FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging site more like stereotyping

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else found this site becoming full of stereotyping hypocrits.

Been on and off here going on 5yrs now. Made sum amazeing friends would holla ya but dont wana make ya heed any bigger lol.

Also had some amazeballs meets. Most people on the site have manners which is nice and can accepted the word no, or a polite sorry not my type which is so nice to see ADULTS communicating without hate or rude attitudes. The people i cant stand on here are sterotypers. If sum1 is a 420 user or dose things u dont agree with either say so with sum manners or block simples. y u feel u need to sterotype certain people is beyond me and so judgemental the last thing you want on a swinging site is is jugemental people otherwise y r u here?.

We are all ment to be liberated adults, not petulant children who have to force there values down other peoples throats.

Ffs live & let live people and enjoy the fun its what we are all here for after all.

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Grrr text speak hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grrr text speak hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate text speak, got bored reading that rant too ??

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

"Grrr text speak hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny as I was just speaking the other day to one of my friends about the labelling and stereotyping that goes on. It's daft as this type of site really should be the one where's labels don't exist due to the nature of it.

However, I do hate seeing genuine girls & couples with public facepics, with the nasty creeps and freaks that lurk, youre really taking risks guys

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I really dont understand this post im going to guess its about folk sterotyping others.

if thats the case are you not doing the same with this post ?

People like and dislike diffrent things so there are points folk will agree on and things they dont agree on.

I couldnt care less what folk like or dislike all power to them. the major annoyance I have is asslickers and backstabbers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's funny as I was just speaking the other day to one of my friends about the labelling and stereotyping that goes on. It's daft as this type of site really should be the one where's labels don't exist due to the nature of it.

However, I do hate seeing genuine girls & couples with public facepics, with the nasty creeps and freaks that lurk, youre really taking risks guys

And thats our point huni each to there own its the judgemental people in the swinging community i dont agree with no swinger should be judged or sterotyped. Dout any1 is on here for that. If u wana smoke then smoke. If u wana have a gangbang have 1 simples hehe

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't think you can call it Stereotyping.

As a stereotype is as the definition says a 'widely' held but fixed and oversimplified image or idea of a particular type of person or thing.

And the focus is 'widely' which in my opinion is not the case on here.

People have a preference, things they like and dislike and are entitled to put certain people in certain boxes if they wish.

Exemples:

Text speech... goes in the 'I can't be bothered' box!

Cock pics... in the 'Dick' box!

People who stereotype... in the 'I can't stand them' box

We all do it!! And nothing wrong with it. You just don't have to be rude about it!

Live and let live indeed. And let people use the site as they wish.

That's my opinion anyway.

Have a good Saturday OP

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Aren't you just doing the same to the sterotypers now though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aren't you just doing the same to the sterotypers now though?

How? Please quote x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't say it's a sterotype I would say it's a preference. And I'd also say everyone judges, if you say you don't your basically full of shit.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I'd call it preference. I have no interest in meeting anyone under the influence of drink or drugs of any description, it does nothing for me.

Had a message recently from a guy whose profile said he was looking for someone to get d*unk with. Not my kind of person, so no meet.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I wouldn't say we stereotype on here, I'm one of the most non judgemental folk you can meet but I am one of the most opinionated folk you'll ever find... those who know me will understand that haha

Tend to take people on here as we find them as no two people are ever the same.... although certain folk I'll avoid due to association

Can't please everyone, same as everyone can't please you. Don't worry about who's not interested and concentrate on who is

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its all about the banter lifes short, enjoy it and also live by the moto treate others the way you want to be treated

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"For me its all about the banter lifes short, enjoy it and also live by the moto treate others the way you want to be treated

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This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say we stereotype on here, I'm one of the most non judgemental folk you can meet but I am one of the most opinionated folk you'll ever find... those who know me will understand that haha

Tend to take people on here as we find them as no two people are ever the same.... although certain folk I'll avoid due to association

Can't please everyone, same as everyone can't please you. Don't worry about who's not interested and concentrate on who is

John

I agree with John. Having an opinion on something doesn't mean you're being judgemental. Just means it's not for you. We all have our own life codes and should allow others theirs.

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