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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the difference between a normal and hard swinger,as I have seen this many of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm dunno about "normal" or "hard" but there is "soft" swing.

Some couples will only play in the same room for example or do full swap etc etc.

I'm sure others will enlighten you more... I'm a bit of a John Snow really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if the lady above me will agree but I personally think that hard swingers are people who have meets practically every night. Whereas normal swingers are the ones who just have meets now and again, just not all the time. I'm sure that's what it means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know if the lady above me will agree but I personally think that hard swingers are people who have meets practically every night. Whereas normal swingers are the ones who just have meets now and again, just not all the time. I'm sure that's what it means "

I wouldn't disagree with you Curvy as I really don't know that much about it tbh, that may well be the definition. Perhaps the whole definition is vague and changing with the times and the influence of the internet. Fx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say hardened swingers are those that just turn up and have sex...no need for Attraction or interaction beforehand

Just my take on it

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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd say hardened swingers are those that just turn up and have sex...no need for Attraction or interaction beforehand

Just my take on it "

That's how I think of it as well. Xxx

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"What's the difference between a normal and hard swinger,as I have seen this many of times"

Normal means it's normal

Hard means you get less hp than normal and enemies do more damage and there's less drops

No wait that's skyrim.. My bad

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"What's the difference between a normal and hard swinger,as I have seen this many of times

Normal means it's normal

Hard means you get less hp than normal and enemies do more damage and there's less drops

No wait that's skyrim.. My bad "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would ask whats the differnce between a mad shagger and a swinger. Awful lot of guys on here are not swingers, ask them to participate in a group scenario and their arses collapse....only interested in one on ones which to us isnt swinging....just mad shagging lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We would ask whats the differnce between a mad shagger and a swinger. Awful lot of guys on here are not swingers, ask them to participate in a group scenario and their arses collapse....only interested in one on ones which to us isnt swinging....just mad shagging lol"
There are women on here too who only play 121 .

Ive got loads of single friends that mostly play 121 but will join in with fun at parties myself included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would ask whats the differnce between a mad shagger and a swinger. Awful lot of guys on here are not swingers, ask them to participate in a group scenario and their arses collapse....only interested in one on ones which to us isnt swinging....just mad shagging lolThere are women on here too who only play 121 .

Ive got loads of single friends that mostly play 121 but will join in with fun at parties myself included "

With women you can understand their reluctance to participate alone in group fun, personal safety issues, but the guys? Whats their excuse? No offence was intended, just an observation and opinion xxx

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local


"We would ask whats the differnce between a mad shagger and a swinger. Awful lot of guys on here are not swingers, ask them to participate in a group scenario and their arses collapse....only interested in one on ones which to us isnt swinging....just mad shagging lolThere are women on here too who only play 121 .

Ive got loads of single friends that mostly play 121 but will join in with fun at parties myself included

With women you can understand their reluctance to participate alone in group fun, personal safety issues, but the guys? Whats their excuse? No offence was intended, just an observation and opinion xxx"

Haha quite a sexist mindset and opinion there... trying to say couples or fems can't and don't act like "mad shaggers"?

Think you'll find this applies to all parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would ask whats the differnce between a mad shagger and a swinger. Awful lot of guys on here are not swingers, ask them to participate in a group scenario and their arses collapse....only interested in one on ones which to us isnt swinging....just mad shagging lolThere are women on here too who only play 121 .

Ive got loads of single friends that mostly play 121 but will join in with fun at parties myself included

With women you can understand their reluctance to participate alone in group fun, personal safety issues, but the guys? Whats their excuse? No offence was intended, just an observation and opinion xxx

Haha quite a sexist mindset and opinion there... trying to say couples or fems can't and don't act like "mad shaggers"?

Think you'll find this applies to all parties "

Not at all my opinion is based upon personal experiences. It may well apply to all parties but thats not my experience!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We would ask whats the differnce between a mad shagger and a swinger. Awful lot of guys on here are not swingers, ask them to participate in a group scenario and their arses collapse....only interested in one on ones which to us isnt swinging....just mad shagging lolThere are women on here too who only play 121 .

Ive got loads of single friends that mostly play 121 but will join in with fun at parties myself included

With women you can understand their reluctance to participate alone in group fun, personal safety issues, but the guys? Whats their excuse? No offence was intended, just an observation and opinion xxx"
maybe its just not for them.

But the single guys that have attended my hosted parties have been more than happy to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would ask whats the differnce between a mad shagger and a swinger. Awful lot of guys on here are not swingers, ask them to participate in a group scenario and their arses collapse....only interested in one on ones which to us isnt swinging....just mad shagging lol"

That is so true, I have come across the very ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A normal swinger , would go on a meet for mutual attraction and nsa. A harden swinger is just someone who wants to dump his load , or just out for a shag . I don't think attraction is required.. But generally u think hardened swingers are emotionally inept, form no attachments..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"A normal swinger , would go on a meet for mutual attraction and nsa. A harden swinger is just someone who wants to dump his load , or just out for a shag . I don't think attraction is required.. But generally u think hardened swingers are emotionally inept, form no attachments.."
Dump his load so your generalising that hardened swingers are only male ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would ask whats the differnce between a mad shagger and a swinger. Awful lot of guys on here are not swingers, ask them to participate in a group scenario and their arses collapse....only interested in one on ones which to us isnt swinging....just mad shagging lol"

Disagree Boss ...

A lot of Guys on here do rather well who partake in group fun.

I would agree with Goodie..

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"We would ask whats the differnce between a mad shagger and a swinger. Awful lot of guys on here are not swingers, ask them to participate in a group scenario and their arses collapse....only interested in one on ones which to us isnt swinging....just mad shagging lol

Disagree Boss ...

A lot of Guys on here do rather well who partake in group fun.

I would agree with Goodie..

I agree with you both, most guys I know are happy to participate in group fun x

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Hardened to me indicates to me someone who spends a lot of time in the lifestyle and into most aspects of the lifestyle and perhaps some don't have the same expectations of age etc due to the nature of the style of swinger they are eg group fun etc.

I could be wrong just my take on things...I'm not really into labelling .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say now that I am a soft swinger, having not so many sex meets compared to 20 yeàrs ago when I absolutely adored meets of all kinds-my sex drive was sky high all the time. Perhaps I am just getting "too auld" as they say!

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I'd always assumed 'hardened swingers' were those who tend to meet pretty frequently rather than just dipping in and out (no pun intended) of the swinging world occasionally.

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