FabSwingers.com forum: Being honest and open about yourself

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought I would post this topic as I have found that.many folk are frequently economical with the truth on fab about themselves. I am not in the least glam or slim but never pretend to be. Also when it comes to age. I have.met two guys who were meant to be 50 but clearly qualified for their free bus passes - why waste people's time. Have others experienced this too?

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

Never experienced this problem yet,read some funny stories though,I'm the opposite,I met someone who looked younger than there age and was one if the most genuine people I have spoken to,honest and a brilliant laugh from the off,couldn't compliment her more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am what it says on the tin no Chippendale. As my profile states just your average jo,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes

I am what I am...

Lumps bumps and all

Never pretend to be something I'm not

No point

Take me or leave me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the song goes I am what I am ....and honesty is the best policy and if not Karma will get you ! X Happy fabbing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about it.

If I was telling untruths would I have the profile I have

I'm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curvy big burlesque booty and im a total princess not just on here my friends all say the same about me love my girly fun I like to be honest about who I meet and expect the same from others if you don't like me then it's no bother I couldn't care less but I do think being honest about yourself is a better way to meet and get on with others xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm what I say on the tin.

Might be good to be a TV for a day,

I could be me, myself and Irene

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

What you see is what you get

52yr old bigger larger than life woman with a very nawty streak and big personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met an out and out liar or catfish but tbh I really want to.

It's SCREAMS 'I have issues' and I want to talk to that person about them lol.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

No lies from me, what you see is what you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very carefree and silly tbh. I enjoy a laugh and view life as a gift. My friends actually struggle to see the serious side of me sometimes but if they ever see me at work that's the business end and money maker. Strictly professional, prompt, diligent and hard working. Once the bills paid though go have some fun!

It's annoying at times thought for example when you have knowledge on a topic, can fix something etc and no one listens cos you fanny about half the time. When you get something right however it's viewed as a miracle lol

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Hell yes

I am what I am...

Lumps bumps and all

Never pretend to be something I'm not

No point

Take me or leave me lol

I'll take you thanks

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What you see is what you get

52yr old bigger larger than life woman with a very nawty streak and big personality

"
ops forgot I recently had a birthday 53yr old *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many Guys are honest on here! I get more straight guys wanting to meet me than gay or bi !!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Not many Guys are honest on here! I get more straight guys wanting to meet me than gay or bi !!"
no wonder nice ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol thanks x

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I'm as straight as they come, I can be asked anything I will tell.you truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am hot as fuck haha. Na i know what I am and for an ugly bugger I have done quite well

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I'm as straight as they come, I can be asked anything I will tell.you truth "
can I run my fingers through your chest hair ? .. you did say to ask

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Yes there are some folks who will do and say what ever to get a meet. Have known a guy who's same age as myself but over course of the years has became younger and younger lol!! Maybe FAB is the fountain of youth but sadly notlol.

I asked him why and he blatantly said that the young woman he wanted to meet have age range that would exclude him so he changed it lol !

I don't see the point of lying as you will slip up or in person the true reality is just glaringly obvious !!

I am a short arse menopausal hell bitch so no use pretending to be Shakira lol! At least I know the people who want to meet me are doing so with eyes wide open hehe!!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Apparently I am definitely the age I am due to some of the lyrics I sometimes use on my status.

I think it was a compliment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was moaning about my age on a post i put up but why reality is there for all to see but i truly love women with there bumps and lumps that as part of there getting older same as mens. I have always loved the older women from a very young age . Truly scrumptious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Nessarosa writing)

We keep it honest....always.

If someone lies on small things then its easy to lie about big thing.

Trust is very important to us.

"Lie once is scary, lie twice be wary"

"You must alway support a lie with a lie. A truth will stand alone"

Xxx

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By *izzymayWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm honest and upfront

Some times overly truthful if a hot person shows interest.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always honest about age and size. What u see is what you get with me and if people do not like it then it is their loss. I agree with someone really good looking tho I send full body shots cause I am not a slim lass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yes

I am what I am...

Lumps bumps and all

Never pretend to be something I'm not

No point

Take me or leave me lol

Take definitely definitely take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To honest for my own good most the time, but always honest what you see is what you get. The way I see it fabs a place to live out fantasies and for some to be someone else for me it's all about the laughter x

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hell yes

I am what I am...

Lumps bumps and all

Never pretend to be something I'm not

No point

Take me or leave me lol

Absolutely! It's hard enough being me sometimes without trying to be someone/something else

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Happy with who I am, wouldn't change anything, (well not everything anyway), advertised as seen

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Best to be honest. My profile is me. The only thing I won't discuss is my job....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest by name and by nature. Don't see the point in lying about my chubby bits or my age cos if I meet someone they are going to notice! I prefer folk to be honest with me too, can't stand being lied to

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Like I say on my profile, I am me, the good, the bad and the ugly!

Am too busy to pretend to be someone I am not and to be honest, am happy with who I am and don't have the need to invent a Fab persona.

Met a few guys and women during my years on here that are lying about their age. Even their fuckbuds don't know their real age! It's mental but hey ho.

Someone once admitted to me during a social that they lied because 'over 50s are passed it on fab'

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Oh... And someone also told me once they lied (that was via messages) because they had plastic surgery lol

They admitted to it after I received the face pic and challenged their age.

My reply was... oh dear! You should ask for your money back then! Surgery wasn't successful

You gotto love Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yes

I am what I am...

Lumps bumps and all

Never pretend to be something I'm not

No point

Take me or leave me lol

Absolutely! It's hard enough being me sometimes without trying to be someone/something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh... And someone also told me once they lied (that was via messages) because they had plastic surgery lol

They admitted to it after I received the face pic and challenged their age.

My reply was... oh dear! You should ask for your money back then! Surgery wasn't successful

You gotto love Fab

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm not meeting so I should probably change my profile and tell people I'm stunningly beautiful and steal a photo from Google.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought I would post this topic as I have found that.many folk are frequently economical with the truth on fab about themselves. I am not in the least glam or slim but never pretend to be. Also when it comes to age. I have.met two guys who were meant to be 50 but clearly qualified for their free bus passes - why waste people's time. Have others experienced this too? "

I get what your saying regards this..

Im just gonna twist this a little lol..

Why do you need too open up to anyone on a site for NSA sex ?

You find the attraction in the personality and boom you meet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not meeting so I should probably change my profile and tell people I'm stunningly beautiful and steal a photo from Google.

You dont need to...i can see that in your personality ..ya ride x

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'm not meeting so I should probably change my profile and tell people I'm stunningly beautiful and steal a photo from Google.

You dont need to...i can see that in your personality ..ya ride x

If someone does not want to open up then fair enough.

But why the need to pretend to 'open up' and give a false information/lie?

What your job?

1- i'd rather not say if you don't mind.

2- i work for NASA

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get what your saying regards this..

Im just gonna twist this a little lol..

Why do you need too open up to anyone on a site for NSA sex ?

You find the attraction in the personality and boom you meet..

Not sure what you mean by that? I was just discussing how people can be economical with the truth on fab

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I get what your saying regards this..

Im just gonna twist this a little lol..

Why do you need too open up to anyone on a site for NSA sex ?

You find the attraction in the personality and boom you meet..

Not sure what you mean by that? I was just discussing how people can be economical with the truth on fab"

Maybe they're just bad at arithmetic when they get older and can't work out they're age???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what your saying regards this..

Im just gonna twist this a little lol..

Why do you need too open up to anyone on a site for NSA sex ?

You find the attraction in the personality and boom you meet..

Not sure what you mean by that? I was just discussing how people can be economical with the truth on fab"

I wasagreeing with ya ..

However,i just wanted to open it up in a different perspective..

If Gerald Butler told you a lie about his age..knowingly you found him attractive and enjoyed his chat ..

Would you fuck him ?

Its a site for NSA .....right ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get what your saying regards this..

Im just gonna twist this a little lol..

Why do you need too open up to anyone on a site for NSA sex ?

You find the attraction in the personality and boom you meet..

Not sure what you mean by that? I was just discussing how people can be economical with the truth on fab

I wasagreeing with ya ..

However,i just wanted to open it up in a different perspective..

If Gerald Butler told you a lie about his age..knowingly you found him attractive and enjoyed his chat ..

Would you fuck him ?

Its a site for NSA .....right ?

Hmm...I really don't like liars - met a few and it's off-putting to me, especially when it's folk whose picture, age and description doesn't match the reality. Not so bothered about shaving two years off age or about job title but certain things no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tracey

i am what i am a guy who wants to met gals lol grant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tracey

i am what i am a guy who wants to met gals lol grant

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By *lamgran6Woman
over a year ago

alloa

Im like marmite you either like me or u dont. I dont see the need to lie on ur profile as truth will always show up in the end .

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"I'm as straight as they come, I can be asked anything I will tell.you truth can I run my fingers through your chest hair ? .. you did say to ask

Anytime and anywhere nawty

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Hell yes

I am what I am...

Lumps bumps and all

Never pretend to be something I'm not

No point

Take me or leave me lol

Absolutely! It's hard enough being me sometimes without trying to be someone/something else

Having just checked your photos out, you have no need to be something/something else,very sexy lady as you are

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm me. I'm cheeky. Short. Hairy.

I am 43.

But I know that some are very economical with the truth OP.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I get what your saying regards this..

Im just gonna twist this a little lol..

Why do you need too open up to anyone on a site for NSA sex ?

You find the attraction in the personality and boom you meet..

Not sure what you mean by that? I was just discussing how people can be economical with the truth on fab

I wasagreeing with ya ..

However,i just wanted to open it up in a different perspective..

If Gerald Butler told you a lie about his age..knowingly you found him attractive and enjoyed his chat ..

Would you fuck him ?

Its a site for NSA .....right ?

Totally agree Tracey. I don't like liars and don't like being taken for an idiot... So G Butler will be told to jog on

You have to have a little respect for yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

At the end of the day people take me as they find me. I like to be honest about what I am looking for on my profile...while someone's status, job, bank balance is totally irrelevant to me I do appreciate a similarly honest profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I'm not interested in day to day stuff

All I'm asking is to be told te truth on age.. height.. looks...those seem to be the parts that some guys struggle with?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"To be fair I'm not interested in day to day stuff

All I'm asking is to be told te truth on age.. height.. looks...those seem to be the parts that some guys struggle with?"

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

"To be fair I'm not interested in day to day stuff

All I'm asking is to be told te truth on age.. height.. looks...those seem to be the parts that some guys struggle with?"

Is it mainly guys who do it then or is it a combination of the two

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"To be fair I'm not interested in day to day stuff

All I'm asking is to be told te truth on age.. height.. looks...those seem to be the parts that some guys struggle with?

Is it mainly guys who do it then or is it a combination of the two"

Age bit both

Looks I heard both too

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

"To be fair I'm not interested in day to day stuff

All I'm asking is to be told te truth on age.. height.. looks...those seem to be the parts that some guys struggle with?

Is it mainly guys who do it then or is it a combination of the two

Age bit both

Looks I heard both too "

Don't really see the point to be honest,if you get a meet your going to look like a right twat,then a gain they will just make up another profile and start again

I can see folk altering age so they can message people to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So ..i build up a continuity of enticing interesting chat with a 30yr old Woman .

We meet for NSA sex..

Sorry hunni ..im not 30 im actually 50..

Would i be disappointed ?

Feckin sure i wouldnt ..Ive already built up the attraction in her personality to be worried about her age or carrying a few extra pounds than her profile projects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Lee)

We live in a society where we think little lies are okay.... but big lies are not. It all starts somewhere.... honour and integrity.

Who know where someones limits are with little lies and big lies.

Ive never gone wrong with the truth.

Old saying

"No, I wont cum in your mouth, the check is in the mail and I will call you in the morning."

Hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have experienced this where older men have reduced their age down to message me and tell me how wonderful a meet would be with them. I have always remained polite and said thank you but no thanks however they continue to advise me to look at their veris because they have met people that have verified me. It then personally comes to a point for me where their age isn't the issue but the fact they have not respected my decision of not wanting to meet and basically trying to force me to meet them

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"To be fair I'm not interested in day to day stuff

All I'm asking is to be told te truth on age.. height.. looks...those seem to be the parts that some guys struggle with?

Is it mainly guys who do it then or is it a combination of the two

Age bit both

Looks I heard both too

Don't really see the point to be honest,if you get a meet your going to look like a right twat,then a gain they will just make up another profile and start again

I can see folk altering age so they can message people to start with"

Some also alter the 'bi' and the 'straight'.

Hey, how's you? You're not bi anymore?

Yes, I am but the girl am interested in wants a straight guy so I changed my profile

Ah ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair I'm not interested in day to day stuff

All I'm asking is to be told te truth on age.. height.. looks...those seem to be the parts that some guys struggle with?

Is it mainly guys who do it then or is it a combination of the two

Age bit both

Looks I heard both too

Don't really see the point to be honest,if you get a meet your going to look like a right twat,then a gain they will just make up another profile and start again

I can see folk altering age so they can message people to start with

Some also alter the 'bi' and the 'straight'.

Hey, how's you? You're not bi anymore?

Yes, I am but the girl am interested in wants a straight guy so I changed my profile

Ah ok

Im French today can we meet now max

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"To be fair I'm not interested in day to day stuff

All I'm asking is to be told te truth on age.. height.. looks...those seem to be the parts that some guys struggle with?

Is it mainly guys who do it then or is it a combination of the two

Age bit both

Looks I heard both too

Don't really see the point to be honest,if you get a meet your going to look like a right twat,then a gain they will just make up another profile and start again

I can see folk altering age so they can message people to start with

Some also alter the 'bi' and the 'straight'.

Hey, how's you? You're not bi anymore?

Yes, I am but the girl am interested in wants a straight guy so I changed my profile

Ah ok

Im French today can we meet now max

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a 50 year old married guy on here on his own I've no qualms with being up front

I've even put on my profile look I'm 50 yes I'm married no my wife does not know I do this and yes that does mean I've next to no chance of meeting anyone

But you know what - I still get ladies checking my profile I've made a good few friends already I've done my first gangbang which was bloody brill- so my view is don't be impatient don't sound desperate- I actually love emailing folk and saying hi cause I get a little buzz when I get a reply - it means a lot to me so please contact me if you fancy a chat - it would be great to hear from u - especially if you have massive tits and love to do a busty nurse roleplay !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair I'm not interested in day to day stuff

All I'm asking is to be told te truth on age.. height.. looks...those seem to be the parts that some guys struggle with?

Is it mainly guys who do it then or is it a combination of the two"
I don't meet chicks so wouldn't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair I'm not interested in day to day stuff

All I'm asking is to be told te truth on age.. height.. looks...those seem to be the parts that some guys struggle with?

Is it mainly guys who do it then or is it a combination of the twoI don't meet chicks so wouldn't know

Well have something in common

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By *att231Man
over a year ago

dundee

What u see is what u get that's prob why no one wants a meet haha joys o fab life I guess?

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"Being a 50 year old married guy on here on his own I've no qualms with being up front

I've even put on my profile look I'm 50 yes I'm married no my wife does not know I do this and yes that does mean I've next to no chance of meeting anyone

I may not actually state it as openly as yourself. But I do mention that the reason I can't accommodate and say about discretion is due to the fact that I am married. I say this within first couple of messages.

And yes, some may not reply, for whatever reason but others who have responded have led to friendships and meets.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Think I am honest on my profile - not much more you can say to a wheelchair, accept it or not lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is always the best policy, but discretion remains the better part of valour. Equally though, being brutally honest can be hurtful to other people, especially people you don't know. So if there are people who get in contact with me and I'm not interested, for whatever reason, then I'm still honest, but polite and respectful. That's just as important as honesty in my book.

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