FabSwingers.com forum: Status updates

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Do you think if someone uses their status updates to be abusive or to name and shame other members they should recieve timeouts from using the site ?

Ive saw so many status updates where some are naming & shaming or just being abusive towards other members via their updates so you would think some kind of punishment should be applied the same if they were doing it via the forums or chat .

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Yes, I do. Doing that reflects badly on them and I wouldn't meet people who do that. Anything distasteful gets copied into my notes on them

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Do you think if someone uses their status updates to be abusive or to name and shame other members they should recieve timeouts from using the site ?

Definitely agree, suspend their ability to message and update posts as a deterrent

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Yes, I do. Doing that reflects badly on them and I wouldn't meet people who do that. Anything distasteful gets copied into my notes on them"

You don't have a FAB notebook do you, if so I hope I have an entry

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Yes, I do. Doing that reflects badly on them and I wouldn't meet people who do that. Anything distasteful gets copied into my notes on them"
me either

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Do you think if someone uses their status updates to be abusive or to name and shame other members they should recieve timeouts from using the site ?

Definitely agree, suspend their ability to message and update posts as a deterrent

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This is what I was thinking

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Yes, I do. Doing that reflects badly on them and I wouldn't meet people who do that. Anything distasteful gets copied into my notes on them

You don't have a FAB notebook do you, if so I hope I have an entry

Maaaaaaaaybe

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Yes, I do. Doing that reflects badly on them and I wouldn't meet people who do that. Anything distasteful gets copied into my notes on them

You don't have a FAB notebook do you, if so I hope I have an entry

Maaaaaaaaybe

Can it be a naughty entry, was never very good at being good

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Some are hilarious though - usually the guys raging at someone who's blocked them.

They have you blocked so can't see your rant, dumbass!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Do you think if someone uses their status updates to be abusive or to name and shame other members they should recieve timeouts from using the site ?

Definitely agree, suspend their ability to message and update posts as a deterrent

This is what I was thinking

Think this would make some fools think before they let their fingers get going no

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Yes, I do. Doing that reflects badly on them and I wouldn't meet people who do that. Anything distasteful gets copied into my notes on them

You don't have a FAB notebook do you, if so I hope I have an entry

Maaaaaaaaybe

Can it be a naughty entry, was never very good at being good

I think you'll need to be very naughty

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Yes, I do. Doing that reflects badly on them and I wouldn't meet people who do that. Anything distasteful gets copied into my notes on them

You don't have a FAB notebook do you, if so I hope I have an entry

Maaaaaaaaybe

Can it be a naughty entry, was never very good at being good

I think you'll need to be very naughty

That comes easily to me, only need a half chance and I'm off the scale

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Do you think if someone uses their status updates to be abusive or to name and shame other members they should recieve timeouts from using the site ?

Definitely agree, suspend their ability to message and update posts as a deterrent

This is what I was thinking

Think this would make some fools think before they let their fingers get going no

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would like to think so

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some are hilarious though - usually the guys raging at someone who's blocked them.

They have you blocked so can't see your rant, dumbass!

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This is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I see that sort of moany rant I block them. There's no way I'd get along with them so by blocking I don't need to read their garbage.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Whenever I see that sort of moany rant I block them. There's no way I'd get along with them so by blocking I don't need to read their garbage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think if someone uses their status updates to be abusive or to name and shame other members they should recieve timeouts from using the site ?

Fab gives a warning if they see the status...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Do you think if someone uses their status updates to be abusive or to name and shame other members they should recieve timeouts from using the site ?

Fab gives a warning if they see the status..."
yeah I think they remove statuses that do break their rules but question Im asking is should they be given some kind of timeout just like youd get if it was in chat or on the forums ?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I thought admin 'did' give a warning or time out for inappropriate statuses!

If not the case they should. Same rules should apply across the site.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I thought admin 'did' give a warning or time out for inappropriate statuses!

If not the case they should. Same rules should apply across the site.

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I think the status just gets removed Max but not 100% sure

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Some are hilarious though - usually the guys raging at someone who's blocked them.

They have you blocked so can't see your rant, dumbass!

Someone blocked me and I did put a status up to ask him (did not name) to block me on his second profile too as he hadn't

He didn't know I knew he had 2 profiles

So I wasn't a complete dumbass lol as he could still see my status

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I thought admin 'did' give a warning or time out for inappropriate statuses!

If not the case they should. Same rules should apply across the site.

I think the status just gets removed Max but not 100% sure

Ah ok

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Some are hilarious though - usually the guys raging at someone who's blocked them.

They have you blocked so can't see your rant, dumbass!

Someone blocked me and I did put a status up to ask him (did not name) to block me on his second profile too as he hadn't

He didn't know I knew he had 2 profiles

So I wasn't a complete dumbass lol as he could still see my status

Haha!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Some are hilarious though - usually the guys raging at someone who's blocked them.

They have you blocked so can't see your rant, dumbass!

Someone blocked me and I did put a status up to ask him (did not name) to block me on his second profile too as he hadn't

He didn't know I knew he had 2 profiles

So I wasn't a complete dumbass lol as he could still see my status

Sexy ass more than dumbass lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some are hilarious though - usually the guys raging at someone who's blocked them.

They have you blocked so can't see your rant, dumbass!

Someone blocked me and I did put a status up to ask him (did not name) to block me on his second profile too as he hadn't

He didn't know I knew he had 2 profiles

So I wasn't a complete dumbass lol as he could still see my status

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lol Max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes. using the status portal to be abusive is the same as sending abusive messages. they can get suspended for that so likewise using a status should be in the same class. in my opinion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually block people that do that in statuses. I already thought people got time out for breaking the rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk get off on others being banned

If it dosnt include your name move on

As said before admin do take the name calling down

I use my update on how I'm feeling at the time...I never name call or abuse but when I do see it like someone said..if they have blocked you...they won't see it anyway?

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By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I had my real name and Facebook name put on a status update and i reported it and a few other did same. The status remained up for hours and when it was eventually removed he went back to sending abusive messages. Every few months the same thing happenened for 2 years up until about 6 months ago when after doing it again on a new profile I private messaged him and sent him all the details I had on him. Needless to say he then named another female and said she told him to do it and hasn't been anything since.

I always thought if he had put it on forum he would have been in trouble but just because it was a update it wasn't took too seriously. So this maybe a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naming and shaming is totally wrong. Doesn't matter if someone has rejected you.

Being abusive is wrong and these members should be booted off the site

Status updates are simply an indication of what you are up to etc.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Yes 100% ... same rules should apply for chat/forum/status

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I usually block people that do that in statuses. I already thought people got time out for breaking the rules? "
They do but I dont think it applies to status updates

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yes.

But then that's why there is a report button next to them isn't it? I know that admin will remove statuses.

But I think you're right...a timeout on their whole account may be a good idea as we all get angry and frustrated at times and type things we regret later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually block people that do that in statuses. I already thought people got time out for breaking the rules? They do but I dont think it applies to status updates

I did reported someone for an inappropriate status update that I could see when I checked 'my looked at me'

The status didn't relate to me but they put somebody else's mobile number up and wanted people to harass the person

Shortly after they disappeared from my looked at so presumed their account suspended

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I usually block people that do that in statuses. I already thought people got time out for breaking the rules? They do but I dont think it applies to status updates

I did reported someone for an inappropriate status update that I could see when I checked 'my looked at me'

The status didn't relate to me but they put somebody else's mobile number up and wanted people to harass the person

Shortly after they disappeared from my looked at so presumed their account suspended

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maybe it depends on the offence ?

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By *laireandjamieCouple
over a year ago

west lothian

"Whenever I see that sort of moany rant I block them. There's no way I'd get along with them so by blocking I don't need to read their garbage.

Exactly I find it useful on who to avoid

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

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Nah...let them carry on!!

Shows others how petty they can be and gives us the opportunity to take nte and avoid/block them

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Nah...let them carry on!!

Shows others how petty they can be and gives us the opportunity to take nte and avoid/block them

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