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"Plus there are alot of gay men.escorts and TV's...nothing against then but hide what they are actually on here for " So meet tv's. They are nice sometimes.  | |||
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"There are 1 woman to every 100 men on here..they get bombarded with messages and spiol it for the good guys" Ooooft are the odds that high? Yippy!!   | |||
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"There are 1 woman to every 100 men on here..they get bombarded with messages and spiol it for the good guys Ooooft are the odds that high? Yippy!! "Your odds of meeting me could be quite high lol | |||
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"Well new profiles appear every day for a few hours...chat away and next there are deleted...what's that all about..." Thats just one of the frustrations of the site unfortunately. No matter how many people you meet, that is still going to be a problem. Not everyone on here is looking to meet all day, everyday. Quality over quantity so would rather be patient and get the right meet than just accept every offer which comes my way! | |||
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"Well new profiles appear every day for a few hours...chat away and next there are deleted...what's that all about..." Doesn't matter what it's all about! Learn from it. Avoid or make your research. Last week I reported 2 new profiles, pic taken from the web (the guy looked tooo good to be true haha so i check) and same profile texts 
I have blocked new profiles from contacting me.
Maybe review your approach OP
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"There are 1 woman to every 100 men on here..they get bombarded with messages and spiol it for the good guys" What a lot of rubbish! !The only person who has any affect on your chances of meeting are YOU! I can tell from a woman's point of view a lot of the mail isn't even worth responding to (one liners or plain crass) . Others clearly not even read profile and not what clearly person is looking for . So when you receive a eloquent message from someone who's obviously not just looked at pics then it s_ands out like a beacon in a sea of dross . So the genuine guys should actually be thankfull to the idiots and lazy as making them look one hell of a lot better in comparison! So rather than moan and bleat about how hard it is to get meets (which you've done just fine by verifications) look at your exspectons and if they are realistic and make your profile and messages a reason why people would want to contact back . | |||
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"My approach is fine thank you..never rude or crude...being a gentleman is my my problem ." Cool, good luck to you then! | |||
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"Clam down....was just saying it's not easy for the nice guys on here...and not looking to meet half the site....and I do not share all my reviews on here....was trying to say the woman on here get so many mails that they pass by the good guys" Already pointed out not the case . But as a woman receiving said mails ..what would I know huh lol. | |||
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"Clam down....was just saying it's not easy for the nice guys on here...and not looking to meet half the site....and I do not share all my reviews on here....was trying to say the woman on here get so many mails that they pass by the good guys" where did you get your 100/1 stats? how do you know we are passing the good guys by? | |||
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"Clam down....was just saying it's not easy for the nice guys on here...and not looking to meet half the site....and I do not share all my reviews on here....was trying to say the woman on here get so many mails that they pass by the good guys" You were trying to say something about the amount of mail that women recieve, hmmm 
Tbh OP the thread title and first post dont reflect that, looks just like one of hundreds of previous posts on the same subject which have mostly gone in a similar direction, and I expect there will be hundreds more of them.
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"Clam down....was just saying it's not easy for the nice guys on here...and not looking to meet half the site....and I do not share all my reviews on here....was trying to say the woman on here get so many mails that they pass by the good guys" its easy for the right guys for the right people......not to be confused with I want it now I want more me me me. You wont like this but take a step back look at your posts here as another person how do you find your apperance on whats viewed. Woman men cpls aliens pass nothing by if they dont like what they see they skip it. Any persons misfortune here is their own not the fault of the 68 msgs before | |||
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"Clam down....was just saying it's not easy for the nice guys on here...and not looking to meet half the site....and I do not share all my reviews on here....was trying to say the woman on here get so many mails that they pass by the good guys" A lot do yes. They won't admit it though because it's a massive ego boost and any dent in the 100's of mails would be heart breaking.  | |||
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"Clam down....was just saying it's not easy for the nice guys on here...and not looking to meet half the site....and I do not share all my reviews on here....was trying to say the woman on here get so many mails that they pass by the good guys" You don't share all your reviews! Hell you have done well in here then and I fail to see what your bleating about.  | |||
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"Last time and it was my first time to right a post.....god getting some flak now " Don't let them put you off posting if you want to. If you get abuse via mail, report it. Admin will sort it. | |||
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"Last time and it was my first time to right a post.....god getting some flak now " No one saying you can't post .Just people disagree with your out look . You should actually be heartened that women are telling you decent guys do stand out | |||
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"If a guys message is getting passed over so easily maybe they should be asking themselves why . Look why others stand out and there's didn't . Not the quantity of messages received that matters it's the quality .Think most woman would receive 1 well thought out message then 50 I wanna smash your back doors in ect ect . " You mean that's why you turned me down after messaging that | |||
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"Clam down....was just saying it's not easy for the nice guys on here...and not looking to meet half the site....and I do not share all my reviews on here....was trying to say the woman on here get so many mails that they pass by the good guys You don't share all your reviews! Hell you have done well in here then and I fail to see what your bleating about. "he does not display the tv meet as he is "straight" | |||
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"If a guys message is getting passed over so easily maybe they should be asking themselves why . Look why others stand out and there's didn't . Not the quantity of messages received that matters it's the quality .Think most woman would receive 1 well thought out message then 50 I wanna smash your back doors in ect ect . " What about a well thought out care to have one's back doors smashed in? | |||
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"Plus there are alot of gay men.escorts and TV's...nothing against then but hide what they are actually on here for " Whats that got to do with you not getting meets from women? Especially since I've been knocking you back for years now on your various profiles, politely at first. Yet you keep winking and sending messages that grow even less polite, despite having been told no. Having been on the receiving end of your pestering Id wager its your attitude thats preventing you getting meets... I wouldn't have said anything, but since you thought it relevant to mention there are TVs on site and also some gays and that somehow stops you as a closet Bi guy who lists as straight and therefore makes you the person that actually "hides what you are actually on here for" i decided to say something.... | |||
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"Plus there are alot of gay men.escorts and TV's...nothing against then but hide what they are actually on here for Whats that got to do with you not getting meets from women? Especially since I've been knocking you back for years now on your various profiles, politely at first. Yet you keep winking and sending messages that grow even less polite, despite having been told no. Having been on the receiving end of your pestering Id wager its your attitude thats preventing you getting meets... I wouldn't have said anything, but since you thought it relevant to mention there are TVs on site and also some gays and that somehow stops you as a closet Bi guy who lists as straight and therefore makes you the person that actually "hides what you are actually on here for" i decided to say something...."
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"Plus there are alot of gay men.escorts and TV's...nothing against then but hide what they are actually on here for Whats that got to do with you not getting meets from women? Especially since I've been knocking you back for years now on your various profiles, politely at first. Yet you keep winking and sending messages that grow even less polite, despite having been told no. Having been on the receiving end of your pestering Id wager its your attitude thats preventing you getting meets... I wouldn't have said anything, but since you thought it relevant to mention there are TVs on site and also some gays and that somehow stops you as a closet Bi guy who lists as straight and therefore makes you the person that actually "hides what you are actually on here for" i decided to say something...." Good for you!  | |||
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"Clam down....was just saying it's not easy for the nice guys on here...and not looking to meet half the site....and I do not share all my reviews on here....was trying to say the woman on here get so many mails that they pass by the good guys" Female in a couple here - the best guys stand out. You get a real feel for someone the way they approach you. | |||
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"I know a hell of a lot of single guys who do extremely well for themselves on here so maybe just maybe it's more to do with the guys themselves !" I must admit I don't consider myself overly photogenic, can be socially awkward and definitely geographically challenged, and even I can't understand all the can't get a meet complaints on here! | |||
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"Plus there are alot of gay men.escorts and TV's...nothing against then but hide what they are actually on here for Whats that got to do with you not getting meets from women? Especially since I've been knocking you back for years now on your various profiles, politely at first. Yet you keep winking and sending messages that grow even less polite, despite having been told no. Having been on the receiving end of your pestering Id wager its your attitude thats preventing you getting meets... I wouldn't have said anything, but since you thought it relevant to mention there are TVs on site and also some gays and that somehow stops you as a closet Bi guy who lists as straight and therefore makes you the person that actually "hides what you are actually on here for" i decided to say something.... Good for you! "Oooooo how the plot thickens ! Well done for speaking up and showing someone's true colours | |||
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"I notice the cock pic has disappeared. Funny that... The internet must have asked for it back. "lol lol lol the women on here have great patter | |||
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"Firstly -- 3 meets in 4 months is not bad going. Secondly -- your 46 and have a search range of 18 - 78 really ? It would definitely put us off Lastly -- going by your replies here to your posting, we dont think you take rejection very well . Our opinion only, no insult intentended." Ive had no messages in 5 months never mind verifications lol  | |||
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"Er..I beg to differ I have.met several single.guys..Many of whome were well over 59 and they have.enjoyed several successful meets of the social and sexual kind. One of.them has a slight disability but he has twelve Verifications over 10 months!" Oops..Meant over aged 50! | |||
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"I find the Originator of this forum subject a particularly unusual individual.... saying no more #nutscrazybonkersandveryrude See you after the suspension folks ??" I find him a sexpest. Even after all thats been said, he was still stupid enough to send me a wink 2 hours ago...... that's the blocklist grown by one then | |||
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"I find the Originator of this forum subject a particularly unusual individual.... saying no more #nutscrazybonkersandveryrude See you after the suspension folks ?? I find him a sexpest. Even after all thats been said, he was still stupid enough to send me a wink 2 hours ago...... that's the blocklist grown by one then "Lol | |||
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"I find the Originator of this forum subject a particularly unusual individual.... saying no more #nutscrazybonkersandveryrude See you after the suspension folks ??" Lol yes fab can suspend you for pettiest of reasons . Love you Fab plz dont suspend me i was only joking. | |||
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"This might, somehow, be the most ridiculous thread on Fab. So many amazing twists hahaha" Ridiculous no Entertaining possibly | |||
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"This might, somehow, be the most ridiculous thread on Fab. So many amazing twists hahaha" Dont be so daft this thread is not ridiculous, by the way did anyone else notice Zombies in Central Station ? | |||
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"This might, somehow, be the most ridiculous thread on Fab. So many amazing twists hahaha Dont be so daft this thread is not ridiculous, by the way did anyone else notice Zombies in Central Station ?" The staff?? | |||
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"I know a hell of a lot of single guys who do extremely well for themselves on here so maybe just maybe it's more to do with the guys themselves ! I must admit I don't consider myself overly photogenic, can be socially awkward and definitely geographically challenged, and even I can't understand all the can't get a meet complaints on here! "I must be taking the photos wrong, always scares them off. Clearly just intimidated by the charm and shear bod | |||
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