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So many time wasters and fakes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are we just the unlucky couple who encounter constant time wasting idiots? Fake profiles? People who disappear off the face of the earth. Our membership is due for renewal but seriously wonder if it's worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just running into the wrong people (hi)

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Never had a issue yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have just been unlucky picking the wrong people.

Just go back to basics, get verified, photo verified people, check their veries that they have been veried by people who have been here a while.

Go to socials as well, good place to get to know people.

We all get them but its usually quite easy to suss them out.

Is the site worth it, Hell Yeah. You both will find people you connect with sexually with cpls and fems and some will become friends.

Keep upbeat and im sure there's peeps out there to restore your faith

XxX peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of fakes and superficial and vain folks.

I have certainly had my fair share of time wasters and spiteful women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are best way, just arrange to meet them at cjs that way if dont tutn up yous can get to know other people, a quick phone call is good as well, dont let that put you off there is always a diamond that will shine bringht and stick in you're memory once yous have meet them.

P.S good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Socials are best way, just arrange to meet them at cjs that way if dont tutn up yous can get to know other people, a quick phone call is good as well, dont let that put you off there is always a diamond that will shine bringht and stick in you're memory once yous have meet them.

P.S good luck "

Cjs is one way, (im not dizzin it) but definitely not for me, have no interest. I have had a fantastic time on fab without going to cjs or after8 although I know a lot have enjoyed it, some haven't.

At the end of the day or start of the day or middle, there are assholes, timewasters and egits on here, from guys, cpls, and fems, so just a little care and time needed to avoid them and then enjoy fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Socials are best way, just arrange to meet them at cjs that way if dont tutn up yous can get to know other people, a quick phone call is good as well, dont let that put you off there is always a diamond that will shine bringht and stick in you're memory once yous have meet them.

P.S good luck

Cjs is one way, (im not dizzin it) but definitely not for me, have no interest. I have had a fantastic time on fab without going to cjs or after8 although I know a lot have enjoyed it, some haven't.

At the end of the day or start of the day or middle, there are assholes, timewasters and egits on here, from guys, cpls, and fems, so just a little care and time needed to avoid them and then enjoy fab.

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Soz, I need to correct myself.

Socials are great and a good relaxed way to meet people but I don't think cjs is the best way, my view, there are a lot of pro and cons about it.

One of the reasons why people don't go because there are too many people and they might run into known people whom they didn't know where swingers or on fab and don't want them to know.

So this would be a bad experience and I know it has happened to people.

I enjoy small private socials with cpls and fems and always have a great time and then we all can decide later on if we want to take it further. These are people who interest me not at a big congregation where a lot wouldn't interest me.

Again my view

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Socials are a great way to meet people....But with some, that is all it is and all it ever will be!

A ton of verification but no or very few actual "meets"....

You learn to out the time wasters and move on

Stick with it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few women on here gave me there kik user name , did not ancer on kik and blocked me on here , wasters

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Only you can change your "luck" on here..have a look at the way you view and interact with people (there will always be timewasters/fakes and dreamers) possibly change your vetting process..the genuine usually stand out in the end

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Can honestly say we've never encountered this.

We prefer to meet at cjs and socials as feel you get a better measure of a person, not interested in messaging back and forward. We've met so many great people who we've then went on to have more than a social with.

I get what people are saying about clubs that you may bump into people you know... This happened to me a few weeks ago but she was there for the same reasons as me so don't let it bother me. Hopefully things will get better for you

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only you can change your "luck" on here..have a look at the way you view and interact with people (there will always be timewasters/fakes and dreamers) possibly change your vetting process..the genuine usually stand out in the end "

Shucks, thanks Bunkie

I try and make everyone happy on a meet

Feck, where's that joke book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our membership is due for renewal but seriously wonder if it's worth it.

"

C'mon!! It's a fiver. Five quid. Two cups of coffee. Not worth deliberating to much over.

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By *mberbCouple
over a year ago

Lothians


"Are we just the unlucky couple who encounter constant time wasting idiots? Fake profiles? People who disappear off the face of the earth. Our membership is due for renewal but seriously wonder if it's worth it.

"
Know how you feel been here also

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Definitely know how you feel

Had 3 disappear this week

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We've been luck so far that we haven't encountered any, or it's maybe more accurate to say we haven't gotten to the stage of arranging a meet with any.

Some things on the site are a little baffling though, we seen some pics appear on our local update today with a status from the male in a couple saying how much his partner loves new underwear. Tinyeye reveals the pics are all fake and yet the profile has been verified by 3 or 4 guys. The thing is it looks as though the profile could be genuine so why add pics that clearly aren't the person in the profile (going by the other pics and assuming they are genuine)?

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Why worry about them? There are kids here and elsewhere in cyberspace.

Be happy and concentrate on the nice ones

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By *haostimeMan
over a year ago

north Glasgow

From a single guys views, I find about 75% of profiles are fakes or complete time wasters. Though the genuine ones I have encountered have more than made it worth it for me.

It is a pain though when a mwet is arranged and you get a no show or find out the profile is deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had various runarounds. Yes it's a "buyers market" and there are a gazillion singles to choose from but I'm fed up of being seen as someones circus dog to jump through hoops.

More or less being ordered at short notice, demands on when i can get there and not even having the courtesy to show me what they looked like.

Sod them, I'll catch up on "The Chase" instead....

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By *ornographic ArtsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We second the idea of arranging meets at CJ's. If they no show you can still meet other people, likewise if they do show but you don't get on.

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

We go to CJs as we know that everyone there is genuine and if nothing happens it's a great nite to just socialising with out amazing friends.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can easily spot the some of the fakes, no meets, not verifyed, crazy statuses that are obviously writen by a guy, sitting in the chat room for days as a cpl when its only the guy on cam lol.....however I've saw quite a few other profiles that show a the verifcation photo blantley photoshopped with a username. A lot of the single girl profiles are escorts that offer services when you message them blegh. All have either gold or silver membership so a bit harder to spot I guess money talks on FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was me thinking it was just us too welcome to the club lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had problems with fakes - maybe a few timewasters. I am very specific in what I am seeking however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We go to CJs as we know that everyone there is genuine and if nothing happens it's a great nite to just socialising with out amazing friends.

D"

We are the same but we get to after8. People are there because they are genuine and the place is friendly.

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