FabSwingers.com forum: Face pic request

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wee rant for a Wednesday morning!!!

I've been on site since summer 2015 and I'm verified over 50 times yet guys refuse to send a face pic first, any ideas why ? This upsets me as a genuine user of FAB swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea you can see my kipper anytime ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No idea you can see my kipper anytime ha"

Haha x thanks.

Just find it off putting as if they have something to hide or are not genuine users that's all ... pent up aggression may need to release sexually haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea you can see my kipper anytime ha

Haha x thanks.

Just find it off putting as if they have something to hide or are not genuine users that's all ... pent up aggression may need to release sexually haha

Could be the hiding ,your profile very specific of the types you won't meet ,so maybe they are in that group and hope to charm you into changing your meet criteria

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know what I like and don't like. Don't think that's a bad thing ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have one to show?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know what I like and don't like. Don't think that's a bad thing ... "

Wasn't a critical comment I agree I have a specific profile also so you won't get an argument from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know what I like and don't like. Don't think that's a bad thing ...

Wasn't a critical comment I agree I have a specific profile also so you won't get an argument from me "

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Wee rant for a Wednesday morning!!!

I've been on site since summer 2015 and I'm verified over 50 times yet guys refuse to send a face pic first, any ideas why ? This upsets me as a genuine user of FAB swingers. "

Sorry for being direct but... why should they send it first??

If this is how you want to proceed fair enough but perhaps say that on your profile. I don't think you have, I had a quick glance only.

Personally I exchange face pics after a wee chat first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you have one to show?"

Yeh I have a few in my private pic s to share as I desire

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Plenty will provide a face pic so just focus on them op. If they don't then that's their right and you have right to use it as a filter to meets .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personal choice that they send first is all. I'm a genuine user of the site and like to be in control of the situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plenty will provide a face pic so just focus on them op. If they don't then that's their right and you have right to use it as a filter to meets . "

Yeh totally agree. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have one to show?"

Yes would you like one

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Plenty will provide a face pic so just focus on them op. If they don't then that's their right and you have right to use it as a filter to meets . "

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC

Yeah I have a private picture but I don't send it to anyone who does not habe any verifactions or has no pictures themselves espically the account on the site for over a year and never had a picture or anything as I'm rather fed up with picture collectors

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Personal choice that they send first is all. I'm a genuine user of the site and like to be in control of the situation. "
its your personal choice that you expect the guys to send a photo first but they are doing the exact same as you in having thier personal choice not to send a photo first.

Not really sure what diference it makes who sends first as long as photos are mutually exchanged

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

"Personal choice that they send first is all. I'm a genuine user of the site and like to be in control of the situation. its your personal choice that you expect the guys to send a photo first but they are doing the exact same as you in having thier personal choice not to send a photo first.

Not really sure what diference it makes who sends first as long as photos are mutually exchanged

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Why should they send a face pic first that may be what you want and you can use it to filter out what you dont want. But the fact remains they dont have to send anything I wouldnt send a face pic to someone that demanded it infact it would makr me break contact with them.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I was sent a message from a man with a dick as his profile (and only) picture. His message was 'wanna meet'.

I need a bit more to go on than that! I can see where you're coming from op!

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Wee rant for a Wednesday morning!!!

I've been on site since summer 2015 and I'm verified over 50 times yet guys refuse to send a face pic first, any ideas why ? This upsets me as a genuine user of FAB swingers. "

I would send you a pic with your veris, you are obviously genuine, I do keep mine private but only to stop the fakers from seeing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have one to show?

Yeh I have a few in my private pic s to share as I desire "

I never send face pics to anyone but on the other hand I never ask for face pics as it's only fair!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wee rant for a Wednesday morning!!!

I've been on site since summer 2015 and I'm verified over 50 times yet guys refuse to send a face pic first, any ideas why ? This upsets me as a genuine user of FAB swingers.

I would send you a pic with your veris, you are obviously genuine, I do keep mine private but only to stop the fakers from seeing it"

Thanks someone with common sense it seems

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you have one to show?

Yeh I have a few in my private pic s to share as I desire

I never send face pics to anyone but on the other hand I never ask for face pics as it's only fair!"

So forgive me for asking but how do you know that you are attracted to them and vice Versa ?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

if someone contacts me I expect a face pic just as if I was to make the first contact I would send one, my profile clearly states this, I don't think it's too much to ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was sent a message from a man with a dick as his profile (and only) picture. His message was 'wanna meet'.

I need a bit more to go on than that! I can see where you're coming from op!"

Me too. Not in a hurry to meet xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Wee rant for a Wednesday morning!!!

I've been on site since summer 2015 and I'm verified over 50 times yet guys refuse to send a face pic first, any ideas why ? This upsets me as a genuine user of FAB swingers.

I would send you a pic with your veris, you are obviously genuine, I do keep mine private but only to stop the fakers from seeing it

Thanks someone with common sense it seems

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Thats a bit unfair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in the.minority of being happy to meet for social only and see if we have an attraction. I have.met many folk on here and most have been successful and I have made a few new friends in the process

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am in the.minority of being happy to meet for social only and see if we have an attraction. I have.met many folk on here and most have been successful and I have made a few new friends in the process"

That's encouraging xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to the.nature of.my job I am also unable to send face pics.

But each to their own. I have.missed out on a number of meets because of this but can easily live with that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Due to the.nature of.my job I am also unable to send face pics.

But each to their own. I have.missed out on a number of meets because of this but can easily live with that!"

Yeh I'm not willing to change my requirements either... if it's meant to be it will happen

.... plenty more FAB friends to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics are very good and am sure will attract lots of attention. I must get round to putting more on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your pics are very good and am sure will attract lots of attention. I must get round to putting more on here!"

indeed; you must xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your pics are very good and am sure will attract lots of attention. I must get round to putting more on here!"

Thanks x

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

State what you want in your profile that way there is no confusion. We think if a guy is that interested and he gets in touch with you 1st then he will send a face photo no excuse they can tick the we box so it deletes after you have seen it.. Lets face it they wouldn't chat you up in a pub with a bag on there head would they? so why on here? Stick to your guns!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wee rant for a Wednesday morning!!!

I've been on site since summer 2015 and I'm verified over 50 times yet guys refuse to send a face pic first, any ideas why ? This upsets me as a genuine user of FAB swingers. "

I would have no interest in sending you a face pic first until i earned your trust no matter how many verifications you have and ive been on the site since it started.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wee rant for a Wednesday morning!!!

I've been on site since summer 2015 and I'm verified over 50 times yet guys refuse to send a face pic first, any ideas why ? This upsets me as a genuine user of FAB swingers.

I would have no interest in sending you a face pic first until i earned your trust no matter how many verifications you have and ive been on the site since it started.

That's fine you are entitled to your own rules to follow babe.

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By *exmadscotMan
over a year ago

alloa

"Due to the.nature of.my job I am also unable to send face pics.

But each to their own. I have.missed out on a number of meets because of this but can easily live with that!"

that old chestnut?

we've all got jobs and family and neighbours, I would never meet without a pic, you might look like the back end of a bus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to the.nature of.my job I am also unable to send face pics.

But each to their own. I have.missed out on a number of meets because of this but can easily live with that!

that old chestnut?

we've all got jobs and family and neighbours, I would never meet without a pic, you might look like the back end of a bus"

Ouch...See your point but please don't knock mine. Each to their own surely!?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I have absolutely no problem sending a face pic first if i believe the lady in question is genuine

but tend to disregard profiles that demand a face pic on first contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You demand a face pic in a first message, don't have any of your own on show and have veri's but don't display them? Seems a bit double standards? I don't see what the problem with a couple of messages, but if a hello and then a pic swap is? If you mean you want a face pic first because you get too many messages and you want to filter out and delete the once that you don't like then just say so, instead of making it sound like the lads are being unfair by not sending them!

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By *heekyguy2Man
over a year ago

Local

"Wee rant for a Wednesday morning!!!

I've been on site since summer 2015 and I'm verified over 50 times yet guys refuse to send a face pic first, any ideas why ? This upsets me as a genuine user of FAB swingers.

I would send you a pic with your veris, you are obviously genuine, I do keep mine private but only to stop the fakers from seeing it

Thanks someone with common sense it seems

Only from your point of view. You seem to miss that others are following the same rules you have set. Meaning they don't send a face pic first... As it's also their choice and also their rules they are playing with.

If everyone played this way no one would see any face pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If folk do or don't want to send face pics

That's totally up to them.

I'd never meet anyone without seeing 1 tho

And if someone sent me 1 I'd always return 1 if asked

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Wee rant for a Wednesday morning!!!

I've been on site since summer 2015 and I'm verified over 50 times yet guys refuse to send a face pic first, any ideas why ? This upsets me as a genuine user of FAB swingers.

I would send you a pic with your veris, you are obviously genuine, I do keep mine private but only to stop the fakers from seeing it

Thanks someone with common sense it seems

If everyone played this way no one would see any face pics!"
at last someone with common sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You demand a face pic in a first message, don't have any of your own on show and have veri's but don't display them? Seems a bit double standards? I don't see what the problem with a couple of messages, but if a hello and then a pic swap is? If you mean you want a face pic first because you get too many messages and you want to filter out and delete the once that you don't like then just say so, instead of making it sound like the lads are being unfair by not sending them!"

Who said i demand pics on first message?? That's not what I was saying at all !!!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

As a genuine user??? What does that actually mean??

We have been here since the start and don't understand why women think think they have the upper hand and it's play by my rules or not at all! If they don't want to send a pic they don't want to simple no need to be upset by it, if that's your rules move on to someone who will!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will quiet gladly send a face pics as long as they sign a waiver not to sue me for a cracked screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far there's been digs and snide remarks made because the op is one of many who ask for facepics in the profile text, why is it only now that having that sentence in a profile is a bad thing? In fact Iv seen some of the ones above moaning about it slobbering over fems on the forums who have it in their profile! Honestly when some of you smell blood...

Personally I don't send facepics in my first message (I don't send the first one anyway ha) but that's my decision, just like everyone can use the site how they want. This post should be directed at the knobs who don't send one back when your playing FPF however......

I can understand the frustration from genuine site members due to the fakes but it's just what it is really.

Let's all just be pals

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

We had the classic this morning. Her (sic) profile said 23 year old Glasgow female. So we went to kik. She (sic) sent a Blurry selfie claiming (now I love this) it was a live picture" so we sent back our normal verification (her name on a bit of paper held by Belle showing her tits and asked if she could send a picture that shows she is a woman with our name on it. No she said, I just sent you a live pic. Lol so either she is as thick as mud (we don't want to meet someone that dumb) or she is a Kevin with hairy balls. We hope its option 2 as a girl that thick ain't gonna get on to well on here.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"So far there's been digs and snide remarks made because the op is one of many who ask for facepics in the profile text, why is it only now that having that sentence in a profile is a bad thing? In fact Iv seen some of the ones above moaning about it slobbering over fems on the forums who have it in their profile! Honestly when some of you smell blood...

I can understand the frustration from genuine site members due to the fakes but it's just what it is really.

Let's all just be pals

Errr no she doesn't state anything about sending pic in first message .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errr no she doesn't state anything about sending pic in first message ."

Didn't even bother checking as I was just replying to the comments. I hope that's allowed. Next time il do some full research

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Hardly full research lol .just reading the profile that you are quoting upon its content .

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Not really sure what difference it makes who sends first as long as photos are mutually exchanged

the difference is if the guy sends it first and she's not attracted she'll more than likely not send hers... simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hardly full research lol .just reading the profile that you are quoting upon its content .

It was actually the sniping and argumentative comments I was aiming at not the OP, but hey-ho

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I see where OP is coming from. Iv had a gut messaging.me for.months and we have a great banter but he categpriclly refuses to send pic saying ul c me when we meet. Not going to happen cos I won't meet someone I havnt seen.

Let's face it physical attraction is a start and not everyone has the same taste. My face pics are private Coa of job but will always share after talking for a while x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the person asking for pics is verified by genuine fab users that we have met or their veris seem genuine, we will send pics first if they ask. If they are only cam verified, hide their veris, have 2 but ones in England and ones in Ireland etc we ask them first.

That's our preference and if people don't like it that's their problem. To many images from here end up being copied and used on different sites.

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I always send face pic with 1st message not that it dus me much good lol just for the reason if I was speaking to Sum1 in real life they would see my face we wouldn't be standing back to back but my face pics are set to private only cos I can choose who sees them I don't want every1 and any1 seeing my face but I've seen a few profiles that hav no public or private pics and they demand a face pic on 1st message which I find a little rude also reading all the comments here 1 said they don't see why the ladies think they hav the upper hand and demand what they want it's simple they do hav the upper hand single guys are 20/1 on single ladies here so the ladies can ask for whatever they want and still get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just put my face pic on my profile, game would be up as soon as we met anyway if i put up a fake pic, so must just be pic collectors, we had a guy show up few years ago after chatting and exchanging pics and he wasnt the same bloke, he was politely sent home with tail between his legs, timewaster.

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