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"Sometimes I've been on fab, just having a wander and found a few girls or cpls have blocked me and I know for a fact I have never contacted them. Well I was at a few big socials end of last year, (Glasgow and Dundee) and a Cpl of small ones and found some people coming up chatting to me, getting on but they didn't realise they originally blocked me. Some found out after the social and then unblocked me as they found out what kinda person I really was. I don't hold any grudge if people block me as it's up to them and I feel that it's their loss. What's your thoughts on being blocked, even if you don't know why " Doesnt bother me one iota . Im sure they have their reasons the same as I have my reasons for blocking too. I can see where your coming from tho because if I look back at some Ive got no idea why I blocked but I dont block that often so there had to be a good reason for doing so | |||
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"When I was on previously if I saw someone had looked and I didn't like their profile or had seen stuff I didn't like in the forum I would block them without having had any contact. Personal choice. " Agreed, nothing wrong with that. personally I don't block, I just don't bother if someone I think is not for me. I'm meaning initial thoughts being blocked, especially when you don't know, can easily change as when they met you at a social gathering. | |||
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"I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime!" Can understand you wanting to counter block but I don't react that way, I just think it over and then not bother as I know its their loss. I'm not one for drama or hassle so I chill out | |||
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"I'm blocked more times than a quarterback in an American football team,but doesn't phase me one way or other horsey " Was an accident Gas Unblocked ya now PS How are the ducks?? | |||
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"i find it extremely odd that you know who's blocked you whilst sitting at a social, also if they unblock you when they find out what your really like why don't you just be the way you are all the time? Surely that would make things easier Just saying..." Sorry Kid, think you have looked at it the wrong way or I didn't express it they way I thought on the original post. Sorry I have a good memory and usually at the big socials you know whos going cause they say so on the forum, so when you chat, names are exchanged and you remember. I don't change for anyone, I am the same all the time. When being blocked, its people who blocked you who have never met or never been in contact as I have found and then when at a social and interaction it has changed. One Cpl said they hadn't a clue why they originally blocked me loll I never take offence as we all are old enough to make our own choices and decisions | |||
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"Was blocked once when I didn't respond to a message within 5 mins, (was working) so I just assumed that I had a lucky escape." Harsh but your probably right | |||
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"I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime!" They can't look at you if they have blocked you. | |||
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"I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime! They can't look at you if they have blocked you. " Bunny means they can have a quick unblock look and then block again | |||
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"I was blocked recently by a guy who took a comment completly wrong way which was very frustrating as I couldn't explain to him his misjudgement in my meaning. also clicked on a few members here in the Scottish forum to see i am blocked and hardly speak here in forum so like op says, wonder why " lol | |||
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"I block geezers purely to clear up the 'who's near' feature. Simple as that." Going slightly off topic, I don't know how you lot can get to grips with the mobile version. I just can't use it lol | |||
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"I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime!" If they block you, they can't look at your profile | |||
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"I noticed the other day a guy on here had blocked me. We haven't spoken or even interacted on the forums so I thought it was odd but each to their own. I did counterblock though, I dont like that he could look at me at anytime! If they block you, they can't look at your profile " yes true but I think she means what I stated above "if they block you then they can have a quick unblock look and then block again" | |||
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"Ooh! Really doesn't bother me! People's prerogative. It is not 'their loss' or 'my loss' just one of those things I don't try to analyse at all! I block if I don't like something I read on forum and think i have nothing in common with that person. I block sometimes when I see some pics in updates because... i dont want to see them again! Block...Etc etc etc... Whatever my reasons for blocking each reason makes sense to me! And I accepted the same if someone blocks me! It saves everyone time! " I'm the same as Max, various reasons for blocking. I'll make a note of why I've blocked them though as I might forget! | |||
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"I'm blocked more times than a quarterback in an American football team,but doesn't phase me one way or other horsey Was an accident Gas Unblocked ya now PS How are the ducks?? " Waiting for you to feed them Mrs Doyle ?? | |||
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"I have lots of people blocked for lots of different reasons I'll block if I don't like what I read on a status update or a forum comment don't think I'd be bothered who has me blocked " Status update or comment, that fickle? I'll consider myself blocked now. lol | |||
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"I wouldn't give it any thought." Blocked plenty. I'm sure plenty have blocked me. | |||
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"I have lots of people blocked for lots of different reasons I'll block if I don't like what I read on a status update or a forum comment don't think I'd be bothered who has me blocked Status update or comment, that fickle? I'll consider myself blocked now. lol" Some of them are pretty graphic and gross. Or they're putting out their number for anyone to get in touch, therefore desperate and will shag anyone. Or they're constantly whining that they're having no luck here and the place is full of munters, because they've discovered it's not instashag. None of these things are attractive and I don't wish to see it, so yes - block. | |||
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"It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens. But I block people for 3 reasons: They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page. Forever slagging off people in their statuses. Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message." yeah I stopped bothering about being blocked a long time ago. Even if we haven't spoken to them I just assume we're not what they're looking for and don't give it another thought | |||
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"It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens. But I block people for 3 reasons: They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page. Forever slagging off people in their statuses. Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message. yeah I stopped bothering about being blocked a long time ago. Even if we haven't spoken to them I just assume we're not what they're looking for and don't give it another thought" I've never thought about it either. But I'm having a blonde moment....how do people even know youve blocked them? | |||
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"It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens. But I block people for 3 reasons: They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page. Forever slagging off people in their statuses. Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message. yeah I stopped bothering about being blocked a long time ago. Even if we haven't spoken to them I just assume we're not what they're looking for and don't give it another thought I've never thought about it either. But I'm having a blonde moment....how do people even know youve blocked them? " They'll know if they try to look at your profile, they'll get a blocked message | |||
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"It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens. But I block people for 3 reasons: They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page. Forever slagging off people in their statuses. Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message. yeah I stopped bothering about being blocked a long time ago. Even if we haven't spoken to them I just assume we're not what they're looking for and don't give it another thought I've never thought about it either. But I'm having a blonde moment....how do people even know youve blocked them? They'll know if they try to look at your profile, they'll get a blocked message " Ah okay thanks! | |||
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"It used to bother me when people would block me, it was mostly women who I had never talked to in my puff lol but hey ho it happens. But I block people for 3 reasons: They upload gross pics I don't want to see on my updates page. Forever slagging off people in their statuses. Continually message after I sent them a 'thanks but no thanks' message. yeah I stopped bothering about being blocked a long time ago. Even if we haven't spoken to them I just assume we're not what they're looking for and don't give it another thought I've never thought about it either. But I'm having a blonde moment....how do people even know youve blocked them? They'll know if they try to look at your profile, they'll get a blocked message Ah okay thanks! " No worries | |||
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"Sometimes I've been on fab, just having a wander and found a few girls or cpls have blocked me and I know for a fact I have never contacted them. Well I was at a few big socials end of last year, (Glasgow and Dundee) and a Cpl of small ones and found some people coming up chatting to me, getting on but they didn't realise they originally blocked me. Some found out after the social and then unblocked me as they found out what kinda person I really was. I don't hold any grudge if people block me as it's up to them and I feel that it's their loss. What's your thoughts on being blocked, even if you don't know why " I block lots, but I haven't blocked you! | |||
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"I love finding I've been blocked. Does wonders for my "bad girl" image! " Haha, especially if you have no idea why as you've never spoken to them! | |||
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"I love finding I've been blocked. Does wonders for my "bad girl" image! Haha, especially if you have no idea why as you've never spoken to them! " They're the best ones to me. Lol. Result...fist pump!!! | |||
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"I love finding I've been blocked. Does wonders for my "bad girl" image! Haha, especially if you have no idea why as you've never spoken to them! They're the best ones to me. Lol. Result...fist pump!!! " | |||
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" I'm the same as Max, various reasons for blocking. I'll make a note of why I've blocked them though as I might forget!" Didn't realise you could make a note. I probably couldn't tell you why I've blocked most of the people on my list so that could be handy. | |||
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" I'm the same as Max, various reasons for blocking. I'll make a note of why I've blocked them though as I might forget! Didn't realise you could make a note. I probably couldn't tell you why I've blocked most of the people on my list so that could be handy." Yeah you can still access the notes even if you've blocked someone or they've blocked you | |||
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" I'm the same as Max, various reasons for blocking. I'll make a note of why I've blocked them though as I might forget! Didn't realise you could make a note. I probably couldn't tell you why I've blocked most of the people on my list so that could be handy. Yeah you can still access the notes even if you've blocked someone or they've blocked you " if you forget to subscribe to fab then the notes disappear but good new, if your non supporting , say a month, when you become site supporter all pervious notes are still there | |||
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"Lol I was speaking to a single guy was interested in meeting aswell but been busy with kids this week so I can only assume because I haven't been on in three days that's why I blocked honestly makes me laugh. " sorry about that lol x I wish | |||
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"Angel had been speaking to a single guy on here over the last week. Things where getting a bit naughty??. with a meet being on the cards very soon. She never answered his last or any of our messages for that matter, as little one has been ill since Sunday. She went in to answer tonight only to find out she has been blocked. Well his loss. She will just have to start her search all over again " can I put my name down lol | |||
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"Angel had been speaking to a single guy on here over the last week. Things where getting a bit naughty??. with a meet being on the cards very soon. She never answered his last or any of our messages for that matter, as little one has been ill since Sunday. She went in to answer tonight only to find out she has been blocked. Well his loss. She will just have to start her search all over again can I put my name down lol " Lol | |||
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"Or someone utterly bursts my melon in chatroom ... I cant remember what half my blocklist were blocked for, it doesnt help when they may have changed username since you blocked " Or someone utterly bursts my melon in chatroom ... Is there any point in me checking if im blocked Banana Rules | |||
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"Or someone utterly bursts my melon in chatroom ... I cant remember what half my blocklist were blocked for, it doesnt help when they may have changed username since you blocked Or someone utterly bursts my melon in chatroom ... Is there any point in me checking if im blocked Banana Rules" Course yer no, how could i abuse you in chat if i block you?... I enjoy that too much | |||
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"Or someone utterly bursts my melon in chatroom ... I cant remember what half my blocklist were blocked for, it doesnt help when they may have changed username since you blocked " If you're a site supporter you can still use the notes | |||
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"I block people all the time. For different reasons. Dont like something they say Dont like who they have been verified by (there is a psychotic bitch locally who causes no end of real life trouble) Bare back pictures " Said local psycho isn't local to us but still blocked lol John | |||
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