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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of you sexy peeps prefer to have a drink when meeting and how many dont?

Just wondered personally prefer not to drink if I'm meeting I like the whole experience the feeling and the meet to be something I can focus on and fully enjoy to the max i feel drink even a little can change that

But if in a social situation like a social night I will have a few but I hate the d*unk feeling I don't drink much and prefer it that way

Just recently seen both sides, some who don't drink and others who do what's your thoughts ?? Id does it put ypu off or get you in the mood Xx

It's an opinion post not a chance to pop at others just putting that out there let's keep things nice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drinking puts me in the mood something awful , however I never have a drink if I meet someone as I don't stay out overnight and have to drive home, so drinking isn't an option . Prefer having a clear head anyways, esp on the first meet so I can work out if they are sound or a complete nutjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer sober no drink. It only blurs the memory of a wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drinking puts me in the mood something awful , however I never have a drink if I meet someone as I don't stay out overnight and have to drive home, so drinking isn't an option . Prefer having a clear head anyways, esp on the first meet so I can work out if they are sound or a complete nutjob"

Ah that's why you never took a dramatic off me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one to calm the nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I meet during the day

I don't drink as il be driving

When me n the hubster had meets we did and didn't...all depends but have been in the situation where we have went to meet a cpl and 1 was pissed...not a good look..needless to say we went home early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind a couple of drinks to socialize with ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a massive drinker anyways i like to keep a clear head

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I prefer not to drink when playing, would much rather have a clear head. Don't really drink when socialising either

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Whatever is right at the time

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I like a wee drink or two on a meet and dont see the harm in it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Drinking puts me in the mood something awful , however I never have a drink if I meet someone as I don't stay out overnight and have to drive home, so drinking isn't an option . Prefer having a clear head anyways, esp on the first meet so I can work out if they are sound or a complete nutjob"

Loving the leopard print babe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I meet during the day

I don't drink as il be driving

When me n the hubster had meets we did and didn't...all depends but have been in the situation where we have went to meet a cpl and 1 was pissed...not a good look..needless to say we went home early "

Yes not a good look at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drinking puts me in the mood something awful , however I never have a drink if I meet someone as I don't stay out overnight and have to drive home, so drinking isn't an option . Prefer having a clear head anyways, esp on the first meet so I can work out if they are sound or a complete nutjob

Loving the leopard print babe "

Thanks xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone unless I had had a few glasses of wine. I would expect to share a bottle of wine in the room as well...It's all about relaxing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet anyone unless I had had a few glasses of wine. I would expect to share a bottle of wine in the room as well...It's all about relaxing!"

Can't drink wine it makes me sleepy not the affect you want if you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone turned up to meet us that had been drinking they'd be asked to leave. I've no time for d*unks

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I wouldn't meet anyone unless I had had a few glasses of wine. I would expect to share a bottle of wine in the room as well...It's all about relaxing!"
I dont need a drink to meet but like you I always take a bottle on a meet to share with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drink at socials or meets don't need to plenty social enough and just not that keen tbh like to have my wits about me never know who's going to pounce on you

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"D*unk and feeling really horny, wanna meet?"

Mmmm, let me think about your very inviting offer.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Few drinks do help ease my nerves. Just 2 or 3 will sort me out

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't drink as I drive most places.

Don't really need a drink to be 'in the mood' lol

I don't mind the person drinking when meeting me as long as it's a couple of drinks. If the person is d*unk I would leave or ask them to leave.

Same in Clubs, I avoid those d*unk.

But that's my preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to drink till I can see double it's the easiest way to get a 3some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet anyone unless I had had a few glasses of wine. I would expect to share a bottle of wine in the room as well...It's all about relaxing!

Can't drink wine it makes me sleepy not the affect you want if you meet "

Oh not at all! Gets me going! Red wine. However

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet anyone unless I had had a few glasses of wine. I would expect to share a bottle of wine in the room as well...It's all about relaxing!I dont need a drink to meet but like you I always take a bottle on a meet to share with "

Yep, I'm a red wine lady..Don't tend to drink any other alcohol except for prosecco!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cup of tea suits me, I'm almost always driving so just don't risk it.

Used to have a Citroen

" Safe Saxo "

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

I don't need a drink before a meet,even for nerves lol,we have usually been chatting for a while before hand.so know if we're on the same wavelength and there's some kind of connection,if we're going anywhere I would.have a drink,just socially though,i wouldn't get rat arsed,and I certainly wouldn't turn up d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont need a drink but i like to chill together getting to know each other over some wine tbh and then see where it goes after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't drink at all, so no drink

but many know to give me a glass of water which prob lasts all night and morning, lollllllll

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't normally drink when we are out as I am normally driving, but even then I'm not a heavy drinker so it would usually be a lager shandy or two to be social and to calm whatever nerves there are. Wouldn't dream of being tipsy or in need to be well gone to play/enjoy another's company.

Mr S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a big drinker anyway but wouldn't mind one or two.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not a big drinker n prefer to be sober when playing although don't mind a few to get rid of the nerves

K x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Not a big drinker n prefer to be sober when playing although don't mind a few to get rid of the nerves

K x"

Same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone unless I was sober myself..It takes a lot more than two or three glasses of red to get me d*unk! You obviously do need to be careful, especially if it's a first meet. I agree with many of you there

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Don't mind having a drink with a meet... wouldn't get d*unk though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met someone in a hotel after his works night out. Bad decision of course. He was incapable of having a conversation and in the end I left. Disappointed as we had got on very well the first time! You just chalk it down to experience.

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Last meet was lots of coffee in the room. Got some funny looks when o kept going back to reception for more of those little milk pots

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I don't drink because of work. And the fact that I'm usually driving. It's never bothered me.

But a woman being d*unk is a turn off and I wouldn't play with her. I'd just make sure she got home safely.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Would most likely to drive on a 1st meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't drink because of work. And the fact that I'm usually driving. It's never bothered me.

But a woman being d*unk is a turn off and I wouldn't play with her. I'd just make sure she got home safely. "

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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm normally driving so wouldn't have a drink but I prefer to be sober on meets anyway. Although if I could, Is maybe have 2 to calm the nerves. Xxx

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Few social drinks is fine...

Getting pished out yer nut isn't...

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I'm usually driving so sober.

If I'm with someone I trust I don't mind having a drink or two and it does loosen me up a bit but I don't need to drink to have fun.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Either for me, though a drink or two quite often relaxes the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always sober on meets unless it's someone I have been meeting a fair bit then I'll have a few

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Most of our meets are daytime around lunchtime so it's a bit early for drinking. Each to their own tho. We aren't adverse to having a later meet with a fee drinks but it's just never happened yet

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Driving and daytime meets means it's not an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally driving so no, even if not driving a glass, 2 at most

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By *ootall2920Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

It depends on the circumstances. If I'm driving, then never.

I'll have a glass of wine otherwise if we are chatting at the start of the evening and we are both partaking. I never over indulge though, it's no fun for anyone if one person is over d*unk.

It's not something I need to have a good time.

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