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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

(Lee writing)

Nessarosa and I were curios.

Have you told any of you non-swinging friends that you are in the lifestyle/erotic photography/dogging ect???

We have told 2 of Nessarosa's close friends and 2 couples from photography gatherings/friends.

All were understanding, curious and non judgemental. (I think we are lucky)

Thoughts? experience? who could you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!!!

Not a living soul

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By *hebs maloneyWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yeah told a couple of friends it's nothing to be a shamed about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hell no!!!

Not a living soul "

We think there will be a lot of that.

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah told a couple of friends it's nothing to be a shamed about "

Wow, thanks.

Some of our friends have suspicions...and the one couple thought so but said it was none of their business.

They are really good friends.

Cheers

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

One friend not on fab knows but I have taken him to TG and we've been to Camden crunch as he likes to cross dress.

He did take me to Soho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell no!!!

Not a living soul "

That!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"(Lee writing)

Nessarosa and I were curios.

Have you told any of you non-swinging friends that you are in the lifestyle/erotic photography/dogging ect???

We have told 2 of Nessarosa's close friends and 2 couples from photography gatherings/friends.

All were understanding, curious and non judgemental. (I think we are lucky)

Thoughts? experience? who could you?

"

yes my best friend knows and when I told her she wasnt the least bit surprised not sure why

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

My best friend introduced us to fab

Doesn't really bother me who knows I'm not doing anything wrong

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah told a couple of friends it's nothing to be a shamed about "

Agreed. Told my sister and a couple of close friends xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 of our closest friends for school days know they were fine called us lucky b_____ds lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum knows. My brother knows. All my friends know lol. This is nothing I am ashamed of. It is part of who I am. Not one of them has passed a negative judgement. They are curious to ask about it. Yeah some can't get their head around it but certainly don't treat me or us any differently. Actually I have had people being more open with me because they know that I won't judge them xxx

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By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I didn't for a long time as I didn't want fab involved in my every day life. I eventually decided to confide in my 4 closest friends mainly as I hated lying to them and it was always awkward if I was attending nights out as they would ask who I was out with etc.

I finally decided I had to tell them when I officially got with grump as we had a lot of history and as none of my friends were aware of fab they didn't like him as they thought he was a player and a bawbag. None he's just one of the group and although 3 of them have told me they don't approve but as long as I am happy in this lifestyle they will support me I feel so much better now

Glitter x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

(Lee)

Thank you all for sharing, its really interesting the degree of sharing/ privacy (for better words).

Thank you.

(From Nessa also)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Actually love having a naughty secret tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I Actually love having a naughty secret tho "

Is that what you call me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...

I call you other things too

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Quite a few of our friends know. I'm not too fussed really, at the end of the day it's our life and if someone didn't want to be friends with us because we're swingers then they're not the sort of person we'd want in our lives anyway!

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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"(Lee writing)

Nessarosa and I were curios.

Have you told any of you non-swinging friends that you are in the lifestyle/erotic photography/dogging ect???

We have told 2 of Nessarosa's close friends and 2 couples from photography gatherings/friends.

All were understanding, curious and non judgemental. (I think we are lucky)

Thoughts? experience? who could you?

"

Most of my friends know that I meet girls but not specifically swinging but I would tell them if they asked.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Quite a few of our friends know. I'm not too fussed really, at the end of the day it's our life and if someone didn't want to be friends with us because we're swingers then they're not the sort of person we'd want in our lives anyway! "

This. My friends all know, no one has been judgemental and know they can talk to me about anything as I'm so open

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"(Lee writing)

Nessarosa and I were curios.

Have you told any of you non-swinging friends that you are in the lifestyle/erotic photography/dogging ect???

We have told 2 of Nessarosa's close friends and 2 couples from photography gatherings/friends.

All were understanding, curious and non judgemental. (I think we are lucky)

Thoughts? experience? who could you?

yes my best friend knows and when I told her she wasnt the least bit surprised not sure why "

Lmfao x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister and my daughter know. Neither were surprised.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"My sister and my daughter know. Neither were surprised. "

My daughter knows and is totally cool about it n for me no one else opinion matters

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My sister and my daughter know. Neither were surprised.

My daughter knows and is totally cool about it n for me no one else opinion matters

K x"

Exactly.

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

Nobody just ye lot and I know ye are cool about it......thanks guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two... none were surprised

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

Yeah I've told alot of my friends, git d*unk a couple of weeks back and told a half my work mates tgat I had taken a weekend off to go to CJs at the end of the month.

Think couple were surprised but none were judgemental.

Couple of friends have been curious not enough to join but think its a matter of time

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Lifestyle yes they know im not the same as them. They know I have lots of "friends".

The word swinging or this site nope they dont know im on gamernet either though lol

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By *itness_FornicatorsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Most of my friends know about it, I'm not ashamed of it and don't understand why more people don't swing. Monogamy is not for me.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Told one of my pals, who was a little surprised, but said if no one gets hurt then 'fill yer boots'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work with a close team of similarly aged women and one man. After some d*unken games of never have I ever and trying to explain certain things I came clean about my swinging lifestyle.

Turned out a colleague is on another Fetish website and ones ex in laws ran the swinging club up here! There's no judgement and not as many questions as I expected!

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No, none of my friends know.

And that's how I prefer to keep it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

(Lee)

We have to say thank you again for all the different perspectives on this subject.

Its amazing to see, if you read both pros and cons in each persons story.

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, Mrs, told my 2 best friends last year on a night away.

They both had loads of questions, looked at our profile, had more questions, but don't care as long as we're happy and being safe.

A few other friends know as well and are keen to maybe dabble themselves.

It's not something I'm ashamed of, but it's not something I'm willing to tell to just anyone x

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By *elledegoreCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

select people...

I have the hottest ex workmate, that I'm dying to introduce on the scene...I know she'd love cj's, esp dungeoun etc...she knows my pics arent what she sees on facebook etc..I think she is worried about my intent(obviously it was and is there), but ffs...this woman is utterly gorgeous with a very moviestar(1940's) look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told two mates, and after I told them they were very intrigued. As to whether they joined or not I'm not sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

(Nessarosa writing)

Coincidentally, after work tonight some good friends(who are on another site and do naughty/ fetish photography) are coming over for drinks.

We will probably tell them tonight and hint at getting some photos taken by them at a later date.

Not sure how this will go.... but probably good subject for drinks.

Xxx

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