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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get messages from guys telling me about past experiences such as fucked this one dirty slut somewhere or this dirty ho did this ect, did you forget that you did this too? Dis respecting us girls on here for doing the exact same as you is not on! How do you other girks handle it or guys for that matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages from guys telling me about past experiences such as fucked this one dirty slut somewhere or this dirty ho did this ect, did you forget that you did this too? Dis respecting us girls on here for doing the exact same as you is not on! How do you other girks handle it or guys for that matter?"

Just never mind them

They are just assholes and not nice people and at least you find out who to avoid. They are just jealous you are not interested in them.

Don't let it bother you

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I get messages from guys telling me about past experiences such as fucked this one dirty slut somewhere or this dirty ho did this ect, did you forget that you did this too? Dis respecting us girls on here for doing the exact same as you is not on! How do you other girks handle it or guys for that matter?"
I dont handle it because ive never expereienced it before .

Perhaps just stop them in their tacks before they start telling you of their experiences of other members on here

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I use that kind of talk as a filter. If someone refers to women as sluts and whores they are not for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use that kind of talk as a filter. If someone refers to women as sluts and whores they are not for me"

Deffo hun i dunno why guys think that impresses us girls?!? By showing how little they think of other girl's i do block when i get messages like that just pisses ne off lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get messages from guys telling me about past experiences such as fucked this one dirty slut somewhere or this dirty ho did this ect, did you forget that you did this too? Dis respecting us girls on here for doing the exact same as you is not on! How do you other girks handle it or guys for that matter?

Just never mind them

They are just assholes and not nice people and at least you find out who to avoid. They are just jealous you are not interested in them.

Don't let it bother you "

Only in the bedroom can u call me names lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I use that kind of talk as a filter. If someone refers to women as sluts and whores they are not for me

Deffo hun i dunno why guys think that impresses us girls?!? By showing how little they think of other girl's i do block when i get messages like that just pisses ne off lol"

I don't get it either, it's just macho swagger that demonstrates what little boys they are, because real men don't speak about women that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys are just brainless and immature.

And then they wonder why no one wants to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does'nt bother me, just use it as a filter, and block them. Not interested in carrying on chats or meeting anyone that badmouths in any way. This aint the school playground.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not really something I've experienced, the slut shaming part of it, although must admit I get irritated when guys constantly talk about previous meets, mainly as they don't like it when I return the favour

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Does'nt bother me, just use it as a filter, and block them. Not interested in carrying on chats or meeting anyone that badmouths in any way. This aint the school playground."

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Sounds horrible

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

nothing but positive to say about most my meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say this sort of chat pisses me off.

I've heard guys talk like this irl and I think they're trying to big themselves up but most normal, sane people will just think they're dicks.

I have heard women talking about guys like this as well btw and it's? totally disrespectful regardless of which sex it refers to.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

never encountered this thankfully

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I get messages from guys telling me about past experiences such as fucked this one dirty slut somewhere or this dirty ho did this ect, did you forget that you did this too? Dis respecting us girls on here for doing the exact same as you is not on! How do you other girks handle it or guys for that matter?"
Btw its not just guys who do this !

Ive seen some fem statuses slagging off other female members calling them the same thing simply because they are here doing what they joined to do and meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only good thing to come out of this is that is shows people what they are really like and easily to dodge, whether a male or female.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"The only good thing to come out of this is that is shows people what they are really like and easily to dodge, whether a male or female."

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

What happens on a meet should stay private

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"What happens on a meet should stay private"
Agreed 100% no one else needs to know except you and your meet

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

im sorry not buying the holier than thou stuff . and dont believe for a second folk dont talk or share their experiences good or bad . it can be done whilst respecting the discretion and privacy of the other party very easily

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"What happens on a meet should stay privateAgreed 100% no one else needs to know except you and your meet "

Definitely

Why would you share every detail

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill


"im sorry not buying the holier than thou stuff . and dont believe for a second folk dont talk or share their experiences good or bad . it can be done whilst respecting the discretion and privacy of the other party very easily "

Of course. We all have experiences we share. But not every detail in a derogatory way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People gossiping??? Never!!! Really???

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Just try not let them get to you ..use as a filter of who to avoid they are just numpties who are here for all the wrong reasons ..i really dont get the mentality of some folk or what they get out of speaking to someone like that ..as said on thread ..what goes on on a meet stays on a meet i would never think of discussing previous encounters with a current encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sometimes gets bad on the stories and fantasies thread, one guy posts giving a story or asking about experiences and suddenly loads of guys are posting their stories getting more disgusting and derogatory as they go... bravado and showing-off to the lads I often find myself pulling them up because I can't quite believe the way they are referring to women or the way they have treated them. Then of course they start back-tracking...

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Good manners and respect should apply when in communication with a lady. It costs nothing.

However modern culture seems to be moving away from that norm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's more men joining every day that assume they have the right to have every woman falling at their feet. Not all but some!

Also we are viewed as pieces of meat to some. Respect goes a long way...if they have none then they won't travel far on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its stuff like this that baffles me on here. Like what actual brain cell lacking moron would actually think sending a message like that would benefit his cause?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Never experienced it myself....

But, if some guy started talking like that about someone else he met I would simply ignore and quit chatting

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By *ickeyo85Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

In the end....aren't we all sluts

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"I get messages from guys telling me about past experiences such as fucked this one dirty slut somewhere or this dirty ho did this ect, did you forget that you did this too? Dis respecting us girls on here for doing the exact same as you is not on! How do you other girks handle it or guys for that matter?"

Surely these are guys barely out of their teens?

Can't imagine grown men, especially in this day and age, are still participating in an misogynistic manner towards ladies.

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