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By *earded blossom OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You see this on a lot of profiles n I've never thought to have it on ours as I just assume everyone washes daily. Lately I've noticed some people are for want of a nicer term absolutely stinking, I wonder how they can't smell themselves or why their partner doesn't tell them.

So what I'm wondering is, how you all deal with it in a situation where you're getting intimate. Do you just come right out and tell them? Make your excuses and not say anything then avoid them? Or something else?

K x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Thankfully we have never had to deal with that, everyone we have met has smelt lovely x

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By *earded blossom OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Thankfully we have never had to deal with that, everyone we have met has smelt lovely x"

I shoulda said these have been social situations... thankfully we've never had it in an intimate situation

K x

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By *ilgamesh555Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I always keep a large brush and a pressure washer on hand, just give them a quick once over

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Ive been lucky in that all my meets have been nice and fresh some even showering once they have arrived despite already showering before they left the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself n hubby went to a cpls flat yrs ago...

Stayed about 20 mins..left as I swore I saw a fekn rat run by my feet!!

That's how mucky their flat was

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

I would just be blunt about it. In this day and age if you're expecting someone to put your genitals in their mouth then it goes without saying they should be clean lol

#saynotocheese

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Peoples perception of clean and dirty differ some believe that rolling in mud then toweling off is clean. while others believe scrubbing every inch of you body with wirewool n dettol is clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never experienced this either BB but I guess that's why it's good to have that all important social meet first... not an easy subject to broach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm blunt about it there's no excuse I'm sorry but I'm not going near a smelly person I make an effort not only to be clean and smelling fresh but also take care with my appearance, do my makeup,my hair, wear something sexy so if you can't make an effort it's not happening but yea K I know what you mean some on the scene need to seriously look at there personal hygiene it's disgusting I prefer to be with those who know what soap and deodorant are for xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having ocd n an extreme sense of smell if someone is smelly im either gonne be an absolute cunt n tell them to fuck off or if there's a group il just get out blurghhh i take too much pride in me smelling good for some smelly fucker to be rubbin against me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having ocd n an extreme sense of smell if someone is smelly im either gonne be an absolute cunt n tell them to fuck off or if there's a group il just get out blurghhh i take too much pride in me smelling good for some smelly fucker to be rubbin against me"

I knew there was some reason why everyone bins me

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

In a social situation I would just avoid the person, I wouldn't say anything.

If it was an intimate situation then I'd make my excuses and leave.

As Cherub said earlier, we make an effort to smell nice and to take care of ourselves and I would expect anyone we're playing with to do the same.

I've been really put off potential play partners before because of a bad smell!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people need to get the Colgate out as well....

I recoil when I smell honking breath

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By *earded blossom OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Some people need to get the Colgate out as well....

I recoil when I smell honking breath "

This is a total deal breaker for me... I've met some cracking people that I've thought ye definately n then that happens n I'm totally put off

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a social situation I would just avoid the person, I wouldn't say anything.

If it was an intimate situation then I'd make my excuses and leave.

As Cherub said earlier, we make an effort to smell nice and to take care of ourselves and I would expect anyone we're playing with to do the same.

I've been really put off potential play partners before because of a bad smell!

Mrs x"

I'l be smelling you very soon Mrs adventure

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"In a social situation I would just avoid the person, I wouldn't say anything.

If it was an intimate situation then I'd make my excuses and leave.

As Cherub said earlier, we make an effort to smell nice and to take care of ourselves and I would expect anyone we're playing with to do the same.

I've been really put off potential play partners before because of a bad smell!

Mrs x

I'l be smelling you very soon Mrs adventure "

Looking forward to it my lovely cherub!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,you don't get intimate

You give them a wide berth

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

Keep a gas mask handy? Oops maybe that's just for fetish nights

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By *un4two16Couple
over a year ago

livingston

Fem half is blunt she would either say or be sick...

Hubby most likely give them a wide berth lol he's to polite.....

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By *earded blossom OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Fem half is blunt she would either say or be sick...

Hubby most likely give them a wide berth lol he's to polite..... "

We're the opposite lol... he would say whereas I'd probably just avoid

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A stench I really hate is stale deoderant/perfume. People keep applying it without washing the old layer off, creates a uniquely abhorrant stink. I've seen guys play football then spray on the deoderant without showering. - Are they too shy to shower? afraid that the rest of the teams will laugh at their anatomy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep a gas mask handy? Oops maybe that's just for fetish nights"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would just be blunt about it. In this day and age if you're expecting someone to put your genitals in their mouth then it goes without saying they should be clean lol

#saynotocheese"

Oh god I would seriously vomit lol

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

—


"Myself n hubby went to a cpls flat yrs ago...

Stayed about 20 mins..left as I swore I saw a fekn rat run by my feet!!

That's how mucky their flat was "

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Oh man! I hate stinky people!

There's not excuse at all for not having a wash! X

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Surely most households have showers installed nowadays.

Simply no need to be ponging of B.O. or being too lazy to wash. Ffs it only takes a few minutes to shower.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I'd shower before i leave the house and lather & rinse the important bits several times over ..

I've only had one bad experience where the woman hadn't even washed under her breasts.. for a few weeks by the look of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember a few years back i had been having a munchie night and had eaten a few packets of cheese n onion crisps then i got a message on here from a female asking if i'd like a meet, 30mins later i was snogging her and wondering if she could smell them even after a good brushing, mouth wash and chewing gum as i drove to her, i don't think she did as nothing was said and i met her twice after that

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"Surely most households have showers installed nowadays.

Simply no need to be ponging of B.O. or being too lazy to wash. Ffs it only takes a few minutes to shower."

Some of us even lucky enough to have a workplace with a shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people need to get the Colgate out as well....

I recoil when I smell honking breath

This is a total deal breaker for me... I've met some cracking people that I've thought ye definately n then that happens n I'm totally put off

K x"

Hahaha this is same for me that and manky fingernails xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it stated on my profile. When I first joined had a bad experience of this and just told the person I was too nervous and we would meet some other time. How do you say to someone they reek of BO, death breath and manky dirty fingernails??. Ever since that it is something I feel strongly about. I instantly just look at someone's fingernails now something I never ever done before joining fab

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