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"It's a fair observation of an everyday thing for most women here... annoying as it is... Some men may just want to perv pics, wank at messages or cams in chat etc but we all use the site for our own ends which might well be very irritating for others. Oh and women do annoying stuff too before that's pointed oot
Great post btw "Oh yeah, totally agree, us women folk are by no means perfect  | |||
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"It's a fair observation of an everyday thing for most women here... annoying as it is... Some men may just want to perv pics, wank at messages or cams in chat etc but we all use the site for our own ends which might well be very irritating for others. Oh and women do annoying stuff too before that's pointed oot
Great post btw
Oh yeah, totally agree, us women folk are by no means perfect "Close though | |||
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"Interesting post can't actually believe that some males think this is good appropriate conversation Haha makes me despair for our gender! Complete idiots think most would be described as keyboard swingers anyway! "Not pointing fingers at all the males mind, thankfully not every message is like this. Wouldn't be on the site if it was | |||
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"That actually made me giggle "Had the same effect on me when I first read it. Do think it's spot on though! | |||
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Maybe you do your own from a guys perspective?
Us chicks are far from holding the power
There are knob heads on both sides | |||
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"Im not saying this is what you are doing but this post kinda reads like im a woman I hold all the power bla bla bla...... why isnt it him..... hi how are you her...... fuck off you bore me block in place "Let's face it, us ladies have all the power on here | |||
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"Im not saying this is what you are doing but this post kinda reads like im a woman I hold all the power bla bla bla...... why isnt it him..... hi how are you her...... fuck off you bore me block in place
Let's face it, us ladies have all the power on here "Unfortunately causing some womens heads to disappear up their own arses and have an overblown sense of their own self importance. Bit of a double edged sword at times!!  | |||
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"Lol Because if I had a penny for everytime I was asked that question kola
Maybe you do your own from a guys perspective?
Us chicks are far from holding the power
There are knob heads on both sides "male perspective her....... am I pretty him...... fuck off you bore me | |||
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"I get asked that a lot and always ask if they read.my profile. However saying that I realise that I have not listed any sexual interests so perhaps their question is justified. I tend to prefer these questions after we have exchanged many messages!" And keep a little bit to the imagination as well. Save it for when I meet the person x | |||
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"I never talk about sex lol I'm more of a il show you when we are in the sack kinda chick " | |||
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"I get asked that a lot and always ask if they read.my profile. However saying that I realise that I have not listed any sexual interests so perhaps their question is justified. I tend to prefer these questions after we have exchanged many messages!" Not sure this always needs discussion does it? Kinda prefer to meet and just go with the flow gotta leave something to the imagination surely | |||
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"Love this post, I've had the same conversation plenty of times. Besides what I want from one person I don't necessarily want from another. I like to find out what I'm into whilst being with that particular person. We all have different talents. " Exactly | |||
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"Im not saying this is what you are doing but this post kinda reads like im a woman I hold all the power bla bla bla...... why isnt it him..... hi how are you her...... fuck off you bore me block in place
Let's face it, us ladies have all the power on here
Unfortunately causing some womens heads to disappear up their own arses and have an overblown sense of their own self importance. Bit of a double edged sword at times!! "Hope you don't mean me!! My head's not even slightly up my own arse. Was just trying to get someone to shut up and stop taking everything so seriously  | |||
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"It's a fair observation of an everyday thing for most women here... annoying as it is... Some men may just want to perv pics, wank at messages or cams in chat etc but we all use the site for our own ends which might well be very irritating for others. Oh and women do annoying stuff too before that's pointed oot
Great post btw
Oh yeah, totally agree, us women folk are by no means perfect
The trouble is on here to many women think they have the upper hand and can demand things that in real life would get the middle finger because on here to many men think women are here to service their fantasies ,,,it a combination of virtual life encroaching on cyber life by everyone ,,,but maybe I'm just d*unk and giving it the free speech lark ha
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"That what i do.. Look at the pics and say.. Yes please "Im sure you put a slightly more eliquent tilt on it | |||
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"I think its fair to say there are guys, girls, couples and all other manor of people who do this. The "what you into" or "free... wanna meet" messages dont fair well with us. Wouldnt block or disregard someone for it but we wouldnt spend as much time answering them as we would the messages that ask about us or compliment our pics etc (a nice compliment goes a long way). I (mr) do most of the chatting on here. I make myself known so as not to leave anyone under the illusion its the better half talking. But i do like a little bit of effort in a message. Doesnt need to be war and peace and certainly have no problems with people asking how we are. Its a good start to a message. Just add a little more. Engage us. Make us message back. Pick up on things from our profile. Shows you took the time to look. Rather than just saw a few picks and thought yes please x " Yeah totally agree. If it's someone new on the site I don't hold it against them, since they're probably not aware how it comes across. But if they've been on for ages and still go about it that way they're not getting my attention. Compliments definitely a great start and even better if they show an interest in the person, not just the pics x | |||
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"Erm..  "Why beat about the bush if fancy a f*** will work . | |||
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Why beat about the bush if fancy a f*** will work . "I'm sure for some it does work | |||
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"Im not saying this is what you are doing but this post kinda reads like im a woman I hold all the power bla bla bla...... why isnt it him..... hi how are you her...... fuck off you bore me block in place
Let's face it, us ladies have all the power on here
Unfortunately causing some womens heads to disappear up their own arses and have an overblown sense of their own self importance. Bit of a double edged sword at times!! "Kinda agree with this after looking at some of the profiles, the list of demands and do's and don'ts can fill a book. But they do have the upper hand on sites like this despite arguing to the contrary. (Gonna get pelters for this) | |||
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"Im not saying this is what you are doing but this post kinda reads like im a woman I hold all the power bla bla bla...... why isnt it him..... hi how are you her...... fuck off you bore me block in place
Let's face it, us ladies have all the power on here
Unfortunately causing some womens heads to disappear up their own arses and have an overblown sense of their own self importance. Bit of a double edged sword at times!!
Hope you don't mean me!! My head's not even slightly up my own arse. Was just trying to get someone to shut up and stop taking everything so seriously "Not at all and sorry if thats the way it came across, purely meant that in our experience that "power" evidently has gone to some peoples heads. | |||
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"Im not saying this is what you are doing but this post kinda reads like im a woman I hold all the power bla bla bla...... why isnt it him..... hi how are you her...... fuck off you bore me block in place
Let's face it, us ladies have all the power on here
Unfortunately causing some womens heads to disappear up their own arses and have an overblown sense of their own self importance. Bit of a double edged sword at times!!
Hope you don't mean me!! My head's not even slightly up my own arse. Was just trying to get someone to shut up and stop taking everything so seriously
Not at all and sorry if thats the way it came across, purely meant that in our experience that "power" evidently has gone to some peoples heads. "
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"I'm absolutely wetting myself at the OP's post! Well done on an absolutely brilliantly written post. Given my sarcastic tendencies when asked what I'm into I tend to list my hobbies, reading, walking the dogs and watching films. When asked what I'm on the site for I always say scone recipes and knitting patterns. "My scones never work out. Send me the recipe?  | |||
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"It's a fair and funny post, I can guess exactly the shit girls are asked constantly, you see it on the forums too. However just keep in mind women are just as bad. This past month Iv had: 1. A member have a go at me for looking at their page once and not saying hello even though they recently rejoined with a different username with different public photos and didn't say hello to me when they rejoined under the new account. (Username was recently changed back to the original) 2. A single fem demand if I was to meet for her preferred daytime play I had to clear the entire day, be there at 9am and not leave until 15.00, oh and my phone was to be off. This person is verified and genuine. 3. Told what exactly which aftershave to be wearing and to be dressed smart in a selection of preferred clothing brands 4. Asked for my fabswingers logins so a couple could check who my veris are from (This one was actually about 6 weeks ago but I couldn't leave it out) 5. Told to turn up for a coffee meet with a small list of alcohol spirits for her as a 'tribute' I genuinely think I'm a decent enough fella and do approach the site with a different view, but damn this lot got on my nerves and it has really put me off bothering with the site just now. But, not all single fems and couples are like this...just as not all guys adopt the conversation in the OPs quality thread
(Spelling mistake so had to delete and repost)"Might rethink my request to meet you now. I was only going to make a small suggestion that you dress only in red, wear Dolce and Gabbana aftershave, have socks that are no more than 2" past your ankles, bring a selection of cakes to show your worthiness and provide me with 2 forms of ID,your mother's maiden name and your first pets name. I didn't think it was that unreasonable xx | |||
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"It's a fair and funny post, I can guess exactly the shit girls are asked constantly, you see it on the forums too. However just keep in mind women are just as bad. This past month Iv had: 1. A member have a go at me for looking at their page once and not saying hello even though they recently rejoined with a different username with different public photos and didn't say hello to me when they rejoined under the new account. (Username was recently changed back to the original) 2. A single fem demand if I was to meet for her preferred daytime play I had to clear the entire day, be there at 9am and not leave until 15.00, oh and my phone was to be off. This person is verified and genuine. 3. Told what exactly which aftershave to be wearing and to be dressed smart in a selection of preferred clothing brands 4. Asked for my fabswingers logins so a couple could check who my veris are from (This one was actually about 6 weeks ago but I couldn't leave it out) 5. Told to turn up for a coffee meet with a small list of alcohol spirits for her as a 'tribute' I genuinely think I'm a decent enough fella and do approach the site with a different view, but damn this lot got on my nerves and it has really put me off bothering with the site just now. But, not all single fems and couples are like this...just as not all guys adopt the conversation in the OPs quality thread
(Spelling mistake so had to delete and repost)"You just commented on my post, but never messaged me!!! How dare you 
Wonder if these people actually get what they want sometimes... They're different, these kind of requests, definitely got some entertainment value as well x
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"Stupid/ridiculous/boring questions like "what are you into" deserve answers like: Im into eating cheese beanos while playing Ludo with 5 other people wearing mexican wrestling masks in a jacuzzi, how about you ?" My usual answer is engaging in conversation with similarly minded individuals with a view to establishing some sort of desire to meet and discover the answer to your question. | |||
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"I'm absolutely wetting myself at the OP's post! Well done on an absolutely brilliantly written post. Given my sarcastic tendencies when asked what I'm into I tend to list my hobbies, reading, walking the dogs and watching films. When asked what I'm on the site for I always say scone recipes and knitting patterns. "Ill be round for tea and scones and a woolly hat | |||
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"Stupid/ridiculous/boring questions like "what are you into" deserve answers like: Im into eating cheese beanos while playing Ludo with 5 other people wearing mexican wrestling masks in a jacuzzi, how about you ? My usual answer is engaging in conversation with similarly minded individuals with a view to establishing some sort of desire to meet and discover the answer to your question. " | |||
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"I'm absolutely wetting myself at the OP's post! Well done on an absolutely brilliantly written post. Given my sarcastic tendencies when asked what I'm into I tend to list my hobbies, reading, walking the dogs and watching films. When asked what I'm on the site for I always say scone recipes and knitting patterns.
Ill be round for tea and scones and a woolly hat "I do a fantastic cherry scone and knitted willy warmer | |||
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"I'm absolutely wetting myself at the OP's post! Well done on an absolutely brilliantly written post. Given my sarcastic tendencies when asked what I'm into I tend to list my hobbies, reading, walking the dogs and watching films. When asked what I'm on the site for I always say scone recipes and knitting patterns.
Ill be round for tea and scones and a woolly hat
I do a fantastic cherry scone and knitted willy warmer "I work on furnaces can you knit me a willy cooler | |||
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"I'm absolutely wetting myself at the OP's post! Well done on an absolutely brilliantly written post. Given my sarcastic tendencies when asked what I'm into I tend to list my hobbies, reading, walking the dogs and watching films. When asked what I'm on the site for I always say scone recipes and knitting patterns.
Ill be round for tea and scones and a woolly hat
I do a fantastic cherry scone and knitted willy warmer
I work on furnaces can you knit me a willy cooler"Shouldn't put your willy on the furnace! | |||
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