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By *heekyguy2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Local

Is there a surge of single males throwing their toys out the pram?

They come onto the forum, having never posted before, having never introduced themselves or replied to other posts, yet they expect an Instashag... lmao.

To these men, trust me I've been here a looong time, it's gonna take more than a single forum post to get your leg over. Youd be better hitting random bars trying to pick up a girl!

Just an observation like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes, good conversation is better

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Pmsl cmon you cant rip into new guys for posting on the forums for the first time.........wait until they refine their profile on the heinz 57 profile stratagy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think too many guys joining fab think that the forums are all there is to fab instead of chatting to ppl privately to start with ..i agree the dummy out the pram threads dont help them but remember the forums are only a very small part of fab not all go to socials & clubs to meet ..as most give that advice ..im not knocking pple who do go but just saying not all do as sometimes the forum gives that impression....

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums are here for people to discuss topics and for a laugh , and for those who choose the dummy out the pram method it gets them gets them nowhere and screams attention seeker not a good look

I think it's good that there are posts that inform others of socials and such it leads to an easier way of putting faces to profiles ,creates a opportunity to chat on here before the event and help the newbies and everyone else take that first step of meeting others and having a chance of fun as it can be daunting as I always say each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is any Guys throwing toys out ..

Im looking for "Subbuteo"

Just sayin ..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Forums are here for people to discuss topics and for a laugh , and for those who choose the dummy out the pram method it gets them gets them nowhere and screams attention seeker not a good look

I think it's good that there are posts that inform others of socials and such it leads to an easier way of putting faces to profiles ,creates a opportunity to chat on here before the event and help the newbies and everyone else take that first step of meeting others and having a chance of fun as it can be daunting as I always say each to their own "
Got to say I agree with you Cherub I think socials & clubs are a good stepping stone to get to meet people and gain a few friends & verivications too that might help get that frst meet but I know the social side isnt for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs.

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs."

nonsense . socials are just that . socials . sure there is a chance it can lead to more but if i was a newbie a social is the first thing id do .go have a laugh . be respectful and show myself in a good light . get verified then go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs.

nonsense . socials are just that . socials . sure there is a chance it can lead to more but if i was a newbie a social is the first thing id do .go have a laugh . be respectful and show myself in a good light . get verified then go from there "

Who said anything about socials? But yeh I agree obviously that's what socials are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs.

nonsense . socials are just that . socials . sure there is a chance it can lead to more but if i was a newbie a social is the first thing id do .go have a laugh . be respectful and show myself in a good light . get verified then go from there "

Well said fella have had few socials and not pumped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs."

lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is any Guys throwing toys out ..

Im looking for "Subbuteo"

Just sayin ..

"

do you remember the one that was done with magnets and you had to tap the players heads? That was shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think some are just desperate or presume the women on here will just drop her knickers at any offer that comes her way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is any Guys throwing toys out ..

Im looking for "Subbuteo"

Just sayin ..

do you remember the one that was done with magnets and you had to tap the players heads? That was shit"

Striker ?

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By *exmadscotMan
over a year ago

alloa


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs."

just the kind of answer I'd expect from you fs

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By *heekyguy2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Local


"If there is any Guys throwing toys out ..

Im looking for "Subbuteo"

Just sayin ..

"

Haha memory flash!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is any Guys throwing toys out ..

Im looking for "Subbuteo"

Just sayin ..

Haha memory flash!"

lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs."

Classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs.

Classy "

Agreed

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs.

Classy

Agreed "

I wouldn't meet anyone who referred to sex as 'pumping'. Last time I heard that I was a teenager!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs.

Classy

Agreed

I wouldn't meet anyone who referred to sex as 'pumping'. Last time I heard that I was a teenager! "

Pumped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs."

The forums give me a feel for whether we'd get on. Im more likely to chat to someone if they make me laugh.

Im not on the forums looking for sex, just socializing and getting to know people.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs.

Classy

Agreed

I wouldn't meet anyone who referred to sex as 'pumping'. Last time I heard that I was a teenager!

Pumped "

*shudder*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are for chat and filtering and for getting a feel for someone's sense of humour, wit and personality.

Clubs and meets are for pumping fs.

The forums give me a feel for whether we'd get on. Im more likely to chat to someone if they make me laugh.

Im not on the forums looking for sex, just socializing and getting to know people. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't even use fab for meets anymore, we're still members just to keep the social side of swinging alive for us. We meet people through other means nowadays.

I come on here for a giggle and to talk to like minded people. I guess it's different when you're new to it all though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are for a bit of fun and to have a laugh, nothing to do with sex in my eyes anyway. As long as something makes you smile and happy then why not keep enjoying it.

So can you all join in

If your happy and you know it clap your hands

If your happy and you know it clap your hands

If your happy and you know it and you really want to show it clap your hands

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