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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

How did you cope as your kids fled the nest ?

I feel as tho Im starting to rattle about in the house now.

Trying to ajust to them not being here and ajusting to the little things like cutting down on the food shop lol.

Only thing I dont miss are the mazsive whashing loads lol

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Cope perfectly well enjoying the peace n quiet plus all the extra space like turning a bedroom into a 3m wardrobe for each of us in the house and not having to worry that someone has eaten all the good food I got when I went shopping.... then I wake up in the morning and realise it was a dream and we've still got a couple of years to go ;-(

John

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Cope perfectly well enjoying the peace n quiet plus all the extra space like turning a bedroom into a 3m wardrobe for each of us in the house and not having to worry that someone has eaten all the good food I got when I went shopping.... then I wake up in the morning and realise it was a dream and we've still got a couple of years to go ;-(

John "

lol John Im doing the room swap stuff just now and I guess another positive is ive got more wardrobe space for all my clothes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boy is away on his

first school trip this week, I am finding it hard going as hes not allowed to phone home. He's only 12! I keep telling him when the time comes to go to uni, spread his wings and fly. The world is his oyster. I would hate him to stay here in our small dead end town, nothing here for him except me. But wonder how I will cope if and when that time comes... maybe I should get a puppy now lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"My boy is away on his

first school trip this week, I am finding it hard going as hes not allowed to phone home. He's only 12! I keep telling him when the time comes to go to uni, spread his wings and fly. The world is his oyster. I would hate him to stay here in our small dead end town, nothing here for him except me. But wonder how I will cope if and when that time comes... maybe I should get a puppy now lol"

awww hes only a baby yet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am dreading September when my youngest girl goes to uni in Edinburgh. I will be on my own first time ever and I know it will hit me hard. I'm going to try and travel more and take up a new hobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to positive when they leave.My son was the most untidy person.His gf now tells me hes a tidy freak like me and he cooks.He couldn't.boil an egg before he went as he just wasnt interested in learning.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

If only they would actually take all their stuff with them!

House is still full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only they would actually take all their stuff with them!

House is still full. "

I feel your pain x

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

My 2 girls are about to turn 13 and I find strange when they have a sleepover never leaving house lol

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

My oldest is now in the Army. He is based in Germany.

I was gutted when he moved away but you realise you cant keep them under your wing forever.

Still got two screaming banshees to fulfill my life for the next 16 years so that will keep me busy

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If only they would actually take all their stuff with them!

House is still full. "

yeah one moved out earlier in the year and half his stuff is still here

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By *ab and funCouple
over a year ago

FIFE


"Cope perfectly well enjoying the peace n quiet plus all the extra space like turning a bedroom into a 3m wardrobe for each of us in the house and not having to worry that someone has eaten all the good food I got when I went shopping.... then I wake up in the morning and realise it was a dream and we've still got a couple of years to go ;-(

John "

I'm just turning a room into a dressing room and mini gym, that's how I'm coping

Xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Cope perfectly well enjoying the peace n quiet plus all the extra space like turning a bedroom into a 3m wardrobe for each of us in the house and not having to worry that someone has eaten all the good food I got when I went shopping.... then I wake up in the morning and realise it was a dream and we've still got a couple of years to go ;-(

John

I'm just turning a room into a dressing room and mini gym, that's how I'm coping

Xx"

Im moving into the biggest room and making one room into a guest room

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By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I get bored hate being in house myself. Im off work at minute and going stir crazy as grump is working and I'm home alone. It got to point I threatened to put his hundreds of cds alphabetically or move back to my own flat lol

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my quiet house! Bonus is that when I meet up with the daughter, we have much more to talk about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't shift my two. 20 & 26, there mother does far to much for them and they said , first sign of a bad cough and your both going into an old folks home!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I just can't shift my two. 20 & 26, there mother does far to much for them and they said , first sign of a bad cough and your both going into an old folks home! "
Ah im sure their time will come

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Love my quiet house! Bonus is that when I meet up with the daughter, we have much more to talk about "
thats true

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I get bored hate being in house myself. Im off work at minute and going stir crazy as grump is working and I'm home alone. It got to point I threatened to put his hundreds of cds alphabetically or move back to my own flat lol

Xx"

poor grump

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

My two lads have flown the nest so got the place to myself. They have my phone number but seem to think it is connected to a free taxi service so I get to see them when it involves driving them places.lol

I am enjoying the peace and quiet as well as teaching myself how to cook better.

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