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Seriously...do folk even read mail

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good morning folks. I am wandering if folk even read there mails or do the just not bother and do a bulk delete

I've tried all different ways by complimenting there pics describing myself and sending face pics and even trying to have a joke. But seems most just delete without reading it

I'm trying to get a meet or go to a social or club to get verified. I take part in some forms and send face pics most times. I have no problem attracting people when out but just seems on here its easier to delete without reading

Any ideas on going forward as I'm a genuine and not looking to waste others time

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Ok here's a tip:

When receiving a message, the first thing most people do is look at the profile. And the first thing they do when they go to the profile is view pics.

If a profile is pretty much cock pics, they will pass by.

Although you do have a step up on most guys in that you actually have a written profile, although it could be better and say more about what you're looking for and have to offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you. Tips taking on board and some changes will be. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What boobs said

I read almost all my messages unless - as says in my profile - the avatar is a cock picture

Nice wallpaper by the way

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Most women or couples(not all) dont like cock pics.

Why not try some teasing photos youl find some ideas via google and put your cock pics in private for friends only.

Im sure with a few tweeks of your profile you will get some response

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/04/17 11:58:48]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So shall I change my pro pic.to something else or is that ok ???

And I'll be doing some new pics today once I finish lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's important to read the mail you receive however incase you miss an offer from a religious Nigerian billionaire needing a kind souls bank details so he can send £3Million before the diamond hunters find it.

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Depends how many messages I have. When I first joined I was block deleting when you'd wake up to 90+ msgs, or id answer a few and delete the rest.

Since its calmed down its easier and you can look at profiles and make sure pics are real and stuff like that and make a decision from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the base level gratuitous cock pics, they are an instant delete/block.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

On over a year and not verified doesn't do you any favours .It would raise a flag to me as to why you've not had any verification a. You say about going to a social or club to get verified ,so do just that .Again I'd wonder why you hadnt done that after a few ,months plenty site socials so keep eye on forums for them .

The can't accomadate and can't travel is going to really limit your pool of people . Plus with the cant accommodate would be an immediate delete for me as filter for attached guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do read mail

Yes I do answer

Dosnt mean it's gonna lead to anything..

See the crap chat thread

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Ohh also do you think the negative status will draw people to want to contact or reply ? I know I avoid those profiles with negative or whiney updates and graphic ones as just off putting to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll jump on this little bandwagon! Any suggestions for a profile as I have written various intros !

I do plan on getting more pics up but I'm very indecisive what sort of things do you wonderful woman look for ?

Taking into kind I'm confident just not when it comes to exotic sexy pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt matter what you right

Doesnt matter what you do

If your face doesnt fit then "fab says no"

Or is that just with me lol

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Doesnt matter what you right

Doesnt matter what you do

If your face doesnt fit then "fab says no"

Or is that just with me lol"

Just going to sit back and wait for the condescending, snide feedback this is going to get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do read mail

Yes I do answer

Dosnt mean it's gonna lead to anything..

See the crap chat thread

"

She's not kidding there she's hard work too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be weird then I get replies even though no public pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be weird then I get replies even though no public pictures "

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be weird then I get replies even though no public pictures

Who said that? "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do read mail

Yes I do answer

Dosnt mean it's gonna lead to anything..

See the crap chat thread

She's not kidding there she's hard work too lol "

Yeah I chat to anyone

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I read all mail!

I don't reply to all mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try and read and reply to any mail we get,

But when it's clear the person who has messaged us clearly has not read our profile then why should we bother even reading their mail?

That's the ones we delete straight away.

H&F

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