don't think we all would be impressed if we turned up for a arranged private meet with a couple and only the guy turned up with crap excuses as to why his Mrs wasn't there. Would we still all play? Doubt it!

SSL's x"

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By *itness_FornicatorsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We will miss this one unfortunately, totally gutted. Planning on going on the 8th instead.

In regards to fwbs or established couples, we have been together for over 5 years and have played with mostly established couples. If there was a hot guy that I liked then we wouldn't have a problem with him playing with us alongside his female fuck buddy as we prefer to play as a minimum of four.

Beth. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was thinking of going back to CJ's tonight after about a year off. Read this. I'll give it a miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been in ages but tempted tonight.

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By *horstrollMan
over a year ago

Caprona


"Was thinking of going back to CJ's tonight after about a year off. Read this. I'll give it a miss. "

Why let others cloud your judgement, if you wish to go

go, if you find the crowd there making you uncomfortable then mention it to michelle or cj. You can honestly state veni, vidi, vici or egressus if you are so inclined....

Enjoy yourself

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Was thinking of going back to CJ's tonight after about a year off. Read this. I'll give it a miss. "

I can't PM

Don't let others cloud your judgement. It's usually a good night. I don't ask if people are married, in a relationship or just a fb couple. What does it matter if you're just going to play with them?

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"The reason no club can vet what is and isnt a couple is everyone has a different view of it ... when do you become an official couple?

After a week, a month, a year?

Once you are exlcusive? But what does that really mean for swingers who arent monogamous?

Once you have a drawer and a toothbrush at theirs, live together, have kids together, get married?

Its impossible to define for everyone and even harder to police ...

To me the idea of a couple & single fem night is for people who feel uncomfortable with unwanted attention from single males to have a night where that wont be an issue

Relationship status doesnt determine entry ... coming as a couple for the evening does

But that should mean come as a couple, behave as a couple, play as a couple and leave as a couple ... thats obviously not a hard and fast rule either as not all couples limit themself to same room swap ... but the spirit of it is dont be a creep hanging about doors acting like exactly the behaviour the night is meant to exclude ... any couples not keeping to that both should be asked to leave which would stop women bringing a guy unless they trusted them to behave appropriately

But therein lies the issue ... not with the fb couples but with the fact people are not held accountable for their behaviour and their guests by being asked to leave "

Well said!

I'm not denying there are some guys who come as part of a couple and behave that way.

Ban the guy who misbehaves, rather than tar all 'not real' couples with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter it's just the constant bickering. I think I'll give it a miss. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see both sides of the argument. As a couple we disagree with each other on playing with real couples and fwb.

Basically the way we see it is if a guy or girl that wasn't in a relationship took a liking to you there is more chance they could become more pushy and make you feel uncomfortable than someone who was there with their partner.

There's also the argument about discretion. If you know a single guy/girl who has went with a fb and sees you as a couple they would be more likely to mention it to others than a proper couple and I reckon that is the biggest fear people have going to a club.

cjs already hosts a gay/bi night so I don't see why mm or ff couples should be allowed in. I genuinely don't have a problem with bi/gay people but I wouldn't want to be playing in the couples room then seeing a guy sucking a cock or taking it up the arse.

I know some will say I'm intolerant, a homophobe or whatever but the forums about opinions. At the end of my day it's up to cj who is allowed and not and if we don't like it we don't have to go.

Hope it's a good night we are away on holiday soon without the kids so we are using up all our babysitter tokens for that

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I can see both sides of the argument. As a couple we disagree with each other on playing with real couples and fwb.

Basically the way we see it is if a guy or girl that wasn't in a relationship took a liking to you there is more chance they could become more pushy and make you feel uncomfortable than someone who was there with their partner.

There's also the argument about discretion. If you know a single guy/girl who has went with a fb and sees you as a couple they would be more likely to mention it to others than a proper couple and I reckon that is the biggest fear people have going to a club.

cjs already hosts a gay/bi night so I don't see why mm or ff couples should be allowed in. I genuinely don't have a problem with bi/gay people but I wouldn't want to be playing in the couples room then seeing a guy sucking a cock or taking it up the arse.

I know some will say I'm intolerant, a homophobe or whatever but the forums about opinions. At the end of my day it's up to cj who is allowed and not and if we don't like it we don't have to go.

Hope it's a good night we are away on holiday soon without the kids so we are using up all our babysitter tokens for that

"

I'm curious, and asking in a non judgemental way. Would the sight of a girl going down on another girl be any less off putting than a guy sucking a cock?

If males can't play with males, would females playing with females be treated differently?

I can't see a Couples/females night being popular if only straight sex was allowed

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I can see both sides of the argument. As a couple we disagree with each other on playing with real couples and fwb.

Basically the way we see it is if a guy or girl that wasn't in a relationship took a liking to you there is more chance they could become more pushy and make you feel uncomfortable than someone who was there with their partner.

There's also the argument about discretion. If you know a single guy/girl who has went with a fb and sees you as a couple they would be more likely to mention it to others than a proper couple and I reckon that is the biggest fear people have going to a club.

cjs already hosts a gay/bi night so I don't see why mm or ff couples should be allowed in. I genuinely don't have a problem with bi/gay people but I wouldn't want to be playing in the couples room then seeing a guy sucking a cock or taking it up the arse.

I know some will say I'm intolerant, a homophobe or whatever but the forums about opinions. At the end of my day it's up to cj who is allowed and not and if we don't like it we don't have to go.

Hope it's a good night we are away on holiday soon without the kids so we are using up all our babysitter tokens for that

I'm curious, and asking in a non judgemental way. Would the sight of a girl going down on another girl be any less off putting than a guy sucking a cock?

If males can't play with males, would females playing with females be treated differently?

I can't see a Couples/females night being popular if only straight sex was allowed"

My thoughts exactly. Nothing to stop couples playing with couples and some guys want to experiment with their bi side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's my preference I was only speaking for myself. I'm sure there are people who don't want to see girls playing with each other and this may be something that puts them off.

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over a year ago

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Hooray I'm going tonight.

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"That's my preference I was only speaking for myself. I'm sure there are people who don't want to see girls playing with each other and this may be something that puts them off. "

Wasn't having a go, just curious why the sight of two women playing appeals to so many, yet two guys playing together repulsed so many.

I know what I'd rather watch but I wouldn't try to exclude either activity, I just wouldn't watch

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

The way I see it Cj's is a safe place to explore many things.

There's something for everyone.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Had a great time last night.

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By *randMrs-XXXCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

What a great night! Hope everyone had lots of fun, we certainly did xxx

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By *horstrollMan
over a year ago

Caprona


"Had a great time last night. "

Thats the whole point of going along, if you don't go you'll kick yourself for not attending.

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