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By *ARKC7 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Anyone else dislike the updates people put on here telling us there every thought or plans for the day!

It's a swinging site not Fb or social media!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

I write what I'm feeling

Because I can

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Some people use it like social media, not everyone uses it the same as you might

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

The only ones I dislike are people moaning that they can't get a meet, slagging people off or being vulgar.

Otherwise, people can use the site however they please

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By *ARKC7 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It's more the attention seeking post that annoy me!

I sound like a grumpy b**tard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them.

They can be an icebreaker and help start a conversation which ultimately is a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like them.

They can be an icebreaker and help start a conversation which ultimately is a good thing."

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I like them.

They can be an icebreaker and help start a conversation which ultimately is a good thing."

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The only ones I dislike are people moaning that they can't get a meet, slagging people off or being vulgar.

Otherwise, people can use the site however they please"

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's more the attention seeking post that annoy me!

I sound like a grumpy b**tard! "

We'll now you come to mention it....yes you do!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I've messaged people on the basis of their status either here or I'll text them if I have their number.

For some that have run out of messages it's their only way to let people know.

I've rarely put up a status that says I'm free to meet now. Everyone can use it the way they want except for the naming and shaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what do you believe status updates should be used for? What should and shouldn't people say?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Some i find amusing some i have to at but thats what the status updates are for ..if you dont like them dont read them

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I luv em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive found them a great way to block idiots without having to ever message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive found them a great way to block idiots without having to ever message them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I copied and pasted a vile message into my status this week. I wouldn't normally do it but I wanted it known the shit us normal folk put up with from sick trolls. one off. I hardly use the status option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I barely look at the updates so don't really notice them. I mostly just see my friends and hotlist and they are people I choose to see what they say!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I barely look at the updates so don't really notice them. I mostly just see my friends and hotlist and they are people I choose to see what they say! "

Which one am I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My balls are stuck to the side of my leg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I barely look at the updates so don't really notice them. I mostly just see my friends and hotlist and they are people I choose to see what they say!

Which one am I? "

Both of course

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

We have both messaged and been messaged in relation to status updates which have lead to fun so no complaints from us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope doesn't bother me as I don't read the updates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wee status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my status came back to bite me in the arse tonight.

I put up " going on a proper date tonight, I need to give him a quickie before dinner to get rid of nerves so can enjoy it lol"

I did nt know he was on fab and he then questioned me about it and basically made me feel like shit for being on here. I even said would delete profile in a relationship so went to dinner.

during dinner he actually managed to talk himself out of a relationship with loads of shit excuses and when back home it continued to the point he couldn't trust that a guy wouldn't message my fone.

pot/kettle to me. I eventually asked him to leave and went had drink with friends...

personally I like status as sometimes its a good way to make conversation with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are great, some are drivel.

But then some of the threads on here are too

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By *ettyboop66Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Who gives a shit its their page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally like the status updates as can be used as a conversation starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my status came back to bite me in the arse tonight.

I put up " going on a proper date tonight, I need to give him a quickie before dinner to get rid of nerves so can enjoy it lol"

I did nt know he was on fab and he then questioned me about it and basically made me feel like shit for being on here. I even said would delete profile in a relationship so went to dinner.

during dinner he actually managed to talk himself out of a relationship with loads of shit excuses and when back home it continued to the point he couldn't trust that a guy wouldn't message my fone.

pot/kettle to me. I eventually asked him to leave and went had drink with friends...

personally I like status as sometimes its a good way to make conversation with someone"

A similar thing happened to me strangely! He got very touchy and jealous as he thought I was.meeting someone else. I told.him to GTF. I don't do needy, controlling, jealous,insecure men EVER!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't do needy, controlling, jealous,insecure men EVER!"

My sentiments exactly!

And there are a few on here!

As there are woman I hasten to add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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A similar thing happened to me strangely! He got very touchy and jealous as he thought I was.meeting someone else. I told.him to GTF. I don't do needy, controlling, jealous,insecure men EVER!"

It's crazy. Iv had controlling relationship before and will never allow anyone to treat me like that again.

Only option was send him packing

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"my status came back to bite me in the arse tonight.

I put up " going on a proper date tonight, I need to give him a quickie before dinner to get rid of nerves so can enjoy it lol"

I did nt know he was on fab and he then questioned me about it and basically made me feel like shit for being on here. I even said would delete profile in a relationship so went to dinner.

during dinner he actually managed to talk himself out of a relationship with loads of shit excuses and when back home it continued to the point he couldn't trust that a guy wouldn't message my fone.

pot/kettle to me. I eventually asked him to leave and went had drink with friends...

personally I like status as sometimes its a good way to make conversation with someone"

That's a shame. Hope he realises his loss. Funny how some people assume you can't have a relationship just because you're on Fab. It's happened to me too but I guess it's double standards, it's ok for guys to be on here but want a relationship but not women.

I'm sure you'll find Mr Right one day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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That's a shame. Hope he realises his loss. Funny how some people assume you can't have a relationship just because you're on Fab. It's happened to me too but I guess it's double standards, it's ok for guys to be on here but want a relationship but not women.

I'm sure you'll find Mr Right one day x"

Thanks honey xx

It amazes me the double standards especially in this day and age. I always say at least folk on fab honest what they want but suppose that's not always enough. Xx

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Seen one yesterday saying that the hubby of a couple had gotten her pregnant

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"

That's a shame. Hope he realises his loss. Funny how some people assume you can't have a relationship just because you're on Fab. It's happened to me too but I guess it's double standards, it's ok for guys to be on here but want a relationship but not women.

I'm sure you'll find Mr Right one day x

Thanks honey xx

It amazes me the double standards especially in this day and age. I always say at least folk on fab honest what they want but suppose that's not always enough. Xx"
theres no double standards you really think the same isnt apparent for guys

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Seen one yesterday saying that the hubby of a couple had gotten her pregnant "

jeez!

I've had a lot of contact from my status updates, I like them, it often makes me look a profile I would not normally look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else dislike the updates people put on here telling us there every thought or plans for the day!

It's a swinging site not Fb or social media!"

I'd rather read someone's thoughts or plans than that their "balls are full and need emptying"! Am I being presumptuous in thinking that since it's a swinging site you find that more acceptable?

I find humourous updates enjoyable. They give an insight into the profile holder's personality.

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