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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Try so hard on here but all iv noticed is the women are so down right ignorant although they have on their profile come chat iv not got a type , iv also noticed that message something nice and you just get blanked, read or just deleted but message a little bit nasty and boy their like a dog with a bone ( no phun intended ) , I always read profiles and try to chat but seems like it's just a losing battle any help on what the hell im doing wrong would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes time bud! Also your profile is not very alluring. The lovelies on this site generally are not here just to shag anyone. When you message anybody they will have a look at your profile. Try being a little less explicit in your profile text, soften it down a little. Put in the effort, perhaps look for any socials near you.

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

The popular consensus is that a well written, punctuated profile and some tasteful pictures of more than just cock seems to be more enticing.

Luckily both of those things are an easy fix. Try it and see if your hit rate improves.

Happy fabbing.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Why do you feel the need to "msg a little bit nasty"

ignorant in what way? That they dont find you appealing so waste no time on you.

accept that as in life most dont want to know you and things are so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at some of the profiles of the guys that are doing pretty well on here and take some tips from them.

Most ladies will check out your profile first before messaging back so a couple of initial thoughts about your profile...

You've got two cock picks and your chin so that gives them nothing to get an idea of what you look like.

You don't really have much of an intro apart from saying you don't have a type (which reads as looking to shag pretty much anyone) and bragging about giving great orgasms and that's pretty off-putting. Most women will immediately think 'yeah, right' and move on.

Women are rarely (if ever) attracted to the 'fancy a fuck' type profiles so try putting a bit more about you and try bringing your personality through much more.

Just some initial thoughts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing on your profile so why would any chick be interested?

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Also moaning about it and calling women ignorant isn't going to improve your chances.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Try so hard on here but all iv noticed is the women are so down right ignorant although they have on their profile come chat iv not got a type , iv also noticed that message something nice and you just get blanked, read or just deleted but message a little bit nasty and boy their like a dog with a bone ( no phun intended ) , I always read profiles and try to chat but seems like it's just a losing battle any help on what the hell im doing wrong would be great "
There is zero effort on your profile op so maybe try do something on the profile thatl entice people

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

you'd be better of going outside and talking to some real women instead of trying to score here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you'd be better of going outside and talking to some real women instead of trying to score here."

Sorry but I find that objectionable "some real women"?? Last time I checked both my anatomical make up and chromosome arrangement confirmed that I am a "real woman". As for your comment about "trying to score" its imdicative of thw type of "women are just shag meat" attitude that sees single guys on this site viewed as and treated as bloody pariahs!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Nothing whatsoever on your proifile.......and you wonder why you're not getting any response from the ladies????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ladies on here are all the devil's spawn

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"Try so hard on here but all iv noticed is the women are so down right ignorant although they have on their profile come chat iv not got a type , iv also noticed that message something nice and you just get blanked, read or just deleted but message a little bit nasty and boy their like a dog with a bone ( no phun intended ) , I always read profiles and try to chat but seems like it's just a losing battle any help on what the hell im doing wrong would be great "

I'm no expert but starting your thread the way u did I guess won't get a flood of mail lol

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"you'd be better of going outside and talking to some real women instead of trying to score here.

Sorry but I find that objectionable "some real women"?? Last time I checked both my anatomical make up and chromosome arrangement confirmed that I am a "real woman". As for your comment about "trying to score" its imdicative of thw type of "women are just shag meat" attitude that sees single guys on this site viewed as and treated as bloody pariahs! "

real women as in face to face interaction not over some internet site, maybe i should have worded it a little different but you know what i mean now.

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

as for how women see single men on here i couldn't care what they think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters "

The one thing you are missing is that men outnumber women on here somewhere in the region of 10-25/one so even if we single women were "true swingers" (whatever that means and I am presuming you mean would shag anyone who asks, apologies if that's wrong) then each woman would have to shag 1-3 men a day to satisfy demand. Now considering we ladies are here for our benefit not anyone else's then sadly it's merely market forces that mean you get no reply... that and the ping pong replies of "why not" or "am I not your type" oh and my personal favourite (which, I got yesterday "can't you just fit me in?" EH!!!!

Lastly all the very civil replies up there make very good points and luckily there are many, many lovely guys here... all the more fun for them

Thank you lovely gents - you ARE appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters "

haha this made me chuckle lots in the sense what utter shite that statement is ,,,,so a woman who is fussy can't be a swinger oh my oh my I'm stunned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters

The one thing you are missing is that men outnumber women on here somewhere in the region of 10-25/one so even if we single women were "true swingers" (whatever that means and I am presuming you mean would shag anyone who asks, apologies if that's wrong) then each woman would have to shag 1-3 men a day to satisfy demand. Now considering we ladies are here for our benefit not anyone else's then sadly it's merely market forces that mean you get no reply... that and the ping pong replies of "why not" or "am I not your type" oh and my personal favourite (which, I got yesterday "can't you just fit me in?" EH!!!!

Lastly all the very civil replies up there make very good points and luckily there are many, many lovely guys here... all the more fun for them

Thank you lovely gents - you ARE appreciated "

Been asking for years if you will fit me in is that where I'm going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters

The one thing you are missing is that men outnumber women on here somewhere in the region of 10-25/one so even if we single women were "true swingers" (whatever that means and I am presuming you mean would shag anyone who asks, apologies if that's wrong) then each woman would have to shag 1-3 men a day to satisfy demand. Now considering we ladies are here for our benefit not anyone else's then sadly it's merely market forces that mean you get no reply... that and the ping pong replies of "why not" or "am I not your type" oh and my personal favourite (which, I got yesterday "can't you just fit me in?" EH!!!!

Lastly all the very civil replies up there make very good points and luckily there are many, many lovely guys here... all the more fun for them

Thank you lovely gents - you ARE appreciated

Been asking for years if you will fit me in is that where I'm going wrong "

Aye all ya had to do was mention zombie ducks and I would have been melted

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters "

Someone's had one too many messages deleted lol

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Zombie ducks

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Women on here are looked at as a commodity or an item to be ordered as if they were flicking through the argos catalogue, saying I want that one!

First messages along the lines of 'Fancy playing?' is not going to endear you to any one, so change your approach and use your profile and pictures to your best advantage and you may just be more successful

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters

Someone's had one too many messages deleted lol "

I think 20 to many hehe thick skin and move on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters

The one thing you are missing is that men outnumber women on here somewhere in the region of 10-25/one so even if we single women were "true swingers" (whatever that means and I am presuming you mean would shag anyone who asks, apologies if that's wrong) then each woman would have to shag 1-3 men a day to satisfy demand. Now considering we ladies are here for our benefit not anyone else's then sadly it's merely market forces that mean you get no reply... that and the ping pong replies of "why not" or "am I not your type" oh and my personal favourite (which, I got yesterday "can't you just fit me in?" EH!!!!

Lastly all the very civil replies up there make very good points and luckily there are many, many lovely guys here... all the more fun for them

Thank you lovely gents - you ARE appreciated

Been asking for years if you will fit me in is that where I'm going wrong

Aye all ya had to do was mention zombie ducks and I would have been melted "

Zombie ducks,,,,,,now do you fancy a duck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters

The one thing you are missing is that men outnumber women on here somewhere in the region of 10-25/one so even if we single women were "true swingers" (whatever that means and I am presuming you mean would shag anyone who asks, apologies if that's wrong) then each woman would have to shag 1-3 men a day to satisfy demand. Now considering we ladies are here for our benefit not anyone else's then sadly it's merely market forces that mean you get no reply... that and the ping pong replies of "why not" or "am I not your type" oh and my personal favourite (which, I got yesterday "can't you just fit me in?" EH!!!!

Lastly all the very civil replies up there make very good points and luckily there are many, many lovely guys here... all the more fun for them

Thank you lovely gents - you ARE appreciated

Been asking for years if you will fit me in is that where I'm going wrong

Aye all ya had to do was mention zombie ducks and I would have been melted

Zombie ducks,,,,,,now do you fancy a duck "

Duck's sakes - depends am still shagging my 1/3 men a day up till mid September yanno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters "
is that why your not getting any? Cause us chicks are too dam fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know if i could possibly help..

I could send you some Females that are looking too meet..

But ..acht ..im too feckin damn fussy too.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters "

What a heap of shite!

Yet another man who looks at women as a commodity and thinks they should be lying on theirs backs with a little bell shouting NEXT!

No wonder some men become so bitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters

What a heap of shite!

Yet another man who looks at women as a commodity and thinks they should be lying on theirs backs with a little bell shouting NEXT!

No wonder some men become so bitter "

I think the Women in Argos do that ..

Ticket number 276 come to the collection point please ..

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I'm not sure why anyone will not meet or chat to you!!!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Hey it's the inexperienced married guy who has a wife who's wife's got issues. It's not gonna do you much good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters "

...oh please, stop now! I'm too ill to laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all the women on here are lovely and don't think any of them are ignorant. I'm a guy and never had a problem on here

Don't know wit the OP is on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I check my sent messages. They get deleted without being read and the person has not viewed my profile.

I have read there's before I message and I fit what they specify.. if they even do do that! Huge number of ladies on here now just writing "looking for men"" etc. No real profile.

Similarly there are a huge number of females with no pic at all but demand a face pic.

It's a funny old game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, I check my sent messages. They get deleted without being read and the person has not viewed my profile.

I have read there's before I message and I fit what they specify.. if they even do do that! Huge number of ladies on here now just writing "looking for men"" etc. No real profile.

Similarly there are a huge number of females with no pic at all but demand a face pic.

It's a funny old game "

Now you see what I do and take note guys is send a pic of my boaby next to a miniature bottle of bells .I look very very very well endowed then and the ladies love it .my inbox crashes ...try it lads it really works

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

If you win the lottery can we go halfs?

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

start a thread bitching and moaning about it . that always works a treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing in your profile won't help

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Well it's 112 million on Friday so why not play the lottery lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, I check my sent messages. They get deleted without being read and the person has not viewed my profile.

I have read there's before I message and I fit what they specify.. if they even do do that! Huge number of ladies on here now just writing "looking for men"" etc. No real profile.

Similarly there are a huge number of females with no pic at all but demand a face pic.

It's a funny old game "

Just a couple of points here... I can read your message (if you send one lol) then mark it unread... I can view your profile... you won't ever know if I have as I have chosen the option to hide that in my preferences.. yes women can have no pic yet demand one and why??? Who is the vulnerable one here... seriously, think about this... if going to meet a stranger??? Who is most vulnerable??? A single man or a woman... do I really need to paint a picture of what could happen??? THAT is why women are cautious... and for the record I've met great people who have been amazing in every aspect but I'm well aware of the dangers so my selection process is exacting... hope that helps Fx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, I check my sent messages. They get deleted without being read and the person has not viewed my profile.

I have read there's before I message and I fit what they specify.. if they even do do that! Huge number of ladies on here now just writing "looking for men"" etc. No real profile.

Similarly there are a huge number of females with no pic at all but demand a face pic.

It's a funny old game

Just a couple of points here... I can read your message (if you send one lol) then mark it unread... I can view your profile... you won't ever know if I have as I have chosen the option to hide that in my preferences.. yes women can have no pic yet demand one and why??? Who is the vulnerable one here... seriously, think about this... if going to meet a stranger??? Who is most vulnerable??? A single man or a woman... do I really need to paint a picture of what could happen??? THAT is why women are cautious... and for the record I've met great people who have been amazing in every aspect but I'm well aware of the dangers so my selection process is exacting... hope that helps Fx "

So that's why you wanted a police Scotland disclosure from me eh the ducks got you worried

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"To be honest, I check my sent messages. They get deleted without being read and the person has not viewed my profile.

I have read there's before I message and I fit what they specify.. if they even do do that! Huge number of ladies on here now just writing "looking for men"" etc. No real profile.

Similarly there are a huge number of females with no pic at all but demand a face pic.

It's a funny old game "

most women use stealth mode so you will never know who has looked at your profile.we just looked but it won't show up on your who looked at me. .

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"The one thing and point your all missing is its called fabswingers cause its a swinging site no a dating agency when it first started everything was doggin and car parks and the women then were NT so fussy as they are now cause they were true swingers no daters "

so true swingers dont need an attraction and just fuck anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, I check my sent messages. They get deleted without being read and the person has not viewed my profile.

I have read there's before I message and I fit what they specify.. if they even do do that! Huge number of ladies on here now just writing "looking for men"" etc. No real profile.

Similarly there are a huge number of females with no pic at all but demand a face pic.

It's a funny old game

Just a couple of points here... I can read your message (if you send one lol) then mark it unread... I can view your profile... you won't ever know if I have as I have chosen the option to hide that in my preferences.. yes women can have no pic yet demand one and why??? Who is the vulnerable one here... seriously, think about this... if going to meet a stranger??? Who is most vulnerable??? A single man or a woman... do I really need to paint a picture of what could happen??? THAT is why women are cautious... and for the record I've met great people who have been amazing in every aspect but I'm well aware of the dangers so my selection process is exacting... hope that helps Fx

So that's why you wanted a police Scotland disclosure from me eh the ducks got you worried "

... and got Jury Duty for my trouble... honestly if it wasn't for bad luck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all struggle to get a response on here so your not getting treated any differently than anyone else just need to keep trying and hope for the best, try getting a response off someone you would love to meet only to be told they find you attractive but your just too young, now that's a gutter lol

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Nothing on your profile so why would any chick be interested?"

Can attest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all struggle to get a response on here so your not getting treated any differently than anyone else just need to keep trying and hope for the best, try getting a response off someone you would love to meet only to be told they find you attractive but your just too young, now that's a gutter lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all struggle to get a response on here so your not getting treated any differently than anyone else just need to keep trying and hope for the best, try getting a response off someone you would love to meet only to be told they find you attractive but your just too young, now that's a gutter lol "

Thought you would like that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The genuine ones I don't mind and I understand the discretion and security.

I've met greet people on here.

It does take patience and you have to have manors.

I was adding a point to explain why the originator may be frustraited.

I have never been rude or demanded pics yet I have had a number of very rude messages from females. Those few are what makes it hard for us single blokes. But I have viewed a lady's message thread and seen what guys have messaged her.. it was shocking. We all have to plod on and persivere and the genuine ones shine through. Some like me some don't.. that's life.. ??

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

This is a genuine question and an observation from a single female:

Instead of blaming everyone else, whether it be those bad men who spoil it for the genuine guys (cough cough, yeah right) or those nasty women, who are so far up their own arses and couldn't pull in the real world so should be grateful for the attention they get on here, but hey you message them anyway because you want to get your dick wet right?

Why don't you concentrate on yourself? Make your profile text as attractive as possible, tease and entice the ladies perhaps without being crude, basic info (and I mean basic) should include, a bit about you, what you are looking for, what you can offer and why someone should choose you over the many others, maybe take some decent pictures that do not focus on your cock, like say....torso, open jeans, just out the shower with a towel draped, open shirt with a tie draped, some women also like a nice bum picture.

But I know, I know, it all seems like a bit hard work doesn't it? When it is just so much easier to start a whiney thread about oh poor woe is me and to blame others for your lack of success as nobody really likes to take responsibility for their own actions do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a genuine question and an observation from a single female:

Instead of blaming everyone else, whether it be those bad men who spoil it for the genuine guys (cough cough, yeah right) or those nasty women, who are so far up their own arses and couldn't pull in the real world so should be grateful for the attention they get on here, but hey you message them anyway because you want to get your dick wet right?

Why don't you concentrate on yourself? Make your profile text as attractive as possible, tease and entice the ladies perhaps without being crude, basic info (and I mean basic) should include, a bit about you, what you are looking for, what you can offer and why someone should choose you over the many others, maybe take some decent pictures that do not focus on your cock, like say....torso, open jeans, just out the shower with a towel draped, open shirt with a tie draped, some women also like a nice bum picture.

But I know, I know, it all seems like a bit hard work doesn't it? When it is just so much easier to start a whiney thread about oh poor woe is me and to blame others for your lack of success as nobody really likes to take responsibility for their own actions do they? "

There's a lot of truth in this... most men would not put up with what women get on a daily basis without responding in a much worse way than women do. We are damned if we do and damned if we don't... yet... we are all here... why??? Because we all know what we seek, and we all know if we sift the shi... aherm, wheat from the chaff, that it's worth it

The key point is finding that needle in the haystack and a sense of humour along the way is invaluable

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