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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok, so a wee update after asking about how to best contact you lovely girls here

have no tried to message with a more personal approach with a little bit about myself and still it seems the girls here dont respond, with or without a pic when its asked for.

it even seems difficult to get ur messages read by the looks of my sent folder!!!

anything else i could do to improve this girls?

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

remove the cock pic perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i was told it was good to use lol

i guess everyone has their own preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually really dont know. Cause your profile is ok.

Maybe some body shots in public gallery. Thats about all I can think of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some users like 2 see verifications: would also keep those naked picts kinda private, but every 1 has there preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some socials under ur belt... Get involved on site and get urself known... Get some coffee meets/ lunches

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol j and s, i would if i could but like i say, cant even get messages read let alone a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chat to the 1s u met then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i do, so far only 1 i have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well do the above go to the socials

meet more folk that

its all about Patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try only msging those that are on line at the time as iam sure woman get lots of msgs while off line so when they come back on a few prob jst bulk delete as theres to many to get through.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im definitely patient! lol

thanks titch, will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no doubt that going to socials is the best way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

been to cj's a number of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try reading profiles properly and taking heed of what the fem is looking for.

I ask that people don't send a friends invite straight away but most still do that then wonder why they get blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

done that before, but since messages tend to go unread its sometime the only way to get noticed.

i know a lot of women get annoyed by this, but its a last resort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want to get noticed for the right or wrong reasons though?

As most have said, get yourself into the chat rooms and along to socials.

Repeated messages etc isn't going to do anyone any favours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the penis -v- vagina ratio favours the woman and guys have to earn respect. id say get into the chat room earn respect and you may be surprised.

above all, don't come across as gagging for a shag. i might be wrong but any girl reading your post might think you were desperate.

another point - this is a swinging site - its not a sex-dating site - in my experience a lot of people are hear for the social side of things and any playtime is a bonus. also a lot of people are couples which means that singles whether boys or girls are not goign to jump into bed with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"done that before, but since messages tend to go unread its sometime the only way to get noticed.

i know a lot of women get annoyed by this, but its a last resort "
every 1 gets em

just dont moan about it

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