FabSwingers.com forum: ettiquete

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hello fellow fabbers

I've had a few meets not always posted on here but tonight's left me kind of shocked.

so if you agree to a meet with nsa ( it's a swinging site afterall )

do you thank the person after the meet , give em a hug and part ways ?

tonight I was hammered with abuse for saying thanks as apparently I'm treating the girl like a slut ?

I've been on the scene a while but this is a first

any pointers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't think I could comment on this as your post raises many questions... I do understand your frustration though... best I can add on the information you've given is... no second meet FOR SURE!!!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Not sure how saying thanks is treating someone like a slut.

But not a lot of context in your post.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think its always polite to thank someone for a nice meet and I always do when they are leaving and again in a wee text later there is no harm in it at all.

If someone has taken offence at that then there is something wrong with them .

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Was your cock still dribbling when you said bye

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"hello fellow fabbers

I've had a few meets not always posted on here but tonight's left me kind of shocked.

so if you agree to a meet with nsa ( it's a swinging site afterall )

do you thank the person after the meet , give em a hug and part ways ?

tonight I was hammered with abuse for saying thanks as apparently I'm treating the girl like a slut ?

I've been on the scene a while but this is a first

any pointers?

Where were your hands when you said thanks

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think saying thanks is okay.

Unless you added ...for the shag! Hehe

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

As others have said theres not much to go on.

example 1 thanks for a great evening

example 2 thanks for emptying my sac

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a pleasure meeting you, i had a good time.

Seems good enough to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit hard when post seems out of context but a polite thanks should never go a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have to look around here to see that manners and etiquette are in short supply. It's not just a meet thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You only have to look around here to see that manners and etiquette are in short supply. It's not just a meet thing."

True but that's what block button is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You only have to look around here to see that manners and etiquette are in short supply. It's not just a meet thing.

True but that's what block button is for "

I know, but that doesn't stop you from seeing posts by people like that.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"hello fellow fabbers

I've had a few meets not always posted on here but tonight's left me kind of shocked.

so if you agree to a meet with nsa ( it's a swinging site afterall )

do you thank the person after the meet , give em a hug and part ways ?

tonight I was hammered with abuse for saying thanks as apparently I'm treating the girl like a slut ?

I've been on the scene a while but this is a first

any pointers?

Personally I see no problem someone saying a polite thanks I had a great time etc...

Not much details but... I will now assume where 'She' is coming from from some elements in your post.

If you said 'thanks' with in the back of your head it's 'only nsa sex' and 'it's a swing/sex site after all' it is very possible your 'thank you' didn't come out right!

Just a thought

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's difficult to tell what the problem was without hearing both sides but is it possible you 'finished', quickly said thanks and then left? If so it's possible that's what the problem was.

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By *liver ClosoffMan
over a year ago

Ayr

I've yet to get out there as far as meets are concerned but manners cost nothing! As long as it's not a pity thanks which clearly isn't the case here obviously!!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"As others have said theres not much to go on.

example 1 thanks for a great evening

example 2 thanks for emptying my sac

Or number 3.

Thanks for a great evening emptying my sac.

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I can kinda get where she's coming from, and possibly it's whether you view this as a sex site or a swinging site.

I've always avoided saying thank you. For me, there is something transactional, or less meaningful in saying that.

Sure, I'll say something else, more complimentary about our meet, but for me, a simple thank you, has a little less thought behind it.

I have had girls say that to me though, and there is something in how it's said or meant.

Everyone will have their own views and experiences.

You live and learn.

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