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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any couples receive messages from single guys directed just to the female and think its odd?

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Any couples receive messages from single guys directed just to the female and think its odd?"

Next line I normally do you meet alone

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Any couples receive messages from single guys directed just to the female and think its odd?

Next line I normally do you meet alone "
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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Happens constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time, if they are compliments himself responds saying thanks but he isn't into men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any couples receive messages from single guys directed just to the female and think its odd?

Next line I normally do you meet alone "

Maybe the reason for that is because some elusive couples who are seemingly inseparable in meeting ARENT inseparable as they would think ..

However ,any single profile member messaging a couple should show respect by directing any chat to both.If its a 3some you seek each member should enjoy the experience equally .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple respect towards a couple, yet probably the most common mistake single guys make when contacting couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol me too...and thanks for the compliment

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

We get that all the time it's really annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had any bother, so we're either lucky or something puts them off haha! Either way, glad we don't have any hassle.

Mrs x

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Always wondered why they bother. I know there are some couples who do play alone at times, but they normally state it on their profile. But if it ain't there, then leave be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think it predominantly the male half reading messages so most of the time i send alright fella,the start my conversation, there are one or 2 exceptions of course where the female is obviously reading the mail and then send hey you2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had my singles profile (male half here), I would never try and just talk directly to the female half. After all it's a couple. And there are clearly two parties!

We tend to find that an opening message is directed at us both. And more often than not, it's buttons who responds, as I'm usually at work. They seem really chatty to buttons. However when I introduce myself, most of the time, their conversation skills seem to dry up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Lee writing)

Happens alot.... but I thank them for the complements and sign it Lee.

Mostly dont write back.

(90% of the single guys so far have been polite and easy to message....meaning nothing rude or overly descriptive.)

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

If you truely think its single guys thats crazy for a start a large proportion of these are far from single. The other part of these type threads I dislike are the way its insinuated that a single male is diffrent from a male in a cpl news flash most of the "single guys" on fab are part of a cpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A not really a thing for me on our cpls profile..

I mean...it's really me that tends to do the chatting anyway..

What are 2 guys from a cpl expected to chat about?

Male 1..evening mate How's the hot wife of yours?

Male 2 hey bud aye she's doing fine...how's yours?

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Kola K.

If I write a couple, I always expect I am talking to the bloke but either way I still expect either or may be chatting to me.

Maybe being polite, and not jumping in with size tens, makes people think I'm a bit wishy washy but that's far from the strong character I am.

However, you need to see how the chat goes and make your mind up accordingly.

Those that say the immature "fancy a fuck" lines probably aren't allowed out by mummy....

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Any couples receive messages from single guys directed just to the female and think its odd?

Next line I normally do you meet alone

Maybe the reason for that is because some elusive couples who are seemingly inseparable in meeting ARENT inseparable as they would think ..

However ,any single profile member messaging a couple should show respect by directing any chat to both.If its a 3some you seek each member should enjoy the experience equally .

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The scenario outlined by the OP is the whole reason we deleted the last time but this type of behaviour that is the sole preserve of single males or even just males for that matter. Lost count of the ammount of messages we received on our last profile from both single females and the female halves of couples who indicated they were only interested in meeting with and playing with me (Female).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had a rant about this very thing! Honestly, what goes through their heads? They seem to think that because we play the way we do that there is something lacking in our relationship. Statements like 'I'll show you a good time' or 'If you want the best then here I am'. No mate. I get a good time and have the best with Magic. That isn't what this is about. Does my tits right in! Can you tell this has rattled my cage tonight? Lol

Xxx

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sometimes happens.

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