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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is hunners of threads about poor first messages and criticising certain types but what do you actually want to see?

I thought it'd be interesting to write yourself a first message, one that would make you pay attention and take an interest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't seem to matter how much effort you put into your first message, the women either choose to be interested or not, tbh I've probably had more luck from simple fist messages than actually putting in effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't seem to matter how much effort you put into your first message, the women either choose to be interested or not, tbh I've probably had more luck from simple fist messages than actually putting in effort "

Ok fair point but what kind of first message would you like to receive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a guy so actually receiving one would be nice haha

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By *raggle rocks itMan
over a year ago

helensburgh

I would quite like a witty message that says more than just hi.. tell me something about you and catch my interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a guy so actually receiving one would be nice haha"
wesht you..I message you all the time

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I'll play..

"Hey, you look nice and I like your profile.

[Insert any old jokey comment here]"

For me this is all it'd take! Seriously, no idea why I get winks instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a guy so actually receiving one would be nice hahawesht you..I message you all the time

Lol "

We haven't spoken in a while actually

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Oi! Dumbass! Stop talking shite and say hello

Should work if sent to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very very rarely send the first message and due to that very very rarely get any

So, with that il make my way to the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same...very rarely do I send 1st messages

Maybe the odd wink lol

Dunno what I'd say?

Hi..fancy a f..k?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a guy so actually receiving one would be nice haha"

Amen

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

This is a good idea.

I gave this some proper thought, wrote it out slowly & carefully, double checked spelling, sat for a while wondering whether or not to press send..... sent!

Now the waiting begins....

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I rarely send first messages, especially to guys. I just wink and wait to see if they message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same...very rarely do I send 1st messages

Maybe the odd wink lol

Dunno what I'd say?

Hi..fancy a f..k? "

That's all you would have to say why don't you try it out on someone, like say... me maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer sending the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer sending the first message"

Can you say that again? I want to make sure my eyes aren't playing tricks

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

If we are looking for a single male I would prefer to message first x

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Still no reply from myself yet.

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The bastard deleted my message without reading it?!

(I don't blame him, I'd have done the same)

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"The bastard deleted my message without reading it?!

(I don't blame him, I'd have done the same) "

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By *edaMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I would at least like a "not interested reply" i give that reply to all the straight guys who want to suck my cock.

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I would at least like a "not interested reply" i give that reply to all the straight guys who want to suck my cock."

a no reply is a 'not interested reply'

no difficult really

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

The obvious cut and paste messages annoy me, shows they've probably messaged half the site in the last 10mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's hang upside down like a monkey,they are only one chromosome away from being human,but do you ever see a sad wild monkey....let's be a monkey

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central


"I would at least like a "not interested reply" i give that reply to all the straight guys who want to suck my cock."

Would 100 "not interested" messages do much for your self esteem?

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I've never been messaged 1st from any1 and I've tried loads of difrent types of 1st message and rarely get a reply but strangEly I've prob had more replies to a simple hi how are u would u fancy a chat please but I've no idea what to put in 1st message I always include a face pic but apart from that I've no idea I've seen loads posting about 1st message as op says but I've never received 1 so I don't hav any examples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not fussed about the first message. It can be awkward knowing where to start/what to say. If I get any message the first thing I do is check profile and see if they appeal and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would at least like a "not interested reply" i give that reply to all the straight guys who want to suck my cock.

Would 100 "not interested" messages do much for your self esteem?"

Didn't for mine gave me a complex so had a head and body transplant my inbox melted,,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be open and honest I've found works the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into poetry, autobiographies, twenty questions, sexual references of any kind

I just prefer two or three lines of small talk and pleasantries. That is all you need

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By *edzyWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Still no reply from myself yet. "

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