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Soft swing only on some meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes I prefer that on meets but very few guys seem keen. To me, good sex does not always have to involve penetration. For instance I love role play, toys tying and teasing and prefer this Instead. Does any other female feel the same way?

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Whilst not a female, I have had more meets as you describe than not.

And a lot of fun they are too!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I think the main diffrence is anatomyand mental states while guys can enjoy non peneyration meets we have digfrent drives to females. It comes down to the old thing woman can do multiple things well men do one thing well.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

So many mistakes phone typing really aint good woman do multiple things well men do one thing very well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I so much enjoy role play, tying and teasing, play with toys and.massage...I give a wonderful.massage I am told many times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I do love teasing, toys and massage but I still gotta have that penetration.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Sometimes I prefer that on meets but very few guys seem keen. To me, good sex does not always have to involve penetration. For instance I love role play, toys tying and teasing and prefer this Instead. Does any other female feel the same way? "
No much as I love toys and teasing I do need that final act of penetration if I didnt get that id be so frustrated tbh.

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By *itness_FornicatorsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We have done soft swing in the past and I found it really sexually frustrating, it just isn't for me.

Beth xx

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Sometimes I prefer that on meets but very few guys seem keen. To me, good sex does not always have to involve penetration. For instance I love role play, toys tying and teasing and prefer this Instead. Does any other female feel the same way? No much as I love toys and teasing I do need that final act of penetration if I didnt get that id be so frustrated tbh."

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started off with soft swap then just gradually progressed

Couldn't go back...would just feel really really frustrated !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather play alone than soft swing

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I so much enjoy role play, tying and teasing, play with toys and.massage...I give a wonderful.massage I am told many times! "

Would volunteer to be a candidate purely for research purposes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I do love teasing, toys and massage but I still gotta have that penetration. "

This will knobs on lol

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I do enjoy soft swing and sometimes it can be better than penetrative sex (sorry guys). I've had some very good soft swing meets!

Also some guys get nervous or have issues and so making it clear that soft swing is more than enough may help alleviate their stress and anxiety and make the meet more enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I so much enjoy role play, tying and teasing, play with toys and.massage...I give a wonderful.massage I am told many times!

Would volunteer to be a candidate purely for research purposes "

Of course!

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By *it funoneMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Love to give a good massage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I do love teasing, toys and massage but I still gotta have that penetration.

This will knobs on lol"

....or in?

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Oh I do love teasing, toys and massage but I still gotta have that penetration.

This will knobs on lol

....or in? "

Or out or in or out or in or out or in .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teasing foreplay toys bondadge can all add to highten the erotic feeling and spark at a meet .Im turned on by visual touching tasting and penetration is not a must have there are many different sensations and orgasms to be explored and savoured x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not the opinion of most guys, but soft swing can be just as satisfying. You just have to be open to it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think i would be interested in arranging a meet with a lovely Female to sit and hold hands..

Penetration would be part of the sexual experience for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like soft play a lot am happy with just soft play at a meet

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We've taken baby steps from watching to soft swing to full swap . We love full swap now but still have a soft meet now again if a couple only wants that . We were all newbies once

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Some things/people are a slow burn.

I've had a few meets where limits have been set. It only builds expectation and tension for the next meet, which tends to be more of the same and then some.

You reap what you sow.

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Not really for me but each to thier own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I prefer that on meets but very few guys seem keen. To me, good sex does not always have to involve penetration. For instance I love role play, toys tying and teasing and prefer this Instead. Does any other female feel the same way? No much as I love toys and teasing I do need that final act of penetration if I didnt get that id be so frustrated tbh."

I agree I would be frustrated if left all horned up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems I must be a slow burner then!

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Seems I must be a slow burner then!"

Think I am one too!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Not for us it's like chips without sauce lol x

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Not for us it's like chips without sauce lol x"

This

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By *oughandready78Man
over a year ago

angus

Can't get better than role play milkman or postie lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite partial to soft play meets personally, like all interests on here though I understand it not everyone's cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I prefer that on meets but very few guys seem keen. To me, good sex does not always have to involve penetration. For instance I love role play, toys tying and teasing and prefer this Instead. Does any other female feel the same way? "

Sometimes the build up is so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I prefer that on meets but very few guys seem keen. To me, good sex does not always have to involve penetration. For instance I love role play, toys tying and teasing and prefer this Instead. Does any other female feel the same way? "

I met a guy for over a year and we only had full sex once... lots of foreplay and oral sex was soooo much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I prefer that on meets but very few guys seem keen. To me, good sex does not always have to involve penetration. For instance I love role play, toys tying and teasing and prefer this Instead. Does any other female feel the same way?

I met a guy for over a year and we only had full sex once... lots of foreplay and oral sex was soooo much fun "

Oral if done right can be so much better than full sex

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Not for us it's like chips without sauce lol x"

Ha ha, more like a smoked sausage supper, without the sausage!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Not for us it's like chips without sauce lol x

Ha ha, more like a smoked sausage supper, without the sausage!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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