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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it you get classed as a idiot if you are very shy and quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think introverts are idiots.

They talk less garbage than most people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only an idiot would class anyone one for being anything just because they are quiet and shy. Don't let them get you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think introverts are idiots.

They talk less garbage than most people."

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

If you're shy and quiet, you are far more likely to get a furry hug to make you smile and to break the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im also shy but to thicken the plot i don't talk vulgar or come across rude but yet i still dont seem to get anywhere ??

Maybe being a gentleman just isnt the way!!

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If someone classes me as being an idiot for being shy then fuck them.

Yes I'm shy, but I'm no idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope that's not the case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as an uncomfortable silence.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Why is it you get classed as a idiot if you are very shy and quiet "
not sure who it is that classes you and Idiot is it people on here or in real life?

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Better to be silent and thought a fool than to open your mouth and prove it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Better to be silent and thought a fool than to open your mouth and prove it "
such a true saying

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

How do you know thats what others think ?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I wouldnt say shy folk get treayed like idiots. I would say some folk have a tendancy to treat shy folk like children. Oh there there you are shy come sit with us would you like a glass of pop

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By *enfreddyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Should say shy and nervous . Really frustrating how people don't understand

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By *rytherainCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

There's a good book written a few years back that covers all aspects of this topic, Susan Cain - Quiet:The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking.

Definitely worth a read for the quiet and shy as well as the screaming extroverts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a good book written a few years back that covers all aspects of this topic, Susan Cain - Quiet:The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking.

Definitely worth a read for the quiet and shy as well as the screaming extroverts "

I've always been meaning to pick up a copy. It does such being shy at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...shy one here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im shy quiet and can be an idiot at times

But hey so can we all be

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm rarely quiet or shy. Unless I've been up to no good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dependa on which of my multiple personalities comes to the forefront on any given day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is fab an you need a thick skin, as it doesn't matter what you are someone will always find fault, wether your shy or outgoing if your curvy or thin if your on cam or won't cam.....there will always Be someone to find fault.....an those ppl my friend...those are the real IDIOTS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is fab an you need a thick skin, as it doesn't matter what you are someone will always find fault, wether your shy or outgoing if your curvy or thin if your on cam or won't cam.....there will always Be someone to find fault.....an those ppl my friend...those are the real IDIOTS "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be incredibly shy. Honestly! Missed out on a lot in life because of it.

Happy to say, I'm over it now but it can indeed be a huge drawback but not something to be criticised for. I'm sure everyone except the very most confident of people have suffered in one way or another at one time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some are just too quick to judge. I have had many things thought about me. Who cares though, there are a few that treat others well and it is those people we should invite to be part of our lives. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must afree with what others have said here; just cause you're quiet does not make you an idiot.

I tend to be VERY shy/quiet/introverted around folk I've never met before but once I vet to know them, they cant get me to shut up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its just that in real life sometimes others think I to shy and when I meet then from fab I don't seam to give the guys wot they really like yes I like quickies ect but don't seam to get much responses from them after the deed has been done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just that in real life sometimes others think I to shy and when I meet then from fab I don't seam to give the guys wot they really like yes I like quickies ect but don't seam to get much responses from them after the deed has been done "

I wouldn't necessarily say that has anything to do with you! Aren't the guys who are just looking for a quickie the hit it and quit it sort anyway? Pardon the crude phrase lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was Gonna Say I'm Shy but who am I kidden

I just aint shy

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Its just that in real life sometimes others think I to shy and when I meet then from fab I don't seam to give the guys wot they really like yes I like quickies ect but don't seam to get much responses from them after the deed has been done "
For a lot of people on fab thats the beauty just sex with nothing afterwards so maybe make it clear on your profile that your not looking for one off meets but friendships to enhance the sex

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Alternatively some of those guys might quite like to come back round again, but are maybe waiting for some indication or signal from you. Trying not to be pushy. If you're very shy they might mistake lack of contact for lack of interest.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Alternatively some of those guys might quite like to come back round again, but are maybe waiting for some indication or signal from you. Trying not to be pushy. If you're very shy they might mistake lack of contact for lack of interest."
very valid points too

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Alternatively some of those guys might quite like to come back round again, but are maybe waiting for some indication or signal from you. Trying not to be pushy. If you're very shy they might mistake lack of contact for lack of interest."

Valid points.

It's a two way street.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Its just that in real life sometimes others think I to shy and when I meet then from fab I don't seam to give the guys wot they really like yes I like quickies ect but don't seam to get much responses from them after the deed has been done "

What kind of response are you looking for? You state in your profile you only do quickies lift skirt etc . ... the blokes you are meeting clearly want the same! It's a sex site not a dating site. Good Luck

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

exactly what kind of response are you expecting, seems like your looking for quick no strings sex and that's what your getting lol

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By *ir MagicMan
over a year ago

Angus

I was told it is better to stay quiet and be thought an idiot than to open your mouth and prove it. One of these days I might follow my own advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we all no whay the site is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it you get classed as a idiot if you are very shy and quiet "

I always tell first that am.shy n quiet if they dint like it their loss. Shy n quiet are best ones

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By *atureMale321Man
over a year ago

Moray

Shy in s group , tend not to want to be first, prefer to suss things out slowly , not sure if that's shy just cautious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a very shy quiet chap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a very shy quiet chap."

Looked shy when you were doing the snail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to be shy in larger groups, don't want to be seen as pushy

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