FabSwingers.com forum: JUST SEX or BLOW AWAY

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all love a good time, some look for different things on fab. Some just sex (nothing else), some chat, banter, social before fun and then all different levels of sex.

But what would you prefer on here

Just Sex or to be truly blown away knowing what you have just had with someone was pure fucking amazing time.

for me and my imagination, connection is a must to truly take the partner to another level. I want blown away but hey, that's just me

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Would prefer the social interaction then see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally we are looking for a long term friend to join us and we'd love to attend parties etc so its much more about the social side of things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeha there's a lot on here who just want to meet, have sex and finish.

I prefer the social side, small or large gathering, a meet and chat and a laugh not necessary to play that night but just get along and see if there is connection. I have made quite a few friends on fab who know I'm there for them if needed and will always be my friends.

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By *earded villainMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

not sure

enjoyed the social aspect recently , had the regular friend but soon becomes more complex than that . and had the one offs .

suppose it all depends on the mood at any given time with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I want ideally from a fun meet is an amazing experience that I'll never forget.

The only way I feel to have such a great experience is if you connect well with whoever you have fun with.

Also I'm up for plenty of social meets with nice people in between the fun ones.

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

This is a very good topic tho.

I usually like the social side of things getting to know people and playing from times to times.

Recently I met a couple where they just wanted to come into their room fuck mrs as hard as I could while hubby watches... no french kissing allowed.

I honestly love the kissing.

I have tried that it was actually quite exciting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a very good topic tho.

I usually like the social side of things getting to know people and playing from times to times.

Recently I met a couple where they just wanted to come into their room fuck mrs as hard as I could while hubby watches... no french kissing allowed.

I honestly love the kissing.

I have tried that it was actually quite exciting.

We all look at profiles and I read about the profile I peek at but if there isn't any kissing allowed, which a few have, then im outta there lolllll

The sensation of a kiss, looking into the girl's eyes, watching her pupils dilate is one of the most exciting sexual things anyone could do.

With the hubby watching as well, OMG awesome.

fuck. I need to go, ill be back in a while

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"We all love a good time, some look for different things on fab. Some just sex (nothing else), some chat, banter, social before fun and then all different levels of sex.

But what would you prefer on here

Just Sex or to be truly blown away knowing what you have just had with someone was pure fucking amazing time.

for me and my imagination, connection is a must to truly take the partner to another level. I want blown away but hey, that's just me

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Much as I like the connection,socialising & having fun with regular playmates I also dont mind one off meets that are just sex & nothing more.

Given the choice tho fwb friendships always wins with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all love a good time, some look for different things on fab. Some just sex (nothing else), some chat, banter, social before fun and then all different levels of sex.

But what would you prefer on here

Just Sex or to be truly blown away knowing what you have just had with someone was pure fucking amazing time.

for me and my imagination, connection is a must to truly take the partner to another level. I want blown away but hey, that's just me

Much as I like the connection,socialising & having fun with regular playmates I also dont mind one off meets that are just sex & nothing more.

Given the choice tho fwb friendships always wins with me

Don't get me wrong, I have had one off meets which have been fantastic but I prefer the social side as well.

As a few can testify, I love a right good natter and laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't cope without kissing

I definitely like to get to know people and while a one off quickie might be exhilarating I enjoy myself more with people I know and feel comfortable with.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"We all love a good time, some look for different things on fab. Some just sex (nothing else), some chat, banter, social before fun and then all different levels of sex.

But what would you prefer on here

Just Sex or to be truly blown away knowing what you have just had with someone was pure fucking amazing time.

for me and my imagination, connection is a must to truly take the partner to another level. I want blown away but hey, that's just me

Much as I like the connection,socialising & having fun with regular playmates I also dont mind one off meets that are just sex & nothing more.

Given the choice tho fwb friendships always wins with me

Don't get me wrong, I have had one off meets which have been fantastic but I prefer the social side as well.

As a few can testify, I love a right good natter and laugh

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yeah me too

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I'm very sensual, so like OP,i need to have a connection mentally...

However, I've had the odd NSA which have been good too, but there's always a bit of awkwardness at the end... "Hmm chat again? Meet again?....."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm very sensual, so like OP,i need to have a connection mentally...

However, I've had the odd NSA which have been good too, but there's always a bit of awkwardness at the end... "Hmm chat again? Meet again?.....""

To be honest if you both want to chat again or meet again then you will. If you don't meet or chat again then its not to be.

For me, no matter what, respect goes a long way, even when playing, you can have the filthiest utter kinky time with the person but with the connection there's respect and anything you both do just feels so natural and needed.

I was always be genuine and respectful to the people I've been with socially or playing and if we don't meet again then its fine, I'm sure we all will have a great life in the paths we have chosen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When myself n hubby played as a cpl we loved the social side

Ie..fab socials

Only a few a yr so they were a huge build up to them meeting folk you spoke to on here then a wee bit of networking for future dates

But as we found more and more cpls just wanted a night out but no fun

Which wasn't really what we were after

So now I play alone I'm more a chat on here a bit and meet for sex

If it's good meet again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both ways, have met some and it just be purely sex then again haven't had a lot of time for the social side of fab. Thought I do prefer a connection usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not averse to meeting for sex only but prefer overnight meets in a FWB scenario where in between the passion we can chat,have a laugh n listen to tunes n stuff.

That's more pleasurable for me than just fucking then fucking off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't cope without kissing

I definitely like to get to know people and while a one off quickie might be exhilarating I enjoy myself more with people I know and feel comfortable with. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer blown away but I would need an emotional attachment to someone to get that which I doubt I'll find on fab

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Have done the just sex thing, and TBH, have had more satisfying wanks!

So for me, it's connection first. I enjoy the exploring, teasing, playing and fucking.

I'd take fewer, longer, more regular meets, than more meets that are just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't cope without kissing

I definitely like to get to know people and while a one off quickie might be exhilarating I enjoy myself more with people I know and feel comfortable with. "

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Sex !!!!! Id be happy with a fem talking to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thinks it's all down to the mood for me.

Sometimes a quicky ticks the boxes but it has to be with someone I know.

But a social meet with plenty cheekiness thrown in is like foreplay in my eyes

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

If I wanted just sex there are nightclubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best time I ever had was meeting a lady of older years ago was a swinger and she became a friend.

Opened my mind to the social and private ways of sensuality and sex being a mental stimulus. Can be a mood thing.

I love voyeur aspect and other times downright dirty sex. Finding the right people to share with obviously very important to make that connection.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

We love to get chatting in a club then move to a private room. It's what it's about for us. To feel that buzz.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd prefer blown away but I would need an emotional attachment to someone to get that which I doubt I'll find on fab"

You just wanna watch two guys kiss

lollllllllllllll

loves ya non XxX peter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sex !!!!! Id be happy with a fem talking to me

Seriously, would she get a word in.

With me she'd be lucky, the chat would all be about her

honest

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"We love to get chatting in a club then move to a private room. It's what it's about for us. To feel that buzz. "

Would love to go into a private room with you

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Must be just us, dont quite get this emotional attachment, is that not what your partner is for , if you don't have a partner then on here it's just talk for sex

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Sex !!!!! Id be happy with a fem talking to me

Seriously, would she get a word in.

With me she'd be lucky, the chat would all be about her

honest

Im the quiet 1 lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Must be just us, dont quite get this emotional attachment, is that not what your partner is for , if you don't have a partner then on here it's just talk for sex "

No offences intended but I'm sure it isn't just you two, if you just like sex and not like to connect to the persons then that's kl.

Me, I like to get on, chat, laugh, connect and really enjoy each other. I want them to think in the future whatever path they have taken that they think, fuck, that was amazing and I'd love to sample that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's an argument for both if I'm honest, theres something to be said for that spontaneous "lets just go fuck" that often happens, but the slow build up to the moment is I my opinion sometimes more rewarding.

I've been lucky with most of my meets on fab (not that I've had many lol) and that I've gotten to know the person before we did anything bedroom related, thus its felt more rewarding to me as they have choosen to get to know me too before inviting me in for more (so to speak)

But I will agree with previous posts; some form of kissing is a must...its one of the few things I bloody good at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd prefer blown away but I would need an emotional attachment to someone to get that which I doubt I'll find on fab

You just wanna watch two guys kiss

lollllllllllllll

loves ya non XxX peter"

Yeah that's all great fun but I've never been blown away by a fab experience.. I think it's because I don't totally relax during that playtime

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd prefer blown away but I would need an emotional attachment to someone to get that which I doubt I'll find on fab

You just wanna watch two guys kiss

lollllllllllllll

loves ya non XxX peter

Yeah that's all great fun but I've never been blown away by a fab experience.. I think it's because I don't totally relax during that playtime "

Auch that's a shame. You might not be looking for that or need that but that connection that makes you feel relaxed, excited, every emotion during a meet can make it one of the most exhilarating things we could all desire.

we are all different beasts and all look for different things at different times during meets. As long as your partner at the time has an amazing tim e then that's fantastic.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

"Must be just us, dont quite get this emotional attachment, is that not what your partner is for , if you don't have a partner then on here it's just talk for sex

No offences intended but I'm sure it isn't just you two, if you just like sex and not like to connect to the persons then that's kl.

No offence taken , we also enjoy the banter , laugh , sharing a pint etc , but still don't get your emotional connection, we have an emotional connection with each other, hence were together, what you talk about is a good old night n might see you in the future, also what you may feel was an emotional connection the other or others might not , no offence intended

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I think emotiobal connection is not the best term. Maybe replace it with just connection at a friendly level.

theres folk can just accept a booty call thats something I couldnt do even just hooking up with someone at a club theres chat and flirt minimum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Must be just us, dont quite get this emotional attachment, is that not what your partner is for , if you don't have a partner then on here it's just talk for sex

No offences intended but I'm sure it isn't just you two, if you just like sex and not like to connect to the persons then that's kl.

pheewwllll, thank feck for that, I was ready to run for cover, am such a softy for being a 6ft 1" muscular, respectful, genuine guy

(wee self advert there)

A good laugh, chat, banter and fun is deffo a great night, one offs or regular, just getting on and having fun, canny whack it

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"We all love a good time, some look for different things on fab. Some just sex (nothing else), some chat, banter, social before fun and then all different levels of sex.

But what would you prefer on here

Just Sex or to be truly blown away knowing what you have just had with someone was pure fucking amazing time.

for me and my imagination, connection is a must to truly take the partner to another level. I want blown away but hey, that's just me

Much as I like the connection,socialising & having fun with regular playmates I also dont mind one off meets that are just sex & nothing more.

Given the choice tho fwb friendships always wins with me

Don't get me wrong, I have had one off meets which have been fantastic but I prefer the social side as well.

As a few can testify, I love a right good natter and laugh

You don't say!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all love a good time, some look for different things on fab. Some just sex (nothing else), some chat, banter, social before fun and then all different levels of sex.

But what would you prefer on here

Just Sex or to be truly blown away knowing what you have just had with someone was pure fucking amazing time.

for me and my imagination, connection is a must to truly take the partner to another level. I want blown away but hey, that's just me

Much as I like the connection,socialising & having fun with regular playmates I also dont mind one off meets that are just sex & nothing more.

Given the choice tho fwb friendships always wins with me

Don't get me wrong, I have had one off meets which have been fantastic but I prefer the social side as well.

As a few can testify, I love a right good natter and laugh

You don't say!!!

Some people just love ma Buck Teeth !!

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

"Must be just us, dont quite get this emotional attachment, is that not what your partner is for , if you don't have a partner then on here it's just talk for sex

No offences intended but I'm sure it isn't just you two, if you just like sex and not like to connect to the persons then that's kl.

pheewwllll, thank feck for that, I was ready to run for cover, am such a softy for being a 6ft 1" muscular, respectful, genuine guy

(wee self advert there)

A good laugh, chat, banter and fun is deffo a great night, one offs or regular, just getting on and having fun, canny whack it

So basically anything goes, connection or not, whoosh waste o banter there lol. We read books not adverts

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"We all love a good time, some look for different things on fab. Some just sex (nothing else), some chat, banter, social before fun and then all different levels of sex.

But what would you prefer on here

Just Sex or to be truly blown away knowing what you have just had with someone was pure fucking amazing time.

for me and my imagination, connection is a must to truly take the partner to another level. I want blown away but hey, that's just me

Much as I like the connection,socialising & having fun with regular playmates I also dont mind one off meets that are just sex & nothing more.

Given the choice tho fwb friendships always wins with me

Don't get me wrong, I have had one off meets which have been fantastic but I prefer the social side as well.

As a few can testify, I love a right good natter and laugh

You don't say!!!

Some people just love ma Buck Teeth !!

Crack me up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all love a good time, some look for different things on fab. Some just sex (nothing else), some chat, banter, social before fun and then all different levels of sex.

But what would you prefer on here

Just Sex or to be truly blown away knowing what you have just had with someone was pure fucking amazing time.

for me and my imagination, connection is a must to truly take the partner to another level. I want blown away but hey, that's just me

Much as I like the connection,socialising & having fun with regular playmates I also dont mind one off meets that are just sex & nothing more.

Given the choice tho fwb friendships always wins with me

Don't get me wrong, I have had one off meets which have been fantastic but I prefer the social side as well.

As a few can testify, I love a right good natter and laugh

You don't say!!!

Some people just love ma Buck Teeth !!

Crack me up

Honestly officer !!

I've touched no ones ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is always better when theres a spark and banter ahd getting along its all part if fancying someone always good to have a social first n see if that spark is there were only human after all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex is always better when theres a spark and banter ahd getting along its all part if fancying someone always good to have a social first n see if that spark is there were only human after all xxx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sex is always better when theres a spark and banter ahd getting along its all part if fancying someone always good to have a social first n see if that spark is there were only human after all xxx"

I'd love it just to open the door and the girl jump me, but knowing me, I'd prob shout STOP and make them sit down and I'd tell them a story, any story even about the banana, lurpak and cucumber.

feck that one takes ages, all night infact. If the spark doesn't after that, then I'm well fecked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find kissing helps gauge how the night is going to be and what they might like, i also enjoy a connection where you both connect in a way that you laugh all time whilest still wanting to tear each others cloths off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely prefer to be blown away.

Need to feel a bit of connection/ chemistry.

Some good banter, kissing etc can change a meet from a quickie to an amazing night full of wonders and potentially to another meet xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Connection is amazing.

Even spooning is brill as well with the right person

See once I learn how to tease, I'd be sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just use ladies for my own personal gain!

Ha ha kidding, honestly .

I'm sure we'd all like the connecting but that's not as easy as one would imagine.

Both can be fun and enlightening but if you have a connection and then the build up associated with that then it's going to make things more fun.

I've been of fab a while and I'd say only 2/3 times have I made a real connection with a lady but I've had some great times that have just been NSA once or twice offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all love a good time, some look for different things on fab. Some just sex (nothing else), some chat, banter, social before fun and then all different levels of sex.

But what would you prefer on here

Just Sex or to be truly blown away knowing what you have just had with someone was pure fucking amazing time.

for me and my imagination, connection is a must to truly take the partner to another level. I want blown away but hey, that's just me

I want blown away too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Connection is amazing.

Even spooning is brill as well with the right person

See once I learn how to tease, I'd be sorted

And grow a beard....

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By *urglasCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

At the moment we purely after sex however always got to be an attraction and they must have sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At the moment we purely after sex however always got to be an attraction and they must have sense of humour. "

Right!

There was a Scotsman, and Englishman and a Irishman.. ffs, hold on, what was that joke again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Connection is amazing.

Even spooning is brill as well with the right person

See once I learn how to tease, I'd be sorted

Love a spoon. Love the feeling waking up with strong arms round u and a hard cock pressed into ass. I'm perfect size to be small spoon lol

I also love to tease and give eye contact while having fun definitely helps connection xx

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By *urglasCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

hahaha ye thats it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Connection is amazing.

Even spooning is brill as well with the right person

See once I learn how to tease, I'd be sorted

Love a spoon. Love the feeling waking up with strong arms round u and a hard cock pressed into ass. I'm perfect size to be small spoon lol

I also love to tease and give eye contact while having fun definitely helps connection xx"

yeah yeah, look, you should be doing your invoices

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