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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Had been keen for a while to go to a swingers club, however, being single makes it a bit more difficult (having no one to swing with kind of defeats the purpose of these places I think).

Last month CJs had their Easter party and I noticed a lot of people I'd been chatting to were going. Figured it'd be the perfect night to go for it. Put a meet request on the dating site to see if anyone would come with me. Someone got in touch that a group of them were going and I was more than welcome to join them. Chatted to him and some other people of the group for a little while and was quite comfortable to go with them. The only downside I could see at that time was having to go back to the hotel by myself, but decided to not let that stop me.

Not long after I actually found a date for my big night! Things were just getting better and better!!

Big day arrived. Set off to the city. As soon as I got to the hotel I found a message that my date wasn't coming. Oh well, at least he had the decency to let me know and not stand me up.

Hair and make up disaster next. Ripped my stockings (brought a spare pair, since I figured that would happen). Was getting more and more nervous about meeting people I'd never actually met in real life as well. Since I was there anyway and someone I had met up with a few times was most likely going to be at the swingers club, I figured "what the hell, I AM going".

We met in a pub in town, before going to the club. I was the first one there, which made it even more awkward. Thankfully just a few minutes later the guy who invited me along with their group arrived. Things were starting to look up again. We got on really well from the start and he is better looking than in the pictures! More people arrived not long after. All of them such genuine people and I'm so grateful they took me in as if I was part of their group forever.

Time to go swinging!!

We got to the club and you feel at ease instantly. The entire place, the atmosphere, the people there, everything seemed to fit perfectly.

Later on (much later on.....) I made it upstairs. We went into the "couples room". Little bit shocked to find about 30 people going at it in there. Started making out with my guy, but too distracted with everything going on around me, so I suggested we try a different room. There was one other room with the door open and not many people inside, so we went in and started over again. I was about to explode by now, I was that horny. Orgasm nr 1 was about 2 seconds after we had landed ourselves on the bed. Little bit embarrassed, since my plan was to not soak someone else's bed, or the person, but couldn't help myself

Just as he was about to come inside me I noticed he'd kind of lost it and he said he couldn't do it. I thought it was me that put him off by soaking him basically as soon we were on the bed. The lead up to coming here, the alcohol, super horny, super orgasm, strange place, so much to take in - this combination probably set me off and I got quite emotional. "It's not you, it's him" he said. And then I noticed someone had come onto the bed right next to us and was lying there wanking. Actually gave me quite a fright, since I'd never seen him appear next to us. Tears streaming down my face by then. Damn, this is turning into a disaster!! That poor guy underneath me probably didn't know what to do with me, but he was really kind and just held me until I'd gotten myself back together. Right let's get out of here!!

Back to the couples room......

We found a corner on one of the beds in there and he gave me some seriously amazing oral. Another couple on the same bed joined in for a little while. I think I'm going to have to change "straight" to "bi-curious" after them..... Another encounter like that and I might be fully converted to bi.

Then another person appeared. Didn't think I'd enjoy having sex with a stranger, always need to get to know the person a bit before taking it further, but it was a massive turn-on to just go for it with someone you never seen before, or spoke to. My guy made it quite clear to him I needed fucked (and I really, really did by that time). Mr B looked up to his Mrs who was behind me to make sure it was ok. Thought that was the sweetest thing to do actually and instantly ready to take him all the way. Fantastic sex, fantastic people and totally worn out both mentally and physically after we were done.

Mixed feelings about it when I got back to the hotel, but think that was mainly me not wanting to be by myself in that room. Definitely want to go back, but have to make sure I'm with someone I know and trust. Think that makes a big difference. And now I know what to expect it'll be 10 times better as well.

Despite the emotional spell, it was a great night. Considering going there for greedy girls next time (already have a pretty amazing chaperone for that occasion, someone I do know and who won't leave me hanging).

So if you've made it to the end of this post (sorry, got a bit carried away), anyone know what the greedy girl Wednesday afternoon at CJs is like? And who can I expect to see there on the day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey gorgeous fabulous post! The Greedy Girl monthly weekday daytime events are fabulous! There are usually around 5 or 6 girls sometimes more and maybe around 20 guys? All very respectful people and adhere to anyone's wishes ie to watch or join in! There are plenty of people to watch out for you so never be afraid to come on your own! Also they have plenty of security guys too so nothing gets out of hand! You could also decide downstairs while chatting who you want to join you upstairs! Hope this helps! PM me to find out more! Your first visit sounded hot!! X

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Hey gorgeous fabulous post! The Greedy Girl monthly weekday daytime events are fabulous! There are usually around 5 or 6 girls sometimes more and maybe around 20 guys? All very respectful people and adhere to anyone's wishes ie to watch or join in! There are plenty of people to watch out for you so never be afraid to come on your own! Also they have plenty of security guys too so nothing gets out of hand! You could also decide downstairs while chatting who you want to join you upstairs! Hope this helps! PM me to find out more! Your first visit sounded hot!! X"

First visit was very hot. Next one will be even better! Thanks Jacko x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Glad you got over your nerves and went along, and had a good enough time to go back. I've never tried a GG night myself but everyone will be welcoming. Hope you have a brilliant time

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Glad you got over your nerves and went along, and had a good enough time to go back. I've never tried a GG night myself but everyone will be welcoming. Hope you have a brilliant time

Thanks x Think it will make a big difference having someone with me I know. Don't think I'd have the guts to go otherwise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope the guy you went with dosnt read this telling folk he couldn't get it up

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Unfortunately not the experience I had when I went a few years ago.

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Hope the guy you went with dosnt read this telling folk he couldn't get it up

And reading this blog would make it obvious to everyone who he is

Nothing but credit to my guy. One of the best I've met x

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Unfortunately not the experience I had when I went a few years ago.

What was your experience? Message me if you don't fancy putting it on here. Would really like to know x

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Unfortunately not the experience I had when I went a few years ago.

What was your experience? Message me if you don't fancy putting it on here. Would really like to know x"

Will do. I will say however that I've since been back to a couples/single females night & loved the whole experience x

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Unfortunately not the experience I had when I went a few years ago.

What was your experience? Message me if you don't fancy putting it on here. Would really like to know x

Will do. I will say however that I've since been back to a couples/single females night & loved the whole experience x

Can't message as you have filters on x

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Unfortunately not the experience I had when I went a few years ago.

What was your experience? Message me if you don't fancy putting it on here. Would really like to know x

Will do. I will say however that I've since been back to a couples/single females night & loved the whole experience x

Can't message as you have filters on x"

I'm changing them now!! 2 minutes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoyed reading your post and thanks for being so open. I have been to one party on my own but met someone inside i knew. Felt a bit self conscious going there on my own although I am anything but shy! However what did put me off going into the playroom was the single guys crowding around having a play with themselves whilst watching us. Didn't like it so now I tend to stick to private rooms with minimum of four of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also really enjoyed reading this ! Well written and made me really want to try the club scene out

thanks for posting your experience, hopefully be posting mine soon

haha

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

a good read and fair play for posting .

heres to many happy encounters in the future

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"I enjoyed reading your post and thanks for being so open. I have been to one party on my own but met someone inside i knew. Felt a bit self conscious going there on my own although I am anything but shy! However what did put me off going into the playroom was the single guys crowding around having a play with themselves whilst watching us. Didn't like it so now I tend to stick to private rooms with minimum of four of us. "

That's what I found good about the couples room! No singles creeping up on you like what happened to us in the other room. Get a wee group together and shut the door sounds really good as well x

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"I also really enjoyed reading this ! Well written and made me really want to try the club scene out

thanks for posting your experience, hopefully be posting mine soon

haha"

Would definitely recommend it! No harm in trying and no pressure from anyone to take it further if you're not sure. Definitely one of the best experiences I've had and think I've only seen the tip of the iceberg when it comes to these events x

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"a good read and fair play for posting .

heres to many happy encounters in the future "

Hopefully many, many more happy encounters to come x

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

"a good read and fair play for posting .

heres to many happy encounters in the future

Hopefully many, many more happy encounters to come x"

its why we are all here for sure . exploring our desires .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've went to parties as a single but it was great friends from here that were hosting them. As for clubs I couldn't walk in there alone lol

Well done for having more balls than some men who can't even make it through the front door

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"I've went to parties as a single but it was great friends from here that were hosting them. As for clubs I couldn't walk in there alone lol

Well done for having more balls than some men who can't even make it through the front door

Private party still on my bucket list. Never went to one before. Just getting the hang of this swinging thing

Thanks B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private parties are a hell of a lot easier on the nerves. Most party hosts ask for a social meet with all attendees so at least you know them in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this post and proud of you for sharing x first time anything can be a bit scary, regardless though, you did it and you survived and had mostly a good evening x the staff at cjs are brilliant and are always on hand if you need them x as are most of the people in attendance x

Take it easy chick x enjoy it x love it!

Here for a good time hunny, not a long time x and if you ever need a chaperone for cjs again, Pls do give us a shout

Miss k

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By *nonandyMan
over a year ago

Near Glasgow

My first experience of CJ's I was terrified hard to believe it was nearly three years ago it was a greedy girls afternoon kinda threw myself in the deepend but I was hooked

Takes a while to get the hang of it: what to say, when to say it, how to make conversation when the usual small talk of 'So what do you do' are kinda of limits lol anyone who has met me will tell you I haven't overcome my habit of putting my foot in

hence why I don't post much anymore saves inadvertently annoying people

The fun for all nights are the best it's a shame they don't do it as often anymore but I get why their is a demand for couples only

To the OP it can be expensive for single guys so it's quite common for friends to pair up I know I would jump at it if their was a female I new was going

Private parties/gangbangs are great and are not as hit and miss as clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most have already said, this is a brilliant post! It's highlights a lot of emotions that most of us feel and some struggle to harness.

We love our time at CJs and it's a great safe place to play and have fun. Hopefully see you there soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As most have already said, this is a brilliant post! It's highlights a lot of emotions that most of us feel and some struggle to harness.

We love our time at CJs and it's a great safe place to play and have fun. Hopefully see you there soon

Well said x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Glad you got over your nerves and went along, and had a good enough time to go back. I've never tried a GG night myself but everyone will be welcoming. Hope you have a brilliant time

Thanks x Think it will make a big difference having someone with me I know. Don't think I'd have the guts to go otherwise x"

Once you get to know a few faces you'll feel more confident going alone, I did

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Private parties are a hell of a lot easier on the nerves. Most party hosts ask for a social meet with all attendees so at least you know them in person"

This is what we do, then people know we're genuine and they don't need to worry

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Private parties are a hell of a lot easier on the nerves. Most party hosts ask for a social meet with all attendees so at least you know them in person"

Sounds like that might have been an easier option for me

Never mind, don't regret a single second of my CJs adventure x

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"As most have already said, this is a brilliant post! It's highlights a lot of emotions that most of us feel and some struggle to harness.

We love our time at CJs and it's a great safe place to play and have fun. Hopefully see you there soon

Thanks x Definitely going back. If it wasn't so far away I'd be a regular by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean about getting emotional, a guy took me to a gangbang one night and I loved it but with everything going on, tried my first dp and airtight I had wanted to try for years and suddenly just felt really emotional and started crying

The guy I was with got a scare as he thought I was unhappy but it was not that at all. Just a jumble of feelings and emotions that overpowered me

They just left me alone with him a while and I was soon fine. Went to CJ's greedy girls afternoon alone the next day and never looked back

Thanks for sharing, glad I'm not the only one gets emotional at strange times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great post OP. If lobe to go to a club but I'm so nervous! I definitely need to find me a nice chaperone!

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"I know what you mean about getting emotional, a guy took me to a gangbang one night and I loved it but with everything going on, tried my first dp and airtight I had wanted to try for years and suddenly just felt really emotional and started crying

The guy I was with got a scare as he thought I was unhappy but it was not that at all. Just a jumble of feelings and emotions that overpowered me

They just left me alone with him a while and I was soon fine. Went to CJ's greedy girls afternoon alone the next day and never looked back

Thanks for sharing, glad I'm not the only one gets emotional at strange times! "

Nope. Happens to all of us I think. Just kind of sucks when it happens right in the middle of sex

You still go to greedy girls?

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Great post OP. If lobe to go to a club but I'm so nervous! I definitely need to find me a nice chaperone! "

Thanks Bunnyhop. A few drinks will settle the nerves (a little anyway). And definitely take someone with you x

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

These are definitely the posts I like to read in the forum. I love the forum dearly but this was a great read and very eloquent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evening what a great post that was so interesting and could sympathise with plenty of it although I didn't soak the bed or rendezvous with a guy Haha! the nervousness and ultimate relief you felt certainly felt the same! Very excited to be going back Saturday. It is very strange going on your own but when you sum up the courage you end up meeting some great people a few of which I am looking forward to seeing again this weekend! Great post might see you there sometime

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Evening what a great post that was so interesting and could sympathise with plenty of it although I didn't soak the bed or rendezvous with a guy Haha! the nervousness and ultimate relief you felt certainly felt the same! Very excited to be going back Saturday. It is very strange going on your own but when you sum up the courage you end up meeting some great people a few of which I am looking forward to seeing again this weekend! Great post might see you there sometime

Thanks Jay. Have a great time on Saturday! I'll keep an eye out for you next time I'm there x

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"These are definitely the posts I like to read in the forum. I love the forum dearly but this was a great read and very eloquent "

Thanks Danny. Glad you enjoyed it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a private party on my own two years ago (was invited as a single lady) and there were six couples and three of us single ladies. Was excited and nervous at the same time. However the couples simply didn't gel and the poor host and his wife became rather upset at this distinct frostiness between their guests. I left around midnight and still nobody wanted to play, let alone chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao I cried at cjs as well haha!

I went with a couple and they basically went home and left me there myself because I never played with them when it was never on the table this would happen so I was stuck with no way of getting home lol but luckily CJ found someone to give me a lift so was all good lol x

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Lmao I cried at cjs as well haha!

Good riddance to them. Bet you're glad you never had sex with these people

That's the times when it's good you're at CJs, they'd never leave you hanging like that.

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"I went to a private party on my own two years ago (was invited as a single lady) and there were six couples and three of us single ladies. Was excited and nervous at the same time. However the couples simply didn't gel and the poor host and his wife became rather upset at this distinct frostiness between their guests. I left around midnight and still nobody wanted to play, let alone chat! "

What a shame! Feel sorry for the hosts. I'm sure they made up for that time though x

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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I'll join everyone in congratulating you on an utterly fantastic post, op.

Dancer and I have a fair amount of experience of clubs and parties. I've been to greedy girls a fair few times but jacko has described that well from the male point of view already so I won't. That probably doesn't quite answer the question you'd like answered though because clearly greedy girls in particular is different from the female point of view. Almost universally scary for those who haven't been, I'd imagine.

Dancer and I have gone together to greedy girls once - her first time. Those who know her will know that she isn't exactly the shy and retiring type

but she was very nervous. More nervous than I have ever seen her about any sexual activity. I could feel her tension on the drive over. It was fairly clear she was imagining something other than the sort of thing that really goes on there.

Fast forward an hour and Dancer is enjoying herself immensely, her only regret that she wasted the first hour of the event being nervous.

I don't want to volunteer Dancer's time and perspective on a public forum (because I can't ask her right now), but I think she'd be glad to tell you if you messaged her.

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By *ringles0510 OP Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"(Hat posting)

I'll join everyone in congratulating you on an utterly fantastic post, op.

Dancer and I have gone together to greedy girls once - her first time. Those who know her will know that she isn't exactly the shy and retiring type

Fast forward an hour and Dancer is enjoying herself immensely, her only regret that she wasted the first hour of the event being nervous.

I don't want to volunteer Dancer's time and perspective on a public forum (because I can't ask her right now), but I think she'd be glad to tell you if you messaged her.

Thanks Hat. I definitely will send her a message x

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