FabSwingers.com forum: Looking for advice please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi there I'm looking for some advice if anybody can help

i split up with my ex girlfriend just before christmass there and I'm thinking it's time to get back out there and have some fun, I signed up a fue weeks ago just to be nosy pretty much and I like what I see but my problem is I don't really know how to start a new conversation with a woman on a site like this? Iv tried straight to the point and taking it slow and being nice but I just can't seem to get anywhere? Any advise? Also I have seen a fue meets that several people are going to? What's involved in that?

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Being a single guy your first few meets will be pure luck.

Women get spammed with mails from single guys and couples can at times too.

Trying to distinguish your profile and mails is pretty much impossible.

Try going to a club like CJ's and get to know the regulars there.

For tips on your profile try using the search option on the forums as it has all been said before.

Good luck. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the reply

il look more into the meets x

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Another suggestion would be to show a cock pic.

Your username implies you got a big one, so your better proving it with a pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didn't want to because I see some woman saying it puts them off? Xx

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

It can if you have 10 photos on your profile and they are all cock pics.

Having one just to show any interested party wont do any harm.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

What do you mean by 'a site like this'? By that do you mean you would message a female on here differently to a message you would send on plenty of fish for example.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What I mean by a site like this is a dating/meeting site ect, I'm new to this lol

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By *uiet Guy 999Man
over a year ago

Bathgate

Spelling lessons .....

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Few....not fue...you're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I mean by a site like this is a dating/meeting site ect, I'm new to this lol "

Dating site

As a suggestion ..why dont you speak to women as you would do in reality.

Good Luck

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Your a young guy my suggestion would be to get out in the real world & meet people .

If you decide to stay approach people as you would in the real world.

Id also suggest losing the 420 friendly from your profile as that will put many people off & ive no idea why people need to even mention it, seems to be a bit of a trend on here at the moment...good luck op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get this! you've only been on for two weeks, don't expect meets to happen straight away. (I'm not meaning it in a bad way just need to be realistic0

Treat people with respect n get chatting like normal life, you will get the same back, if you don't, move on.

Go to socials, anyone can go to the big ones and get to meet people and take it from there, if you act like an ass at a social, people will know and not invite you back. Socials events are usually displayed on this forum section

Chat in the forums, they do make people notice and they make up their own mind about you, good or bad, so be careful.

Go to the scots chat room, it's not clique but most know each other just go in and get involved in the convo, be respectful.

It's harder for guys to get a meet as there is too many guys compared to females n couple.

Always remember girls and couples are inundated with hundreds of mails every day, most are disrespectful and disgusting. if you send a cock pic, I doubt you will get much joy, no matter how big it is. it may happen but that's up to you as females get cock pics every day

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

OP.....

Please don't take this as bullying or negativity...but, why not talk to the ladies on fab the same way you would if they were in the pub.

You wouldn't walk up to a lady in a bar and say 'Here's a pic of my cock, wanna have a go on it?'

Just be yourself.

(Oh, and maybe think of a different user name as it may put quite a few women off)

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

To be honest, it's a handy filter when they do so I wouldn't advise someone to remove it, it's better that others know in advance rather than find out later.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

To be honest, it's a handy filter when they do so I wouldn't advise someone to remove it, it's better that others know in advance rather than find out later."
your quite right but what Im saying to the op is this could be one of the reasons why people aint meeting him

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