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By *ifferentClass OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sorry to do it, but I'm hungover and tetchy! Just a little moan...

As has been pointed out a number of times - this is a couples/single fems world, and guys have to work so much harder on here.

This has happened enough times to cause annoyance. Once or twice when chatting to a couple or fem who have asked to see a face pic, they have acted like I've asked something outrageous when I want to see one in return. Having given me approval it seems that I should count myself so lucky, as a single guy, to have achieved the green light, it is as if I'm showing great audacity in suggesting I need to find them attractive before meeting and I'm immediately cut off without another word. I've been told there are plenty guys willing to meet without having the cheek to ask to see a pic first, so it's my loss for making it 'complicated.'

Personally, I don't think anybody should be going to meets blind like this - you don't know who you are meeting! And, secondly, alarm bells ring about what they have to hide!

Those who have done this - you'll know who you are when/if you read this!

I know we singles are ten a penny, but come on - fair's fair! Many of us, I would hope, are keen but not desperate. Guys - no matter how horny you are, don't be willing to go in blind! What do others think of this?

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

The fact is that some guys ARE desperate and will jump through whatever hoops couples/ singles ladies devise.

It may, of course, simply be that the "couple or fem who have asked to see a face pic" and wouldn't reciprocate weren't a couple or fem in the first place.

Don't query the logic of it - there isn't any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really feel that no one should ask for or expect to see a face picture with out offering their own. I do agree that single guys can get a bad deal... I believe that you should treat folks with the same respect that you expect to receive.

Kaz xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MJ BABES U GOT EVERY RIGHT AS THE NEXT PERSON 2 ASK IN RETURN 4 A FACE PIC..SO FECK THEM OR NOT EH LOL DONT LET ANY CPL OR SINGLE FEM PUT U DOWN 4 HAVING THE SAME RIGHTS AS THEM..IF THEY GOT A PROB WITH SHOWING WHO THEY ARE THEN THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT BABES xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we think it is only right to have face pics in the private gallery. we do and expect others too aswell, when we add friends and they dont have face pics they are deleted.

we agree with you there

have a good weekend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my opinion they have a total cheek asking for a pic and then not providing one in return....what do they have to hide???? dont let couples dictate what u do, yes single blokes are in the minority and yes couples and single females hold all the aces in this world but look at it this way, their loss is another couples gain!!!! good luck xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree here, pics are exchanged both ways, and as you say those not willing to may have something to hide. Single guys get enough crap on here as it is without being made to feel second class. xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's only fair that the person requesting the pic get to see what's on offer also surely but when someone takes the proverbial biscuit & asks you to provide a pic first (as we have encountered) after you've just requested to see one just smacks of immaturity and dishonesty & sets the old alarm bells off quicker than a lengthy session with the missus.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


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Personally, I don't think anybody should be going to meets blind like this - you don't know who you are meeting! And, secondly, alarm bells ring about what they have to hide!

Those who have done this - you'll know who you are when/if you read this!

I know we singles are ten a penny, but come on - fair's fair! Many of us, I would hope, are keen but not desperate. Guys - no matter how horny you are, don't be willing to go in blind! What do others think of this?"

i agree with you if one person willing to show they're face only fair the other party do the same. not only does it establish who your talking to but c'mon----who doesn't base at least some importance on what the person looks like before they decide to meet them? i do rate character and sense of humour more than looks but some people when you see them you know that you just couldn't play with them for reasons as look too young or old(like shagging a family member) or wrong look ie heavily tattooed biker image just puts them off(not me i add lol)

but all this doesn't just apply to sing;le guys, couples and single fems get asked for pics all time by people who have no pics at all up and only willing to show them on msn. if going to go on cam why not just do it in the chat room ffs

soz but my schillings worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totaly agree about the like for like part in looking up each others pics, often get friend requests from people with not even one pic in their colourfull profiles,all it ever will be is-auto delete request, if you aint feckin trying you aint going there.

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very nicely put as for msn (hiss), why do some people say we can show you our/my pic on msn? are they that retarded they still haven't figured out how to attach a pic with mail on here? We simply have no desire to strain to view a postage sized pic that was taken 5 years ago lol & have far better things to do with our time. Hate msn with every fibre of my being. Bill gates must die...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very nicely put as for msn (hiss), why do some people say we can show you our/my pic on msn? are they that retarded they still haven't figured out how to attach a pic with mail on here? We simply have no desire to strain to view a postage sized pic that was taken 5 years ago lol & have far better things to do with our time. Hate msn with every fibre of my being. Bill gates must die... "

pics can be uploaded to here and they have 3 options, public, friends and also private which gives anonymity until you send mail and can be seen by just that one recipient so no excuse to not upload a pic. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anothe vote for the single guys here... only polite if you aske for a face pic to be willing to show yours in return!

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow

we have asked for face pics everytime we chat to a single guy and we have no squabbles about showing ours on request but when they come out with you show me yours and ill show you mine we just end the chat immediately schoolboy stuff

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow

to stick up for the couples and single fems here i have lost count the amount of times ive been sent a friends invite only to accept and discover there is no pics in the single guys gallery how many more couples have experienced the same ? what are they hiding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree, ive came across a few people on this site with no manners at all, ignorant mo fo's & its their loss, fuck em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it

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By *lirtyCouple69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Well to add my pennies worth. We have no problem chatting/meeting single guys but what does annoy me is when they send through a picture attached to the first or second message (which I never asked for) and then demand one in return!!! Then give me dog's abuse for not reciprocating. GET A LIFE DUMBASS!!

Horns retracted...rant over!!

Ann xxx

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By *_jkCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Your right MJ, if your showing yours then should show you theirs. We have pics on private for friends and we only accept invites from people we are going to or have met. We are also regularly on cam in chat, however we get suspicious very quickly of couples or indeed singles who dont want to be seen.

As we see it, if they are too shy to show on cam or pics how on earth are they going to be able to play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always swap face pics with the first few messages! better to scare them off with our faces asap instead of wasting time chatting then doin it

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