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"Any social event will change perception....good or bad! I make up my own mind about people. Would you want to meet someone who judged you on the opinion of others? A judgement that usually comes from people who have never actually met " That's fair enough giving people the benefit of the doubt but on the online world where you don't know the person you are meeting I think a lot of people rely on an information they get. I do agree a social is the best way forward | |||
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"Its way more in depth but mostly no if I percieve someone as not worthy it wont change. The reinventing thing is a constant on fab but folk only have themselves to blame they tell folk what they want to hear. So a person leaves and comes back as that." Very true | |||
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"Any social event will change perception....good or bad! I make up my own mind about people. Would you want to meet someone who judged you on the opinion of others? A judgement that usually comes from people who have never actually met " to my mind if they associate with what to me are undesirables then I slap the tar on and want no part of it | |||
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"I really dont know how people percieve me.. im me and not pretending to be someone im not so some people may like me as i am and some may not ..i'll just take my chances n stay meee " I've only ever heard nice things about you _unkie | |||
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"I really dont know how people percieve me.. im me and not pretending to be someone im not so some people may like me as i am and some may not ..i'll just take my chances n stay meee I've only ever heard nice things about you _unkie " Awww thanks must be all lies | |||
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"I really dont know how people percieve me.. im me and not pretending to be someone im not so some people may like me as i am and some may not ..i'll just take my chances n stay meee " You're a wee cutie K x | |||
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"Any social event will change perception....good or bad! I make up my own mind about people. Would you want to meet someone who judged you on the opinion of others? A judgement that usually comes from people who have never actually met to my mind if they associate with what to me are undesirables then I slap the tar on and want no part of it " We would be the same. I think you'd be remiss to ignore any potential warming signs | |||
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"I really dont know how people percieve me.. im me and not pretending to be someone im not so some people may like me as i am and some may not ..i'll just take my chances n stay meee You're a wee cutie K x" Awwww ty K xxx how much do i owe you now | |||
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"Hopefully I have a good rep, not sure but I wont change for anyone if I haven't. I'm honest and speak from the heart and love a right good laugh and windup and know some like me for it, some don't. But I never worry what people think, I just get on with my life. if someone doesn't want to be in my company then I see it as their loss. The socials are good for chatting to people with good or bad reputations and see how you tick with them But me personally, its always nice to be nice and respectful " a top bloke | |||
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"Hopefully I have a good rep, not sure but I wont change for anyone if I haven't. I'm honest and speak from the heart and love a right good laugh and windup and know some like me for it, some don't. But I never worry what people think, I just get on with my life. if someone doesn't want to be in my company then I see it as their loss. The socials are good for chatting to people with good or bad reputations and see how you tick with them But me personally, its always nice to be nice and respectful " Ach yer no a bad auld stick Peter lol x | |||
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"I'm all for making my own decisions about people based on my own experience... I tend to always see the good in people which in the world of fab has backfired on me on a couple of occasions. Once I've made my mind up though there's no going back with me. What's that saying fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me or something like that K x" | |||
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"No idea how I'm perceived on here, apart from the guy who said I was 'that fat chick who has a high opinion of herself'. Actually that's probably kinda true.... My point being, I don't give a flying fuck. I KNOW I'm awesome " You're definately not fat!! K x | |||
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"Any social event will change perception....good or bad! I make up my own mind about people. Would you want to meet someone who judged you on the opinion of others? A judgement that usually comes from people who have never actually met to my mind if they associate with what to me are undesirables then I slap the tar on and want no part of it " I've met you.... Like I said, the social events work | |||
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"Mind you.... I will and do avoid people that have met up with and shagged women I really don't like...Women I have met soially and considred complete and utter horrors " And furry | |||
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"I've heard lots of things about people over the years but I don't let any of it affect me. I'd much rather meet people in a social setting and talk to them as some people can come across badly in the cyber world whereas in the real world they are lovely people. Me? I have a terrible reputation. And I'm happy for anyone to believe it. It's those that have met me that know the real furry. " Time wasting chest wig wearer beware eats cake but doesn't buy any | |||
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"No idea how I'm perceived on here, apart from the guy who said I was 'that fat chick who has a high opinion of herself'. Actually that's probably kinda true.... My point being, I don't give a flying fuck. I KNOW I'm awesome You're definately not fat!! K x" | |||
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" Time wasting chest wig wearer beware eats cake but doesn't buy any " See....I rest my case | |||
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"I do care what people think of me that are close to me. I want to be a good friend or family member to the people that matter. On fab and swinging in general I think you have to be selfish. I'm here for my fun and my own enjoyment not to please others. I reckon we have probably upset a few people on here in the past as their messages or aimed status updates have suggested but resentments can only be taken not given. The difficulty we have found with fab is there are people we like that we would drink and get a laugh with but we aren't interested in them sexually and I think some people take offence to that to easily and it only takes one pissed off person that has a large group of close friends on here to try and ruin your reputation. We try and keep an open mind but first messages and impressions count hugely. " Meant to sign off who was typing. Mr | |||
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"Don't think we have a reputation one way or the other on here and pretty happy about that to be honest. Couldn't really give a shit what anyone thinks of us but prefer to avoid the drama" Nice pictures xxx | |||
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"In the world of fab your reputation preceeds you as well as how you conduct yourself in mails & in person. My question is, is it possible to change a bad perception of you or do you do what so many do and try and reinvent yourself with a new name/profile/pics? Also would you meet a person with a known bad reputation and give them a chance?" There's bad reputation and bad reputation in my opinion. The gossipy comments like she fucks everyone with a pulse, he told me he's married so watch out, she said that he said etc... ok... I will make my own my up thanks... and totally forget the blah blah Then you have more serious comments from your Fab friends or others... such as meet this guy... he hurt me... and you can see the bloody injuries on the girl and other comments along those lines! Those I store so I don't get myself in situations. People on here judge you... because of your pics, your forum comments, your verifs, what others say about you! Am totally fine with that! It is theirs and my prerogative! I am me! No point in x-amount of reincarnations I don't know how to be anyone else! And personally, I am happy with the person I am, I will keep my spots thanks! Hope this makes sense | |||
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"In the world of fab your reputation preceeds you as well as how you conduct yourself in mails & in person. My question is, is it possible to change a bad perception of you or do you do what so many do and try and reinvent yourself with a new name/profile/pics? Also would you meet a person with a known bad reputation and give them a chance? There's bad reputation and bad reputation in my opinion. The gossipy comments like she fucks everyone with a pulse, he told me he's married so watch out, she said that he said etc... ok... I will make my own my up thanks... and totally forget the blah blah Then you have more serious comments from your Fab friends or others... such as meet this guy... he hurt me... and you can see the bloody injuries on the girl and other comments along those lines! Those I store so I don't get myself in situations. People on here judge you... because of your pics, your forum comments, your verifs, what others say about you! Am totally fine with that! It is theirs and my prerogative! I am me! No point in x-amount of reincarnations I don't know how to be anyone else! And personally, I am happy with the person I am, I will keep my spots thanks! Hope this makes sense " Very true. It's all good and well ignoring what's been said but if you've seen something first hand or been involved in it then it should serve as a warning and I don't think there's anything wrong with warning others | |||
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"It's all good and well ignoring what's been said but if you've seen something first hand or been involved in it then it should serve as a warning and I don't think there's anything wrong with warning others" That depends what the warning is.... | |||
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"In the world of fab your reputation preceeds you as well as how you conduct yourself in mails & in person. My question is, is it possible to change a bad perception of you or do you do what so many do and try and reinvent yourself with a new name/profile/pics? Also would you meet a person with a known bad reputation and give them a chance? There's bad reputation and bad reputation in my opinion. The gossipy comments like she fucks everyone with a pulse, he told me he's married so watch out, she said that he said etc... ok... I will make my own my up thanks... and totally forget the blah blah Then you have more serious comments from your Fab friends or others... such as meet this guy... he hurt me... and you can see the bloody injuries on the girl and other comments along those lines! Those I store so I don't get myself in situations. People on here judge you... because of your pics, your forum comments, your verifs, what others say about you! Am totally fine with that! It is theirs and my prerogative! I am me! No point in x-amount of reincarnations I don't know how to be anyone else! And personally, I am happy with the person I am, I will keep my spots thanks! Hope this makes sense Very true. It's all good and well ignoring what's been said but if you've seen something first hand or been involved in it then it should serve as a warning and I don't think there's anything wrong with warning others" I totally agree! Better be safe than sorry! And as a single female meeting alone genuine warnings are appreciated here. Same I will give a genuine info and the person can do as they wish with it. | |||
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"In the world of fab your reputation preceeds you as well as how you conduct yourself in mails & in person. My question is, is it possible to change a bad perception of you or do you do what so many do and try and reinvent yourself with a new name/profile/pics? Also would you meet a person with a known bad reputation and give them a chance? There's bad reputation and bad reputation in my opinion. The gossipy comments like she fucks everyone with a pulse, he told me he's married so watch out, she said that he said etc... ok... I will make my own my up thanks... and totally forget the blah blah Then you have more serious comments from your Fab friends or others... such as meet this guy... he hurt me... and you can see the bloody injuries on the girl and other comments along those lines! Those I store so I don't get myself in situations. People on here judge you... because of your pics, your forum comments, your verifs, what others say about you! Am totally fine with that! It is theirs and my prerogative! I am me! No point in x-amount of reincarnations I don't know how to be anyone else! And personally, I am happy with the person I am, I will keep my spots thanks! Hope this makes sense Very true. It's all good and well ignoring what's been said but if you've seen something first hand or been involved in it then it should serve as a warning and I don't think there's anything wrong with warning others" Then if that's case and through this site I'd be reporting to admin.if others safety is genuinely at risk then surely they'd not want person on site at all. | |||
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"In the world of fab your reputation preceeds you as well as how you conduct yourself in mails & in person. My question is, is it possible to change a bad perception of you or do you do what so many do and try and reinvent yourself with a new name/profile/pics? Also would you meet a person with a known bad reputation and give them a chance? There's bad reputation and bad reputation in my opinion. The gossipy comments like she fucks everyone with a pulse, he told me he's married so watch out, she said that he said etc... ok... I will make my own my up thanks... and totally forget the blah blah Then you have more serious comments from your Fab friends or others... such as meet this guy... he hurt me... and you can see the bloody injuries on the girl and other comments along those lines! Those I store so I don't get myself in situations. People on here judge you... because of your pics, your forum comments, your verifs, what others say about you! Am totally fine with that! It is theirs and my prerogative! I am me! No point in x-amount of reincarnations I don't know how to be anyone else! And personally, I am happy with the person I am, I will keep my spots thanks! Hope this makes sense Very true. It's all good and well ignoring what's been said but if you've seen something first hand or been involved in it then it should serve as a warning and I don't think there's anything wrong with warning others Then if that's case and through this site I'd be reporting to admin.if others safety is genuinely at risk then surely they'd not want person on site at all. " One girl I have in mind, he got reported 2 days later, profile gone, but is he back? No idea. She refused to go to the police and the doctor and I tried! Took a full week for her to have all physical injuries away! In my opinion, It was an assault and not their first meet. Still would not go to either! People see and deal with things differently. I just had to support her the best I could although same as you it would not be my reaction. | |||
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"Doesn't matter what a person has done they will always find a way to create a new profile. " This is unfortunately true | |||
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"Doesn't matter what a person has done they will always find a way to create a new profile. This is unfortunately true" Usually when they do this you can spot them right away K x | |||
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"Doesn't matter what a person has done they will always find a way to create a new profile. This is unfortunately true Usually when they do this you can spot them right away K x" | |||
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"Doesn't matter what a person has done they will always find a way to create a new profile. This is unfortunately true Usually when they do this you can spot them right away K x" Yup as if by magic! Too easy to spot certain folk no matter how hard they try John | |||
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"There's folk on this site who make things up about people they've never met. I know this from experience. This forum just creates cliques and groups of bullies. It's always the people who say on their profiles that they want no drama that usually cause it or add to it. " so true | |||
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"There's folk on this site who make things up about people they've never met. I know this from experience. This forum just creates cliques and groups of bullies. It's always the people who say on their profiles that they want no drama that usually cause it or add to it. " so true | |||
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"There's folk on this site who make things up about people they've never met. I know this from experience. This forum just creates cliques and groups of bullies. It's always the people who say on their profiles that they want no drama that usually cause it or add to it. " I agree with you completely , if you don't like someone"hawd yet weesht" . Let everyone form their own opinion on someone's character. I tell my kids sometimes it's better to think it ,not say it.. Some people make mistakes make faux pars, but you see some folk being slated continually, snidey wee digs n comments just keeping it going..Meanwhile the real freaks m creeps are passing by unnoticed. | |||
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"There's folk on this site who make things up about people they've never met. I know this from experience. This forum just creates cliques and groups of bullies. It's always the people who say on their profiles that they want no drama that usually cause it or add to it. I agree with you completely , if you don't like someone"hawd yet weesht" . Let everyone form their own opinion on someone's character. I tell my kids sometimes it's better to think it ,not say it.. Some people make mistakes make faux pars, but you see some folk being slated continually, snidey wee digs n comments just keeping it going..Meanwhile the real freaks m creeps are passing by unnoticed." I heard that | |||
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"There's folk on this site who make things up about people they've never met. I know this from experience. This forum just creates cliques and groups of bullies. It's always the people who say on their profiles that they want no drama that usually cause it or add to it. I agree with you completely , if you don't like someone"hawd yet weesht" . Let everyone form their own opinion on someone's character. I tell my kids sometimes it's better to think it ,not say it.. Some people make mistakes make faux pars, but you see some folk being slated continually, snidey wee digs n comments just keeping it going..Meanwhile the real freaks m creeps are passing by unnoticed." A few of the real creeps have been identified through people speaking out. There's a fine line between gossip and people speaking up. Usually if it's true it's not so much gossip as people who have just had enough | |||
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"My reputation is neither good bad or indifferent, and I don't particularly care either way. I am here for a reason and as long as I'm happy, my friends and meets are happy nobody gets hurt then long may it continue. There are Cliques in here same as there is in the vanilla world but hey none of them will have me so live and let live We are all here for the same thing and anyway remember at school the guy with the worst rep got the girls or at least the ones that were most fun. " Hey, that's not true Rok....you can come and join my cake clique anytime | |||
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"You see? Some people revel in the fact that some people don't like them...... And they like to perpetuate that by actively mocking their own 'clique'. But really what they are actually saying is, if you're nice, smiley and don't care then we can all be friends " I think it's more they love the drama that surrounds them as it makes them feel interesting | |||
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"A few of the real creeps have been identified through people speaking out. There's a fine line between gossip and people speaking up. Usually if it's true it's not so much gossip as people who have just had enough " Exactly this however there's nothing worse than speaking out, highlighting creeps and being slated openly for it by other members. Members who ofcourse then don't want to acknowledge they backed the wrong horse when you were proven right... Forums are funny places eh. Have a good weekend y'all | |||
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