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"Hi I have been thinking about an organising a private event for ladies and select men only ............. An event where the ladies could be entertained, have a laugh and a few drinks and maybe some playing fun too......... Any interest? Claire xxxxx" like a singles night you mean? | |||
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"Hi I have been thinking about an organising a private event for ladies and select men only ............. An event where the ladies could be entertained, have a laugh and a few drinks and maybe some playing fun too......... Any interest? Claire xxxxx" Sounds interesting but I come as a pair unless it's ladies only K x | |||
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"Hi I have been thinking about an organising a private event for ladies and select men only ............. An event where the ladies could be entertained, have a laugh and a few drinks and maybe some playing fun too......... Any interest? Claire xxxxx Sounds interesting but I come as a pair unless it's ladies only K x"  | |||
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"Selective...like your hubby being involved?  "No ladies don't need to be single and no not my hubby ....... | |||
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"Who selects the men and what would the selection criteria be?" Well we could agree the selection criteria in advance ......... | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused "In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen........... | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen..........."so just a fem night? | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?"Yes but with male entertainment.......... | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused " Not sure what you have in mind??
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
Not sure what you have in mind??
I'll wait for more info "I feel I'm having one of those days where I know what I want to say but it's not coming out right lol! | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment.........."like buff waiters kind of idea? | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment.........."So fabs equivalent of The Chippendales or what kind of entertainment? | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment..........like buff waiters kind of idea?"Yes exactly .......... | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment..........
So fabs equivalent of The Chippendales or what kind of entertainment?"this was my thinking too | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment..........like buff waiters kind of idea?
Yes exactly .........."What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment..........like buff waiters kind of idea?
Yes exactly ..........
What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol "The enjoyment of being in the company of such sexy women.......  | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment.........."I found doing the ladies night that in a couple situation the guys wanted reassurances that there would be no men in attendance whatsoever K x | |||
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"Not for me but good luck if this goes ahead " Thanks I'm just gauging interest x | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment..........like buff waiters kind of idea?
Yes exactly ..........
What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol "Oh dear god no. I have had the unfortunate experience of buff butler's who come as the entertaiment and they are allowed to stay and they think they have the right to touch and do what they want thinking the females are fair game. I will stick to the female nights that have been arranged previously  | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment..........like buff waiters kind of idea?
Yes exactly ..........
What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol
The enjoyment of being in the company of such sexy women....... "I would suggest ice cold buckets strategically placed in the venue should a guy requires a quick cooling doon lol
Not sure it is for me. A list of all the men attending would be required before I decide.
And by experience some single guys are unreliable and don't turn up! So that would jeopardise your 'entertainment'.
I'll keep an eye out for this when you have the details | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment..........like buff waiters kind of idea?
Yes exactly ..........
What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol
The enjoyment of being in the company of such sexy women.......
I would suggest ice cold buckets strategically placed in the venue should a guy requires a quick cooling doon lol
Not sure it is for me. A list of all the men attending would be required before I decide.
And by experience some single guys are unreliable and don't turn up! So that would jeopardise your 'entertainment'.
I'll keep an eye out for this when you have the details "water wasn't enough last time. Good luck with it but would only go to the ladies night that have been previously organised if it was couples that would be different | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now " There were no men at their ladies night x | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now " They have been ladies bi-fem parties, I may be wrong but think as males are in attendance it's not the same thing. | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now " we have bi ladies nights .Totally different ,Our nights are strictly no men | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now we have bi ladies nights .Totally different ,Our nights are strictly no men "And very well organised too xx | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now They have been ladies bi-fem parties, I may be wrong but think as males are in attendance it's not the same thing." well if not a ladies nightwhy would you want to go for single guys alot of couple would not be interested in that at all. | |||
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"What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol "Somehow I don't think you would be short of male volunteers for this  . | |||
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"What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol
Somehow I don't think you would be short of male volunteers for this ."hell no the amount of camera men we were offered | |||
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"What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol
Somehow I don't think you would be short of male volunteers for this ."Lol are you offering hat? | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now They have been ladies bi-fem parties, I may be wrong but think as males are in attendance it's not the same thing. well if not a ladies nightwhy would you want to go for single guys alot of couple would not be interested in that at all." I believe reading through this its a ladies night akin to a hen night with male entertainment.butlers dancers ect ect. The biggest problem I see is and the op can correct me if im wrong but themales will come from fab. Apart from being a bitch for multiple fems all night whats in it for them. | |||
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"Having spoken to a few ladies at the last ladies night, several of them really enjoyed the night as they weren't having to fend off unwanted male attention. It made the night more relaxed for them. " Thanks for the feedback x | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now They have been ladies bi-fem parties, I may be wrong but think as males are in attendance it's not the same thing. well if not a ladies nightwhy would you want to go for single guys alot of couple would not be interested in that at all.I believe reading through this its a ladies night akin to a hen night with male entertainment.butlers dancers ect ect. The biggest problem I see is and the op can correct me if im wrong but themales will come from fab. Apart from being a bitch for multiple fems all night whats in it for them. " I haven't decided where they will come from ..........this is at the idea stage only and it would not be advertised | |||
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"What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol
Somehow I don't think you would be short of male volunteers for this ."Indeed but I bet only a handful would turn up and do as they are told | |||
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"If I get the gist of the OP's proposal, this is a night *for* and *about* the ladies in attendance, but not exclusively attended by ladies. I guess a night of indulgence for ladies who might like to be indulged with men in the mix rather than exclusively women. Did I get that right, OP? I think you'd need to select you men very carefully indeed and make sure they all know what behaviour you expect of them, to avoid some of the bad experiences and fears that other ladies have voiced. Good luck Sounds like a fun idea."Yes that's what I'm proposing and yes any men would be carefully selected to avoid any bad experiences ........ | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now They have been ladies bi-fem parties, I may be wrong but think as males are in attendance it's not the same thing. well if not a ladies nightwhy would you want to go for single guys alot of couple would not be interested in that at all.I believe reading through this its a ladies night akin to a hen night with male entertainment.butlers dancers ect ect. The biggest problem I see is and the op can correct me if im wrong but themales will come from fab. Apart from being a bitch for multiple fems all night whats in it for them. I haven't decided where they will come from ..........this is at the idea stage only and it would not be advertised " pay for the male entertainment from a reputable firm that way you can expect a level of professionalism. Im sure splitting it between the fem attendees it wouldnt be to expensive . | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now They have been ladies bi-fem parties, I may be wrong but think as males are in attendance it's not the same thing. well if not a ladies nightwhy would you want to go for single guys alot of couple would not be interested in that at all.I believe reading through this its a ladies night akin to a hen night with male entertainment.butlers dancers ect ect. The biggest problem I see is and the op can correct me if im wrong but themales will come from fab. Apart from being a bitch for multiple fems all night whats in it for them. I haven't decided where they will come from ..........this is at the idea stage only and it would not be advertised pay for the male entertainment from a reputable firm that way you can expect a level of professionalism. Im sure splitting it between the fem attendees it wouldnt be to expensive ." Yes a good idea kola x | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now They have been ladies bi-fem parties, I may be wrong but think as males are in attendance it's not the same thing. well if not a ladies nightwhy would you want to go for single guys alot of couple would not be interested in that at all.I believe reading through this its a ladies night akin to a hen night with male entertainment.butlers dancers ect ect. The biggest problem I see is and the op can correct me if im wrong but themales will come from fab. Apart from being a bitch for multiple fems all night whats in it for them. I haven't decided where they will come from ..........this is at the idea stage only and it would not be advertised pay for the male entertainment from a reputable firm that way you can expect a level of professionalism. Im sure splitting it between the fem attendees it wouldnt be to expensive ." The buff butler's used at an event where from a company however as soon as they knew it was a swinger event no professionalism at all  | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now They have been ladies bi-fem parties, I may be wrong but think as males are in attendance it's not the same thing. well if not a ladies nightwhy would you want to go for single guys alot of couple would not be interested in that at all.I believe reading through this its a ladies night akin to a hen night with male entertainment.butlers dancers ect ect. The biggest problem I see is and the op can correct me if im wrong but themales will come from fab. Apart from being a bitch for multiple fems all night whats in it for them. I haven't decided where they will come from ..........this is at the idea stage only and it would not be advertised pay for the male entertainment from a reputable firm that way you can expect a level of professionalism. Im sure splitting it between the fem attendees it wouldnt be to expensive ." This would probably help reassure ladies that the guys are only there to do the job you've hired them for K x | |||
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"Is a ladies night not what _earded blossom & happy deviants have just held? Think there's actually been two of them now They have been ladies bi-fem parties, I may be wrong but think as males are in attendance it's not the same thing. well if not a ladies nightwhy would you want to go for single guys alot of couple would not be interested in that at all.I believe reading through this its a ladies night akin to a hen night with male entertainment.butlers dancers ect ect. The biggest problem I see is and the op can correct me if im wrong but themales will come from fab. Apart from being a bitch for multiple fems all night whats in it for them. I haven't decided where they will come from ..........this is at the idea stage only and it would not be advertised pay for the male entertainment from a reputable firm that way you can expect a level of professionalism. Im sure splitting it between the fem attendees it wouldnt be to expensive . The buff butler's used at an event where from a company however as soon as they knew it was a swinger event no professionalism at all "That's useful to know will need to keep schtum........ | |||
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"I know that some guys on here would say anything to be selected but... ...it would be interesting to hear from the genuine guys on Fab and know how they would feel about being the 'entertainment' at a ladies social or a ladies play party "Im happy to be painted gold and sit crosslegged on a table like a wee Scottish Bhudda, the ladies can even rub my belly for luck | |||
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"I know that some guys on here would say anything to be selected but... ...it would be interesting to hear from the genuine guys on Fab and know how they would feel about being the 'entertainment' at a ladies social or a ladies play party
Im happy to be painted gold and sit crosslegged on a table like a wee Scottish Bhudda, the ladies can even rub my belly for luck "I dont think it would be your belly they'd be interested in rubbing lol | |||
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"I know that some guys on here would say anything to be selected but... ...it would be interesting to hear from the genuine guys on Fab and know how they would feel about being the 'entertainment' at a ladies social or a ladies play party "I would be no ones plaything but thats just me | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment..........like buff waiters kind of idea?
Yes exactly ..........
What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol
Oh dear god no. I have had the unfortunate experience of buff butler's who come as the entertaiment and they are allowed to stay and they think they have the right to touch and do what they want thinking the females are fair game. I will stick to the female nights that have been arranged previously "I'm with Kelly on this I prefer a ladies night to be ladies only... I'm not putting on a show for any guy when I have a girls night it about the women having the freedom to explore with out prying eyes il stick to the girls nights the way they are just now xx | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment..........like buff waiters kind of idea?
Yes exactly ..........
What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol
Oh dear god no. I have had the unfortunate experience of buff butler's who come as the entertaiment and they are allowed to stay and they think they have the right to touch and do what they want thinking the females are fair game. I will stick to the female nights that have been arranged previously
I'm with Kelly on this I prefer a ladies night to be ladies only... I'm not putting on a show for any guy when I have a girls night it about the women having the freedom to explore with out prying eyes il stick to the girls nights the way they are just now xx"I think the op is proposing that there are males there to put a show on for the fems. Not fems putting shows on for guys | |||
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"I think you need to clarify what this event actually is cause I for one are confused
In my wee head it's a fab hen night without the hen...........so just a fem night?
Yes but with male entertainment..........like buff waiters kind of idea?
Yes exactly ..........
What do the guys get in return?? Apart from being used for their bodies lol
Oh dear god no. I have had the unfortunate experience of buff butler's who come as the entertaiment and they are allowed to stay and they think they have the right to touch and do what they want thinking the females are fair game. I will stick to the female nights that have been arranged previously
I'm with Kelly on this I prefer a ladies night to be ladies only... I'm not putting on a show for any guy when I have a girls night it about the women having the freedom to explore with out prying eyes il stick to the girls nights the way they are just now xxI think the op is proposing that there are males there to put a show on for the fems. Not fems putting shows on for guys"You think? So your not sure ? I wish the op luck with her night what ever she decides.. but I like the ladies nights that I've had and the ones I already attend, us girls are more than capable of entertaining each other dont need a man for that and I'm not saying it's not a good idea a social or play event where people get together and have fun is always a good thing, but I'm giving my opinion Mr kola cube thanking you  | |||
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"Lol cherub your entirely entitled to your opinion. im not sure exactly what the op is proposing though im positive that the emphasis was on a fem fun night with the possibility of male "fluff" for entertainment. Not all fems want just fems hell most in a sexual sense dont want fems at all contrary to popular belief. new things can be good though they come with major drawbacks. I think it would be a hard one to get of the ground but do able. Years ago fem only partys didnt really happen as usually hubbys or partners had to attend but no worrys they will only watch honest. Times have changed may be another shift about to manifest "Yes thank you Mr cola cube
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"Lol cherub your entirely entitled to your opinion. im not sure exactly what the op is proposing though im positive that the emphasis was on a fem fun night with the possibility of male "fluff" for entertainment. Not all fems want just fems hell most in a sexual sense dont want fems at all contrary to popular belief. new things can be good though they come with major drawbacks. I think it would be a hard one to get of the ground but do able. Years ago fem only partys didnt really happen as usually hubbys or partners had to attend but no worrys they will only watch honest. Times have changed may be another shift about to manifest
Yes thank you Mr cola cube
What's the title of the thread ?? go pull your jeans up ffs lol xx"I quite like looking at his arse... shame he doesn't want to be the entertainment | |||
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